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Zahymaka:
One thing I think would strike any child is restricting access to "modern" equipment. For example, instead of cooking with gas, let them use firewood. If they want to wash, deny them access to the washing machine and let them hand-wash.

that will be punishing my self not my kids.They will be only too happy

I have just up loded a new pic in hottest female . side 42 0r is it 43.
she made the pic yesterday.

she cuts it her self and i put the colour for her.
Normally she did not trust me to torch her hair but after her friends messed it put her let me have a go.

Yes but she colored it and uses a straightening iron.
Next year i will ask her to rigester and contest. for 2007 mis hot Narialald or what ever.

my ada.

I know that the votes are running but i still want to up load as am finding

They made my cuts all in the same place.
A morden dr will not make a vertical cut.
Even if i wear a string you will not see my cut.

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my childhood

I have already said that,
She means that its men the men have papers.

lilnaomi:
girl, i av no experience of childbirth but all am going to say is, dnt let d pain be the determining factor. cus at d end, its all worth it. if you're lucky to get pregnant, then ask for the strength to deliver d child safe and sound.

also girl, don't think of caesarian unless its really really necessary for the survival of u and your child. CS disfigures most women and am sure u want to look good after giving birth. so girl, jus pray to God for the strength to deliver safe and sound and naturally too. Good luck girl.

Thats not true it disfigures nothing.
They make what they call a Bikini cut meaning that even if you wear a bikini noone will see the cut later.

Take a löök at the clothes the catalog, they all look good on the models.
But try wearing them :
They was a time these Apron dresses were in fasion (these check dresses with bottons down the front) some thing a house wife will wear to do her house work . But on a model it looked different.

Hot pants are not hot pants.On every one
A wrapper on a white skinny woman is also not the best i mean tying wrapper is alos Arts, not just tying.

I was 35 when i got divorced.
My German friends said "Nothing"
My Nigerian friends said"Don't worry you are still young and can have more children"
Well I told them am done with kids.

No two pregnancies are the same no two labours are the same.
I had 3 children all Cesarean.
According to the doctor my pelvis is too small.
The first and second one were with pain.
But by the third one i had experience.
I just ask for pain killers and tried not to sleep till it was night night
I also found out it was better for me to drink still water.
There was this woman that was there with me she had her baby almost before she could take off her cloths.It wentreal fast. She could not even be taken to the labour ward.
But had her baby in the changing room were you take off your cloths be4 going for examination.

Well i hear my daughter talking to herself in the middle of the night.
So she is back to normal.


PS she talks to herself when she is reading or doing revision.
She has not phoned the boy.
her friends took good care of her taking her out and keeping her busy

One of these men that play with girls and when its time to marry they go home to look for a "Good girl" from home .One that has not opened her eyes.
But you know what they say about the devil you know.
When the home girl opens her eye(and mouth) they will be bigger than the one they ran away from.
I believe in Nemesis.(she is a powerful woman)

Maybe very new comers should not vote because we don't know if someone will do 414 and vote themselves with a new name.

Yes i had a friend with the same problem and now she has Diabetes. She was always on the fat side.
I remember her asking me once to press her leg.
The whole skin/flesh entered leaving a dent, that slowly came back to normal.
But it was a strange story 2 or 3 Dr's she went to for treatment died one way or the other.
That was i Nigeria,
In Germany they told her something about water retention.
but now she has Diabetes and even takes injections.

I think its sugar.
What do they call that too much sugar in the blood sickness.?

Reverend:
Raising Your Children The Nigerian Way When Married To A Foreigner!

Just teach the kid how to be lazy and sit in an internet cafe the whole day sending 419 scammer letters.

I think should do the trick nicely

Now you have brought me on an idea,Children in Germany are not punishable by law tillthey are 14 so i still have a few years to send my kids ******** b4 they are 14

They will grow and learn .
Its all part of life,its good for them to know at their age who they can let into the house when am not at home.
A rude person is generally rude.
No one talks to my kids any how.
They don't answer back when adults are rude to them but they will feel i let them down if i allow it.
If I want to teach my children to say no and take no rubbish, they will want to know if i too can say no and take no rubbish.

By the way i don't tell my friends off i tell my kids of.
But I give friends a piece of my mind.
The woman downstairs sends my kids to by her wine.
Am pissed about that because i don't send my kids to buy hot drinks .The people in the shop will think am not responsible. If need be i will tell her off in front of my kids.
Don't think its because of small issues i tell of people , am not a mad woman.

Ho yes i am born and raised in Nigeria.
I had a german mum .
What i still have to say whwn a child messes up the damage has been done.
Is it not better to stop the damage befor its done?

I don't punish my kids , i tell them of.
But am lucky that they listen. I must admit i have given out the one or other slap.
But i can count on one hand how many slaps. And always on the leg not in the face.
No two kids are the same so there is on on standard punishment for children.
My kids read my eyes and know what mood am in to know how far they can go.
I cannot carry things in my mind for long meaning sometimes if they do something wrong and i find out when they are not at home, Iwould have cooled down be4 they get home.
By nature am very quite and the kids know me to be so right from their birth , that makes them quite too.
If you are the kind always shouting at home your kids will take that from you.
If you shout at your kids for something they told you, they will stop telling you things.
A good eg at the age of 12 or so a lot of children start smoking , a lot of parents try to ban these kids comming to their house, I dont . Because its no point you cannot stop your kids from doing what they want you can only make it difficult for them.
Rather i will talk to my kid about smoking :

I meant kneeling down as a form of punishment not greeting.?

I spend a lot of time online
sometimes when i meet the same people too often , I write them "Go get a life"
they anwser "same to you".

I too have had myself tested
Its something that one just has to do now and then.

Its all about respect.
Your children respect you because they fear you or because they love you.
I have brought up my children to respect grown ups.
But only those that respect them too.
You as a grown up coming to my house cannot say to my kids common get me water to drink.
Another eg . Every morning when my kids go to school they greet the neighbors and the neigbours greet back and ask how they are.
If my kids are loud these neigbours scold them thats ok by me.
But there those that dont greet and dont talk to them. These people have no right to scold my kids for any reason at all.