@ OP, it is not easy to be in a relationship in this busy world,whether near or distant.
For the sake of posterity,quietly explain to her mom that you can not continue. Tell her the truth because you do not know tomorrow because you might cross paths and it might not be pleasant. I am telling you from personal experience. A cultist who oppressed me during my first year in the University at the hostels,was posted to serve in my LGA. I saw him and related with my hood rats that I have seen the guy who made my first year on campus to be a living hell. I pitied the guy when they were through with him. They really bloodied him and he had to redeployment to another state. If he had known that his Corpers lodge will be in my girlfriend's street,he would have thought twice before confiscating my mattress ! Stay safe!

baralatie:

you want PMB to allow the senate to probe his decision of appointment!
have you checked PMB body language recently?

we are in a democracy not a benign dictatorship. Why do you think that Tinubu was asking journalists to make the work of PMB's spokesmen easier? The era of Decree 4 is over!
For your information,a vote of 2/3 of the Senate is required to confirm an appointee. There is no executive fiat that can escape that. Go and revisit the Obanikoro saga at the NASS! I foresee a stalemate.
As for PMB's body language,I laugh at the simple mindedness of Nigerians. We are still stuck in the military era. Do you think a President can threaten the Judiciary and Legislature and survive without a bloody nose? What we need in Nigeria is strong institutions,not strong men! If PMB sleeps and don't wake up,will Osibanjo have the courage to continue the ''fight'' against ''corruption''? This is the reason why power can not be allowed to reside in one man's hand! Shikena

@OP, you deserve a good slap from me if you were my son! So,you mean that you approached,dated,courted,proposed,and married a lady without even seeing her national ID card,voter card,or even her birth certificate? Guy,she hooked you with lies,so your marriage is built on deception. You are fighting a losing battle. Menopause is not friendly. Ask any doctor about the risk of having an autistic child when a woman is close to menopause! Good luck !

I pity Nigerians because we are so gullible that they can not smell the coffee that PDP and APC are brewing in the national kitchen!
It is on record that GEJ never met Prof Jega in his life before his confirmation. Prof Jega handed over to Alhaji Wali. He is a brother to Ambassador Wali,the Sokoto State PDP Gubernatorial candidate,who happens to be Tambuwal's godfather and inlaw,because Tambuwal was his PA in 1999 when he was the Senate Leader! APC hawks flooded the media with petitions that he will influence the Sokoto Tribunal.
He was removed without any cogent explanation! No one has even informed the people who is the most senior INEC official,by virtue of appointment date.
Now,the lady was appointed and the PDP is protesting that she has shown bias in the past during the ward delineation and her interference in Jigawa,her home state. Balarabe and Yakassai have averred in the past that PMB spent part of his early childhood in her father's house,the palace of the Emir of Kazaure because his elder sister was married to him! If it is true,then,it is a case of nepotism!
Instead of beating about the bush,PMB should categorically deny that he is related to her by marriage. If it is possible,he should even list his sisters husbands,just to clear his name. A little suspicion is enough to soil a name irrepairably.
There is no way that she will be confirmed in the Senate because 49 senators are PDP members.
It is left for the President to consider other options who has no baggage, e.g. the REC of Edo State,Mike Egini. It is on record that the Cross River State Gov publicly begged that he should be transferred to another state because he was too stiff. He has been consistent in elections that he conducted.
God bless Nigeria

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italo:
before you come with more lies, why don't you clear the previous ones:

You said the Church voted by plus one that black had souls in a Church council.

I said tell us which council? You haven't answered.

You said defaulting Popes' fingers are cut off in a secret conclave. I said prove it. No answer.

You said a Church council with only one literate person struck out the Apocrypha.

I said mention the council. No answer.

Do you feel any remorse or shame for telling such big lies against a Church that is not harming you?

As much I would have loved to maintain my silence, I will like to give you a simple advice. Spend your money on good books and stop running to Goggle and Wikipaedia. That is what makes you a good Catholic. This is a simple reason why most Catholics dislike the Jehovah Witnesses, they have a knack for digging up horrors of the Catholic Church ' past!
1. I will not do your job as a Catholic for you. Go to the nearest Catholic Church and ask any Priest about what Pope Steven IX did to the body of Pope Formosus during the Cadaver synod or the Synodus Horrenda, and that was in public. There are records of others in secret ! Or save yourself the stress and buy on Amazon, The history of the Catholic Church by James Hitchcock!

2. If you are conversant with your church history, you should know the list of Bishops alongside Bishop Arius, that attended the several church councils, leading to the Nicean Council, headed by Constantine!

