₦airaland Forum

Omooba77:
https://punchng.com/bandits-took-over-sokoto-communities-appointed-judges-senator/

France is doing a great job in ensuring that the bigger neighbour, Nigeria, is weakened from the inside, thereby stifling Nigeria's threat to its francophone neighbours.
The weapons the bandits use are French owned. Why hasnt this incompetent regime in Nigeria pursued that end still surprises me.

ellapius:
go to court I don't do long talking m not a lawyer darling

LOL.
I have said what I have said.
You have read it.
That is all, darling.

ellapius:
don't do much talking

I expected that
Accountability is quite hard for humans, generally.
It has always been much easier to blame others than own ones mistake.

Johntemmy:
As stated on the topic.. Can you do it?

Never, never you try it.
Premium tears.

ellapius:
mistake can be induced by false information.

This is NOT a mistake, at least the reason that was mentioned, which was linked to sex.
Which means, she had experienced it and made the marriage decision based on sex. Of course, she will go into regrets when she finds out that marriage isnt sex; but more than sex.
So sorry, it is not a mistake.

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

This isn’t a “mistake”.
A mistake is something unintentionally done.
This one is INTENTIONAL.

AlhajaChinyere:
Anuofia, get lost!

lol
E pain am
Truth hurts brah. No be me talk am first

TMKsouth:
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She's not devastated that she is a practising racist but that someone dug up her old tweets of her being a racist.
I trust my SA people. They were having none of that nonsense.
Amandla!

brojoes5030:
A Nigerian man who schooled in the United States is currently in a celebratory mood as he recently bagged a medical degree.

The achievement is quite special because he applied a record number of eight times to get into school.

The man identified as Oduyale, appreciated his mom for believing in him and is looking forward to the next great chapter in his life.

Sharing the good news with photos of himself in a graduation gown, he wrote;



https://mobile.twitter.com/Seye_Oduyale/status/1263225539390832641

Burna Boy's brother?

AlhajaChinyere:
Idiot, don't mess up the thread with your half baked political and economic knowledge. Aniofia!

Only idiots know who idiots are.
I’m sure you agree with this basic truth.

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

Marriage is dependent on many variables. One key variable is the economy of the country.
In a growing economy, there would be marriages.
In a recessional economy, there would be less marriages. It is that simple.

When Nigerians were campaigning and chanting "Change" in 2015, I was laughing in my corner. Obviously, the fact that Buhari was a kingpin in bringing in recession and economic downturn was not new; this is clear in Nigeria's past history. However, it appeared that Nigerians didnt realise enough what the consequence of economic disaster would be.
You think there would be Owambes as you had it prior to 2015?

We shouldnt just blame the men. The blame should lie at the feet of those who brought in this regime on Nigerians.

JasonScoolari:
Whether he wears the mask on his forehead, that shouldn't be our concern.

He is the President of Canada and of Nigeria.
If you know, you know

BlackSpanner:
This guys have a hidden agenda. I am of the view that all south south and south east Governors should come together to tackle this ticking time bomb.
Let's learn to be proactive and not reactive.


I watched a video on Channels TV some days back when the Army intercepted 35 buses conveying 400 of such people. And looking closely, those guys are not those street begging kids. They are matured guys.

I think the northerners are cooking something and have a sinister plan.

Of course they have a hidden agenda.
Th Northerners have always been light aheads in thinking strategically with regards to politics and colony subjugation.

ademidedavid:
It's no longer a story that pastors divorce their partners, imams divorce their partners, highly educated people do same and even the so called marriage counsellors are not left out in the order of the day and it has always been a thing of worry for me with the thought that they never loved each other before marriage but getting married has changed my thinking and has made me realised that marriage only takes the grace of God to work out.

I have been married for 3 years with 1 beautiful daughter with a loving wife (maybe before and some years into the marriage). I have always believed that I cannever raise my hand on my woman since my father never did such but I find it hard to believe I did the unimaginable today although It wasn't intentional.

