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lovelygurl:
Wtf

Nothing personal dear! I find it difficult to trust faceless people on this forum...if Ur confident of u...Ur pix will be there as proof! A lotta people say shit just because they can't be seen! But am not like that!

Smellymouth:
Ermmmm, how old is she?

Hahahahahahahah! Ogbeni just negodu!

Smellymouth:
After impressing you with his amazing personalities, what's next? Can you date a broke guy?

It's not strange to see ladies say stuffs like, "I seek men with ambitions and goals who are already successful or are on their way to being successful." "Why would I date a broke guy when I can do better? Of course personality, character and the man's aura is important, I seek someone with success.."

At the end of the day, broke guys with impressive personalities ends up getting friendzoned..

Guy u too much! I will give u my younger sister!

lovelygurl:
Oh plssssssss money only impresses lazy women, when a woman works hard then a man with money is just a bonus.
I'd rather work for my own money than date or marry a man because of his money.
If you think your money will impress me or you want to buy my love then you are indeed very naive if you think money impresses all ladies. You can't buy me with money because I work and will work for my own money. We aren't all gold diggers so ciao!

U have talked d talk..but can u walk d talk? Pix of Ur face or ahdonbilivit!

lovelygurl:
Lol, I'd like to see the guy who will impress me with money. He will just fail and that in a miserable way

Really? I smell lies!

Pinkiwinki:
op pm me her whatsap number...
she is a family member, its been long i saw her....
op I need her whatsap number and i can help you get her since she is family.

Ole buruku!

dunkem21:
This BH must be kind and homely

Iffa fvcking hear!

royalfamily:
No single progress since this lazard has been appointed.

Receive sense n respect for Ur elders in Sango's name!

Taryur3:
Brilliant comment from a young girl like you....I owe you 21 bedroom flats @festac in future for this post.

Egbon! U can lie oooo!

Amelian:
I wonder too
Go for the other guy.. At least he does not have drama like your guy. And the other guy has a mind of his own.
I detest drama than anything else..
With time, u will get to love the other guy..

All we need is peace , love and security from our husbands to be..
Every other thing is secondary..

I have some fri3nds who marr3id ugly men as husbands.. The men are very financially OK and they tell. Me everytime their husbands cares for them like crazy while they use him to. Make shakara because they are fine.. Lol..
Well am not in that school. Of thought
Mine is average money, great looks and peace.. Ce fini.

Op go for the one ready for. Marriage.. Shikena... No long story

Lol @ average money! Iffa hear! Convince me babe or ahdonbilivit!

[quote author=ItsQuinn post=50549989]So because she works in a hotel she's an olosho and she shouldn't be trusted? what's the point of being in a relationship where there's no trust?....the boyfriend is very insecure, and anybody who supports the boyfriend is very insecure as well

If he's fed up and doesn't want his girlfriend to work in a hotel why can't he just leave her......it's very simple Instead of making her quit her very good and profitable job just to satisfy your insecure selfish need


Cry me a river [/quote

Quinn babe! I concur!

PaulKillerman:
actually , Africa, not just Nigeria... The black continent, is really a dark wold,


Woe be tied Africa... I spit on ur existence...

Well I spit on urs...fvcker!

spice123:
Wailers are here. You love good thing but money dey punish you. I married from Imo State with a kid now ok. SMALL BOY!

Big daddy no vex o! But Ur word too harsh abeg!

eraly:
obe to dun, .....

Owo lo pa!

eraly:
obe to dun, .....

Owo to pa!

dollyjoy:
Actually,i can do all that and more sef. No guy should lose a wonderful lady like me. Hahahahahaha :

Lemme confirm or ahdonbilivit!

