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He has to be one of the headless mobs, nothing new

LesbianBoy:
I just dey pity the mental health of SANE Nigerians. Because omo, the rascality, impunity and hate going on in that Nigeria now eh. It has never been this bad.

Someone that did not win and did not even meet some major requirements is about to become president by force, yet there are people thinking the country will get better.

You must know better than INEC. Lol

BEJV:
And he still goes to d alter to preach Christ?

"Christ" didn't marry if I remember correctly? So, what's your point?

nick50:
..what u see today as a mere fight will soon turn to a full blown Nigeria 2nd civil war just keep pushing the igbos to the wall

May be you are lining another set of million people for deaths and more for displacements and other agonies (like starvation, diseases, etc) that come with war.

1Sharon:
Then he shouldn't have had a baby with her.

Will he be happy if his sister was done like that?

Their issue has passed the stage of "if".

Pipapi1:
Making the mistake of impregnating a girl four years after my marriage. I was forced to marry the girl as second wife by her family. This really dried my account and I haven't still recovered till now - it's over 3 years.

Na underage you got preg? That could be the only reason they forced you to marry her so that you don't have to face the judge.

PHZADDY1:
Ordinary phone wey I buy,I still dey cry...screen come break join o and na Samsung...I never recover till date

If you don't have enough left in your account, never buy expensive phone!

osuolale95:
Spent close to 3m on a building, which am yet to even completed. The money I suppose use start business. Anyway the house is on my page here on nairaland labelled for sale

This was why I didn't listen to people around me urging me to start house project like 3 years ago, they thought they knew better than me, hence the constant "advice".

This gambling thing is doing more harm than good

God1000:
Sad, such a promising young man, gambling has sent so many people down six feet


Be warned punters

Young, yes. But what was promising about his gambling addiction?

ADAHE01:
Bros,if you want to abolish your family polygamy, settled with your baby mama

Even if they have realised that they're not compatible? Lol

Oxygenmayo:
Whether you marry the first lady or not, you are married already because marriage is more than the coming together of a man and wife to become couples. For as long as there was an issue (a child) between you, you are married. As to whether you'd be a polygamist or not, that's another matter for another day, but your past has put you on the path of polygamy .

What a beautiful nonsense?

DBestDoc:
Your wife told you she was upset, did you try to ask her why?

Was there any heart to heart convo to know the reason she’s been in such an unusual mood? Some issues can be solved with proper communication and hearty resolutions but if you think the first option to explore is contemplating divorce, then go ahead Mr.

I for one would also not have sex when I’m upset with my husband like an object meant for just sexual gratification.

I wish you both well.

Yeah! And she asked for money for upkeep. Lol. Upset about nothing. Upset that didn't prevent her from collecting.
Sexual gratification my yansh

JeffreyJunior:
Just 2years into your marriage, you guys are already having all these issues.

Why the heck did you marry who wasn't into you or will you swear you didn't see the warning signs?

Oga when the kitchen becomes too hot, a wise person knows the best choice is to leave.

Leave the marriage or get a sidechick mek everybody rest.

Actually, the first three years of marriage are usually the hardest part or period for a number of reasons.

Kobojunkie:
All I read is you equate love with sex and your wife denying you sex means she has no love for you. And you somehow think the blame should all be on her as far as all the problems you perceive in your marriage, no be so? **yawn***

@kobojunkie, Just compare the below contribution to your own which always seem biased. You are smart and intelligent but I don't really know why you are always like this.

Klass99:
Aww......you genuinely sound like a good man. It's sad you are not getting the love and attention you want or deserve.

Actions speak louder than words! Perhaps you need to change the narrative for her to get better results in your marriage.

Notice I didn't say talk to her or verbally communicate your concerns. Show her what you can do by your actions, show her that two can play this game she's playing. Don't buy into the narrative that two wrongs don't make a right.

From personal experience two wrongs do make a right - it is called giving people a dose of their own medicine, which usually pains them and they know not to mess with you again or they adjust their behaviour. But it's your call.

InvertedHammer:
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Sex usually dies with marriage after about 2 years. Twice a month? You are doing a lot better than many men. If you dare step outside, she will be the first to cry "infidelity!". Men with high libido do realize a tad too late after marriage that infrequent sex is the norm.

Good luck!

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At what age of the couple? Twice month! Instead of twice a week. Lol

Sonnobax15:

Sexxx sexxx sexxx . What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? . The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination . Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.

Funny you don't see that his marriage is already heading towards the rock. Remove sex from a marriage of young healthy couple and tell me what you have left?
Which one be "too much of sex" again?

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

She's denying you sex. The question is why? Do some findings, I hope you will like what you are going to find.

ehay:
Do not engage in any extra marital affair. Cancer causing HPV is on the increase, Condom does not protect against it.

Condom does not protect against virus? I thought HIV is a virus and condom protects against it

Enddy50ty:
He’s a typical Yoruba man with the “Pull Him Down” syndrome.
I just laugh when they say his comments has nothing to do with the Yoruba people, we can all remember during the elections when they said they don’t want IGBO’S in Lagos anymore, what’s the difference..??

This one only went to London and did the same thing for his kinsmen.

