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ifyalways:Same here. I was at the Apple store, in the mall and they were playing Mr. Eazi over the speakers. The other day too, it was Wizkid at the NYX store ![]() |
Hotstepper:I swear! It was so annoying the things Nigerians did to birth in the US. And if you say something, they’ll say you’re hating. A lot of the stunts people pull in the US and Canada, if people from other countries did it in Nigeria, WWIII will start. Just because these countries allow you to birth freely and get citizenship doesn’t excuse some of the behaviors a lot of us exhibit. And like I always say, a visa is a privilege not a right. Thanks for all you do on this thread though, you’re an MVP! Lord knows it takes a lot of selflessness, patience and dedication |
Lolade30:They move you to the hospital and you end up being treated as an emergency case. The cost you’re trying to cut will now become double if not triple. Not worth it, IMO Why travel thousands of miles just to go and receive services from a midwife? This thread will soon turn into the US thread, pretty soon |
Jenncamp:Yinmu. Keep deceiving yourself and looking for unnecessary excuses. |
Jenncamp:Yes! She’s right! Stop spewing lies. I work for a health insurance company and no, self paid patients are not better off for the hospitals. I’ve said it before, the delay in payment for hospitals when they see patients with insurance is because most of these hospitals do not submit claims on time. They usually just collate the claims for like a month or two and send it in bulk. Where I work, most of these claims are not even touched by a claims examiner. It goes through an automated system and payout is almost instant. It’s the really complicated ones that get rejected by the auto system and has to be examined by a claims examiner. . |
Jenncamp:Miss Dubious Who said it’s a trick anyway? How can someone claim to pay $2500 as hospital fees as an international self pay patient and you as a VO who is American know that even people with insurance pay as much as that? I applaud people who go the extra length to find these discounts, but at the same time, some hospitals are just shady and pass the rest of the payment onto the government. A visa is a privilege, not a right. They can decide what to do and what not to do with it. You’re not entitled to it. And in case you don’t know sef. American passport holders also find it difficult to get a Nigerian visa. |
abiscomama:A lot of us who live in the US have the faintest inkling what goes on in the US embassy in Nigeria and what tricks they’ve been pulling on people to deny them visa. Someone told me you can come here and have your baby without paying and she said “I know so so and so person who did it without wahala”. Is that kind of host informed? Personally, I don’t see why I will remain in the US for 6 months. Doing what exactly? What if God forbid, complications arise and you overstay your visa stamp? Anywho, seems you’ve already made up your mind. I can only wish you good luck. |
Jenncamp:You are part of the people causing issues for innocent people who genuinely wanna get their visas and mind their genuine business. How would you advise her to stay in the US for 6 months after she declared she was gonna stay for two weeks? Isn’t that dubious? FYI: whatever you say at the POE is documented. Staying for 6months is the same as lying and I doubt if the VOs will look kindly at her during renewal. What do I know sef? |
Reine22:But he didn’t put it that way. We all know it’s “Support a cause”. And in this case, Professor ITK was wrong. |
Beautyaddy:Even tickets from the west coast isn’t that expensive, if you buy it on time. |
shawlar:I work for an health insurance company (although not in the claims department) but how fast they pay providers depends on different criterias like how the claim got submitted, what kind of service was rendered, the facility the service was rendered at, how the claim was submitted (paper or electronically) and how fast the providers submit the claims Oftentimes the payments are within a day or two and most times the delays in payment are because the providers didn’t submit the payment until after a week or two or even a month after the service has been rendered. We can’t pay for a service we never got a claim for neither can we pay until we get the claim from the provider. |
Vlesparza:I wasn’t an international patient.... I live in the United States and no, I wasn’t reimbursed by the insurance, what I paid was my deductible and coninsurance which is $500 + 10% of all fees. Most people don’t even have insurances that cover 100% except they are on Medi-Cal or work for the government (in this case their monthly insurance premiums are significantly higher than people with private or workplace insurance) |
veleta:It depends on how much you paid or didn’t pay. While I absolutely hate what the VOs are doing (I they’re just looking for any excuse to deny people) some people’s bills on here is also really low. I’ve seen people saying they paid $2,000 - $3,500 for hospital bills and between $1,500 to $2,500 for doctor’s bills and I’m left wondering how No be this same America we dey born so?I had a baby in 2016, and I had/have what is considered very very good insurance (Anthem BCBS). My deductible was $500 and I had to pay that before insurance will even pay anything. My insurance covered 90% of my services and I paid the remaining 10%. I ended up paying around $2300 thereabouts out of pocket (OB, Anesthesia, Hospital and my $500 deductible) and that is excluding pediatrician. If I can pay that much out of pocket as my co-pay and deductible, guess how much my insurance paid? So no, insurance companies don’t pay that little. |
Ruthina000:This is bad advise. If you’ve been on this thread for long, you’ll know that people have been denied visas or renewal based on the use or potential use of birthing centers. If I remember correctly, one person was asked why she wanted to travel thousands of miles, just to go and use a birthing center? And if things go south (which it oftentimes does)you’ll end up at the hospital you were avoiding anyways, with higher bills cos of complications. So what’s the point? |
omotfavy:This might be an unpopular opinion, but I’m not comfortable with the extension of visa thing. Is your sister sick or incapacitated? Why does your mom has to stay with her for a whole year? To help her take care of her newborn? I think the extension of stay thing might cost your mom her visa during renewal. Except your sister has a life threatening illness that makes her incapable of taking care of her child, her husband’s deployment is not enough reason for an extension of your mom’s visa. That’s just my opinion thought, and I might be wrong. Just putting this out there. |
Fyorgyn:Thanks a lot Fyorgyn. Appreciate the response. |
drakeli:It’s not a rule or law yet. The wording says “Might deny visas, green cards or citizenship”. Keyword, might. And no, I’m in support of gaming the system and getting those benefits, just letting you know this is not a law in place yet. |
Brandagencies:Lmao. And who told you it’s not my country too? Or that I need a visa to get in the country? I was talking on behalf of the people who had been sent back unjustly and what can and cannot happen. Calm down and read what we were talking about. |
ifyalways:Thanks a lot! This was exactly what I needed to hear. Appreciate it. |
seyewest:Never mind. You seem not to be getting my point. An infant needs a passport or visa to get into it exit the country irrespective of their parents nationality. Or is an infant not a person? We already applied, I’ll give an update with the response that we get. |
seyewest:You sure about that? People who come here to birth here use it to take the kids back to Nigeria. I just haven’t seen an adult use it before. That’s why I put it here. The website says you can use it if you’re unable to get a visa. We will see Sha. We already put in the request.
