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Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

sagaf4:
Them go bill am taya

Dazall:
We had this argument on a WhatsApp group, some insisted that the kind of girl you move out with either make or break you.

What caught my attention was a guy, who said since he broke up with his ex, his business has not been going well under the current girlfriend.

Then I asked him why did he break up if he knew the girl actually brought good luck.

Then he said,he found out the girl is a lesbian and also bisexual.

Please is that enough reason to break up?

Is it true girls can bring good or badluck?

9jahotblog:
Fayose withdraws his membership of PDP Zoning Committee over presidential ambition.check the letter he released online below:

immortalcrown:
But at least, the army does not make unarmed northerners scapegoats when the bandits kill a soldier. And the same army makes unarmed Easterners scapegoats when armed people kill a soldier.

immortalcrown:
Who say naija no go divide?

When armed people kill unarmed people in the North, army goes to protect the unarmed ones. And if the killers kill soldiers, the soldiers will still try to protect the unarmed people.

But in the East, the case is different. When armed people kill unarmed ones, the soldiers kill more unarmed people without making any progress against the armed people. And if the armed people kill soldiers, the soldiers make unarmed people scapegoats.

PrinceOfLagos:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/04/05/terrorists-invasion-buhari-told-to-remove-el-rufai-install-emergency-rule-in-kaduna/

dastancypayne:
Controversial singer Simi was brought to nothing by thousands of fans at she posted on Twitter page asking fans if they were been divided.

It didn’t stop there. They also called out her Husband Adekunle Gold (AG Baby) for marrying a mess. Calling him names like Fatai etc.



https://mobile.twitter.com/SympLySimi/status/1510746605955264516

See some photos

Yhungsarm:
This incident happened last week Thursday. Am a 300L student of Unijos and the girl happens to be my coursemate.

Normally, me and these girl no dey the same level, she can't even talk to me in school but ASUU break happened and i didn't want to go back to Lagos so i stayed back in Jos.

One day i was chatting with her friend who happens to know her and he told me she is still in Jos, so i chatted her up since i was bored and i didn't lie to her, i told her i was bored and i needed someone to talk to for the main time. she accepted quickly and even told me why i didn't chat her up sooner than this. she promised to come to my place and on Thursday she finally came through.

This is the most astonishing part, she knew i had sex with her best friend so she asked me about it and i did not lie about it cus i know she knew and we talked about some nasty stuff related to sex. i was seated on a mini-cushion chair and she sat on my laps literally dropping her boobs in the middle of my face.

As a guy i thought that was the signal, so i carried her straight to the bed and i wanted to gain access and she denied it so i just stood up and left. After a short while she came back again now saying if she handles me and all those stuff, i tried again and she denied i was angry and i wanted to tell her to start gping but i calmed down. she started seducing me badly and i was confused so this time i dropped and dragged her jean with her, we started dragging but she was just saying am trying to rape her and it is unfair, if it is what i do to girls all d time.

i was fingering her at the time but i did not penetrate and i felt it was tense and if i penetrated then what she is saying is true so i stopped and controlled my urge.

She zipped up and started crying, I was like but i didn't do anything and she was like i did everything i want to do with her and it is fault bcus she came to my house.

After a shortwhile, she stopped crying and asked me if it was sex i want or friends with benefit...i was very confused at that point like wetin bring all does one enter so i didn't reply then she said she knows am a rapist and i just want to sex and all dat shit.

i kept my cool after some time she started saying am not normal at all and she jst can't believe what happened, she also said she will tell me something when we she is out of my house.

So i paid her Tp and she went home, i did not chat her up at all. fastforward to Saturday i saw her message saying her forcefully had my ways wit her and jst ignored her so she will deal with me and i will pay for it.

i won't lie to you am very scared, i don't even know what she wants, i started asking her what she wants from me exactly but she is not replying at all. I seriously don't know what to do am very confuse, I don't even understand why i fell for this plot of hers.
What do you think i shud do

Note: I did not have sex with her at all and i never wanted it, she was jst all over me and doing all those stuff. Sex isn't my problem on a normal day bcus am a handsome guy and i get it most time.

foryourmindlol:
It s better they fought it and found the head. No lasting peace without war.

Putin and Russia have been dymystified

cutecommend:
Tinubu is one of the strong persons with presidential ambition, but we have some men who can stop his goal from fulfilment, no matter the tactics he uses, except God is really for him.

(1) Buhari: If Buhari does not want Tinubu as president, he should just forget the presidency. It will be very difficult for Tinubu, but if Buhari is on Tinubu's side, then Tinubu has chances.

(2) Babangida: If Babangida speaks to the northern elders and powerful northerners not to allow Tinubu in, Tinubu will find it hard to be a president.

(3) Obasanjo: If Obasanjo is against Tinubu, that may hamper his plan.

(4) Goodluck Jonathan: If Goodluck decides to contest, he has potency to beat Tinubu. Jonathan has advantages. (1) He has only one term to fulfill, which may be a good thing for the north (2) He has been friendly to Buhari.

