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I think you are on one big Ego Trip.
No need to insult women that do not have the same interest as you.There are more problems in this world than Darfur, Rwanda, Niger Delta.
As they say many are called . Not everyone has the need to carry the problems of the World on their Back.
But as i read between the lines, for you it is also only a money making market.
Talk about the devil you know. With these women you know were you are.
By the way is that not the way they were raised. To open their eyes for good husband.

$ play am happy about that.
I know it the other way round, non of my Edo friends have the whole package down there as you call it. But their kids do come to think of it. But they were born here.

Radiant:
Female circumcision? Never heard of such. You guys must be coming from the pit of Nigeria

There are even people that do it here its illegal of cause but its done.
Not only in the pit of Nigeria as you think.
So when you want to marry your igbo you can find out if it is done in his village.

Sorry i got your name wrong Browneyes, Brownsugar na another thing alltogether.
I have never met a Black African that hates him/herself.
Bleching and perming is not a proof for me

4 Play:
Sista has a history on Nairaland
@Mamaput
As for Mamaput,the whole thing about Edo people taking a carving knife to any female Instruments they come across is overblown.It is largely a thing of the past.

I do not think so but i hope so. Maybe aborad but not back home.

Yes brown sugar my people may have rather i marry white than Edo for Example.
Because of their culture.
Our people do not have female circumcision and they do not force widows to drink the water that was used to wash their dead husbands.
If i had married an Edo man how could i have been 100% sure my daughter will not be circumcised with or without my permission.
Would i have been able to let the girl stay alone with the grandmum.
Am not saying its good or bad.
If you are a Nigerian stop doing as if you do not know what its all about.
I cannot brother and sister every black i know. some are good some just okey and some bastards.
Will i deep my fingers in the same bowl as a Bastard just because they are Black.
Will i stop eating with a white because they are white.
Sista wants to poison minds look what she says to somegirl (civil conversation ) She will have a civil conversation even though she thinks she is white,

I had a school mate that kept telling me she is mixed, but she was really black.
She told me her fathers name was Billy Greyham and even gave me a picture to see.
It was only years later i found out who Billy Greyham was.
She also never took me to her house.

Sista please do not spoil this Topic with your anti white propergander.
We are talking about inter tribal relationships.
In Nigeria we do not have employment office or social welfare, So it is very important that you pick your man with the approval of both families.
If something gose wrong along the line then you are on your own.
Even in Nigeria every village has its own Traditions and we can live among each other, but we cannot be one big Family.
If you eat only frog and i eat only toad what will we put in our pot . Frog or toad and do not tell me they are the same.

When i saw that stupid word. I almost hit the roof.
I am glad am not the only one that it annoys.
Well if you do not want to marry her , all the better for her , she is yet to find a more wothey man than You and the better inlaws to go with.

That a man is shy when it comes to Women has notting to say about what kind of a man he is.
There will be more peace in the House.

Was the statement not that God created us. In that case also our hair and our nails.
As for that stupidf Question , am not going to answer it,

What the hell is a G mail account?
I want one too if you people want it i too want. But what is that ?

Please did all this happen under two weeks?
How old is the first baby.
You should please leave that man alone. His family will never allow him to marry you.
It is understandable the first mistake, but what ever followed , that one pass mistake

I cannot stand men that try to "correct" their wives.
They see things in her that they do not like but wait till they are married to "correct" her.
Why wait?
is it because there is no way out for the wife once they are married (or so they think)
Is that not an evil plan?
I find it _Sell-Fish and wicked

mekoyo:
Yeah there is nothing like natural beauty. The make ups only make u look strange, it makes u different, u don't look like the person you are.

beauty is not just the facial look so why kill yourselves over make ups that will land u nowhere. Beauty is sweet.u can change your look that is how you were created by God.

In that case do not cut your hair or nails.

A date is not a commitment.
using the word cripple is even worse than Nigger .
If i do not see myself as disabled, should i go around saying " Hi am disabled"?
As for falling bin love with someone you haver not seen. Well love is Blind as they say .

Eh who call my name in this matter?
I be girl.

Anyway in my time it was pancake and rosy cheeks we were using.
And that nasty Jerry curls.
I bet we looked like clowns
_{But i was not among those using rosy cheeks}

It was once upon a time long ago that makeup ages people.
But not any more.

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That was the Purpose of this Forum.

So why all this Aggresive comments?
All my life i been dating Older women, so

your post is for me in the wrong place it should be under Jobseekers

so because one foolish yahoo armedrobber posted a picture to your friend hector we are liers?
Reyamd am asking you
better take your time

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The man lied to you.
Men in Nigeria sometimes marry more than one wife.
It is possible that his wife will dump him for this but not common.
His people can not do more than tell him off (family) but the village has no say in this.
But his people will only accept that the child is "Theirs" if the man says its his child.
The Word of the man counts more than any DNA or blood test.
I do not know what country you come from but the best thing is just to raise your child .
When the child wants any extras he /she , will let you know.
Also keep the name some pictures and the address of the man.
If you are lucky he will keep in torch.

Then let him meet the teacher in the house. for extra home work @ omo

Depends on what its all about.
This world is not an illusion.argue is not always fighting.It could be about new TV or new fridge or some other useless stuff.
Brothers and sisters fight too not so

Tom stinks even Top gun stinks.

Vegan, Vegetarian.
are not the same.
There are people not only do they not eat meat they also eat no meat product. like eggs or milk.
Some do not even wear leather.
Paul McCartney from the Beatles will not attend any show if they offer him a leather sofa.
And some mad ones attack meat eaters.

Bull shit. and double bullshit.
We all know what is going on. Its not a matter of Good or no Good.
Its a matter of use.
Nigerians are so good at everything, so rather than get the womn for free by lieing etc.
LET them go and open a blackmarket and supply men that are ready to pay with Women that know its a deal.

I do not have any. I cannot stand anything sticking in my***.
But i have nothing aganist them.
I do not think that people that wear them are on their way to FU*K somebody,.

Do you know what a burial can cost?
Am not too sure that i will take that upon me any more . Just maybe for the sake of the kids.If its in Nigeria the Villagers dear not make any demands from me. because i will then just bury him like a dog somewere in the city.

To me he looks like that kind that will still remind the teacher to give home work on a Friday just when the school over bell rings.

Thats just it. She will do the length going fighting her family and the immigrations.
Spending all her Money to bring him in.
No one should give be any crap of loving me from just seeing me once,
Anyway maybe some of us should copy some of the love letters we get from boys here. Boys that we do not even know

Not Married!!! anymore

I Will like to know from who he has your number.
if you do not what him again (and i think it is for the best) Tell him some funny lie like you are having problems with your bank because you signed a guarantee for someone who did not pay. bla bla bla or that you just lost your job.
Or get your self a new number.
I just think it is a free ticket to the land of milk and honey.
I mean love dose not happen like that.