₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Ok

My friend go and sit down, you aren't really bright at this point.

olabrinks:
the two are incomparable. Infertility is a health problem, can a woman/man control their reproductive system? You can’t buy your health but money can always be made. That should answer your question.

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pocohantas:
Hehehe. That works in a way.
I don't think his wife is willing to let go. And if she were such an evil woman, she would have changed it for him all the years he has been tracking her. I would suggest they see a counsellor. You don't throw away 11yrs like that. Not when the ones that beat themselves are warming up to celebrate 20yrs anniversary.

Someone whose wife cheated on him isn't a bad woman? How do you think the suspicions came about?

sharone21:
I no go marry man like u naw na by force?Men are in stages, life is in phases.... How my decision take affect u?

Go WORK first, then we can have discussions..... What I wrote ONLY real men understand it and won't argue..... Abi what else do u want to use your body for unlike women?

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sharone21:
Your ONLY main role as a man is to LOOK FOR MONEY NOT carry pregnancy or push out babies apart from breastfeeding/ cooking/ doing homework ALL at once as a woman..... If you FAIL in this one role, you have indeed failed and I won't mince my words.... This brings out your manliness: just do it legally and prayerfully.... Na ONLY one main task u get naw

Men/ society aren't easy on women so why should u have it easy as an ABLE BODIED man, unless u are lazy.

Try to READ and comprehend then work on yourself instead of attacking because no woman will be able to live with u even if she EARNS more than you ... Just advice though.

That's the same thing we're saying na, just avoid marriage so that you don't stress yourself. Abi who sees stress and where they are short changed and jump inside? You should be totally agaisnt marriage, it doesn't favor women. Women do 30 things and men only do one.

Avoid marriage for your mental health, no one loves being a workhorse

sharone21:
I will marry REASONABLE men like my dad who wouldn't take women/ me for granted.

You're so unreasonable, here you are saying that men have it easier than women in marriage, wouldn't the logical step to take is to avoid marriage by all means? You know the solution to your happiness and still wouldn't take it. I don't know what to say to you

sharone21:
Yes I will stay..... However, as a man u must not just fold your hands and lament over and over about the situation but get to work and praying to God for direction, divine helpers and favor.

The devil is happy when u as a man is broke and down: He uses it to weaken the family system and make children wayward....


If the ONLY major role u are to play as a man ( unlike a woman's that is multifaceted eg being pregnant x3, pushing out x3, house chores, cooking/ breastfeeding/ doing home work for junior etc apart from going out to look for money in order for men/ society to tag her a truly virtuous woman) you FAIL, u have indeed failed unless maybe u are incapacitated physically ie being physically challenged.... U need to pity that woman in your life who is doing so much and maybe taken somewhat for granted by u.

It is easier being a man than an a woman especially when not doing things illicitly.

you shouldn't marry, so as to not do chores, push out babies 3x and have a wonderful life.

Won't it be foolish to know that life is easier being single and enter into marriage? Who does that

olabrinks:
The mental exhaustion of carrying the home will depress me. If he can take care of the kids and home whilst I work and provide, there might be balance. If I’m expected to do everything, it won’t work, as I’m not a machine. So my answer is no.

While this is okay, should a man chase away a barren wife knowing the fault isn't his?
Do you support this?

twang414:
In as much as I wanted to quote each and every post I would have loved to respond to, I feel I should just summarize my point here real quick. Yes we have had issues which obviously led to me knowing she cheated on me, but u know women u cant catch them red handed unless you are lucky, That aside though cos I have gba kamun that whatever she wants to do she can do, I am busy trying to work my ass out to sort bills, but one thing you all need to understand that am surprised is not being pointed out is if equality is the main thing in this country, how can a man paying almost 80% of the bills is being treated un-equal? What happened 3 days ago wasnt me trying to track her or whatever, she had left the house since 9am, promised to be back by 3pm, and I had an appointment with someone for 4pm, and u cant leave kids at home here if u are caught, kids will be taken from you. So my major reason for the call was to inquire as to how close she was getting even though the time she was suppose to be home had elapsed. Na her hustle she find go, na my own hustle me sef dey find go knowing fully well i have even more to spend, am i suppose to be put under that kind of situation?