It was due to annoyance after she asked me to stop sitting at home and go work for more money like other men even though I am a federal worker with above 100k monthly income and still do personal work as a civil engineer apart from the federal job despite the lockdown.....

It really got me aggravated because I have been the one fending for the family and the kid for the past 3 years and never asked for a kobo from her.....

Although I have noticed the urge for very flamboyant life style in her lately and has even asked me to get more money at any means, that money is everything in this life even though I have tried telling her its a gradual process, she still doesn't listen and even asked me to raise money for her to travel out of Nigeria.

I have never thought of raising my hands on any woman let alone my wife.....

Please how do I change her sudden mentality towards this sudden extravagant life style because I pray it doesn't lead to something else since I can't do illegal things to acquire the type of wealth she dreams of?

She's possibly changed her friendship clique and has started listening to someone/ group of persons.
You need to speak to her gently and inform her about the consequences of her decision.

Chuky7:
I really don't know about the generalization that ladies who go for NYSC are cheaters. But I do know things go down. I think serving is just an opportunity to let off steam especially with certain factor like moving to another state. You will likely come across various people. They are cases where even your oga at your PPA will be shooting shot and you may be in a relationship but temptation sets in.

Some cases can also be like where you are the one doing the chasing... I have seen cases where you are posted to a school only to start going after your female student as a guy.

My own experience goes like this... During my time I served somewhere up North. Well to keep it short I knacked a lot at lodge that year... Girls in neighboring communities O, other corp members, there was also a time I had a short fling with the lady daughter that cooked for some of us at our PPA.

Well like I said things dey happen, it's not necessary a one way thing.. What were your own experience like?

Went to NYSC with the aim of working in my field, of landing a job before I finished and having a clear plan to go for MSc and PhD in the States.
And of course to make money as the business-minded man that I am. And knowing God by following Him and not leading people. Having being a Campus Fellowship Pastor/President for many [tough lol] years, I wanted to understand what it is being led. So I ran from NCCF direct leadership.
God looked upon me and showed me mercy and exceeded all those plans I had.
I had and still have zero plans is sleeping with someone I am not married to.

rosy1992:
Don't do any thing immoral with her.

You are probably too late with this...

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

You used your sexual prowess to win your wife. That was short-sighted.
She thought sex was everything and left a struggling but purpose-driven man for you. That was short-sighted.
You both deserve yourself.
Lessons to guys here: Never poach a lady who is dating another guy, unless she willingly leaves the guy for you. Ladies have sharp-mouth. One day, she will release that mouth on you.

Chief, you are married to her. Do not lay your hands on her. She will run to that guy and, if he still loves her, you will loose your wife.
Work together and find a way to grow/increase your income. Someone has to eat the humble pie here and it looks like this will be you.

Donkalio:
If they declared state of Emmergency in Rivers state, is even better, because Gov. Wike excessess is too much.

With the insecurity in Katsina and Kaduna, it will be a joke if SoE is declared in Rivers State.
Isnt the life of the ordinary Northerners been killed and raped daily by herdsmen terrorists, "life" enough for state of emergency to be declared? Which Southern State is experiencing such insecurity as these States in the North? You guys just hate Northerners.

Donkalio:
Propaganda

Till it happens.
With a Supreme Court that can declare the 4th in a Governorship contest as the winner (that Imo charade is still a joke) in charge of Nigeria, it is only common sense that every right-thinking person should be wary.
APC has shown that it can do and undo and do.
Rivers State indigenes should be smart about this.

Millenniumlady:
Nigerian men think dating white women is an accomplishment.......Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeew




Modify

It will end in tears premium one for that matter.

Sometimes in ends in tears, other times it doesnt.
But what you say is largely through. A large percentage of black men think dating (or rather, sleeping with a white woman) is an accomplishment.
Mental slavery. That is what it is.

