₦airaland Forum

Better to have no man in the house than a useless man.
These women that do not want a man know why they want it that way.
For me there is nothing shameful about having a child.
It dose not tell anything about the woman only that we know she "DID it".
Those pointing fingers may have done it more and with more men .Not to talk of how many unborn lives they have wasted.
Any child in or out of wedlock is a blessing not a shame

Are you a Nigerian .
Dose he have papers to stay .?

Break up with him as soon as possible.
What is there to think about.
If you stay with him he will disfigure your face for you

Very simple stop telling her too many things ,
She is  your mother and you will know how she reacts to giving situations

People do not make money like that on cars alone.
if more than one person told you , then there is something funny.
These is this Nigerian lady i know she once had a Nigerian Visitor and he was using her car to do his deals not knowing the police was on his tail. Till the day the Police came a knocking on her door.
It took a lot of effort to convince them that she was innocent.
Anyway in Europe the police will most likely be tapping all lines for sometime b4 they come.

they are fine thankyou.

If we take the bible wordily then we should stone stubborn children to death.

What selfrighteous nonsense.
Give from your heart without any deeper meaning to it.
Afterall at the end of the day these people still eat something.
In Germany now Beggars are a Mafia thing well organized.
They have an Oga that drives a fat Daimler that sends them out to beg.
These people live their country to come here for better life.
So who am i helping the beggar or the Oga. If the beggar dose not bring in enough money he is punished.
Give or do not give but do not judge.

The other day a boy of 2/3 slapped me. I do not even know when i slapped him back it was a reflex. The boy cried a bit then i carried him up . He fell asleep on my hand

@ man eater am not sure you really believe what you wrote,

Do i have to say no man will even look at her. They don't need girls with baggage. It wont kill u to wait, and i u getting married out of love or just to procreate. Why the need to test if your plumbing is working.

A child is not a baggage and speakfor yourself men will still look for her. Stepfather is not a madeup word


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keep preaching -marry out of love. i wouldnt love my husband any less if he cud noitgive me a baby, and i don't think a man should not love his wife because she mite be barren. You could always adopt.

dont make me laugh are you talking about Nigeria here.

In this day and age Pregnancy is not the worst thing that can happen to a Girl/woman.

I think the parents should know the man be4 all the talk of marrage. Then its too late or difficult to stop it . What if the man is just useless.

numbers are you not afraid to torch your daughters something when putting that lock.

Church weddings are not recognized in Germany.
Infact you cannot get a church wedding without the court wedding or at least an appointment for the court wedding

Traditional marrage in Nigeria is as legal as any other form of marrage in Nigeria, But only in Nigeria. It is not recognized in Europe for example. I cannot say for any other country.
To get divorced is also according to what demands are made by the Families involved(i think)depending on the reasons but normally the bride prise is returned. (if the man is to blame i think)

God hells those that help themselves we cannot all sit on our hands and wait for Manner from heaven.We may as well al stop working.
I find it very funny something for people to think about.
Even if i feel it all happened so long ago there are others that do not. Lets not stop them

This goes for people mostly that are illegal abroad and cannot Travel out.
Or for some that are not yet ready to travel home for one reason or the other.
Like if a baby is on the way and they want to be married b4 the baby comes.