I really do have questions for some people saying am stalking my wife and she should be allowed to live her life. Is that truly what marriage is all about, if you guys that stated that are truly married, is it normal to u that if u call ur wife she dont take ur calls? Does it mean that she can be out there and come back anytime she wants without a legit explanation when we both have responsibility to take and tend to the needs and attention of the kids. I am really lost here.

Hmm! You shouldn't have taken your wife to the UK with such unresolved issuues.
If you guys divorce, i don't know what will become of your finances and seeing your kids.
Please don't get into any brawl with her, also seceretly get a lawyer to find out exit options
That pose minimal risks to your finances and kids.

If you can't get around the divorce , just manage with her. It's always best to leave women in Nigeria here, if they LovePeddler around, that's their business.

Throwback:
I reckon there are scarce resources to truly evacuate every Nigerian at the same time regardless of their mission in Sudan.

So the state of origin approach was the best to ensure a fair evacuation of the citizens of a heterogeneous Nigeria.

In spite of this fair approach, complaints have still come up by multiple sides claiming their own side were left behind.

At least there should be some record now about which states had representation among the evacuated.

State of origin was a very dumb approach, what a way to segregate Nigerians, why aren't
The northerners the ones left behind today or the yorubas?

Mindlog:
Fact is, medical training is damn too cheap in Nigeria. The foremost public university in Kenya which is the University of Nairobi, their tuition per year for Kenyans studying medicine there is not less than N3.2m. which your family must pay if you are self-sponsored and not on govt loan or scholarship.

On which minimum wage, 32,00 naira? How long will they save to able to afford that?
Are our educational standards comparable to that of kenya, not to talk of the UK ans Us?
How much do doctors earn in Nigeria compared to other countries?

You guys should reason this thing abeg. Even kids who study at private universities where they pay over a million for just a year
Get to earn 300 - 400k, is that sustainable for someone who has numerous mouths to feed?

Do politicians patronise or use Nigerian hospitals? Abeg.

randymirrors:
They should remain in Sudan. Isn't Nigeria a zoo?

You're behaving like an animal, why won't they say that?

Gerrard59:
Including relatives and siblings. I am not richer than Davido or his family, but if my sister was Chioma, I wouldn't attend the wedding if she went on with it. Some might call it pride or ego, but I term it dignity and integrity. Mind you, this is includes his other baby-mamas o.

Annie Macaulay go become Emeritus Professor by fire, by force

Thank you, i would have disowned her were i to be her dad. What sort of shame is this?

leanonme82:
2018 - announced wedding, got engaged, impregnated chioma
2019 - chiomas fiance impregnates his sidechic, chioma gives birth
2020 - sidechic gives birth, davido carries new latina girlfriend to ghana, chases chioma from his house
2021 - babymama life
2022 - get back together, their child dies, does wedding, AFTER 3 YEARS! Only because her only child died
2023 - chiomas husband impregnates haileys mama for the 2nd time.

What a big joke! No be small #endurance. This one no be signs, this one saw helll fire and still married it. I wont be surprised if na her dead body dem carry comot davido house, no be curse. No caring parent can ever encourage this after all these drama where death was even involved. Her parents have failed her.

Some kids are very stubborn, we were all here when regina Daniel's dad objected to her marrying ned.. Best thing is to disown them.
They might have tried to stop her

We igbos need to be smarter when investing next time, it's time to think back home. The wise ones
Will hear my words clearly, what happened this last election was an eye opener.

purples25:
Ah, when you won't let her open her mouth and tell you how she feels honestly. Every time a woman tries to say her mind it is tagged as disrespect, she's a bad woman etc.

