CFCman:


You're right on the 50/50 issue.

In community property states like CA, all property acquired during the course of the marriage has to be split equally; unless the prenuptial agreement says otherwise.
Even at that, the prenup could be declared null and void if the judge believes the agreement is so one-sided i.e. one party gets 95% of the assets and the other gets 5%.

Of course, if the man is at fault (he committed domestic violence, serially attempts to rape his wife, or cheats on his wife), he will lose the house.

Assuming there's no prenup, just as many cases where a prenup isn't existing, the man has many other options. Divorce settlements sometimes take years to finalize, so I can either do one of two things: voluntarily surrender the property, OR simply allow the bank to foreclose on the property. That way the house is listed for auction, and sold for less value than it's worth. The thought of having foreclosure debt, even if she had full custody, considering a meager amount of child support (of cos no spousal support because she's earning more) and the damage to our credit is more than enough for her to know that the odds aren't in her favor. There's a lot of leverage to get what you want from a divorce IF the man is willing to play dirty i.e. not killing or hurting his wife in any way.

I heard retirement accounts, 401k, etc can be withdrawn as a pas-through corporation or a Trust entity whereby it isn't subjected to any form of tax and/or divorce settlement. These are ideas men should be seek to explore, like I've always posited before: in a divorce, speak to expert professionals. There are loopholes in the law which any man can use to his advantage. Many wealthy people exploit these loopholes, why can't an average Joe do the same instead of killing the woman.

Missy89:


you mean in Cali.

I'd expect the salary slightly higher in places like Cali, NY and other expensive cities. Then again, that's for an entry level, probably 0-3 years experience.

ponti93:
plz what is RN

Registered Nurse

It's really easy to say "why would the man kill the woman, he has no right to do so". In fact, that's absolutely correct; however, most men aren't stable enough to handle the psychological torture their wives dishes out to them. Many talk about divorce like it's an easy cake, well guess what, the average divorce takes at least 2 years to finalize and that's if there aren't much assets involved, and both parties are willing to be cooperative. Who's gonna pay the attorney fees? In fact, there's are limitation to how a court will exercise favorable laws to the woman for instance if the woman committed adultery or something else.

Also, on the issue of mortgage, the 50/50 rule is dependent on state law and so many things are considered. I've seen a case (a close friend), he wouldn't pay the mortgage, he used it as a leverage. Of course failure to pay your mortgage is invitation for foreclosure, the lady finally agreed to some of his terms, they just finalized their divorce last month. Divorce terms are negotiable and there are many ways to hide assets (if you know how I mean), I see no reason for killing the woman.

Yall need to quit all this, as far as I know, Trump isn't winning this election. It's exactly 4 weeks and 1 day to the election, and personally, Trump isn't gonna survive the onslaught. In fact, both candidates have dirty dealings, but the lesser devil will win.

Bro, the cause of body odor could be different reasons. A lot of people are here telling you to use deodorant which I'm sure you and it's not working. The root cause of body odor is bacteria, so try to wash your in the morning and evening. Shave your underarm and clean with baking soda, or alcohol (not beer), I mean methyl alcohol or even vinegar. They kill bacteria on contact, and every night consistently and apply antiperspirant nightly, this should solve the problem.

menix:
Hmm...
The Man(Ubah) is busy playing his political Chess.
Ubah knows Nigerians love football nd to win minds of Ndi Anambra for the next election, he chose this path..
People eyes go clear when he wins, he would owe his players to the extent Kwashiorkor wont allow them play again..

As for Papillo nd Ibu, i sight una..
Ndewo to Hero Papillo..

Whatever he's doing, he's certainly doing it well BUT Anambra people are wiser than this as well. Football or no football, Anambra would vote who they think would bring development to the state.

InvertedHammer:

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To die dey hungry you, it is obvious.

Going back to marry in Nigeria is so 1990s
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How is it 1990's?

blues20:

MadCow alias nnama, I hope dem go give you your own reserve too.

Haha... This is an Igbo man aka Okija Juju i.e. if you knew this moniker back in the day.

Buhari is testing waters to see how Nigerians will react, if Nigerians kick against it, it would send a strong signal to him that Nigeria of the 1970 is not the Nigeria of today.

Singapore1:


No you are wrong sir, anything can happen on a forum except of course fraud

I visit reddit very well and I have sold btc on the site more than once

And reddit is one of the top forum in the world

I did respond your pm as well..

