₦airaland Forum

Klchnjoku:
Where is the maltreatment?

I didn't see them beating her on any other form of physical abuse.

Anyone who has lived with people with dementia will know taking care of people with dementia are one of the hardest things to do, especially if such individuals are old and stubborn naturally.

Maybe the UK authorities themselves should take it upon themselves to take care of that woman individually for just a week and let's see if they won't do worse to that aged woman than those four Nigerians.

Must you take up the job if you can't perform your duty to the letters as it is stated? Must you sign the papers, collect cool money and be giving excuses as to why you are not doing the job as it is required?
Taking care of your own parents or kids where nobody pays you is different from taking care of someone else's parents or kids and getting paid for it.
The job is frustrating but it is either you do it and collect the money or quit and forget about the pay. You can opt for street or plates cleaning job or IT job

Dpaulie:
Couldn't finish watching the video

I don't even like watching or looking at anything described as GRAPHIC or ABUSE.

oluwaahmed:
Did you even watch the video? Always quick so support a Whiteman destroying your fellow black. Slave. Can't you see the woman was difficult that people had to come assist. Sending them to jail is just racism

Botragelad:
Who do you refer to as a black slave? Are you a joker?

Playing the race card won't make any difference. Own up to what you've done.

franchasofficia:
There are more humane ways to handle the woman.


From age 80, most humans become kids and start to act like kids, and at that stage they need compassion and not cruelty.

The simple truth is that Nigerians abroad shouldn't involve in any care giving job if they don't want to end up prison due to the way we were raised. It has to do with our own environment and culture where we grew up. How do we treat our kids who throw up tantrums? How do we treat the ones who are "stubborn"? How do whites respond to those kids? We in Nigeria spank, scold or punish them. Whites placate or ignore them.
Now, imagine Nigerians and whites in care giving business given those two contrasting backgrounds!

Artiiclebeast:
What most people do not know about this job is that some of the individuals can be very nasty and difficult to work with particularly the seniors with the onset of dementia and all that stuff.

Most people in the field, even the whites, would never categorize this as an outright abuse though.

Human rights, human rights, is how they've emboldened and made the individuals difficult to manage, and when you allow them to keep their human rights in their filthiness and unkemptness, the authorities will still be the ones to complain about abandonment.

If we had a country or leadership, they would have been left to be cleaning up their own mess however it pleases them.

You are right. But as long as they agreed to to do the job, there is no reason for them to collect the money and hate the job.

For the miscreant up there saying "People won't do this kind of job in Nigeria but will do it abroad". Your ignorance is "Harvard-trained". What government or private entities will pay people who do these jobs abroad what they make in 3-4 hours daily?

Nonsense.

That's why they shouldn't manhandle or maltreat their patients. They are called PATIENTS for a reason.
And stop calling people miscreants for expressing their opinions without abusing you first. It shows you lack maturity, respect, and not in control of your emotions

matify83:
After All the resources committed to Japa , only to end up behind bars for your nonsense character you refused to drop back in naija.

You can take a pig out of the mud but it's impossible taking the mud out of the pig.


Hiss!

You really don't get why they did that, do you? It is the job they really didn't like but they liked the money that comes with it. Those are the kind of jobs that many Nigerians wouldn't like to do here no matter the pay but travelling abroad with no skill gives them no options to choose from but to settle with what is available. The sacrifice of japa with no skills

Iykopee:
Ok naa. Abuja is now a hotbed of criminality.

Until examples are made of some of these criminals, by putting them down and by arresting some, the rest won't flee. These sets of criminals are something else

NwaliE01:
Please, kindly tell us what you have been doing for the past 40 years. We want to learn from your mistakes. Thanks.

Perhaps, working those 20k, 30k jobs per month

youngrhosy:
He should learn how to drive

Simple as ABC, problem solved. No need to go on YouTube or whatever.

Did FG tell them to store explosives in a residential house?

Draslo:
If they can come together for this, they will easily come together to make his life a living hell. American women wey no send your father's grandfather

This guy's life isn't his anymore

Not in this case. The women might have already known that the guy is as useless as P in psychology

Haa! What a tragedy?

immortalcrown:
Nothing wey no go enter social media.

No girl who preserved her virginity for chastity sake will make it a public affair, especially in this manner.

Either this one was actually a virgin but not for moral reasons or they are just lying to trend.

See you as you're sweating just trying to write nonsense to disapprove and oppose this news.

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
Look at most nairaland members shouting the questions is difficult

Funny enough this question looks very simple if you are creative and smart

Can you quote few comments before yours that said the question is difficult?

MrSundry:
A Nigerian man shares his touching Japa story. He shared how his travel agent refused picking his call and was left to sleep on the road for months begging for food to survive.

Luck eventually smiled on him when he got a tailoring job but this was short lived because he was "roped" in a crime he didn't commit because he is a Nigerian. After spending months in prison, he was found not guilt.

His boss later processed his visa and paid all his outstanding "overstayed" fines. Now he is a legal resident helping those that wants to travel to UAE.

Dem don open his eyes to cool way to make cool money

7lives:
Chai, they encourage job creation everywhere even in America.
Ever heard of Non farm payroll?.
Government can empower the youths to be self employed, when the self employed youths eventually grow their business, they will still be creating jobs and be employing people or are you anti job creation?.

I don't think you understand what that person said. He meant govt should empower people to be self employed instead of giving finite number of jobs out as in this case. The word "creation" is what caused confusion. Otherwise, both of you are saying the same thing

WhisperedNoise:
Kwara state has an interesting number of unemployed people. The state looks nice from the outside but the amount of rot and corruption in her institutions are almost unbelievable.


