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Farmdog1:
PARANOIA

Nopes.
Unless the African Americans want to deceive themselves, the numbers suggests that something sinister is going on. Or there is a special reason for the deaths. It is worth a panel, worth investigating.

ogbuefi677:
Pastor Enenche carry 2 billi go dash those crooks instead of buying medical equipments/consumables.
Soon,they'll appoint one ALHAJI somebody as chairman of the committee to start looting money donated by the church.

I wanted to blame him, but in hindsight I dont think he should be blamed.
It is the same so-called, foolish "Christians" who will abuse the church if he donated it to a Charity. They will simply say, "look at that Pastor, he donated items to a Charity in his name..." These "Christians" are already abusing the church here. Has any mosque donated?

He went for the safest option; The Government.

Tintinnoty:
Naira Marley has written letter of apology to Lagos state govnor.

https://mobile.twitter.com/followlasg/status/1248573171340652544

Straight out of the textbook of North Korea and Iran.

Apology to the Supreme Leader. The Emperor of Nigeria. What sort of nonsense is that?

OgaTheTop2:
Bruh, forget all that tests you wrote up there. They were married and lived in naija before relocating to US. While in naija, the wife was the type you call 'good wife'. Getting to US, she realized the laws protect women first, the law gives preference to women, government money was easy to come by, child support is a beau.....then she lost it. One quarrel to another unresolved quarrels. She started toying with the idea of divorce... Before you could shout 'caution' she divorced her husband and started living off child support, child benefits, tax returns... One thing she doesn't realize is that no matter the years she keeps the child away, the child will look for her father.

This is sad. The child will look for the father.

That is why I said, "reduce the risks".
The heart of man is desperately wicked. You can only minimise the possibility of that happen, hence I wrote those tests; you cannot conclusively tell how a human will behave because you are not God.

RuudVanNisteroy:
There is no guarantee that if she passes all those tests she won't change. One of my Dad's friends wife got a restraining order, when they got moved to Canada. They were married for more than 13 years, when they moved to Canada his wife changed.
He has a court order on the number of times he can see his children and needs permission from his wife before he visits.

Hence I said, "it reduces the risks", Bro.
You can only work on reducing the risk and not leaving yourself open. I know a friend whose supposedly good woman and wife changed after 8 years- a plan she had concoted with her mother. Threw the man out of the house (couldnt accuse him of cheating so framed an accusation of "I am fearful of my safety when in his presence" or something silly).
The dude cannot see his two children and when he does, she has made them never to call him "Daddy" but "Mr...". Austrialian laws made it easy for her.
You can only reduce the risk and, if you are a believer, trust God.

OgaTheTop2:
Same thing happened to my professor friend here in US. His wife is living off his child support and government benefits. Now, you see her posting pictures of herself and the child on FB. On those pictures, I look deep in her eyes and realized she's living a very lonely life. Not so many people could see this, but that woman is lonely! America can make or mar a marriage. Most times I wonder if it worth bringing a wife to US.. Many stories about naija women and their behaviors in marital homes can make you shudder.

When bringing a lady to the US or any Western country it is important she passes aALL these tests in order to reduce the risk of what your professor friend is going through.
1. Ensure she is a practicising Christian- born-again, Spirit-filled.
2. She MUST be naturally humble and a listener.
3. Check her family background. If there is a history or a story of divorce and seperation in her family or relatives, STAY AWAY.
4. Get to know her and become a friend with her.
5. If she is a feminist- and you can know from her social media engagements- STAY AWAY from her.
6. If she comes from a background which means she lacks exposure, the risk rises when she is overwhelmed with the kind of exposure and "power" the West gives females.

Essentially her character and background must be spot-on. It reduces the risk of the kind of stories we hear these days.

Drinksarena:
what abt UK?

Depends on where you are in the UK.
Socialising in London is fairly easy, for example, with your fellow Nigerians, in comparison to say, Huddersfield.
But the challenge is the same; people do not have your time and the Nigerian men (few of them are serious about marriage) are looking to date/ marry whites, British-blacks with papers. Nigerian females with or withour "papers" arent their first choice primarily because of character issues. They wil prefer to travel to Nigeria to marry a Nigerian lady in Nigeria.
Arrogance is a thing which not many men are ready to put up with.

Oharina:
Watch out how Fulani herdsmen will come for revenge, by killing every body close to that field very soon. Because they will assume the community planned for the poisoning of their brethren. So people living around there should better run for their dear lives for now. Because these men value a cow's life more than an hundred human lives, not to talk of 12 cows. Kai...!