I agree anything can happen on a forum, I have no doubt. Seun cannot exercise 100% control or know exactly what goes on, but he cannot claim immunity (thru his mods) that he isn't aware that some wicked and evil people are using his platform to perpetuate unlawful activities.

What I am saying is that, this site is gradually being turned to a platform used to trade: buy, sell and exchange foreign currencies. I have no problem with it, as long as it's low key, we all got to hustle and I respect everyone's hustle too. However, my recommendation is that I'd like Seun to make sure that people who are dealing are screened properly.. Nothing else. I haven't accused anyone or NL of engaging in any unlawful activity, I'm just saying take proactive measures to vet anyone who wants to deal including me sef.

You do understand that any activity that involves transmitting, buying, selling BTC in exchange for the $$$ requires an MSB license? That you're transmitting smaller is inconsequential and does not cause harm, but it doesn't make it right. Like they said, ignorance is no excuse to law.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Bitcoin/comments/36bpwt/can_i_legally_sell_bitcoin_without_a_msb_license/

onatisi:

It is really a complex complicated mess

My recommendation: Seun needs to setup a meticulous screening process for EVERYONE who wants to trade (buy, sell or exchange) foreign currencies. NL as it is in violation of several laws because this is not the platform for that. NL cannot be used as a platform to perfect swindling schemes, in fact, I'll recommend an offshoot site strictly dedicated for such transactions.

Season what again is this? Hunter has become the hunted? So two people are using DadejoReloaded moniker?

There's no point arguing back and forth... Ale doesn't want to cooperate so no need of bothering him. Hit him where it hurts. Like Dadojo said, this was his first time transacting PayPal funds. I'll suggest he files a claim against him, and more importantly, collate all the info and screenshots he got. One thing is certain: Mr. Ale will definitely suffer the biggest blow since he has no integrity to protect. My only concern is that one person's pride will call others into suspicion but hey, it's a steep price to pay but it would rid NL of people like this. It's better he's humbled if his account and other accounts are shutdown.

Nigeria really needs an escrow service to reduce all this fraudulent malpractices... Na wa o

That's how people be hating unnecessarily, there are several hundreds of car manufacturers in the world, some known and some unknown. Tomorrow someone would come out and say Tesla of yesterday isn't a car manufacturer. So it's until you have reached the size of Toyota, Honda, General Motors, then you're considered a car manufacturer. Smh at ignorance, some people just open their mouth and talk rubbish. IVM definitely isn't up to the standard of Toyota but to say they aren't a car manufacturer is just as clueless as one gets. This man before he diversified into auto manufacturing, he manufactures local auto parts including motorcycles, yet people just want to condemn because they think they can. Continue hating, and only one day, he'll get the right funding only to find out that IVM becomes an African brand, not just Nigerian only.

princetom1:


No need arguing with u. Ur IQ is too low to comprehend simple grammer. I try to be civil with u but u don't understand that. Invade u don't know, even innoson isn't a manufacturer, so, i wonder how some people who trained under them can manufacture, maybe they should employ them too, do that the title of manufacturing will go with innoson. Walk outa thread. Join me in car talk section or auto section if u need schooling on automobile. Don't just stay here and digest everything without tasting and chewing it. Knowledge abound. Learn, u wount learn with ur ego. I wonder if u meet me on d road, u can start calling me names. Grow up. Between, i have nothing against, innoson, i wish them to grow and come of age.

Since you know so much about Auto manufacturing, care to enlighten us? The last I checked, there's been more than five documentaries from local and international sources citing IVM as a car manufacturer. Perhaps watching these documentaries on YouTube will help you. Again, please help us understand what is manufacturing.

shamecurls:
God bless Hon. Rotimi chibuike Ameach!

The man that single handedly tore PDP to shreds and permanently sent Jonathan to Bayelsa.

History will never forget the Great lion of Ubima!

He tore PDP to shreds yet he couldn't even win in his LG let alone the state? Wonderful... Tell me something.

menxer:


I guess you understand the difference between formulation and approval.

The President approves the policies formulated by the CBN.

An idea is not a policy.

There is a process to formulate an idea into a government policy, in this case it is the function of the CBN.

Why are you trying so hard to be technically correct? As independent as CBN is, no matter the policy formed by the CBN, if it's NOT in line with the President's policy, it would not fly. This is one of the reasons SLS was sacked by GEJ, granted the CBN is autonomous, but they have to work hand-in-hand with the president's fiscal framework.

