vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear

What the Bleep did you just say Gosh!!! Sometimes I marvel at the level of some people's way of reasoning.
Tufiakwa!!!

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Bros abeg if you don't know what to do with money, please help me with it. Hunger virus dey finish me and my son

Semperty:
You really wanted to remove your head from your neck @profile pic?

Lol, I've changed it

EVILFOREST:

THANK your STARS you realised.
Okk
MEMORY VERSE:
FIRST DEVELOP yourself in Business and Wisdom.
LADIES are attracted to FAMOUS people irrespective of how they got their fame, whether through something Good or terrible

When you are FAMOUS, u do little to attract a Nigerian Lady. People around you do the talking 4u.
You conserve Energy and spend it observing them for potential leeching.

Correct Gee sighted.

MizJaY:
Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.

I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things.

Honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash the anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. If u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one that has problem. He's too difficult at times.

In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person I am. Calm and quiet.

When I met my husband NYSC days, he was very close to God, organizing programs in church and handling them. That was the main reason I got close to him cos I wasnt so spiritual and needed someone to help me grow spiritually through life. He told me he was called to be a pastor and that excited me but I'm not seeing that now lol. He's spiritual life is almost zero. And back then, he had nothing, we would spend all my money even to reach his sick mother in the village I would buy all the foodstuff to send to her.

The way he talked he sounded promising that things will get better with him, but today, I still suffer, I have no savings, all my salary is on the house. He works too and earns but he's salary covers rent and the children's school fees finished. I do the rest but he doesn't appreciate the fact that I sacrifice everything I earn to feeding the house. We are family of 6. Everything provision, food, children school snack, fuel for car and gen, gas filing etc etc it's me. And that's how my whole salary will just go fiam.

if I ws getting a little appreciation I for no mind but rather I get insults o. It's my fault that
Money is finished, it's my fault that we have no savings, I don't know how to manage money, I'm hoarding my money etc etc those are d words that come out of his mouth o.

I used to be a beautiful woman but no more, I wear one shoe everyday to work, can't buy myself clothes shoes nothing I had to cut my hair to relieve myself from hair money lol. I'm stressed out thinking of where money will come for feeding when my salary gets finished before month end at times I have to beg my sister or my dad a pensioner or hussle one way or d other. I now developed high bp and today I'm living with hypertension taking drugs everyday. It was my parents that gave my husband d job he's doing today. He is not in talking terms with he's dad n siblings. Before he's mother died, things were not too good between them. My husband likes to always form man of d house and want me to apologise whenever there's a misunderstanding saying that I am d one wrong, I'm always wondering how am always the one wrong and he's not � every time.

Sometimes self I don't know what I did that mks him angry he will just start carrying face. Today makes it a week we are not talking cos he has been carrying face since 7days now, and went to post something on wassap yesterday that a woman that cannot apologise to her husband cannot stay in marriage.

My brothers and sisters if I know of anything I did that I have to apologise for yet I refused to apologise that is making him carry face, may God strike me. If u know I did anything wrong why not come to me and tell me u don't like what I did and tell me what i did rather than carry face up n down. He always does that. At times I do ask him and as usual am always d one at fault. Maybe it's cos I'm a quiet person he's taking me for mumu.

The national anthem now is that because he does not have money that's why I don't respect him the way I'm supposed to. I'm always careful with my word when gisting with him cos make I make mistake say Donald duke is d current governor of rivers state haaa problem don enter and it may spoil d sweet gisting we were having. He go almost insult me and become uninterested in gisting with me again cos i don talk mumu talk.

So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warned him. Tho he still attempts once in a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move sef I no dey enjoy marriage life at all

My dear I've learnt how to deal with this "you don't have respect" bullshit. I just answer yes or no, or I nod my head. Once the argument starts, I zip my mouth and press my phone(sometimes I go put water for mouth join, lol). When he says something funny, I laugh and that's all. I look for things to do so that I won't say a word before they say you insulted them. I watched my hubby make terrible mistakes that could easily be avoided but I wanted him to learn that WE ARE ONE.

