₦airaland Forum

CaveAdullam:
From a biological stand point, a woman will decide immediately if she will f^ck a man she just set her eyes on. This particular man, if he can catch the green light will do little or nothing to access her wholly. Yeah, all women do this, but not all men are able to decrypt the green light. Rather, men, will jump from one hole to another, squandering their resources, looking for a particular woman to commit to, instead of simply cohabiting with the one that has already choose them.

Now, to what I'm really up to: since women are programmed neurotically to choose the men they want, patriarchs of old knew about it, and quickly created a bye pass by selecting different men for their daughters to choose from. Do you know why?

Women are highly emotional, moved by feelings, they must first feel before they think, and if what they feel is sweet, regardless of whether it is real or artificial, it automatically becomes true/truth for them. This is why you see women flocking around jerks and assholes, because they are adventurous and women love adventures. They love mysteries and darkness. Patriarchs of old knew of this and quickly bye passed it like I said earlier.

The reason you see a lot of damaged women today is because;
1. many fathers has abdicated their roles to women,

2. many men are informed about masculinity from the gynocentric broadcasting service,

3. women can provide cheap labour for the government, and the government has truncated men, giving much relevance to women. This especially is the reason for the pandemonium surrounding the family court and divorce sagas.

4. Fathers allowing their daughters to roam about thinking they are now matured, can think for themselves and probably take care of themselves.

Women only mature in age and body, for them to remain like the innocent little child without damage they must pass from fathers or quality male relatives to reputable husbands. Any middle ground in between will bait her to hell and probably damage her in return.

I'm saying this because of @bolded. You said it jokingly, but this was how women were carried along from old. However, these days, women are free like the air, can do whatever they like, and when they're done with all their bullshits, they will then be seeking for a God fearing man who will not judge them by their past---absolute and arrant nonsense!

So, my bro, directly or indirectly, inform your sisters of the evil that takes the half of their hearts, if they don't learn and shield themselves, they will be consumed by wolves in sheep clothings. This is your duty as a man and as a brother.

Authority: femininity is protected only if positive masculinity is allow to bring forth its luminosity.

Thanks.

God bless.

CaveAdullam nice submission, I remain your fan. In addition to what you wrote...
In the time of our forefathers, young girls are not allowed to roam freely and be having casual relationships and sex all around, this really encouraged chastity and preserved moral values in the society back then.

It was also common for families to match-make their children for marriage because the behaviors and characters of eligible adults due for marriage are usually known by their parents and immediate neighborhood.

I still believe that match-making is better and leads to long lasting marriage than what we have today where a lady would have had countless sexual relationships that have damaged her before finding the so-called “Mr Right”.

YorubaKinging:
The end is near

this is my last post

the year 2021 will be full of surprises

the fall of America and the rise of Europe

don't travel to America

her time has gone , her time for punishment has come.

Are you a prophet or pastor? Just asking.

thesicilian:
A great number of educated females are naturally dictators, it's just that most never get the opportunity to show their true colours. 99.5% of people who have worked under the authority of women can attest to that.

100 percent true!
I pray to never have a female boss again

1. My family is hale and hearty.
2. My sister got married and is living comfortably in her matrimonial home.

tellwisdom:
I should be drinking palm wine by then

Where have you been bro?

IamWonderful:
Our hard-working importers and exporters from the East, they never disappoint, they have plunder Nigeria image into the red Sea.

See the way that drug dealing Igbo man just “kobalize” the Innocent woman.

Deadlytruth:
Well, even though Lord Luggard made that selfish mistake, the likes of Ahmadu Bello, Tafawa Balewa, Enahoro and Awolowo later realized it was a mistake and therefore made proposals for correcting the mistake either by way of de-amalgamation or making provision for secession clause in our future constitution to give legal backing to whichever tribe or region would later want out. But Igbos under the leadership of Azikiwe, Ojukwu and Ironsi at different times thwarted all these efforts by killing the some of the proponents and instigating the British to jail them at different times. In a particular instance they even arrested and sentenced to death by hanging the first person to attempt secession physically (Isaac Adaka Boro).In addition Aguiyi Ironsi even went as far as promulgating Anti-secession Decree.
But today the tide had turned against them and rather than confess to all these evils they did in the past and apologise to other tribes for laying the foundation of an indivisible Nigeria, they keep playing the victim card for losing innocent lives in a war they caused. Who takes such people seriously? In actual fact they are only asking for secession now just because they have lost control at the center. Visit NL threads on the dissolution of Nigeria when Jonathan was in power and you will be shocked how much they spoke in favour of one-Nigeria like they did during the colonial era when it appeared to them that their gods would give them Nigeria to dominate post independence.

