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If you are ready to give your life to Christ, please do it immediately.  In fact, I prefer phone because it will be faster.  At times, I wonder what is the gain of all these.  Think of your life 2morrow if death strikes now.  Quit everything that is ungodly in that affair, and then keep her as a friend.  Please, don't tell me this is not a bible issue or whatever.  There are some advise that will affect your life negatively, and they may seem good to you. But at times we need to get the point clear

is that what they teach you in Your church.

@ .Poster Relationship is not my force.
This is what i will do if i were you.
I will stop calling as often as i used to.
I will stop talking as Long as i used to on the phone.
Slowly she should get the hint.
And when you see her break up with her. If she is smart , it will not come as a big "out of the blue" for her.
One year relationship should be treated with some respect

once the first child is on the way then its over with both of them clubbing together.
Most people settle down after marrage .
But there are still some die hard ones that will never settle.

A woman that dose not know when to shut her mouth

If she is not Nigerian he is only using her for paper and dose not want left overs when he goes

gather that the lady's doctor is permitted to divulge this information to her husband as the issue of a married woman aborting a pregnancy under non-health grounds is not covered by the doctor-patient confidentiality (at least, not to the partner).

Then you gathered something wrong.
Du you not know that Holland is the Mecca for abotions in Europe?

kulaShaker:
child psychologist talk out of their dough holes, majority of them have no kids, all they know is what they study and some of it i can give credit to but some are hogwash

If i were a parent i won't listen to people who know all they do about kids from a book rather i would seek advice from other parents. i would suggest looking up www. realparentsRealKidsRealLives.com

you have a point there. But even a village Farmer can observe this behavior in boys.
With girls its a bit more complected

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Good child psychologist will tell you that that is how it works it schools




) not all Authority is good . I teach my children to Question any Authority teachers can spoil the lives of your child faster than you can say Jack robbinson

2) I do not live in a Getto nothing like guns or acid at our school

3)I would rather my child is the one terrorizing than the one being terrorized .

4) Our children copy us more than they listen to us . so if you the mother cannot control herself how more the child.
5) feel free i do not care if its sundday or xmas day

Use or get used Reid or be ridden.
At my age most of my friends have passed their children through school their sons are grown ups.
No book in this world can help you pass your son through school
No teacher can do anything but talk.
If you go too often to the school your son will suffer the more.
Boys that make their place known never have problems again for the rest of their school stay.
By the way the poster is writing about a small child.

The world today is hard.
More so for Boys. If your boy cannot Fight then sorry for him.
It dose not mean that he should fight everyday. But he may have to fight to Prove a point .
Boys are like a Pack of wolfs when they get to meet they Battle for Position in the Pack.
If the boy is strong the others will let him be.
I had a problem like that with my daughter.
There was this girl that always picked on her.I was fed up and told my daughter to waylay her after school. But My daughter was afraid.
Well when it got out of hand she Did it. She waylaid the girl and threatened to beat the shit out of her if she ever spoke to her again.
I was so proud of her.
The Girl left her alone, The school sent for me,I told them i was proud of my daughter then she settled a problem for herself that they could not settle for her.
And that was were it ended.
But i still wish she had beaten up that girl

Many of all these Products for the Face, body and hair do have Fish -Fat in them or Whale oil.

This Ladys Doctor has a big mouth.
You cannot send a grown woman back to Nigeria he will Find her way back.
So this time he is annoyed becauseit was a white man.
I would like to ask a personal Question dont be annoyed.
Is it possible that the man your Friend is not so well off?
is it possible he was "trying" to be forgiving because of the extra mony she was bringing in.
Is it possible that now that she did it with a white man the sings were black and white on the wall.

But Nigerians do.
You are right about that . But only if the reporting is too much.
You can also teach your son how to fight

And the solution is----------------------------------------

wait and see if it happens again then you can talk to the boys mother or the Teacher.
God knows how often it has Happened that Parents are Fighting themselves while the Children have settled themselves long time ago

Please she only took back what belonged to her anyway.

kulaShaker  what of if your son is the one that  comes home and tells you that  a grown up threatened him with witchcraft.
God help you if that boy even cuts his finger with his teaspoon they will come and look for you

The Boy all of you are planning for is the same age as the son.
why run to principal and PTA when youcan talk to the teacher. Its like killing an Ant wit a slage hammer.

I do not know why you have to divorce in Nigeria.
Find out if its not possible in Irland

Having a Drink sometime.
you all forgot the sometime.
Its like an empty promise.
Its like saying how are you without really wanting to know your problems.

Its the way you shout in to a forest that the answer will come out.
you want respect? then you have to respect her too,.
Your mum wants you to report her?
then do that what ever diesion or action your mother takes, she is the Mother of your sister not you.
When you have children you can raise them the way you like.
Am sure you will also not let your mum come to your house and tell you how to handle your kids
Bythe way always reporting is like nagging your people in a big time way.
Am suprised you even have time for her whenn you think of the age gap

The greatest asset but at the same time the biggest burden

Maybe they know what is best for the kids but most of the time they waht what is best for themselves

Depends on how bad the Woman or man wants a child.
Is it not my natural right to have a BABY ?