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BREAKING:

Anti Peter Obi protest hits Owerri, protesters are saying Obi is trying to force an unpopular candidate on LP in Imo state.

Obi says he wants to fight “godfatherism” but at the same time, he wants to be a godfather.

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

hazinibones:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have this decision bothering me. I know it is a personal problem, but I believe everyone need some guidance at every point in life.

Straight to it, I have been considering Japa for over two years now and I think the opportunity might be here but I am having a cold feet.

I recently started working for a foreign company as a software engineer and the pay is decent when converted to Naira. Enough to live an averagely comfortable life. But my challenge now is that, I have been talking to some friends that are outside the country and they keep telling me how life is not easy there and cost of living is super expensive out there.

I currently earn $3000, which I plan to either save and travel or startup a business here in Nigeria. Please, Nairalanders with experience, is it worth japa to live an almost average life for almost the rest of your life or investing here in Nigeria and growing wealth?

The healthcare and quality education benefit is there as an advantage for japa though.

Thanks in advance for your responses!

ijustdey:


https://leadership.ng/dss-complies-with-tinubus-order-vacates-lagos-office-shared-with-efcc/

LagosEmir:
It was a big privilege of meeting his Excellency, Mr Peter Obi in Lagos airport as I was waiting for my flight to Owerri airport.

The waiting hall was filled with joy and excitement as Mr Peter Obi walked into the waiting lounge carrying his bag himself ..
Almost everyone in the hall wanted to take pictures with Mr Peter Obi including some foreign nationals in the waiting hall.

Another interesting part of Obi presence was how the APC people that were going for Tinubu inauguration even tried to snap with Obi but shame no gree them. I overheard one of there leaders saying in Yoruba that[b] "Won like man Yi but asiko E otito".[/b]
This clearly shows that even the APC guys knew that Tinubu rigged his way to the presidency .

Mr Peter Obi was going to Asaba but his flight was delayed due to bad weather so we had enough time to interact with him .

See photos below 👇

NwekeUG:
I Picked An Igbo Christian To Be My CSO, There's No Islamization Agenda - Shettima



https://igberetvnews.com/1445816/picked-igbo-christian-cso-theres-islamization-agenda-shettima/

Seun Lalasticlala Mynd44

KiNg0G:
Will you blame me? Just this year alone I have slept with 28 girls all prostitute and I did it raw with some of them.

It started last 2week lymph node appeared at the back of my head. While streaming on TikTok they say it's the early signs of HIV. Since Thursday I have been feeling fiverish.. with muscle pain it keeps recurring. I got discharged on Saturday but ran back to the hospital this early morning because I couldn't sleep at night. The doctor was forced to do a general test on me, at first I wanted to insist because I know my yansh will open because have already concluded I'm HIV positive with all this symptoms but I had no choice.. I'm still here in the hospital fixed on drip and the test results just came in to my surprise the nurse said my sugar level is good and I'm HIV negative

This is the same status I have been avoiding
to check because I have made up my mind I'm infected.
I have been thinking how to go for HIV program and the antiviral drug

Flangelo12:


Tell us how you were deported

Flangelo12:


The man was deported.

That's the reason he can't go abroad anymore.

If he sure for am make e enter plane go UK tonight.

DaddyJapan:


That's because Sowore does not subscribe to the hagiography currently doing the rounds.
He knows Obi is as corrupt as all other leading candidates in the 2023 Presidential elections.

iwaeda:


https://leadership.ng/just-in-borno-assembly-member-elect-dies/

otuomasirichi:
Why killing your fellow woman over an ordinary boyfriend you can get another day.

Women of nowadays are becoming something else

IyaebeTheGreat:
Tell obi to stop jumping everywhere for coming third and claiming what does not belong to him. Nigerians made their choice and everyone is cool with that, why is obi trying to cause problems in Nigeria? Is he the first contestant to lose election? Has he forgotten he came third?

fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNNrvGuJ3Gw


"You negotiate for power, you don't fight for it. I think Peter Obi was in a rush. When the campaign started and our PDP Governors said, 'They must produce the president among them,' he got scared and left (PDP). I didn't get scared but stood up against the Governors."

justyhere:
I just discovered the shock of my life. My friend is about to get married in a month’s time to this wealthy fine man, she's a few weeks pregnant and looks pretty happy.