That’s true, Igbos didn’t clamor for Biafra during the time of Jonathan because they held key positions then.

Now that they have been relegated politically, they are agitating for secession, but they failed to realize that secession is only possible if the whole south unite and fight together.

They always seek to dominate others at all cost, and when the odds are against them, they cry marginalization and witch-hunting.

See the way Igbos disrespect their host communities, especially the southwest. They disrespect their hosts once they gain ground and have some sense of belonging in any environment they find themselves.

Deadlytruth:
Wrong! Ojukwu, Fajuyi, Hassan and Ejoor being governors of subnational units under Ironsi's rule doesn't change the fact that Ironsi abolished the regions. Stop being clever by half. Here are the details of the issue:

Ironsi took power through the backdoor on the 17th of January 1966 and immediately proceeded to replace the democratic regions based structure he met in place with a military structure. So he appointed these mentioned soldiers over the regions first and operated a regions based Federal Military Government from that January 17 to May 24 of same year... meaning he ran a military controlled regional system for the first four months and seven days of his six months tenure. Then on the 24th of May, he issued a raft of centrifugal decrees by which he dismantled the regions and by his own pronouncement converted from federal military government to national (Unitary) military government whereby the regions were broken down to powerless provinces headed by the same military governors who were now ordered to be reporting to the military head of state (Ironsi himself) at the center henceforth. At this point the civil services of the regions had been unified and placed 100% under the control of the just created national (unitary) military government. This was why it was at that point in time that Governors Hassan and Ejoor began to complain against Ironsi.

So beginning from May 24, the military governors to the exception of Ojukwu, were forced against their wish and will by Ironsi to start ruling over groups of weak and powerless groups of provinces and not regions. This continued till July 29 that Ironsi was toppled and killed hence as at when Ironsi died the regions were no longer in existence. It was the coming of Gowon that saw a partial reversal to autonomous regions first followed by a breakdown of those semi-autonomous regions into semi-autonomous states. Get it now?

I’m learning a lot from you boss.
At this point, I strongly want Nigeria to break up based on tribe/ethnicity so that the new nations formed will have a lot in common due to a shared culture and traditions.

Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa, and other minority tribes should go their separate ways like the former Soviet Union.

I do not want restructuring or regional government because Nigeria shouldn’t have been amalgamated in the first place, it was a grave mistake by lord luggard.

What do you think?

Igbos and smuggling cocaine na 5 and 6

Viking07:
I've been wanting to ask you this whenever I come across your comments. Are you okay? Why do you keep saying the same thing over and over again?

The guy na copy copy, he wants to create a style like that Damn Niggar guy. They are all jobless fellows.

RedPanthar:
SIMP. Why it's okay to be lovey Dovey in the dating phase, that's not the standpoint from which a man must run a home, family and manage a marriage.


A man must take the lead, hold the reims, take charge and make decisions albeit inspiring cooperation from his partner. Your comment indicates that you're weak, too weak to assume control over your affairs and can't manage yourself let alone a human being



Let's look at it from a myriad of ways...


... Where did you learn your fatherhood skills from. Did you grow up in a broken home and raised by just a woman? You need to first sink into your psyche, speak with people to help you identify your obvious weakness which you seem to be unaware about and beginning the fixing in your mind. You are too weak to be qualified as an adult man



.... Tell me of what use is a daughter you don't truly inspire her as father, daughter and her source of everything... While the daughter maybe yours, the close bond that has kept you out of her life is deliberately schemed to ensure everything she knows is purely from what her snake mother tells her. Making her of little to no use beyond emotional attachment, this you don't know or choose to ignore the complications. Even if that girl grows under you with the way she's under the mothers tight grip, you have little to nothing to benefit from fathering her. The fatherhood and family structure is defective and destructive. You have no advantage fathering that child... And if you want to be in her life as a father, you need to assume the role and stop acting like a sperm donor. If you won't stop begging as it shows in your comments that even your day to day activities is begging to be the child's father, get out of their life and go fix yourself




Go and get yourself some redpill and develop mentally and psychologically. You're too weak.



She only used you when she ran into tight corner and you SIMPed for her antics




Grow some balls, be the man and stop whining. If you want her out, when she goes whoring, ensure she comes back to meet her thrash outside the door. And begin to act like you don't care about the child even if you do. Hide the love, withold all show of affection that's being used to control you. And steal back the remote control being used to control you from her hand



You're pathetically weak.