livemocha93:
Hello all! I found this site after searching online to see if anyone else had ever encountered such a story as mine. I felt really isolated & as if no one in the world could understand my emotions. It actually has been kind of refreshing to see that these things happen often and that I wasn't singled out. I've really become thankful that my situation isn't near as heartbreaking as some that I have seen here.
I don't want to write a long story but basically I was friends with this guy then we began dating for about a year when last December I discovered he had gone home over the holidays & got married. I was in shock however my intuition told me that something was strange about his behavior a few wks before he left. He was just sad & started telling me how I deserved better than him. He touched on the fact that his family felt it was time he settled down but it never crossed my mind that his trip home would result in a marriage, wedding & all. I confided in a close friend & on a whim she searched his name on Facebook(he doesn't have social media) to see if anything came up concerning his behavior while away & Lo and behold, there were wedding photographs. It was definitely him. I was devastated & embarrassed. I don't want to go into too much detail but we were extremely close. We spent a lot of time & energy on each other & I never had any inkling that there was anyone else in his life. He was still calling me while he was away but I stopped responding & a few weeks went by before I finally answered & told him I knew. He didn't deny it but he stated that it was something he had to do & that it was all of a sudden, set up by his family. Bride chosen by them also. I refused to believe this man I thought I knew so well would leave this major aspect of his life to his family. And it didn't matter because the end result was the same...he was married. I just was hard on myself wondering if he had a girlfriend/fiancée the whole time & I missed the red flags. I didn't see how a decent human being could have such ill intentions all along with myself & the woman he married. Anyway he came back to the States & went about life as usual. & to be honest, he eventually wore me down & returned to my life. I was in love with him. And honestly for a while, everything was the same as it always had been. But my mind started to win over my heart & I knew it wasn't real. There was no future with him. Time has continued to heal me & I've been convicted because I do know better & more is expected of me. But in the beginning this man intruded upon my life, my family, and friends as a great guy & possibly the one for me. I know that he is not but I can't understand why he'd work so hard to become intertwined with everything that concerns me then go off & marry someone else.He acted like it's a normal thing and he can have it all. I've distanced myself & been really strong going forward & leaving this behind. I thank God there is nothing tying me or this guy to each other & I pray everyday to be forgiven for my actions with this married man. We didn't co-habitate or do anything that would require us to have to communicate or see each other. He is persistent so I don't expect him to disappear but I'm completely over it. We engage in small talk here & there but I wish for that to cease as well. Reading here has opened my eyes to what could have been my life playing second fiddle with this guy.
What I'm left with now is a lot of regret & just feeling naive to so much. I am smart & usually not one to get over on but he completely threw me for a loop. What if I never found out? What if we married and he used me for citizenship? What if I gave him more than a year of my life? It's all so scary. I took my time getting to know him, trusted him & thought highly of him. I hate to think this is a common way of Nigerian men here. Although I suspect him to be the first & last for me... Just wondering if there is an answer to my "Why" these situations occur... And I also hope sharing my cautionary tale helps someone else. Helps and not harms, bc deep down I don't want to generalize based off my 1 encounter.

Lady.. Am really sorry about all u have been through honestly... D guy could be a fvcker but again u have no idea how deeply rooted some Nigerian cultures are...n d value we place on family decisions....what I fault is him trying to woo u again after getting married....but please don't say all Nigerian men are like him....I know people tend to paint us in dirty camouflage.... Who knows if d next guy- d love of Ur life -will turn out as Nigerian! I know personally how hurtful it is to be fuvking betrayed! U have no idea how much it hurts....pain so deep u can't sleep at night! But u know what...time heals everything even death! Just be u n have fun!

dharay99:

kilo n worry bobo yii.....

Abeg joor bami bere lowo BOBO odenson yen o!

spice123:
Let me enlighten you people a bit. 1. Igbos girls can cook and Igbos have variety of food Abacha, Okpa, Agidi, fiofio, egusi soup, ogbono soup, okro soup, oha or ora soup, ero soup, and many more. 2. Our girls know how to take care of the home and can stay in marriage wella compared to other tribes. 3. Our women are VERY industrious and HARDWORKING. They can turn a cleaner job into a multinational company. In conclusion: IF YOU DO NOT HAVE WHAT IT TAKES (being a real man) TO MARRY AN IGBO GIRL, GO AND COMMIT SUICIDE!

U first..ODE!

UncutSk:
thank God am not dirty afonja

What's afonja oooo....Na Yoruba me I be o!

umeh39:
Lol. Thank God am nt IBO toooo

Thank God am Yoruba not afonja!

Damilolababy:
Lol. any 1 u like

Not any joor! Wuz just playing with u! How can I slap damibaby!

The girl looks good for the advert! Guess it was her day to be blessed! If this story is true......

