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Please Nigeria is not a banana republic.
He Filed for the divorce(or did he fake the papers.)
When you get your copy go and find out if it is real.
Did you not get an invitation from the court ?

Yes i do but i was already over 30 when i got her and had moved out long ago.

I first have to find out if they have it here in Germany.And under what name its selling.
Thankyou anyway.I just bumped into it in youtube,
But it has nothing to do with the other filmWilliam Wilberforce dose it?

http://youtube.com/watch?v=z1Kt0RX8b8w


Can someone tell me more about this film

[quote author=@desodgi link=topic=58732.msg1189173#msg1189173 date=1181497245]guess you can do the same innit?[/quote]Its a free world not so.
Go and find out what an ashewo is

First and for most, how did you get married, church , traditional or court.
I can understand you very well.
The mistake you made was to get married before you left.You are not the first woman i know that this is happening too.

What you have to think about is this.
If the worst comes to the worst. And then ask yourself if it was worth it.

give him a big fat slap so that he will know a no go is a no go.
I will tell a good friend about it but not the people involved.(just in case i need a witness later)

They have lived their lif now its time for you to live yours.
I will not want to do that to my children.
Your poeople will be lonely in the city. Home is home and a home were they are visitors is not home.
If you feel that bad make up their house for them and send them more money

Husband and wife are[b] not [/b] soul mates.
Soul mates are one in a million.
I can understand knotty very well.
My ex used to like staying up late to watch TV i loved going early to bed or sometimes he goes out for a drink and comes home late.
I hated it to be woken up late in the night or better said early in the morning(way after midnight.)
To solve that problem we agreed he sleeps in an other room.
By the way what if he is fed up with the marrage is that a crime? Shit happens.
Its a hard world out there and from the look of things she is the one giving him a hard time.
You cannot change anyone only yourself.
And from the look of things they poor man only wants his peace

cute-ass

No i do not believe the man is trhe oga .
But if this was the other way round people will be calling the man a beast.
I was married for 10 years and somewere along the line every one needs breathing space.
Today i come up for my kids alone i have a lot on my mind.
When i want to chill (come down) i put on the radio in the kitchen and sit on the flool with the lights off.
Anyone comming in goes out at once because they know i want to be on my own.
For and other man it maybe his own room ,TV in the middle of the night what ever.

<<< hisss<<<<<<< HISSS<<<<<
Are you a baby?
So just because its your birthday you feel you have "diplomatic passport"

@ cute-ass  are you married.
See what you are demanding. The man wants his room  let him get his room for hells sake.
Its not by force that you sleep with a woman.
If at all he can meet her half way and spend 3 day in his room the rest with her.
A Man has a lot on his mind and he needs time to come down.
Just maybe the waif is a nagger and he cannot stand it any more

She also wrote she had just visited the bf.
that means he is also in Lagos.

Which one is kire kire or do you mean kiri kiri police station?

Thankyou for the right spelling.
Is the poster in Lagos or from Lagos?
and is the boyfriend in a lagos jail?

The last thing a girl thinks of when having sex is the day care center.
We do not have that in germany(daycare center in school)
But we do have mother and baby homes for underaged mothers.
The homes are there to prepare the young mothers on the life out there .
The also have strict laws(when to be home ,visiting hours etc)
I do not see any girl in her right mind at 16 wanting to have a baby.
Something must be very wrong there(if it was not a mistake)

I did not know that Kire-kire(SP) hat internet

Great point you got there, but I hope some day this Black American Kids will start thinking like you.

All this pregnant kids needs to be kicked out of school because it's a shame to the communities, and I don't know why board of education isn't doing anything about it.

This kids needs to be taught a lesson because I feel like they are encouraging them by having a daycare in school.

My sister knows better than making friends with those type of girl ( teen mothers) because I trust my parents

So you are saying a 16 year old girl should be punished for the rest of her life for one mistake.
At the same time the father of the baby is still going to school.
I am very happy that there are schools that Help there is a big difference between helping and encouraging.
With the Baba W the class have showen that the stand by the mother. She needs all the love she can get.

Divorce dose not always have to do with another man or woman

Blood is ticker than water.
A baby grows in a woman and is one with the woman till it is born.
The Love for a child is never the same as the love for a man.

What ever no Man in this world can take the place of my children .
And i can not love any man more than my children.(not as long as my children are dependent on me,
@ the bible Quoters. If the Bible says you shold love your Husband blabla,
it never said dump your children.

mellow:
@mamaput

We sure know that it happens every other day but is is just

that there are too many negative and positive stories to it.

From baron to ritualist to all what not.

Its the name you give something that makes it sound big and a bit uncommon.

What is unreal about the story it happens everyday and like i say the police tap a lot of lines and even House computers.
The Police police can afford to spy for a long time.
maybe drug Baron is exaggerated but we do have a lot of dealers.

It seems I have not seen anybody mentioning the fact that some government policies here in the UK makes single parenthood attractive to many young women. All you need do to get on their benefits is to get a young man to inseminate you and you get your name on the register for some easy fantastic package. Recently they proposed attaching a nurse to all pregnant teenagers to ease the burden of motherhood for them. Then from their, those who don't have identifiable fathers for their children would of course go on to claim their benefits. Is it any wonder that Britain is a leader in this societal anomaly? As a young girl, what more incentive do I need to become a single mother?

Anyone that thinks its easy bringing up a child is fooling himself,
its a 24 hr a day job.
It is easy to go and get a regular 8 hr job than looking after a child.
Children also cost a lot of money and no matter how good the welfare, they do not shove the money up your ass.

Anyone that thinks Nigeria dose not have them is in a dream world.
Even Embassies make use of them.
I know the German Embassy  dose it to investgate the background of Nigerians here