So many people carrying this matter on their head... Crying more than the bereaved. If Igbos can unite and stand together on this one, there's no telling what we can do together.

I read through the article and perhaps I missed it, but I don't see how IPOB threatened the Bishops. I mean if a state/city is shutdown, the impact will be felt across the land, that's the reason why they fled not because they were threatened.

martinlooter:
This is big deal, Anambra alone can control and stabilize the Biafra nation. We are intellectuals, and technocrats, we are more than Nigeria and it's economy.
Anambra using its head ahead of other states since 1852

You have come again abi, just congratulate the governor and the state and end it there. This statement isn't necessary.

Youngzedd:


Economy di bad

This one is not economy, some other threads are still booming. Many people have ported I guess.

If Buhari is able to achieve this, it would be one good thing he did in his administration that sure made sense.

InyinyaAgbaOku:

Like sb said above, you didn't understand the clapback.

It was EPIC , I'm sure he would know how to go about something like this next time.

RIP to Kendra, however, what did Kendra say that caused the ex to go off about killing her? There's no smoke without fire.. #JustSaying

logicab:
Are you African American? Don't bother responding to him any further. People like him create disaffection amongst brothers.

Haha, here comes another one.

I'd want him to listen to you because I don't need a brother who at every second, doesn't hesitate to slight Africans and Nigerians. If some bum of the street of America attacks Nigerians because he/she thinks they're superior over Africans; I will spit my venom on such person. Like Nigeria and other African nations, America has it's own problems. I told him to refute my claims about America's real problem in this coming election and if it's incorrect. So while you're it, save your patriotism for people who really care because I don't.

ISpiksDaTroof:


Deceitful or just illiterate? I didn't call the SE abominable, I called YOU abominable? Aren't you an OSU outcast?

Anyway, when are you heading back to Africa?

Lmao... I'm glad there's a glimmer of hope of redemption... Me abominable? I'm from Nnewi, Anambra state. I've ALWAYS identified myself as such, NEVER ashamed of it and WILL NEVER be. If you knew history about the Osu Caste System, it's origination, practice and Nnewi history, you'll see a sharp disconnect, but then, I don't blame you. Laziness begat laziness. The only history you know is about welfare, so I can't blame you if you don't know a bit about Nigerian history let alone, the South Easterners.

Hehe... Where you from again? Be proud of ancestral lineage and tell me where you from.

ISpiksDaTroof:


The whole of Western Europe, most of Europe, Australia, Japan and parts of Asia.

You want me to keep going?



Ok, so move out of this shiitt hole and go back to your Paradise or better yet move to China.

What is holding you back? Oh you're gonna miss Burger King, is that it?

Haha, you're seriously deluded if you think America is anymore advanced than these countries. America is 2000 years ahead meanwhile just about everything you use: from food, textiles, electronics, healthcare, heck even IT is imported tech from Asia or Europe. I was gonna break it down for you but I'll allow you to continue deluding yourself, one day you'll wake up to see America is up for sale on ebay.com or even, Alibaba.com.

Hehe, I told you that a slave and freeborn have nothing in common; I will only move out after you have found your ancestral root, and until you have done that, you have no authority to tell me to move out. You're a tenant in America, in fact, immigrants have more rights than you. #FACT. You don't like it, GTH.

Burger King? Lmao, you must think everyone is on your level of welfare fuckery? I'm no BK fan, nah son, I'll pass... How the hell am I supposed to miss BK when I really don't care about them? Then again, the likes of BK, Popeyes, and many more were setup to trap your type. Why Burger King when Southwest Market (African Store) and Safari (my favorite restaurant) are there... Taa, I've told you to stay away from matters relating to Africans and Nigerians.

ISpiksDaTroof:


EXACTLY!

Like I said WE own this land. When are you going back to yours?

Lmao...

Which land do you own? ROTF, look at this fake immigrant slave owning land in America? Abeg shut up that stinking thing yoiu call mouth...Go and study your history well.

ISpiksDaTroof:


Aren't you one of those South-Eastern abominables; the OSUs? So how the hell are you a freeborn if you're condemned in your own homeland because you come from a generation of slave outcasts?

And, ONCE is not enough to go back to your home. Why don't you go back one more time... AND STAY THERE PERMANENTLY? Why are you insistent on dying in place where you're not wanted?

