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Sorry my mistake,
But a child is never too young to learn wrong from right.
The Father should have told her the first time "No, no no" This child felt she would get away with it.

Beating a child for drinking milk beats it.

As long as you are yellow you fine abi

It is if the man is old enough to be her dad and above

There is nothing you did not put in your profile from your email to your msn to your picture and your very inviting signature.
But everyone gets them here not only you.
But the email i use here is for public use i do not use it so often.

Anyway to answer the question is if you can do something the others cannot do.
Breakdance, football, basketball.
and be good at it everyone will know you.
Or you go out with one of them but then people will not know your name but as the girl going out with ***** .

The old testerment as Analytical has so nicely quoted is a book full of blood shed.
So we should be ~~~~~_{plucking out our kids eyes and cutting off their hands so that they will not sin.#}++~~~~~~

A child is Gods gift to us. It is our duty to take care of them.
And not beat them like cows. These days even animals have rights.
Beatings the easy way out.
My kids also do wrong and they also Love and respect me. They do not fear and respect me.
And the most important thing is they can talk to be about anything, but b4 they do they try to find out my mood.
If my clild tif in a shop i will not beat the child.I may just start to cry and that pains the child more than a beating. (just an example)
If my child is not so good in school i will not beat the child i went to get a teacher for lesson problem solved. I had to because when i learn with her i was getting annoyed and smacked her she will cry and nothing will enter the head again,The lesson teacher cost alot of money but in the long run it was worth it.
I am out of the house from 12 pm to 8 pm and the house runs without me and still standing.
It goes with out beating. and i badly regrat the few times i did it .

But am happy to say all my kids can count on one hand the amount of times i beat them.
But never ever did i use a stick or any other object

I counted the phones in this house. 6 all together and i get the about one call a day.
But i pay all the bills.
I know this is going off. sometimes the tone that comes out one of the phones is like a graveyard musik.
This morning heard a strange voice saying hello hello in my room and i was still in bed. only to find out it was yet another new phone tone.
I think am slowly running mad.
4 cell phones and 2 house phones all of them making different ring tones.

Thanks for listening
back to topic.
Well i will waht to have the right to do so . and her will have the right to do so with my phone , but i do not get any messages, only from my kids.
Am from the old school anyone that wants to talk to me can wait till am home.

Nico if it is the same friend that told you the story about an Aids free friday, then thats not a good friend at all

The best thing is if his mother is still alive go and report him to his mother.

I never had a mother inlaw but a father inlaw and sisters inlaw and a brother in law.
The brother in law was a" everyone is on his own type"
When ever the father inlaw called my ex will run and do what ever his father wanted from him(In his fathers house)
when ever his sisters called her will run and do what ever they wanted in their house.
Sometimes thé sisters needed money he will ask me, i will look into our buget(that was my work) and tell him if it was possible or not and what we can give them. They mostly got what they ask for. Sometimes i will tell my ex its high time he phoned his people to say hi.
Till today i still am frendly with the sisters, till today i still tell him one of the sisters needs money.
One of them still comes to me and i help her out were i can and how i can. with a bit of money and sometimes with foodstuff,then she is always broke because she is a shopping addict and has a lot of depts.
But never ever did any of them come to tell me how to run my house.

Every wife has the right to be the Queen of her/ husbands house,
Every mother inlaw was Queen in her own house so she shold not try and take over the sons house.
Its a matter of letting go.
Every one has their life to lead so why the hell should my mother inlaw lead my life for me.
A wife is not an instrument.
In this case better do not get married. stay with your mother and see if you will find a woman that will agree to marry you in your mothers house

The Question was not if one should use it or not. But at what age one should start.
A child is still in a learning process and will never be able to paint like Prostitute highest like a masquerade

I also used sweet sixteen . But when i used makeup at age 14 my mum said it looked ridicules at that age. She did not stop me ,but that comment did.
What i find funny is that we took what we could get.
But today the kids want to know if any whale had to die for that lipstick.
Some times when there was no money for lip gloss we use vaseline.
Come to think of it Puff puff makes a nice lipgloss.
But puff puff on the face mixed with sweet 16 OMG what a mess i hope you washed your face fast after that.

And the old lady

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more mixed blessing

Do i have to be mixed to learn from both worlds.
You only learn more about the country you live in,
Most mixed kids here are lost they know nothing about their other half sometimes not even the langauge.

yes . I am not a mad woman. a woman that dose not let go is sick in the head.
What do you think a sugar mummy is ? a vimpier? or mafia.
That is why i think you have seen too many films.

There are some that do.
In Nigeria you grow up and people handle you like King

whatever

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You may get airs.
Some are Anti white some are Anti Black, it all depends on what you come across.
But sometimes selfconfidence can be mistaken for arrogance

meaning the fast dose not start at the same time all over the world.Or ends at the same time.
This means some people fast longer than others.

No i also heard they have sacked him on the news,that is they did not renew his contract

Build your house and we will start talking.
i want one in spain.

So she is ugly but let me manage her, Like for the rest of my life, let me swear b4 God to love her till death, God will not know am lieing, but its only a small lie, and after all she is ugly, she should be happy for a hubby like me.

Seun:
Parents often make all their worst mistakes when dealing with their first children. The result often isn't pretty.

how true.
And when the son grows the mother will have a new foe the daughter inlaw.
I will not be fighting a daughter inlaw because men usually give their wives more freedom with their mothers than women give to their husbands.

Is there any need for fastfood.
what happened to the good old mamaputs.

Even she is not white enough to be a German talk less of black enough to be a Nigerian.
This one dose not even bother to answer stupid questions she will only look at you as if you are a fool if you ask her were she comes from.

No not at all.
But when you live a a "all white country" like germany then it has its disadvantages because they are not yet used to the Black german.
And it was also not easy in Nigeria. Mixed kids had more freedom, but were also seen as the rotten ones,.
Most mixed people i know tend to be more Black or white in their thinking. And this way its like betraying mother or father.
People want to go out with you because you are mixed and that name halfcast i hate it with a passion.
Most Nigerians here think i am a police infromant/ spy and do not trust me.
And Nigerians also do not accept you as full Nigerian. There is always a but in it.

Well am mixed and the father of my kids is German my kids look like this

There are a lot of plus and minus in it.
Too white to be black and too black to be white .
That is one of the main things.
And with my kids its even worse. people think they are everything but never come on mixed.
So they always have to answer stupid questions.
Look how people fight themselves here on culture. We grow up with it.

Like everyother person gets away with it.
Maybe it was a set up

He will not look for it(woman) But sometimes it just comes your way.
You may say no to one woman or no the first time.
But how many times can a man say no when it comes his way.
Any way not every man is a "James Bond"
And not everyman has to fight Temtation every day.