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Abeg, I’ve asked this question on the give birth thread since they’re the ones who do this most. But I figured out, why not here as well? Anybody ever used the visa on arrival option to Nigeria for an adult before? Nigerian passport is expired and to go to DC or NYC for a new one is a hassle. To get a Nigerian visa here is also proving to be an headache and I thought “why not, visa on arrival?” I’ve seen it used for babies born here but can an adult use it too? Travel date is mid-December. Thanks. |
Hey everybody, quick question. Are adults eligible to use the visa on arrival option for a Nigerian visa? And after sending the email and all the works, how long does it take to get a response? I think I read it somewhere here that they give a response of “Received” after you send the email. Lastly, do we have to make the payment before getting the approval or after approval? Thanks a lot. |
Sparkle1515:Yes. Illegal immigrants, overstayers, even people who come on a visa, birth and leave without payment. It’s a lot of people like I said. I know a couple of Nigerians who had their babies here and didn’t pay. I’ve not seen them back since they had their babies so maybe they were denied renewal. But truth it, tons and tons do not pay. Especially Mexicans. I know a couple of doctors here in California that work in cities close to the CA-MEX border and they tell us stories. What I’m thinking is he might put a clause on this thing. Like having some kind of residency requirement or citizenship requirements on the parents before the kids can acquire citizenship. I hate what he’s doing, but this guy is as narcissistic as they come. We thought the travel ban was all bark and no bite. Nobody thought the travel ban will stand, but look at where we are now. And with the upcoming midterm elections, he will do anything to appeal to his crazy fan-base. And Congress is conservative leaning right now, those old geezers will do anything to keep their seats. Not that this affects me or my kids in anyway but it’s just not right. |
Sparkle1515:Billions? Not quite. Tons of people actually don’t pay. And if they stop birth tourism, the economy isn’t gonna crash. Trust me. Insurance premium might go up though. Keyword—Might |
Beautyaddy:What I meant was that, if there is no legal justification or constitutional backing as to why a CBP officer sends a woman back to her country and does so simply out of spite because she’s come to give birth, some people might/can sue and could possibly win. People sue the government here and win. You know that. Nothing is impossible in the court of law. And you I believe the CBP officers are also bound by law to be fair and just in what they do. |
Beautyaddy:Yea. I guess it came by due to the fact that there was no clause in the constitution banning or stopping north tourism. So, no law to stand on if you’re denying entry to a person seeking to birth for citizenship. People can/will sue and can/will win. This citizenship issue has been a touchy issue for several years. It’s been a subject of contention for so long. And remember, some Democrats can have some conservative views and lean conservative on some issues. Heck, even a lot of Nigerians here are in support. I guess it’s because of the sharp rise in birth tourism these past few years. Remember, the travel ban is still in effect, albeit revised but still effective. |
Beautyaddy:Not on these issues. A lot of American are against birthright citizenship. Even democrats. I’m thinking he might end birth tourism or stifle it at best. Maybe put a clause that one of the parents has to be a US citizen or maybe some residency requirements before citizenship can be established. This ogbeni is crazy as they come. Smh. |
Obernix:Like someone said earlier. You can NOT appeal a US visa application. You can only reapply. And pay a new fee. |
abnot:Lmao. You just keep dancing around the point. Fact is, everybody qualifies based on their own personal merit. The question I asked you is if you being on an F visa at one time or the others affected your relatives chances of a visa. Where did I mention anybody relying on their relatives F or H visa to secure a visa? I only corrected your notion of whether or not an F visa and subsequent AOS affects their relatives chances of a visa, because they switched from a non-immigrant visa to an immigrant visa —which you mentioned in the first post I quoted. My relatives got visas based on their own individual ties, but me having being on an F visa at one point and being a subsequent immigrant never hindered my relatives’ chances at a visa. Likewise people that I know that followed the same route. That’s what I am trying to tell you. |
abnot:Yes, I like to write. Cos I hate when people peddle untruths or half-truths. I have also been on an F-1 visa before, your point is? Did your F visa affect your relatives visas? Cos it didn’t affect mine and all of my friends who were on it at one point or the other. |

No be this same America we dey born so?