LOL.
You know them well.

Yenefer:
The best governor in the history of governors

Based on what indices?

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
there's nothing here.

She just exposed herself , the guy in the other thread was not lying.

She's ugly.

She has a youtube channel (matchmaking purpose)

From her looks , i can tell you she's above 30.

She ought to be asking questions , learn one or two things from the comments in that thread.

But as usual she still has in her possession the NIGERIAN PRIDE.

she don turn am 2 male vs female ish.


make no mistake , for me marriage is overrated. will never sign up for that sh!t

Pride is what deals with many people.
Males and females. The NIGERIAN PRIDE is terrible thing, Bro. I know of someone who lost her nursing jobless in the US because of pride and the refusal to simply say, "I am sorry". Cost her her job and her nursing license was delisted and worse happened.
Saying, "i am sorry" early enough would have solved the issue. She refused.
Again, this happens to males and females.

For Nigerian females, theirs is just terrible. Sadly, it leads to delayed marriage. Or none at all.
If only they could just drop it, they won’t die by dropping the pride or praying it away.

princealexndre:
well I see why he said You people are lonely, Someone that is not lonely cannot type all this story

doggedfighter:
As if it is alive and well now

Ok.

Nigerianization:
They have started again. I thought they were on break..

They have never been on break.

The media have been carrying the news of the killings.

Gerrard59:
They are a lot on Twitter these days.

I actually empathise with them.

How can you go to a small very cold town in Saskatchewan because of the job and money, where you don’t have Nigerians and expect to see one magically to form a friendship with? You don’t see anyone or see few who are not willing to tolerate your arrogance and then become feminists and YouTube and Twitter Nigerian-men bashers. As if that’s a solution to your issues.

10BabyApple:
Wow this is commendable. It's good to see the church taking a lead in such way.

The reason the church has thrived so far is for its charity, which of course have been reduced in the time past.

Churches in the West that focused on charity are now converted Pub Houses, Gyms and Mosques.
Churches that focus on the message of salvation are all alive and thriving.

That is what makes the church thrive. The message of repentance and salvation. Charity is good but should never replace the message of the Good News— Salvation.

The day a Nigerian church starts focusing on charity, motivational speeches or any other thing instead of Salvation, it will begin it’s slow death.

Gerrard59:
Wait bros, are you saying black women aren't really that beautiful compared to other races? Even in the US?

Lol no one referred to black women as a general group.
Read the thread again Bros.

kalufelix:
Raw truth..very expository...in other words they compete in a tougher market and find it very difficult to change their standards...when i first travelled to Europe some years ago...the first orientation my brother gave me was to avoid getting entangled with a 9ja girl but their oyibo counterparts...The Benin girl housing his igbo bf where we stayed for some days was as arrogant as hell..

I had to be blunt Bro.
They will hate me for this but the honest ones will thank me.
It is a tougher market out there for them.

gargoylern:
Omo, see line! Na true you talk sha. The fine ones I met in the US, the ugly ones in Canada. How come? Maybe because Canada is easier to enter.

It is easier to enter, yup.

fairfora:
The situation doesn't only apply to black ladies mind you. White ladies too suffer same boredom...theirs is even worse and often leads to suicide...boredom among girls over there isn't race-related at all.

We are not white here. I am sure the whites are somewhere discussing their issues.

gargoylern:
Mehn bro, dem ugly sha.

Ugly with terrible characters.
Someone said they they send the fine ones to the US and the wor wor ones to Canada lol

kalufelix:
Not just Canada ..but diaspora at large...African girls can house and feed a man as long as he stays with her...oyibo prick no dey strong and African guys dey find foreign women...

It is the Diaspora at large but the case of Canada is particularly striking as the weather, distance between cities, etc make socialising very difficult.

We must say the truth as it is. Nigerian girls, who are not used to approaching a man, largely struggle in the area of a relationship if based in the Diaspora.
1. They are not used to approaching a male.
2. They are not the first of the pick when a responsible Nigerian man-and there are few of this category- is looking to marry. The Nigerian female in the diaspora competes with the white girls, black British/Canadian/American girls who are citizens, other black African girls who are argurably more submissive and, if they are from the Southern part of Africa, we know how their physical structure are . Also, the Nigerian guy would prefer to travel to Nigeria and find a bride based in Nigeria. We know this happens.
3. The Nigerian lady makes a lot of money and because of their hard work, do super well in their career. This is actually commendable. However for most humans, this sadly comes with arrogance, [add the inability to cook] near-zero respect, and too many illogical requirements in a man.
They become more sensible and rational when they are 32, 33 years old and it becomes more difficult at that age. Some are reading this and know this. I know some that actually moved back to Nigeria to try get married.
In the end, they struggle. Hence you see them on YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, you see them as feminists, etc. Loneliness and depression sets in and, because of pride and the fake strong personae they have built, they dont talk. They rather fight everyone that tries to help them.