Leave the child for now, work on yourself first. You're too weak for a man

Whatever you do, make sure you get " Redpilled "

I love the way you served him hot!
He needs a daily dose of the RedPill till he chokes on it and become a liberated and strong-willed man.

YorubaKinging:
The end is near

There might not be an election in 2023

The secrets of the evil people ruling NIGERIA will be exposed between now and 2023

You'll understand, that there's an imposter in aso rock

Tinubu will be made a scapegoat

But his shame will be to the glory of God

The tribe of Judah will rise again and will take back the kingdom

These are parables

I believe there’s more to your posts on nairaland. Though you post more parables and cryptic messages, you have access to info that is not public knowledge.

Hunronikensin5:
I won’t check the name, but I can swear on my two scrotum that it is one of those flat.headed fake Jews parading the whole earth developing nations upon nations.

They developed Jakarta, Thailand, Uruguay, Nepal, Pakistan, Mars, Pluto, Brazil, Antarctica, and now India.

Lol at two scrotums

odinson1:
Wow a redpill Thread on front page

I’m surprised too, this is the first time RedPill thread is making front page, nairaland is against RedPill that’s why they don’t push such topics to FP.

thebosstrevor1:
I don't know how you people define alpha males, is it by shouting or writing nonsense on Twitter or by sharing nuggets or by having a hard face.

Being an alpha is inbreed, it is the action of the doer.

A man that keeps obsessing over women, running from one woman to another is not an alpha.

A man that his wife can't respect to the extend she made a video of him isn't an alpha.

Just because you are in politics does not nake you an alpha.

Check a man's home, who is the leader at home, is he?
How does people relate with him in the office, is it out of fear or respect.

People can be deceiving, the put their best behavior on tv and on social media.

At the bolded, which one makes a person an alpha, to be feared as a leader or to be respected? Just wanna know.

CalliDora1:
Nope. It depends on the school. You know private schools have levels.

At least I know saints saviour teachers earn high. Had a colleague who did her IT there and she was earning 150k. And every Christmas they are entitled to one bag of rice, 1carton of turkey and 10 litre vegetable oil + your one month salary as bonus.

The head of their school Mrs Griffin's earns in dollars. A parent told me that.
Now imagine how much their full timers will be earning.

Ive not even talked about corrona, British international High school and Loyola.

These schools are better than some company jobs.

Such big schools that pay well are few, 95% of private schools pay peanuts and enslave their teachers.

no1concept:
She immediately took over the job applications for him which she made every single day from her place of work on her office computer. She, in addition, fasted and prayed for my cousin without his knowledge for him to land his dream job in Scotland.

5 months later, my cousin got an interview and landed the job. He is about relocating...

Your cousin is an ingrate, he should marry that lady and impregnate her before traveling and process her relocation when he gets to Scotland. If he’s no longer interested in her, let him send me her number, I have a brother that needs such a supportive partner.

MeeztaFabulouz:
7 years of struggle to cater for and build a decent home, I have spoken so many times and to no avail. Since I was born up till this year, I hit a woman for the first time in my life. The reason is just because she did something stupid, I didn't want to get involved in any argument or fight, I just went to book a hotel room and had a quite time to myself that night till the next morning and on getting home she just attacked me saying I went to sleep with another woman.
I have given her the options so many times to go her way if she is not happy being with me but she won't go. As am writing this, I have not eaten her food since yesterday and I just got home only to see her serving me food and trying to make up but this is not the first time. I practically made her not go to the shop today and I was expecting to see that she went to the shop. When ever we talk, she listens and behave herself for a while but its like there is a spirit that comes into her and when it does, she forgets everything and only tries to bring trouble and more trouble.

Go back to your fathers house, she will not. Ok go and be with any other person that will tolerate your attitude she will not leave my house. All she does is money money money this and that. Even with her business, she does not use a dime for anything in the house aside her own stuffs.
Can you imagine she had a fight with me some time ago because I personally went to pay my kids school myself? All because I didn't give her the money to go and pay herself as I normally do?

Can you also imagine she had a fight with me one day all because I bought a jeans and slippers for myself without buying anything for her and the kids because I had bought some nice stuff for all of them including her like a week before then.

This is a woman that has never bought me even a boxers since marriage and has never gotten me anything gift for my birthday or anything but I just ignore all that and focus on making the family happy. Yet I am not happy in my home because I know what I go through especially this year that corona made things rough, I have passed through hell just to ensure my family is fine and we are not put to shame yet a matured thinking lady does not even care about anything.

