IamV: You have probably read thousands of articles where you're being told that masturbation is "self care and self love",while porn is not harmful as long as you're moderate in your consumption of it contents.
You might have probably read "health news" where "medical experts" are of the view that masturbating moderately can help prevent prostate cancer and "sperm toxicity" in the body.
Now,I'm here to tell you that those are all lies to keep you wallowing in this destructive habit,that will affect your sexual life and well being,in the long run.
Below are five reasons you should quit such destructive habit before it becomes too late.
-1 BOOST IN YOUR ENERGY LEVEL ;
If there is any result that's consistent with guys who have quitted porn and masturbation in the past is the noticeable increase in their energy level. Do you have an idea what that semen you fap away recklessly contains ?
Imagine for some seconds,you were losing those nutrients ,even moderately, for some days. It will certainly take it tolls on you,and you will be left lethargic and weak,both mentally and emotionally.
-2 BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM
They're few things that send strong signals to the brain and is empowering as quitting an addiction, in general,and that's exactly what quitting porn and masturbation does to the brain and body. The brain will certainly fight back when you're on a streak to quit this addictions,but the more resolute you become,the more powerful signals you send to your brain how you genuinely care for your health,and the brain have no choice than to adapt to the changes going on in your body.
-3 YOUR BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE AND SEXY
After staying away from porn and masturbation,you will notice something great about yourself. A brighter eyes,a deeper masculine voice and an oozing level of energy and better self image you have not experienced during your porn and masturbation era. It's so natural, magnetic and powerful,that , not just the opposite sex will start noticing your energy and how attractive you have become,both genders will.
-4 YOU WILL BECOME MORE PRODUCTIVE AND FOCUS
Instead of wasting your time and energy fapping to some naked bodies,you will develop the mental fortitude to step out of your comfort zone ,and face your challenges. You now have the energy and a better self image to face those challenges you were scared of ,in the past.
You now have the zeal to make every minute of your life count instead of beating your meat in from of some naked persons have sex. Quitting porn and masturbation is a life changer,and you will be proud of yourself when you do.
-5 YOUR SEXUAL SOCIAL LIFE IMPROVES
One other thing you will notice when you quit porn and masturbation is that you will grow that desire to socialize with people, especially the opposite sex,instead of locking yourself in your room, watching porn and beating your meat to it. You will notice that desire to mingle with strangers,to walk up to that person that might be intimidating to you in the past. You literally become a free bird gifting everyone who comes across you your new found mojo and freedom. Many couples have also reported better sex life after one or the both quitted masturbation and porn addiction.
In summary,quiiting porn and masturbation should be your priority if you still find yourself in that dungeon. It will be one of the most important choices you will make in life.
Manchester City will clash with Sporting Lisbon in an away Champions League round of 16 first-leg tie at the Estádio José Alvalade.
Providing his predictions, Owen told BetVictor: “This should be a thriller. With all the attacking talent that’s on show, we will see goals. PSG probably haven’t been at their best this season, but they’ve got so much quality. I fancy them here.
Commenting on the Sporting Lisbon vs Manchester City game, Owen said, “Away trips in the Champions League are never easy, but this should be straightforward for City. Sporting are a decent side, but this is as good a draw as they could have got.
Stankovic22: Youths of a community (orifite anambra state ) in South east Nigeria have angrily destroyed a shrine where they discovered the names of a lot of people tied to a fetish padlock and prevented from making progress in life.
SECRET 1: 1: Everyone you marry has a weakness. 2: Only GOD does not have a weakness. 3: So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.
SECRET 2: 1: Everyone has a dark history. 2: No one is an angel. 3: When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. 4: What matters most is the present life of your partner. 5: Old things have passed away. 6: Forgive and forget. 7: Focus on the present and the future.
SECRET 3: 1: Every marriage has its own challenges. 2: Marriage is not a bed of roses. 3: Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. 4: True love proves in times of challenges. 5: Fight for your marriage. 6: Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. 7: Remember the vow For better for worse. 8: In sickness and in health be there.
SECRET 4: 1: Every marriage has different levels of success. 2: Don't compare your marriage with any one else. 3: We can never be equal. 4: Some will be far, some behind. 5: To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.