Lol. They should have allowed you to hijack Lagos state and install your puppet
Have they now chased igbos out of Lagos?

worried222:
We are not one, we have never been one and we will not be one.
I hate deceit, there’s nothing binding us to be one.
Is it culture, language, religion, ideology, beliefs?
They only people who seems to be closer to being one are the elites.
May the Yorubas and the Fulanis are one.

If the elites are closer to being one, you should know that people like you are the reason why masses are far from being one.

Babaalagbo:
This is Emdee Tiamiyu on his way to UK in September 2022. He entered the UK with same dependent route on September 2022. Less than 9 months after he entered UK, he closed the boarder against his kinsmen and lineage with his mouth.

https://twitter.com/drpenking/status/1661272284324036610

We just like to over flog the dead horse. UK government had already made her decision before this man granted his interview. We had been reading UK govt reactions and resolutions long before this man spoke. Pure sensation

Dshocker:
I believe he put up a fight, or he resisted, that was why they shot him,

Not in all incidents.

arm robbers don't just shoot for no reason.

They do because they're mostly on hard drugs

Penguin2:
And in your books, a billionaire’s life is worth more than the life of the poor farmer that is helplessly maimed by Fulani Herdsmen in Benue or Plateau?

Don't deceive yourself my friend. There are some people you would kill and their deaths will affect the lives of tens, hundreds or even thousands of others. That's a fact

saintkel:
u guys r really senseless....always dragging Peter Obi a man who has no structure, no political backbone yet did wonders. .....really ashamed of u guys

Yeah, you did. But why finding it difficult to move on after your loss?

Robchuks77:
You should ashamed of yur self.. They are wanting to push a selected president don our throath.. . Sorry for una Sha.. Shey ur name dey for nominees?

We had an election and you guys lost. Simple

Princessstee:
Like UK didn't know themselves. That is not a secret

Something UK government herself has been discussing in last one month and already set to role out new plan/policy.

Rikze:
In the history of Nigeria I haven't seen or heard that anyone received such an SMS ahead of an inauguration.

This time around, we did. Thanks to Obi and his headless mobs who are ready to either have it or no one else does.

ghettochild:
If u know the principles of electrolysis.
U won't doubt what that boy had done there.

If you know the principle behind the generation of electricity, you won't believe the boy for a second. He's been bursted already

officialwdhtv:
An Ekiti boy named Tolani "aka tolani danger" has generated electricity from 2 stones to power his home

Speaking on camera as he showed how he did it, he also said that he once generated electricity from an electric fish before and people around his community could testify to that.

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappenTV

📺👇👉

His lie has been exposed by Ekiti state government fact finding team. The stone was a cover, he actually buried lithium battery in the soil.
His claim didn't make any sense scientifically.

AKWATGOLD1:
Tolani Danger in action.
His discovery generating electricity through stone is amazing.
He said his curiosity starts from mystery behind lightening when you strike cutlass against stone and he starts his research.
Nigeria is full of untapped talents.

See hyping! Lol. I watched his lie too.

Mjshexy:
In saner climes he'd get supported by the government but does our government care about young Nigerians with such exceptional discoveries, no they don't . All they are interested in is to borrow on behalf of Nigerians, steal all they borrowed and die leaving Nigerians in unfathomable indebtedness

They don't claim to generate electricity from "black and white" stones in saner climes.

gasparpisciotta:
Cobalt stones at work.

However the man’s ingenuity should be applauded

May be applauded about something else, but this one, he scammed the public 2

Penguin2:
So you mean Southeast is not number one?

Not even number 2 nor 3.

But Tinubu Press men have been fixated on the Southeast and Anambra especially because they think they are doing Obi.

But when Fulani herdsmen massacre people in their sleep, they will turn a blind eye.

Stupid fools!

Obi will continue to be your nightmare.

Ndi ala!

Don't forget that you are killing your VIPs: billionaires, businessmen, politicians, kings and traditional rulers, academicians, security agents. It makes it the worst

okuta007:
so Dangote is thanking Tinubu for helping him consolidate his monopoly- so that he can confiscate more of the commonwealth of the Nigerian people in his greedy pocket is an achievement for Tinubu bah?

If Dangote were an American living in America - he can not try what he is doing in Nigeria today - being a monopoly because there are anti-trust laws to ensure no one man or company can own everything - that is called CRONY CAPITALISM —- what Dangote is doing is criminal and only in Nigeria can things like this happen with no consequences

Dangote is busy buying up the country - and you are here hailing him - is this not a form of FEUDALISM? where a super Oligarch like Dangote has monopoly over Cement / Flour / Sugar / Indomie/ Salt / and now Refinery ?

Very soon Dangote will own your wife or girlfriend kpekus and you will have to take permission from him to lash

Agbaya 😏

You are spewing nonsense from the pulpit of ignorance. Do you know how many private citizens (individuals) who had gotten licences to build private refineries in Nigeria before Dangote applied for licence? I'm sure that you were not aware of this information! None of these rich businessmen ever made attempt to start construction after getting the licences.
But now, all what you see is monopoly. I'm sure that you would prefer that we don't have a single functioning refinery privately owned if it was going to belong to Dangote.
With the way you are shouting monopoly here, I'm sure you are not a business oriented individual. Dangote didn't stop anyone from investing in production, it is your own citizens who prefer importations as a good business model.