(5) Mamman Daura: This is Buhari's relative. If this man is strongly against Tinubu, it may be a very tough one for Tinubu.

(6) Cabals: The northern Cabals. If these people are totally against Tinubu, Tinubu may never win presidency.

Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

klassyguy:
I have two lovely kids with my wife - a girl and a boy. My son is six years old while his sister is eight. Both were born here in the US. I’ve done what I feel is right as a father to train these kids, but I know not everything can be done accordingly.

My son is restless. He has the attention span of three seconds before he gets distracted by something else. My mum tells says he is a copy of me when I was his age, but that was in the eighties and the way children were handled back then is totally different from today. He hardly wants to do anything in terms of school work and almost every day I get complaints from his teacher that he does not do his work or he is disruptive in class. When other students are doing their work, my son will be the one falling off his chair or hiding under his desk. His teacher told me he acts out when being corrected. Only yesterday my wife told me the teacher met her when she went to pick them up in school and told her that my son started yelling when the lights in the class started flickering. His behavior got so bad, they had to call the school security officer before he calmed down.

This behavior is really bothering me. I know my son is smart. His pre-school teacher once told me he was the smartest student she had. My son can do complex mathematical equations off the top of his head that even his older sister struggles to do. He has a very good memory and can list off all the types of trains that exist in the US, things that even I don’t know. It’s sitting down to be serious about work that he can’t do and can’t seem to focus on.

I enrolled him in a soccer club to see if that would help him expel his excess energy. At first he seemed to be lazy as he gets frustrated easily, and rather try harder, my son would rather give up and cry. I mostly have to encourage him to put in more effort, and most of the time he does not pay attention to what the coach says. The coach told me a couple of days ago that he wants to move him to a lower group level to see if he can build his confidence there.

I want to believe it’s his being the last born for now that’s worrying him. He seemed to start being a bit more mature when my wife got pregnant last year and he learnt they had a younger sibling on the way, but unfortunately, she miscarried and we lost the baby. I’ve been thinking for a while now whether to move back to Nigeria with everyone so that we can build some sense into both of them (my daughter’s story is another one). I’ve thought of taking them both for an ADHD test, but my wife is against that. The only time my son pays attention is when he’s doing something he likes, and that is when he’s playing the PS5 I got them or watching videos on YouTube Kids.

Any advice would be welcome from parents out there.

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

CyynthiaKiss:
http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2022/03/pick-redeemer-candidate-kiss-aso-rock.html?m=1

PrinceOfLagos:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/03/17/2023-presidency-stop-planting-seed-of-discord-among-ndigbo-yorubas-ohanaeze-youths-to-tinubu/

ogododo:
https://punchng.com/fuel-scarcity-northern-group-wants-nnpc-nmdpra-bosses-sacked/

oilykid:
You look ugly, no offense

sapientia:
This is good news

Though I doubt if Putin will stop now

Even if all the sanctions are lifted today, Russia is doomed economically

Foreign direct invest will be almost non-existent because investor confidence have been killed

After this war, there will only be 3 winners

1. USA

2. China

3. Ukraine

Putin just traded the future of Russia for a morsel of Akpu and onugbu

Hermzou:
https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2022/3/12/saudi-arabia-executes-81-people-in-a-single-day

Tingotoe:
This man is talking out of place. As a former DG of an international affairs research institute he should know better than anyone else that Nigeria is a signatory to the nuclear non proliferation treaty and so cannot seek nuclear weapons. Besides with our poor maintenance culture in this country a nuclear radioactive fallout will be a catastrophic disaster

Praxtech:
Pen for hire.

foryourmindlol:
UK is mostly buying from them. And it's just oil. Russia produces nothing apart from crude oil and AK-47.

Simply, UK will take their business elsewhere although prices will increase because demand is suppasing supply.

robosky02:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/03/10/nigeria-vs-ghana-im-sad-nigerians-have-turned-super-eagles-to-tribal-war-umar-sadiq/

foryourmindlol:
Imagine the woman selling okpa in your street banning you from coming to her shop. Meanwhile there are 18 other okpa shops in the same street you patronize before coming to hers.

fortunez1:
Please which country in Europe or Asia can I go for my masters with a budget of #3.5m.

eedhrisademola:
1-Digestive biscuit

2-Speedy

3-Pako biscuit

Mine na digestive.

Free to add yours....

Nwodosis:
In Tinubu's voice, Umahi is good but not a good party man.
Umahi is now faced with trading off his presidential ambition or vacating his governorship seat. What Supreme Court can not overturn does not exist.

Parachoko:
https://thenationonlineng.net/air-peace-azman-arik-three-others-form-alliance/

Hugged:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2022/03/09/epl-arsenal-could-miss-out-on-champions-league-even-if-they-finish-in-top-four/

Sophiebabe85:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LlZ1PHHMSQ

Davido's sister Sharon organized a strong prayer session for Davido and his crew before his 02 show

https://instagram.com/stories/lifeofrona01/2787554501032441261?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&utm_medium=share_sheet