I feel for them but they should know that there is always a way out to amend wrongs. First of all, kill pride. Kill it, it wont help you. When you come off as arrogant to a Nigerian man, African man, his spirit leaves the conversation. You can mock it, call him weak, call him "incapable of handling a strong woman", and all those temporary comforting nonsense but it is you that will end up lonely and seeking companionship from YouTube. The Nigerian man has a number of worries and challenges and isnt ready to add another trouble to himself. Next, study the place you want to relocate to. Most people just move without checking. Join and participate in a church, not necessarily student groups as this ends after 1-2 years. Learn how to cook ooo! Make sure you keep and maintain strong contacts in Nigeria. And if you need to take a career break to move to Nigeria to sort out relationship issues, do so. Dont let the presumably good life of the West fool you and make you hit mid-thirties while single.
Make a move. That is the point.

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

Finally, someone said it.

A305:
Her marriage will last because she just didn't jump into it when she was in her prime - She took her time.

Na.

Because she doesnt seem like a social media-domiciled Nigeria celebrity.

gentle136:
Some truths they inside weytin Burna Boy talk.


We Nigerians are our own plight.

Not some truths.
Everything he said is the truth.

Powerintoxicate:
The Lagos State Commissioner for Health, Prof. Akin Abayomi, announced this on his Twitter handle on Wednesday.

He tweeted:



https://mobile.twitter.com/ProfAkinAbayomi/status/1247818844812587008


Why didn't Buhari close the border early enough??

Because he is (1) Really not in charge of the country and (2) He is incompetent.
You lots believe in magic to demand something from someone without the capacity to deliver.

ursullalinda:
Really?......So what about Funke and her husband ?.....They should be asked to apologise and be forgiven since it's same offence.......or am I missing something here?

It tells you that Nigeria is a confused society.
I guess they withdrew it because of the owners of Nigeria in Katsina have said they will go on with their Friday Mosques gathering.

Let me come and see the cowards that will bash Pastors after their services this weekend.

Omooba77:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/04/07/breaking-boko-haram-terrorists-burn-houses-loot-shops-adamawa-village

Chad has pushed these terrorists back into Nigeria.
Expect a spike in attacks. Sadly.

Freddyjimoh:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/lagos-pegs-entry-age-into-jss1-at-12-years/

I wouldnt have gotten into JSS1 then
Some of us that started 100 Level at 15 years old due to "jumping" classes in primary school. JSS1 at 9/10 years old.
Lagos State, this is discriminatory

Xisnin:
Irresponsible statement.
You are not a doctor and should stay away from medical advice.
That is how Trump killed some Americans with his stupid chloroquine advice.

BTW, vitamin C can induce diarrhea, so get yourself some pampers before
following Dr. Makinde's advice.

He took fruits to boost his immunity. Which is normal.
And you are calling him irresponsible.
This hate will consume you. It will.

freesoul12:
Ask a girl her choice of marriage partner, watch her list out the features of a non living thing.

Many will tell you they need a rich, handsome, tall, out spoken,caring gentleman. And in other not to sound canal, they will now add God fearing.

Many ladies will not accept a poor guy for dating let alone for marriage.

But the case was different for this particular girl, that said yes to her boyfriend who is a bricklayer.

This pictures has raised numerous objection from people, some we're of the view that the guy is broke and can't take care of the guy.

Many were of the view that the girl might be the saviour the guy needs for financial breakthrough.

The main thing is having a man that has a future and is hardworking, he will definitely make it, just a little time and understanding from the partner.

This picture has proven that many are actually after love, not the money or material things.

I know some bricklayers and women who fry akara that earn more than many in white collar jobs.
And have houses which are being rented out.

vertueptime:
It will be stolen last last

The President in 2023, if he or she comes outside APC, will be saddled with dealing with a debt amount that, perhaps, no other African nation has ever seen in its existence.

Nemere2020:
Source: https://punchng.com/soyinkas-wisdom-cures-buharis-impotence/

Tunde Odesola

Soyinka, whom I admire, deserve all the bile he got from Mr Garba.
He supported this regime in 2015, what was he expecting?
Wisdom? What wisdom?