3. As for the debate on the issue of Africans having souls or if they have it after baptism, go to a good bookshop and search for historical books like Overcoming rascism through the gospel by M. L. Johnson! Do more research on the Pre-Adamite, Cainite and Noahite view of the black race. Then, you will Understand what the theologians were debating in Rome up till 1830, especially with the American Catholic community!
You call yourself a good Catholic and you dont have Butler's lives of saints or other historical books on your church like the bad popes by E. R. Chamberlin . I have great Irish friends, all Catholics, and you will never hear a word from them, discussing inanities like defending the bloodsoaked past of the Church because their private family library is well stacked with books and records!
Shalom

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I laugh in Swahilli when I read that syphilitic Adolf Hitler was excommunicated by the Catholic Church! Pope Pius get that liver to do am. Maybe, you have forgotten about the Concordat of Rome which was signed with Mussolini which ceded lands that comprises the Vatican today in exchange for State control of the schools and other rights! If the Catholic Church tried that bullshit on Hitler, the consequence would have been catastrophic. The
Church signed the Reichskonkordat with Hitler and they never protested when the Jews were maltreated. They complained when the rights of Catholics were trampled on, leading to protest from the Church,included in the 1937 Mit brennender Sorge encyclical of Pope Pius XI. Hitler was backed to the end by the Black pope, Vladimir Lechochowski, the superior general of the Jesuit order!
The Vatican was the last State to break ties with Nazism. Try to read Hitler's book, Mein Kampf and Understand the ideology behind Nazism, if it was not Catholic in essence! I am not a Catholic basher but I dislike religious supremacists!
Stop turning history on its head!

shalomm:


I'm Christian and Proud. but bro you just commit a blunder by saying the bolded statement of yours.... Soviet Union, North korea, Cambodia are we hearing any issue of those country legalizing gay marriage or the LGBTC community? are u saying Russia has no Christians? or aren't there christian in North Korea?

They need to read the open letter by President Vladimir Putin of Russia to Obama about the American people losing their Christian identity! Putin and his family belongs to the Russian Othordox Church, likewise most of the apparachitiks of the Communist Party! I don't really know why people keep referring to Russia as athiest. The glastnost is over, wake up!

Emyben:


You know nothing Ms Safari.

Your post is so sickening if you really are a catholic. And if you insist that italo is brainwashed, give reasons. state too the hypocrisies you mean. Educate us

Do you know that it took a vote of plus one before a Church council decided that black people have souls? How did certain books become excluded from the Bible as the Appocrypha at a church council when only one of the members present was literate? If you are a true catholic, can you tell us what happens to a dead Pope at a secret conclave, who have been found guilty of breaking the laws of the Mother Church? Normally, the Fisherman's ring is only destroyed, but for a defaulting Pope, several fingers are also cut off! If you think that I am kidding, ask any Catholic Priest that you know!
There are issues every where in the religious circle! Muslims killing Christians and Buddhists killing Muslims! It is really a crazy world!