Damilolababy:
so anything for me

Like what babe? Igbaju or igbati

2sexy:
Back in 2008, I was a TYPICAL MAGA,MUGU 90... I would call this girl almost everday,
hardly said no to her request,
I bought a phone,paid courier fee, bought new line and recharge card...

I would send her money from the little I have (despite that, the ediot would say how much did I send to her sef? Money that gets finished when she had to transport to her bank) shuo? I B YA PAPA?

Anyway, she wouldn't even allow me kiss her or touch,especially when she started seeing one guy whom she claimed loves her and that he buys her things. She was completely overwhelmed by this guy. Sometime I would call and she would sound so rude...


This went on till the guy F.U.CKED her. She later cried that she lost her virginity to the guy. She pleaded and wanted to see me after a few months of having sex with the other guy and I allowed her and right in my eyes another guy(her ex as I found out) took her out at about 8pm and she wasn't back till after 10pm. I called but she wasn't picking my calls but when she did, she said sorry and that she would explain when she gets back. The guy didn't even give her a dime... I still gave her 4500 as t fair back to Portharcourt where she schooled and I never sexed her. . .

That was what lead me to end the relationship.

Fast forward to this present day, she desperately want me back. . . All the guys had used and dumped her and the last time I saw her, I read frustration and regret written all over her. I believe she had been paid back in her own coin for what she did to me.

Though she had pleaded for forgiveness over the phone and I told her I have forgiven her and out the blue, she was begging me again. Well, I smiled and told her its no big deal.

Anyway, I was at the park with her and she was talking to me but I could hardly look at her and I guessed she sensed that I probably still had that issue in mind that was what prompted her to start apologizing(apologies after 3 years) funny!

My guy I no fit look her face o. The face no good to look at all.

Did I say she once said I wasn't handsome when I asked her about my looks?

Story don change. . . At the park, she could stop looking at me and after much talk she asked if I had become a yahoo guy(possibly because of my outfit and looks-bobo don fine na)but me I no gree look her for face o o o. Why? Her looks isn't any interesting anymore,looking old and with black spots of dead pimples all over her face. What happened to this girl? I honestly don't know.

Infact, in order to make myself comfortable, I had to look for a clean chick to stair at just to feed my hungry eyes.

No she is acting nice, now she read to do anything, even a BJ(so I sensed) but its TOO LATE! Am gone for good!

The thing is start today, me I no dey spend money on girl o o o. This days, I would prefer to walk into a fast food joint alone, eat to my satisfaction and walk out, yeah thats what I do. I do that often compared to the days when I used to starve myself because of one daughter of eve.

Yeah. . . The experience really made me to hide the good part of me and I had to mixed it with a little baditude. Lol. Nah. .. I can't date a girl anymore without f.u.c.king her. That era don pass. . . No more mister nice guy cos ova 70% of Nigeria girls don't like a mr nice guy.

Infact, I tried being nice with another girl and was calling her often with attention to go with, before I knew it, I started noticing some silly attitude from her. I had to cut off from her and never called in four good months! Only for her to flash me but I never called. She flashed 3days then called me one day and was saying blah blah she's missing me. Heck! Who told her I needed someone to say that to me? A typical example of giving a naija girl too much attention and she ends up mis-behaving.

Am just saying this to help some guys out there. Learn and Never form mugu Like I did o o o. A word is enuf 4d wise(maybe 4d MUGU)

Guy u super make sense! Though there are still good girls sha..dou very few!

cutekhalifa:
bobo mgbati

Ose alagba! Am proud to be one! But u know as well as I do that not everyone has tribal marks......shuu! U wicked ooo!

ceejay80s:
She's ugly.... Honestly speaking

Ur fine pix or ahdonbilivit shit!

Deckylicious:
Ugly bread seller. mtcheeeew.

E PAIN AM!

cutekhalifa:
with all this her ijele masquerade make up ,she fine for ur eyes

Ijele ko.....Adele ni.....she iz fvne...in jeniva's voize

beemzy2014:
o ti to na

Koi to to mai dear! Mo fe be!

Shortyy:
She's cute tho. But she should try and burn some fats

Burn fat? For wia again? Her nose? Show us Ur own fit pix....or ahdonbilivit!

Papikush:
Please not again!
Please spare us the olajumoke news and give us more of the miss anambra expose videos

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