Those saying I am a fool for thinking of suicide because of a woman, it is not because of the woman I am thinking of such, if you really know what depression can cause, knowing how hard you struggle to earn your money and spend it on someone who cares less for you, you will understand.

She obviously doesn’t love you from the start, she only married you because you were the available man. Don’t expect her to change because she never will. God knows I would have sent her packing a long time ago.

cynthia500:
“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them

Motivational speaker, weh done.
Your photo pose na wa

surebona:
Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

You should have taken that secret to the afterlife. Don’t ever confess cheating to your woman, a man doesn’t do that.

Ogbonna Florence again! This Ibo woman must be arrested asap, she’s so evil. These products of baby factory have invaded southwest with their evil ways. Backward people, children of hate.

toren:
I didn't say he cheated. He never did. Never will. You're mixing things up.

Sorry I didn’t get the gist well. What was the main reason you broke up with him? Anyways, all the best in your future relationship.

pansophist:
@toren, Wow, that is one hell of a rare gem, he embodied the definition of masculinity, and how to love a woman. Was amplifying his fault the reason why you guys broke up? (you do not have to answer), regardless, the tragedy that plagues the youth is naivety, seeing diamonds as a mere rock, and the false delusion of infinite better options, that causes one to trash out what they have, for the hope of something better that may never arrive, the paradox of choice.

About him saying that you restructure him, I think I know what it means., I will try to explain it from a male perspective. You see, when a man loves a woman, she becomes his motivator to be better. Every man has one duty on this planet, and it is to multiply. You may be broke as hell but just multiply. Now imagine a billionaire a hundred years ago without kids, his money will not live after him, and it will be spent by other folks who are successful in spreading their genes.

Women have always been a signifier of a man's value. A graceful woman accords social privileges to a man in the sense that women generally do not lack men, but men generally lack women. Femininity amplifies the masculinity in a man, but masculinity shines out the femininity in a woman. Since you chose him, you have guaranteed that the chance for his gene to be passed into the next generation is certain.

Deep down the male psyche, there is a regulator that is hardwired in the nervous system that signifies his position in the social hierarchy, and a sure way to climb up there is to have a possibility for procreation, of which having a woman makes it certain. And to be chosen by a woman signifies he has a value other men do not possess, hence she chose him. By nature, women need a social situation to find a man attractive. A woman must compare a man with other men, in the context of the society she lives in, to be able to define if a man is worthy enough. He also crowned it all by saying that when he sees his kid, all his sadness disappears, and that is your answer. He is a success in the eyes of nature, and his kids are the result of it.

It is well documented that men become more responsible and motivated to work hard when they become a father, because evolutionary success is actually the real success as far as life is concerned, and material success is merely an aid to make the real success enjoyable. He sees you as a good mother and a partner, hence, you restructure his life in a way that gives a meaning that transcends time and space, and further establishes him as a good potential husband and a father.

Thank you for writing this, I have been keen on reading the tales of good men narrated by women, and you nailed it good. Good to know we still have men that know how to be men, to make women feel loved, raising good families that make society a better place. Gracias.

Well said.
Perhaps the overflowing love he poured out for her made her feel too special, thinking she will easily find another diamond like the guy, now she’s regretting. I hope she learnt her lessons and make all efforts to keep the next diamond that comes her way if she’s fortunate enough. Though I don’t condone cheating on the part of both men and women, she could have forgiven him if it was a one-time thing and he was really remorseful about it with a promise to never indulge in it again instead of breaking up with him.

Because na pastor money I take buy motor?

Nnamdi cownu is from abia, he should call the governor to order. Ibos should seek development from their governors and leaders instead of crying marginalizion up and down.

CaveAdullam:
Nice one from pansophist.

A little add: women by default are machiavellians, they know when, where, and how to mimic to any situation regardless of whether it's good or bad. Women, especially those who are approaching the wall, hit the wall or past the wall will play the chameleon game effectively, pretending to pass your vetting scrutinization. Many of them at their epiphany phase or wall phase, will then discover a need for a religious salvation, and begin to act as wise sages. And any man that approaches them in their religious salvation phase will definitely fall for their whims, with little or no cognizance of their past.

We all have a moment of change, but women change not for the sake of change itself, it is a subtle act of game and manipulation; an attempt to eat their cake during the h0e/party phase, and desire it back during the epiphany/salvation phase. What propel this change is because of a decline in beauty, attention, age, fertility and to quickly latch onto a man for marriage.

