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You do not even have to be there.
Many people that cannot travel out just send money home and let the family do if for them . In absence of the bride and groom

Thats not it i do not like anything on my head or round my neck i even hate turtleneck.
Do not ask me why .I just get headaces from them

I put nothing on my head not even weave on.

Depends on the tribe not so.
From forcing them to get married to stoning everything is possible

At 18 a girl should still be in school and having fun in her life.
She will be starnded with a baby long enough. That can wait

Yes am saying the woman did not act professionally.
And it suprises me.
I am not trying to say you are telling tales.
But if your story is not true you should know that its not funny.
I once went with a woman to get her test and she tested positive. She was due at that time with a baby. A few days after her test she got her baby . The child is now about 13 also with HIV. The Mother just celebrated the  first birthday of her first grandchild.
But on the other hand many others have passed away.
That this woman has aids is an open secret, Everyone knows. But not everyone believes.

Time or no time.
I see it in my kids. even if they have no money to call, they flash.
Flash just to show am thinking of you.
Tell him to tell you the truth and not waste your life.

You know i can only hiss.
Do you think they will bury you with all your gifts.
This man has[b] paid [/b] for you . he knows it and he will do with you what he likes.

I Too know people that have it.
I too know people that have died of it.I am surprised that a lab technician Christian or not will get in private contact with people that come to her.
I too have done tests and i know how it works.

Yes i blame her,
So because her marrage is not working she will spoil an other womans own.
A married man will not marry her anyway.
So she may as well stay with the single once that are using her.
Abi she said its only the sex.
Even if the man is younger than her let her manage that one.

Whats the talk about level.
I have seen stinking rich people dressed so local you would not believe.
Some of the hate ties and just have one uselless kind to pin up. They take it off once they get into their car.
A low level of today canbe a hig hclass of tomorrow.
What happepns to all the cool people of today in school. Just how cool are they tomorrow.
I do not encourage anyone to look down on anyone.
you never know were you will meet these people again.

Ayenfe nothing stops you from doing it.
It suprises me to see some women puring sand into something that women have fought for even died for over the years.
Women are moving on in life but it is women like them that are throwing sticks between their legs to fall them down.
Well hope your family is not large because you will end up spending the day on your knees.

Why the hell will i need permission for any thing i do.
Fact is if i meet my ex and have sex with him, something is not okey in my marrage.
I will not go out of my way to meet any ex but if i bump into him , i will spend sometime with him , over a cup of coffee or a meal in a public place.
I will also tell my husband about it.
If i do not then there is something to hide.
But to ask for permission?
If i feel the need to meet an ex (with appointment) Then something is not okey in my marrage in this case am asking onbody

You do not go to the police with your will , you go to your lawyer.
A man that lives his wife to her faith is very selfish.
He should at least put his children's name in the will .

Why so rude to turn down a man?
A polite no thankyou will do

If you do not have money now, start to save aganist next year.
Or the year after.
As you know , Time flies.
But No one can tell you how to save

Are you going for ever or only to visit

They are very moody if you wake them up from sleep

Everyone is born with a mind of their own.
Children watch from their parents.
My children are home alone at lunch time and cook alone.
Two times a week they eat at school.
They get money to buy the food they want.
And am not there with them.
But they know what is right or wrong.
The big but is But do they do it
One of my kids has a wight problem she just loves food always has.And i cannot lock my kitchen.
I love food too but it dose not show on me. I can eat a whole chicken and a bar of chocklate in one sitting.
Are parents to blame? in a way yes because they see it comming.
They should educate the kids on healthy eating habits.And make them move,.
Good manners is also important,Children need to learn at home not to pig in.
When my daughter was 4 i noticed she a,always finished her food and even ate up the left overs of her sisters.I put a stop to that. Its not everythink you see you eat.
I have a scale and she has a limit i put for her.
So now if she pigs in and hits the limit,. she puts her self on a diet.
I will say if i did not have my hand on it from day one she would have been really fat by now.
But she loves food and it takes alot of discipline from her .
I am not there all the timeso she is more or less on her own
But with small kids the parents are there and have to put a stop to it

I did not know people still shave their hair.
if i really loved my husband , the state of my head will not bother me.
But i will never come on the idea of doing it.
What is still worse is the women that are forced to drink the water the dead husband was bathed in.
Well back to the houses if the man left a testament even women can inherited houses.
But not the Traditional once that are passed from first son to first son over the generations

@ Toh the first poster was talking about the woman her self buying and building in her name.
Not of the inheritance.
I have never heard of any place in Nigeria were a woman is not allowed to buy or build in her name.
In fact i have even heard of women that built their houses without the knowledge of the husband

These people the brother and sister look like getto people aka white trash.
Andt the story is old i did not know the man is out of jail.
Fact is that two Adults should be free to do what they like as long as they are not harming any one.
But fact is also that they are harming their children.
But fact is also that you cannot tell someone how many children to have.
So at the end of a long day, its better not to even start it.
These relationships should never be allowed.
The day they allow them , these people will want to start getting married and so.