SECRET 5: 1: To get married is declaring war. 2: When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are: a: Ignorance b: Prayerlessness c: Unforgiveness d: Third party influence e: Stinginess f: Stubbornness g: Lack of love h: Rudeness i: Laziness j: Disrespect k: Cheating 3: Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
SECRET 6: 1: There is no perfect marriage. 2: There is no ready made marriage. 3: Marriage is hard work. 4: Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. 5: Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. 6: If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. 7: Let us not be careless about our marriages.
SECRET 7: 1: GOD cannot give you a complete person you desire. 2: He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. 3: This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience.
SECRET 8: 1: Getting married is taking a huge risk. 2: You can not predict what will happen in the future. 3: Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. 4: Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. 5: All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.
SECRET 9: 1: Marriage is not a contract. 2: It is permanent. 3: It needs total commitment. 4: Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. 5: Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. 6: Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. 7: Never threaten your spouse with divorce. 8: Choose to remain married. 9: GOD hates divorce.
SECRET 10: 1: Every marriage has a price to pay. 2: Marriage is like a bank account. 3: It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. 4: If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.
Please, let us always pray for our marriages.
May the Almighty GOD bless our marriages......Amen
Iyaebe: You guys on this nairaland forum don't live your reality the way you say it here.Most of you will frown if she were your sister but here they are making me feel as if I'm the wicked person in all of these.Mtcheww
i've been living under the fear of having a heart problem for more than five years, but my people refused that i should go for scan probably because of fear that it might be true, and there won't be money to care/treat it..
Even me, i'm afraid to go for scan, because the moment it is comfirmed to me, i don't kno if i would be able to live with it..
i can't run nor do hard work, my pulse is always high and sometimes my breathing stop totally.. I've fainted multiple times, and i've been living under depression for so long..
Now, this symptoms is increasing on daily basis, but my people dosn't want me to go for scan.. Is like they already knows the result will turn out positive.
But what if i go for scan an the result shows that i have a heart probem, how will i be able to live with it, knowing fully very well that we don't have the money to cure it..
I don't kno what to do nairalanders, i need advice..
First thing first, you need to go for tests. Probably ECG & Echocardiogram scans to know the condition of your heart. The results should determine your next line of action. Most times, early diagnosis helps prevent stories that touch, cuz a stitch in time saves nine. Just man up and go for proper examination by a cardiologist, whatever the outcome, there's a solution for every problem. Secondly, I'd like to know if you are hypertensive or do you have a history of it in your family? If yes, then you also need to get treated for it. Hypertension (High Blood Pressure) is one of the major causes of heart related ailments, cuz it makes the heart work harder. So I need you to ascertain your status regarding that as well. Finally, you also need to regulate your thought process. Problem no dey finish, learn to take each day as it comes. Don't allow stress make you miserable. If na your girlfriend dey stress you, bros tell am say u no dey do again. Health is wealth, stay alive for the people you love and those wey love you.
Dotinacircle: Whenever I eat food, it will be like the food doesn't digest. It will now start choke me. What can you do to help save a life. Sometimes it will go, and it will comeback. Pls help me
I know the feeling bro, truth is GERD has no cure, you just have to manage it. The good thing is, if managed properly, it's not life threatening. You need to cut down on gaseous foods like Beans and whatnots, same with fizzy/Carbonated drinks. Anything that has gas, please try to stay away from them. Secondly, your eating habits needs to improve. Eating dinner early would help a great deal. It gives room for proper digestion before your sleep. Also, after eating, try to sit in an inclined position, this will aid digestion, and you should also try sleeping in an inclined position, don't sleep with your face buried inside your pillow, on facing your right or left sides. Inclined is the way to go. I hope this helps.
killmods: You too cuss.. how u take dey teach students computer? Idiot if u didn't want anyone's opinion u wouldn't have brought ur problem to Nairaland. Jobless He-goat single young girls no attract u na married pregnant women. You will die disgracefully
Carchoice: One benin girl did same thing to me years ago. I invited her the next week and we had rounds of rough play for three days, while at it She started apologizing for everything She said. After She left, I broke up with her the second time and the threat started again.
Bros, na ruff play be that Oooooh. E be like u wan dey "FLY" for afternoon