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Op as some1 said,she has suceeded in communicating her boundary to u but ve u communicate ur fear,reserved or ur boundary to her?if nt u ve to seat her and tell her ur own needs and what u can't compromise on.

U re even violent,big ups to her again.

Orisirisi wonders shall never end.I ve seen d reason why she break with u,big ups to her.

So u ve a fiancee and u re bleeping around,dat's means u re unfaithful and u lack discipline.SO U RE STILL WRONG.

Op I pray say u no use girlfriend do wife and use wife do girlfriend.
So u ve 2 kids,dat means u re irresponsible enough nt to use protectn and 2 ve kids with some1 u really do nt luv.I pray say u no catch dieases way no get medcine o.SO U RE WRONG

Op where are u living presently,are u with ur parent?

Smh oga o

@malaria am nt d 1 o,na help I wan do.

Op I totally disagree.

Op dis ur story also get k-leg,don't bother writing script 4 nollywood.U no fit sell lai-lai.

Op sorry o but there is another 3 more important lesson u should learn.
1.Be faithful.
2.Girls are smarter than boyz.
3.Is nt everyfood dat u see dat is met to be eaten so be discipline.

The first person I talk to is my neighbour but his surname is Orenuga,so I didn't bother going further.
The 2nd person is my classmate but she told me there is nobody in her immdediate family dat went to sch in Ibadan but she ll look into it.
Op why don't u alert d mod to put it on frontpage.

Op what are d lessons u learnt frm it?

She didn't allow her father to enter her room without her permission-dat's d part dat stuck me most.
Op I hate to be prophetess of doom but I'll.If dis marriage holds get ready 2 sleep in diffrent room and get ready to be nag 2 death.
By d way,what are d things she has ban u frm using?if none dat means she hasn't show u her real self yet.

Thumbs-up to d abductors,keep it up.
This's what we face everyday due to ur greediness,wickedness and corrupt tendencies.

Turn on:A guy dat behave as a MAN.
Turn off:A guy dat behave as a BOY.

I ve issue with everything d op wrote up there but main 1 is dat no1.Op who doesn't farth is dis world?pls is farting nt a reflex again?
Those holymen on this thread can u educate me on how to control fart.The only1 I know is hw to supress it in order nt to make a sound.

Nairaland don suffer.Op are u showing off?

Op I do dat alot,I can be staring at u and my mind is elsewhere,so don't get ur hope high.Get busy

Op,do u know d reason why d lady said dat she is nt ready 4 a date and hw old is she?

Op most times relationship is about compromise,if u can't settle dis issue. don't bother going 4ward with dis relationship.
If d girl means d world 2 u firstly attend d church 4 a month on ur own with an open mind.2ndly after dat ask urself am I ready to compromise love for my faith.
By d way,what's d name of ur church and what position are u holding there?

Op I disagree esp dat no1

Op b4 u jump to conclusion,ve u sat down to think d fault maybe frm u,ve u done anything wrong u think she wouldn't find out?

Op crying privately as a man means u re human.Caring 4 a lady u ve nt seen her pant tells d lady is nt just her body u re after.So be wise.

@tellwsdom thanks 4 dat words of wisdom,d thing even plenty 4 nairaland wella.

Op that is called shakara.Pulled back a little dat is stop d gift,limit ur frequency of going there then calm ur mind down but don't stop dat wooing game.

Op ur friend has been with d lady 4 more than few years and 4 a guy to stick with a lady dat long dat means she also has a good part.
Op let them be.

Op as some1 said she is either a cheerful giver or ur friend is lying.

Op if dis relationship is worth it,then drop dat pride and call him.Playfully tell him on d phone dat he didn't hear frm u 4 2 wks and he's ok hmm so he doesn't luv u again?then u wait 4 his response

Op what was his response when u advised him?

Op open up 2 her,tell her u ll luv to be her friend but don't mind if it would lead to more.

Caseless point of correctn,u all don't have these.
Fine,money is an important ingredient in a relationship but is nt all.