Suffer and hunger are in the land, but every election cycle, watch as politicians buy their loyalty with #10,000 and a loaf of bread. Very funny people.

They've been constructing a bridge in tanke for almost 3 years now. They've looted and looted and looted, yet they've not opened the bridge, causing wahala for drivers and civilians, but hey, kwarans will still sing their praises and elect religious bigots as their rulers. Lol. Bunch of clowns.

When will guys learn to stop making this kind of illogical arguments?
People must perform their civic responsibility whether money is involved or not. During the last elections, there was no money to share by the politicians, Buhari and Emefiele made sure of that. And I could still remember how majority of you were praising Buhari and Emefiele for doing excellent job. People came out to vote enmass to prove that it has never been about money (inducement).
And in Nigeria of today, there is no better politician, they're all the same. So, don't fault the electorates for unemployment, don't fault them for performing their civic duty, fault your politicians, your leaders who are all the same.

MadamExcellency:
NBC can not be the judge and the jury at the same time.

Something is wrong with this judgement. Every organisation is empowered to fine its members as long as it is in their rules and regulations. Why is this different? It means NBC will have to go to court every time any media house breaks the codes of broadcasting or what? The mess that will follow this judgement will be unimaginable if it is not contested or upheld by the higher court. Because it means that media houses (Arise, AIT, etc.) with penchant for excessiveness will just be committing libel and slander left and right. Check and balances is important for a sane society

Bigkoko:
If Banjo and Ifeanjuna were alive to their responsibility, and finished the job, nobody would be a Nigerian today! Nobody born Fulani terrorists to invade innocent villages and still go live on Tik Tok to dare Asiwaju and oga Boko Haram!
I trust our hot head Igbo fanatics, they for don set up a task force go rout those killers!

Wetin una for dey hear go be Biafra, Oduduwa and Arewa

Ojukwu started the war. Then, he wanted a republic for igbos. But Banjo was the one who supposed to make it happen, right?
Why did coward who didn't hesitate to murder his subordinates (summary execution) run when failure was staring him in the face? Because, he was a coward

Chygoz01:
what of ifeajuna that was executed too must you bring tribalism to everything

Where is the tribalism in my comment? Pls, point it out.
BTW: have you addressed the op that created this thread? Are you aware that his thread is purely tribalism with the way he kept mentioning Banjo and Yoruba together? So, if I decide to go tribalistic here which I haven't, I'm not out of line.

hedonido:
You're far off man. Checkpoints have nothing to do with the security threat posed by Fulani bandits.

These bastards emerge from the surrounding bushes or valleys, swoop on travellers or residents, and shepherd them, ON FOOT, back into the bushes. I don't know what checkpoints have to to with this.

That's the problem with you guys, every crime is being committed by Fulani herdsmen. Do you even know where kidnapping for ransom originated?

Insecurity is the price to pay for ousting SARS because of yahoo boys

saasala:
A very possible case.

Poison the wife and kids then write a note for cover up

That's possible because the husband and wife have the same handwriting
Dem James Hardly Chase

maureensylvia:
You’re daft to think that nothing is "impossible" .Imp

It is possible but you didn't have details about the incident beyond what you read here. But you didn't just imply, you accused the husband like you are 100% sure when you were supposed to talk of possibility. Ode

Bigkoko:
You are damn right! He died for nothing!
Not for Biafra. Not for Nigeria. Not for ododuwa!!!! But for his own utopian fiefdom!

No be your fault, na im fault wey die for useless cause from the hands of a useless spineless coward

Bigkoko:
Whilewe wish these fallen soldier happy stay in the spirit realms, let's not forget that this is not the Nigeria Sango wasted his gbajue spirit for! Neither is it what Banjo died to preserved !

Banjo didn't die for Nigeria, Ojukwu murdered him in cold blood because he "thought" Banjo failed to make Biafra happen for him. So much responsibility on the shoulder of young innocent confused Yoruba boy.
And what did he himself do? He wore skirts and blouse with headtie, tucked his dick between his legs and cowardly ran out of the country

maureensylvia:
Plot twist
Man kills wife and kids after finding out the kids are not his.

You are not so smart. Without even knowing where the husband was at the time?

money121:
Imagine

Say no to suicide

This more than suicide, it is a double murders and suicide

WombBreaker:
Why are you like this??

Like what? You think I'm pulling your leg? Won't you even if I didn't tell you to?

LilMissFavvy:
My dear, what you call toxicity, is what I see as a strong willed character. Only God knows the depth of pain the young man may have gone through while growing up. His kinds do not even want to love a woman, but this one is ready to love and protect his woman from his malfunctioned family. No one desires to find themselves in such a situation, but life happens. I am talking from experience, cuz i have bad relatives I don't talk to.

As long as he is ready to stand by her, fine, but she has to be careful not to offend him deeply, because people like him can hardly forgive. People marry orphans, people marry partners who are an "only child"? No diggidies, life goes on.

Read this your own statement again and digest it. You want to go into marriage with a toxic man who has unforgiven mind, knowing fully well that you will be tipped toying around him everyday! And this is a union that's supposed to be forever. Is it worth it? Laughing

WombBreaker:
Why don't women want a serious committed loving relationship anymore? Is it because feminism told them it was slavery? Why are women like this??

Keep trying tlll you get exactly what you are looking for

They never learn from the mistakes of others, they never listen until it is too late

atiku4President:
You spent 9 year investing in somebody's dream? What an ungrateful being you are. What about the things you learnt while part of the program? Who were you 10 years ago?

When people leave the stage, they start showing their true colours. From the way you have spoken, you are truly imbecilic inside

Didn't he? Continue calling him names as if he knew your existence, don't learn from him.
You even said ungrateful as if his talent and sweat wasn't part of the reasons why the TV series become popular