Enjoy your self made hypocrite. Shebi you want only respect and never truth.

So calling your husband a failure and loser even to his face should be acceptable? I hope you'll be happy
To find such derogatory words about you on your husband's phone, you can equally applaud him while at it

cococandy:
Providers whining about providing. As usual

Providing for a nonentity? Nah

Divoc19:
This happened to me. I divorced his ass after many years of starvation, endurance, hopefulness and many other things I can't say on here

Probably he didnt find you attractive.

mrvitalis:
I shake my head when ever I see Igbos thinking doing all this would make u accepted in Nigeria

2 million dollars can sponsor 2000 Igbo youths to Europe for trials

Ask airpeace ....as long as you are ready to abuse Igbo nation openly nothing for u ...even at that you would get crumbs

I swear, we igbos need to start prioritizing our people more.

incandescentena:
You and Akapabio are not serious human beings. What does his dues have to do with the average Nigerian?

I mean, these people are very dumb.

On one hand, they say politics is a game, not minding politicians with good intentions, on the other hand, they want a trickster to have the masses at heart, isn't that foolishness?

N3TRAL:
The sore loser will not attend the occasion.

However, I don't like the committee's idea of inviting the offshore accounts thief. It's not inclusion.

A national disgrace who was deported from the UK should not grace such noble event.

You're a failure. Such a dunce

NaBanga:
Some are, which is why you see so many women dating married men and entering marriages as second wives. They would prefer to be the second woman of the man they desire, than the first woman of the man they do not desire. When the man does not want a second wife, these women become baby mamas, side chickens, and mistresses.

It looks like men are winning then.

Octopusssy:
So let the court decide then

Was it not what he said before?

Wagwanbrethren:
No doubt, Lagos CP is doing a pretty good job. I love how the guy handles almost all case brought to his attention. If only others can emulate him.

As for that idiot, the law should play it's role. You don't assault people and go scot free, and I'm sure he has done this to several people thinking he will always get away.

And he couldn't do anything about oluomo's video. Lol

Adebowale89:
because he doesn't have a fraud case to atone for

Nah, because he is poor and has transferred that poverty to you.

Persephone1:
Funny how you think only Nigerian men exist.

I do not really care about you liking Nigerian men, was only suprised about you liking men.. Goodluck.

Adebowale89:
Allen will become non igbo when he is given a post to represent igbo, confused tribe



No one force Allen to do anything, he's trying to help for humanity, if he doesn't do it no one would point a finger at him, FG should be greatful to him because he's doing their responsibility


I can't be thankful to a man that didn't affect me directly and indirectly when there is a govt that should take responsibilities of securing lives and properties of Nigeria according to the Constitution

Why didn't your own father do it?

Persephone1:


I don't see in-laws as threat and in as much as I know some can be very crraaazzzzyyyy I will still love to maintain positive energy and relations with them.

I pray my in-laws will be my second family.

Funny how a man hater wants to get married lol

NaBanga:
Women are not married, because civilization and modernization has improved. Women now have choices. They are not married off by their parents at a young age. They can work and earn their own money. They can choose the man they want and reject those they do not. I would say most women are only attracted to specific types of men, which drastically reduces their choices. This is the reason women are not married.

Are the men they prefer also choosing them?

Go for autopsy, if any negative result comes out, arrest her asap but if her hands are clean, leave her alone and any property your brother might have left for her.

emkz:
Nope. No one has ever said Air Peace is IPOB. Allen Onyeama does not regard himself as an Igbo man, but a Nigerian.

If he contests tomorrow and builds bridges to people who can help him win, he stands a good chance to be President.

But if he goes around saying election is religious war or church wake up and take back your country, he'd be well beaten.

You're very stupid. Tinubu can say yoruba lo kan and emi lo kan and you don't see a problem with that.

BloomingDale:
You know there are women that don’t want kids, right?

I am sure you don't want kids yourself.