Therefore, as a man, entering into a long term relationship or marriage, the vetting process for women should be between the ages of 18-25, using the "virgin/hymen" requirement as a prerequisite. If a woman is a virgin, there is a very high probability of passing other tests. In addition to the vetting process: stir all forms of emotions in her; anger, pain, joy, gladness, anxiety etc. This is to determine her balance and extremes, and how to counter it when you eventually commit to her.

You don't need to like this, a man that has upheave himself to a king standard will never find problem searching and finally engaged himself to a virgin with a high dose of femininity. Other lower men can settle for repentant wh0res who wear a facade of intellect, logic, good behaviour, good character etc.

So, as a man, become high quality in every areas of your life, and only commit to a high quality woman. Settling for less is an unbalanced equation and a waste of your resources. Take a detailed analysis of her past, her sexual escapades, her social behaviour, ideologies and belief system.

Do not commit to a woman in her epiphany phase, because it is foolish to buy the cow when the milk is free. If she freely gave the milk in the past, there's no need paying for it in the present. Do not be deceived by the appearance of the cow, it is a facade.

Thanks.

God bless.

Great submission!

I love you CaveAdullam, no homo

ubunja:
the clearest sign of a successful man is that his wife doesn't have to work because she's well provided for. If to you a woman not working means her man wants to control her because he's insecure then you really need to look again into the differences between a stay-at-home wife and a working wife.

A working wife is really submitting to her boss in the office and she places more weight in her boss' word than her man's word. It will be better if she was her own boss. And the funny thing is that while you want your woman to work, the man she works for, his own wife is a stay-at-home wife lmfo.

Dude if you can afford it, keep your wife at home. I know to you chores = slavery but 9-5, 6 days a week the whole year is freedom? It's messed up. A stay-at-home wife has all the time to raise your children herself and give them a childhood to remember instead of a childhood filled with daycare and strangers. Come to your senses.

Nice submission Ubunja. I prefer to open a supermarket for my wife than to allow her do office job. Sherase7en on YouTube also hinted that it’s not advisable to allow your wife do office work.

CaveAdullam:
Martinez39 has really detoured his testosterones to a more profitable adventure and I can witness it right here. Semen retention is the peak male power!

But boss, at least you would have allowed blackneo small breathing space.......but no, a man will always seem like a parrot when he knows the truth and won't let any falsehood oscillates freely; just like the Lord Jesus Christ in the Bible. Well done sir!

Don't search for the op again!

Go read Rationale Male volume 1-3 by Rollo Tomassi, follow @tellyoursonthis on twitter and his blog Illimitablemen and you will grow in redpill wisdom and game.

The Redpill is a process but not the perfect truth, only God is. But it helps more than the world government and any fu¶¶ing degree. The redpill is second to water. You just need it! Don't ever neglect it and always weigh its nuances.

Thanks.

What’s your opinion about BlackNeo? Is he teaching the wrong stuff about TRP and game?

MisterGrace:
Tinubu can sacrifice anything just to please the northern cabals in order to gain favour (presidency)

Tinubu who was supposed to come out and address the protesting youths decided to keep quiet, even when people's children were murdered and wounded while they were singing the national anthem, all he could say was "he is still the jagaban of Lagos".

What support are we talking about?

Tinubu knew that Buhari was not a good president and that people were dying of hunger and from terrorists attacks, yet he used bullion van filled with money to campaign for Buhari's reemergence.

He also empowered thugs to snatch ballot boxes, intimidated people under the supervision of MC Oluomo during the previous election.

Tinubu refused to accept that it was the fulani herdsmen that killed that daughter of a Yoruba Chieftain only for investigation to show that it was fulani herdsman that killed her. He was so busy defending the people who continuously kill, rape and kidnap defenseless women, children and others.

Or is it the one her daughters were made market chiefs (iya lojas), who are in turn taxing the hell out of shop owners and even buyers? Making life difficult for people despite the Covid 19 impact?

Tinubu who despite the atrocities of fulani herdsmen in the southwest refused to support Amotekun so that he can be in the good books of the north?

Or his love for agberos so he can be using them for his dirty jobs?

See! Truth is, Tinubu is a serial betrayer. He can betray his own people just gain favour.

His style of godfatherism is what Nigeria can never afford. He will definitely install a puppet as president after his tenure so he can indirectly continue ruling the country. A good case study is Lagos state.

He has shown that times without number.

He's not the only politician in the southwest. Smarter people are there.

Tinubu is just one among tens of millions of people who are smarter than him.

God bless you richly, you know tinubu so well.