Last week, I was with her and her fiancee came around, it was all fun and we took several pictures and I needed to get them so the guy just handed me his phone to send the pictures to my phone.

They are a very clingy couple and they left to the bedroom to go do their thing, maybe to keep me company or maybe he forgot or for whatever reason, but he didn't get his phone. I was done with the transfer and was just going through his photos randomly, I saw a folder and there are pictures and videos of him doing sexual things with different female corpses. I was so terrified, I returned the phone to home Page, cleared the recently used apps and I left immediately, I have not been in contact with my friend for days now, she keeps calling, I can't bring myself to speak to her.

But I feel guilty and angry, angry that he would do such and even record them and keep them, guilty that I am letting my best friend into a trap of a marriage.

What do I do in this case? I'm so confused and worried.

dele1727:




Imagine saying prepare for war....

This obi people will later say that its others that are instigating crisis....

Bede2u:
Will yorubas vote Tinubu if he was an Igbo man?

ElSudani:


I read the laughable poll on which Bloomberg based their headline. Less than 2000 people were polled and it was done online! Seriously, in Nigeria?

175:


Why do you urchins always think Peter Obi is an Ibo project sef 🤷

Why?

Abi na delusions to keep the tears dry? 🤣🤣🤣

Well continue. I hope you know that the people of;

Benue
Plateau
Taraba
Delta
Lagos
Akwaibom
Crossriver
Rivers
FCT
Osun
Kaduna (south to be precise)
And the rest that I can remember now are all Igbo people abi?

Dey play you hear!!!! 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

ElSudani:


They are victims of misinformation.

2mercy:


https://dailypost.ng/2023/01/16/peter-obi-dragged-to-federal-high-court-over-alleged-dual-citizenship-faces-disqualification/

Lade18:



I'm sorry to comments at this time. But my older cousin in Canada followed a route like this. Took a career break, came to Nigeria, find a man and got married. Now she's happy and told me she's doing finer than before

God1000:
This will certainly make or mar them.

To every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction.

Makinde of Oyo might be the biggest loser.

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

Jeweltz:
Is any of you looking for a wife? I'm � beautiful, educated, respectful, submissive, Godly, know how to cook.

Only a guy living in Canada please, and must not be on student visa.
Men in Nigeria are Heartbreakers and liars

arewaboy01:
Every right thinking Nigerian knows it’s a two horse race btw BAT and Atiku, while the remaining…those Obidients miscreants are living in total Oblivion…

Shalommy:
Chaii... Guyman sorry! I believe she gave him redflag but he ignored. Now she don dish am breakfast

Loveurneighbour:

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/11/peter-obi-cant-election-obidients-euphoria-already-dying-dino-melaye/

favouritecandy:
More facts from Reno Omokri. Obi is way behind

Pandev:
Him Tu Lie

lhordspy:
Shot fired.

PFN and CAN will definitely re-align and stop their religolious sentiment. It is against the preaching of God.

Seems god himself have started tormenting them in their dreams for encouraging religious sentimentalism and mixing it with politics.


And morever why everytime we say 'vote competence not religion' . . Zombidients will start crying and wailing. ?

Does that means pandora is just an empty headed Nyam!r! devoid of any trait and xtics of competence ?


Gently reminder: You are not only fighting and antagonising only TINUBU. But you are going against three things namely:

TINUBU vast political influence.
APC vast country well-spread STRUCTURE
AND THE wish of GOD itself.



"Que sera sera" my friends...... What must be, must be

No goddamn miscreants lies, propagandas, 100 million march , insults ,abuse can change that.
Impending defeat will surely visit pandorans... Surely surely! Hard with a little garnish of brutal and painment .