Oh, thats right, thats what y'all do. Next we know you'll be telling us how you developed the United States.

Lmao... It must be a heavy burden knowing the fact that you have no HOME; I understand your frustration because you're clueless and hopeless about your ancestral lineage but damn, are you this daft and idiotic to believe the SE are abominable? ROTFLMAO. I told you previously to stay away from matters relating to Africans and Nigerians, but you wouldn't listen. Just imagine how dumb you sound. I'm proud to say I'm from Anambra state (the light of the nation), where you from again ?

Inasmuch as daftness and idiocy is your banner (fly it well dumbo), I wouldn't have imagined that reading and comprehension is also a problem. Time and time again you prove beyond all things questionable if you're really sound to make good judgment.

I've gone back to my home, at least more than once, question is: do you have a home to begin with let alone going back to it?.

Now read slowly and comprehend very wella because I don't have patience to entertain stupidity .. Life is a transit in which there are many stops leading to only one destination. Therefore, it's not a crime to die in America, but it is an abomination to be buried in America. I'm a traditional man and when that time comes (which is several years ahead), tradition will take it course. Question is: where you from again?

Hehe, QUIT HATING. Nigerians just like other immigrants are developing your country. In comparison to your likes, they are far better in walks of life than you or your type would ever be. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

manny4life:


You're right about what I don't know is more than what I know; however, I do know about one thing: the devil I know is better than the angel I don't know.

America makes it seem like terror is the center point for it's greatness or rather, Trump makes it seem that way. The truth is that, America's war on terror is not as great as other issues plaguing it. It's one thing that America is striving to be the world police (by fire and thunder) and it's another thing that these are clearly their issues and it directly affects them. America's issues are NOT more of foreign policies, thanks to the media for hyping it like it seem, America's main issues are purely domestic.

Education:

If America spent money on education, her people will be advanced. Wonder where STEM is heading to? Take a statistic of people holding STEM jobs in America? Where do you think most of these jobs are heading?

How can you be great again when more than 50% of elementary school students fail math and reading exercises? How do you think they will succeed?

How do you plan on being great when millions of students graduating out of college have a minimum of $20k in student loan debt ballooning at more than 4% annual interest rate?

How do you plan on being great when the educational system have suffered collapse: budget cuts, disenfranchising a certain group of people in state/federal grants, etc.

Security & Violence:

We talk so much about foreign policy in terms of security, but domestically, racism, police brutality, racial profiling and violence and much more far exceeds the death toll suffered by international war on terror.

How do you want to make America great again when a certain group of people are cherry picked for violence

How do you want to make America great again where hate and racist comments seem to thrive, among other vile things, it's celebrated.

How do you want to make America great again when freedom of worship, speech and to vote (thanks to a recent SCOTUS decision back in 2013) is being threatened?

I don't want to derail this thread, but I can go as far as into our judicial system, legislature and it's corrupt activities, the economy, and many more aspects. America's economy bordering on things like foreign trade, fiscal policies, job growth & unemployment, taxes, immigration, wages, poverty, etc has been the center of debate in Congress for the past few years or so, and you think foreign policy is America's problem.

So if you honestly believe foreign policy is America's biggest problems, it's either you don't live in the U.S. OR you simply are not too familiar with America's real problem. I am NOT undermining the threats from foreign sources, but you won't be successful in a foreign fight if your own house isn't kept in order. Yes, America needs a radical president but NOT at the expense of more serious issues. As a president, there's a limit to how much you can involve the U.S. in a foreign conflict, so again, foreign policy as important as it is, is the not a top three item on America's list.

Like I've said before, what will bring America down to it's very knees are not foreign nations like North Korea, China or Russia but it's own people. The signs are everywhere, the American people have had enough of it's leaders.

I forgot, were you in the U.S. back in 2013 when the govt shutdown for 20 days due to Congress NOT passing the budget? Please go and read the ripple effect of such action and what it's still causing 3 years later. When you have someone like Trump saying he would allow the U.S. default on their loans so that he can renegotiate the terms, considering the huge economic loss and financial damage, does that sound like someone who has any clue on American economy? That 20 days shutdown was a greater threat than Russia and China put together.

This is my comment, if you got something to counter, I will pull receipts on you. Counter what I've said or shut the hell up with the "why you hate us so much" bs.