Filomena: There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.
We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.
So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.
The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.
So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..
I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..
Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him.. I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.
Thanks.
He doesnt fancy you. He has someone. Guys are natural hunters and would not hunt if they have no reason to.
Story. With Almajiri system, you have won elections, caused violence in states, manipulated INEC registration, obtained Foriegn Aid funding from International Institutions. Why end a cash cow? Story.
GOFRONT: So we should comman stop making Video calls with our girlfriends??
No. But dont let emotions guide you decision-making process. Use logic instead. Commonsense. Reason. I always shake my head when I read stories like this. Men that should be men acting like babies because of the social construct called, "love".
If she says, "baby you dont want to talk to me", while you are in a dangerous place like the road-side, tell her, "sorry, I am crossing the road" and cut the call. She wont die.
pressplay411: No one is talking about history here. Secession favoured SE then in the 60s/70s when the SS was part of your plan. Today you've managed to ostracize yourselves by creating enemies with every other tribe because of your arrogance and duplicity..
Besides most of your businesses are in the West because you'abandoned your arid lands for greener pastures. Why do you think it's only broke Igbos pushing for division? You don't know the half. Let Kanu keep gasing you while enriching himself.
Sai Buhari! The ruler with the intellectual capacity to gude Nigeria through the coronavirus pandemic and economic depression! Sai Baba! Thank you APC! Thank you Tinubu! Thank you South West!
Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.
I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage. Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE
There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.
She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.
OTHER INFORMATION. 1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay. 2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life. 3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. . 4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her. 5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.
So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.
Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.
I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.
I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.
This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.
I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.
I am sorry about this. You seem a genuine gentleman.
For the "not yet married" males, when you see a sign in a woman which indicates stubbornnness, pride, foul language, etc, RUN! Dont emotionalise the situation. Dont pretend to yourself. Just run. If you do not run, you are likely to end up like this fellow here.
Because the British won’t allow it. And the French and the Americans wouldn’t. Having a strong Nigeria will be detrimental to their short to long term geopolitical interests in West Africa and Africa. They will deploy their tools— propaganda, divide and rule tactics, even violence to achieve it.
Because Nigerians think tribe first and not competency. They’ll raise all sorts of reasons, often very silly ones, to justify tribe and religion over competence. That is why Nigeria has an ex-coupist and illiterate fellow ruling her.
Because the North won’t allow it. They have exclusive rights to power in Nigeria. And they Will easily use Adesina’s brothers and kinsmen in the West to divide and rule. Tinubu for instance, despite being a Yoruba man, will happily work with the Fulani to scuttle it. If that doesn’t work, they’ll activate their violence on Southerners in the North.
Lekan239: My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.
It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.
Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.
My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.
So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.
2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.
So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.
After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.
Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.
Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.
Your mum's well-being should be your concern at this point. Whatever you do, do NOT loose her. She is the cord that is currently keeping your family together.
Look at the disrespect we face as a sovereign nation over a money that belongs to us o, just because our past leaders have been figures of international embarrassment.
NOI is yet to explain to us how about the $250 million released to us out of $500 million abacha loot was withdrawn and misappropriated.
The cash was released to the Office of National Security Adviser( ONSA) without appropriation.
About $36,155,000 (N13,015,800 billion) out of the $250million was also withdrawn in cash “without any purpose” on March 2nd, 9th, 16th and 18th of 2015.
If the past governments can't do well to judiciously spend the repatriated loots, then it is expected that we will face this kind of public embarrassment
This BMC has come again. This time, Nigerians know better.
NextD18: Just imagine! Even with the high rate of Coronavirus cases in their state.
Truth is; Lagos is arguably the state with the most insane, ignorant and careless people in the world. When it comes to civility, comportment and courteousness, 90% of Lagosians cannot cope in sane and calm cities like Abuja, PH, Owerri, Asaba and some Northern cities.
Very anyhow set of rascal people quick to form porsh hiding under the slogan "I dey Lag".
Smh! To an extent, people living in Onitsha and Aba are way more civilized, careful and comported than them when it comes to security and health.
rottencorpse: Which celebrity's death made you lose appetite? Which celebrity's death made you cry? So far I'd say Michael Jackson and Kobe Bryant but if I were to choose one, I'd pick the King of Pop Michael Jackson.
haywire07: Ojukwu's manhood lives on It would be the other way round. She would rather spend many nights, free of charge, with Jagaban so he could help her win a seat in her region.
Afterall, her people have never been good to her nor her late husband. Her people have always rejected the Ojukwus in every election
Your knowledge of history is nonexistent. Which makes one feel sad for you. Ndo.
Doesnt change the fact that, 1. They lied. 2. Are the Puppeteers of the WHO. 3. They blocked Taiwan from reporting that there was human to human transmission in November, 2019. 4. Have engaged in targetted misinformation campaign. 5. Intentionally allowed infected people to travel out of Wuhan after the Chinese New Year in January, 2020. 6. Gave out infected facemasks and ventilators to countries in Europe and South America. 7. Have refused calls for investigation into the source of the Wuhan virus. 8. Caused a number of researchers, doctors and journalists who reported the virus to disappear.
Believe China at your peril. Thankfully, most people know their gimmicks anyway.
Nigeria and Nigerians will understand the meaning of bad leadership very soon. This virus has spread beyond what the NCDC will tell you.
An educated leader would have swallowed his pride and done exactly what GEJ did when Ebola happened, shut the borders, test at source, track and trace effectively and quarantine super spreaders and everyone they came in contact with. But no. The "even if it is NEPA bill he presents as certificate" man allowed international flights to come in and people to travel back to their States, partied and attended functions. Is it Buhari that should be resting in his village that is intellectually equipped to fight a pandemic and deal with economic depression? I laugh. Coronavirus might be what would help reset the brains of the average Nigerian.
Just because Bill Gates saw the solution to the Covid-19 crisis, they're demonizing him. This is the difference between ordinary people and great people.
We should not, in whatever adulation we ascribe to Bill Gates, ever forget that Bill Gates is first and foremost a capitalist, a business man. He is not the Pope. Profits is what drives the actions or inactions of any business man, let alone an experienced businessman like Bill Gates. That you cannot see the business which he sees and chases, doesnt mean that it doesnt exist. It simply means you are NAIVE.
Kingsleyyx: I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.
I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.
The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.
Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.
After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.
This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.
Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.
Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.
You sent your wife to the point of depression. Why do men do these things? If you know you womanise a lot, why not stay out of marriage and freely womanise till you are tired at 80 years or so? May God have mercy on your soul.
Everyone with the smallest understanding of how infectious diseases spread know that it was due to the fact that the airports were not closed. And then quarantining was done, it was disrespected. A full-blown crisis was always going to happen. Thanks to APC, Tinubu, the South West, the North.
DonBenny77: Some people are gonna die, Lord have mercy
I am sure Nigerians would be sadly comfortable with the deaths being limited to the politicians who, instead of using public funds to build hospitals and invest in proper research in Nigerian institutions, carted such monies abroad.
Taye4j: Agitating for Biafra or regionalism doesn't necessarily need to be violent, volatile and condescending to other tribes who may not share your modus operandi of achieving such.
Yorubas have always agitated for Oduduwa republic or regionalism as Biafra, but Yorubas are known to do things with brain rather than muscle.
Shouting up and down doesn't change anything, it all boils down to careful and strategic planning.
The more the brain the lesser the muscle.
Amotekun reminds me of "shouting up and down". And I agree, it doesn't change anything.
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