He accuses you of been the one at fault all the time, AGREE and APOLOGISE whether you are right. Allow him have his way and whatever he decides to do, DON'T ARGUE. Play the mumu and get your husband back

I did this for few weeks and peace returned to my home. He now seeks for my opinion on issues, insists my suggestion be given a thought and honestly yearns for a conversation.

The issue of money, you really need to come up with and idea on how to start saving for the rainy day; you can't go dry completely.

Liposure:
u are very funny. Where are from

Anambra

Liposure:
tell me

Amaka

Liposure:
am ike. Pls 2 mit u

If I tell you my name ehn, hmm you will run

Liposure:
sorry. Can i be ur friend

Sure.

Juliusmalema:
This is palliatives Indeed.

Men nwere Obi eji eri Ego...

Anyi nwe MEN

SpecialAdviser:
What is really happening to Enugu senators?

Where are all those useless thieves representing Enugu state I ask again?
Especially that anu mpama representing Enugu north.

Anu mpama. Lol, you dey vex o

Poloyanabo1:
Good one sir...
The effects of covid19 will be reduced if all our 109 senators and 360 reps members can emulate this kind gesture.

I swear down

Nwanyiogwashi:
Igbo Amaka

You can say that again

Baycard55:
Nice
Never knew she was my birthday mate

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR

No need for all these stories. From the things you just said, she's good to go but bros, If you can't allow yourself see past her mistakes, kindly let her go.
Las las another person go marry am but this she'll be careful never to share her past life with anyone.

Gracious God. This is beautiful

Lost my mom at 11

donbachi:
The mama go soon get another belle.

My daughter don look me like that tire yet nothing.

Yes, childbirth can cause so much damage to a woman, though not for every woman.
Just like pregnant women demanding for odd things, eating crazily, doing so many unbelievable things. The period of my pregnancy was normal. Nothing like spitting every now and then, early morning sickness, etc.
My major challenge is dealing with my sexual urge which reduced drastically after I put to bed and my baby is 10months old. I gave birth through CS too

Give her time to heal...

Jacob168:
So somebody nor fit help him friend keep money again?

Hahahahahahahahahaha I tire o

Clap for yourself.

I faced far worse than what you just wrote. I can not punish someone innocent for the sin of another; no way.

Well my husband asked me out through the phone.
Someone that will take you serious will definitely take you serious.

Okuda:
na only death be the language our leaders understand. thats the only thing that make them act swiftly .....and of course looting.

"DEATH" that affects them too

Mass will hold tomorrow in my parish. Catholic church of Transfiguration VGC. 10Masses

Things i craved for...
*Gala and lacasera
*Roasted plantain, took it for just 2weeks though, didn't even know I was pregnant then.
*Bottled water, this madness comes once in a while.

I was watching my weight sha, so I was mindful of the things I ate. Even after I put to bed, I had to place myself on a serious weight loss plan. It paid off anyway cos I lost 10kg in less than 3months

Too bad bro.
I just wonder why men are been neglected when it comes to issues like sexual abuse.
Both genders deserve equal right to justice; there's no weaker vessel when it comes to sexual abuse.

Me? I don't give a Bleep. Once my hubby says no or acts like he doesn't want it, I wrap myself up and sleep. Sex no be food

The environment looks different. Abi I no dey see well again?

sam4noow:


Thanks bro...

I no be bro ooo

sam4noow:



They better do oo

They refunded mine for yesterday's game. So chill

sam4noow:
Ohh Dammnnn Shiiiittt niggggarrr


This suspension go affect my bet slip o
which kind Coro wahala be this

They'll refund you nah

Kendroid:

I don't know your husband, but Pls help me tell him he is my Role Model. Tell him someone somewhere in NL is looking upto him!

Lol. I will pass your message across