Iyiataata92:
Another Northerner To The Post.
Maybe the Igbos shouldn't complain; they gave Buhari only 5% of his votes.
But what of the Yorubas that joined hands with the North to contribute the remaining 97%? What is their fate?
Buhari played a very fast one on the with Ibrahim Gambari. They can't tell if Gambari is for them or for the Fulanis or for Ilorin.
Their most potent force in the runnung, the VP is now more or less incapacitated.
It's quite unfortunate that the Yorubas have refused to learn over the years. From Awolowo to Abiola to Bakare to Osinbajo.
And I will bet my nokia torch that they won't learn with this Buhari scenario.

May God Help Them

You want to loose that your Nokia Torch, abi?

Kwanza:
Boko Haram Terrorists Burn Hospital And District Head’s Palace In Dapchi During Attack On Community



http://saharareporters.com/2020/05/19/boko-haram-terrorists-burn-hospital-and-district-head%E2%80%99s-palace-dapchi-during-attack

Sometimes, after reading this, one wants to respond you know to pratically do something. Like calling out the Yobe State Governor who is practically living in Abuja and conducting State affairs, if he does so, from Abuja. Like calling out the Buhari/Osibanjo regime who promised to lead from the front. Like calling out the hypocrisy of Northern politicians and civilian influencers who are looking the other way while their people burn. Like trying to help these ones with some Like calling out the Nigerian Army- a story for another day.

But when I remember that these Northerners and their SouthWest friends will demonise any criticism on these horrendous events as, "Biafra", etc, I just keep quiet and mind my business. When I remember that, during elections, these ones will vote for an incompetent person on tribe and religious affliation over a competent man from the South, I mind my business.

LieDetector:
America withdrew their $430m fund from the WHO. China pledged $2b to the WHO.

Something's cooking

Which $2bn did China pledge?

China currently gives the WHO $8m per year.
An amount which they still owe.

$2bn kee you there

goodman41:
I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.

One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.

I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.

When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex.

After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.

After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.

I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.

Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.

Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?

You are clearly using her sir.
Not the other way round.
If you are serious with her, let her know. And show it. Girls are moved by actions and not necessarily words.

Otherwise, you are using her. And if she uses you, she's done nothing wrong.

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

She's got real anger issues. Reminds me of the Hollywood movies where the girlfriend, picks up a gun and blows up the guy's head.
Then starts crying when the cops arrive. Tears dont bring back a dead body.

Well-done on your decision to marry someone with obvious, help-requiring, prayer-requiring anger issues. You are a modern-day mumu boy Super Hero.
Let us know how it goes when you guys are married.

Choosing a girl you are not married to over your mother. What has become of men in today's world?

Ctorch:
https://punchng.com/jonathan-disowns-online-comments-on-biafra/

APC and their Propagandist.
To be fair APC's propaganda arm have done an excellent job so far. Tolu, Lai Mohammed and all their assets in the media deserve an award.

Mavrick2012:
Sorry sir,i sincerely don't understand the crime in trying to learn what i don't know

Requesting an answer from a sample of possibly hundreds of responses from strangers is obviously impractical. Will ypu choose based on the niceness of the names?
It is only logical to suggest that you have an idea of your answer and simply, at the very least, want it to be validated by someone.
You should go with your intention. As you already know it.

Mavrick2012:
A friend just showed this scripture to me:

"Give a tenth of your products, to the levite, strangers, fatherless and widows, so they will have what to eat while in your land".

Can i begin to give a portion of my tithe to my widowed sister?

Do what you want to do. I am sure you are matured enough- over 18.
No one asides YOURSELF will enjoy the blessings or the adverse consequences of your decision, so why should you bother people here?

HeadNigga:
UNICEF is on point. Copying other countries without considering our peculiarities is not a wise decision

A very foolish decision.
True.
Copying and pasting “solutions” from Western nations that have the logistics, infrastructure and economy to manage a draconian lockdown is just foolish.

Bjteensdes24:
Hello, please this baffles me as I wonder why most people greet one another 'good evening' when it is dusk (5pm or 6pm) and also when the night finally comes(7pm).

Anybody to explain that better is there any correlation between those two words? If yes, why? Cos dusk is still a bit of day

I send emails at 11.30pm and start with "Good evening".
It is a psychological ploy to make people at least read some parts of the email.
It works.