@ italo, you are a good example of what the OP was talking about! I am a practicing Christian but I kick against man made dogma. Even Saint Paul talked about the doctrines of man.
Because you are a Catholic, does that mean that you will turn a blind eye to the excesses of the Church, and pass it off as individual errors? Even Pope John Paul apologised to the world, the jews, gypsies, moriscos for their persecution by the Catholic Church in 2000,during the Jubilee service. Abi you want to deny it? Google is there for all.
As for Science, I pity you and other brain washed Africans who believe the bullshit taught in school. I learnt the philosophy of Science at the University and everything was about the Greeks, and little about the Egyptians.
Was is it the Catholic church that built the libraries of Timbuktu and Alexandria ? When the Sumerians invented the wheels and alphabeths, Abraham was not even born! When the Mayans were cauterising wounds and carrying out bone transplant and other advanced surgical operations, the Early Church were hiding in the Catacombs of Rome. Perhaps, you have not heard of the Dogon civilization of Mali . They predicted astronomical phenomena and did calculations with pin point accuracy, years before Galileo was born! Na the Church teach the Babylonians about the rings of Saturn, thousands of years before the telescope was invented? There is over a million year old nuclear rector in Africa, who built it?
The Church has always kicked against scientific discoveries that exposed the fallacies of several doctrines of man . Why did fight against Galileo and Copernicus when the book of Job said that God is sitting on the circle of the earth and that He hang the earth on nothing? Blood circulation is in the Bible but did the Church support Harvey? NO!
We are told that Hippocrates is the Father of medicine, but, his ideas were based on the teaching and research of Imhotep, an Egyptian priest! Has the Church ever come out to correct that error since there are veritable records in the Vatican archives? How can a dirty Idol worshiping Black man be named the Father of Modern Medicine? Impossible! Rather, his name was further blackened in the movie trilogy, "The Mummy", as a flesh eating priest! They were more concerned with the Da Vinci code!
The Arabs have been enslaving blacks for centuries, but the Catholic Church perfected the act of modern slaves trade. It was a Catholic priest, who suggested that Africans should be brought to the New World ( North America and the Carribeans) because the natives were been exterminated! Wikipaedia is your friend. History is full of the excesses of the Church since the days that the Florentine State Secretary, Niccolo Machiavelli wrote his master piece, the Prince, which he modelled on Cesare Borgia, the son of a supposedly celibate Pope!
I don't want to talk about the events around the collaboration with the Nazis and the Mussolini gang during WWII. It is an open secret. Pope John Paul has said it all. Perhaps, you have not read the recent Wiki leaks about the Saudi Government 's cables to the Vatican about the Syrian Govt, with regards to ISIS!
When the Archbishop of Canterbury decided on ordaining gay priests, the Nigerian Anglican Prelate rallied the Church worldwide and stoop up against him! What happened when the butler to the last Pope was jailed for released documents showing massive frauds, nepotism and contract racketeering among top Cardinals in the Vatican, did the Nigerian arm of the Catholic Church say a word? Nope! They were more interested in tearing down CAN because Cardinal Onaiyekan lost the Presidential elections. He simply lost because the Nigerian Christian house is tired of his pro - Northern establishment stance and continued ass licking of the Sultan in the face of continued massacre of Christians in the North! He just could not stop talking about his time with Sir Ahmadu Bello, fiddling while Borno was on fire!
Juvenal once rightly quipped "it was fear that first created the gods". We have stopped reading and that is the reason why the African people is backward! If not, How can an educated man believe that killing a fellow human is a short cut to Paradise, or donating all your financial resources to the Church will invoke God's blessings, when the person in question, is corrupt?
Until the day that the African people, and Nigerians in particular, really sit up and search the Scriptures or other Holy books, and compare it to what they are told, we will never be free intellectually!

Soreza:
STUDYING OIL AND GAS IN NIGERIA OR RUSSIA WHICH IS MORE BETTER? And what sector of oil and gas is highly needed,is it reservoir or drilling which?

Russia is miles ahead. Gubkin University is one of the best in the world. But, I don't think that students are permitted to work and also, the issue of language and rascism is another barrier.
Goggle is your friend.

Gurgle:


Ok. are you quite a health enthusiast in general?

Yeah I like the stretches and muscle toning but I feel like its too slow. I want something faster

Not really. I prefer eating well cooked food with the right spices like tumeric, cinnamon, etc. But na time o. Wetin man go do? Lol

Gurgle:


I just googled it, I like those chairs. do you have one?

I prefer other exercises to Yoga, I tried but I didn't really like it. how long have you been practicing it for?

I used to have one. Like I said, it was a figure of speech. As for hatha yoga, I have been practicing for years but not regularly in recent years due to my tight schedule. I can assure you that Rome was not built in a day. Poco a poco, you will become limber enough to dare try out crazy postures.

Gurgle:


whats divan

I don't have anything to tell really I just have a bad sleeping pattern

A type of chair. I was speaking figuratively about sitting. As for insomnia, it is simple though. I take a glass of warm milk or I practice my yoga asanas, postures in English.

Gurgle:

Lol I promise you it wont
but I now understand youre trying to avoid temptation

Join me on my divan and tell me all about it. I am all ears!

Gurgle:

hahaha but what is an ear without the shoulder na

Hmmm. It might end up in a cuddle, and............

Gurgle:


Lol thanks its just so annoying!

Wanna talk about it? I can give u a listening ear but not my shoulder to cry on! No offence. Lol

whitewitch:
IT IS WELL

Stop been a cry baby. Sleep joor

Gurgle:


I tried to sleep early the past 2 nights

I was just lying there considering my life till date, mehn what kind of nonsense is that

When Sleep comes he should call me Im tired of waiting joor

Sup. Take it easy o! Life na jeje!

Truckpusher:
What's the meaning of the highlighted statement , is cherlene's puccy made of gold?

I tire o! All wells nor get choice o! It must accept well bucket, whether dem dig am for big man house or poor man house! Well na well!

Captainswag225:
as usual, the same old loser who operate 20 monikers reveals his identity because of love. Whitewitch the worthless bleached monkey

Bad man! U harsh o! U vex pass man when Boko Haram bomb him only store! LOL

Sinnzu:
Funny enuf she's d one am laffin at. Not dat i giv two fuccks, its juss for the laughs.

I dey tell u! I bow!

Sinnzu:
Yes.

Please, a sample of the lies o! Abi na....

whitewitch:
stay away

I don't believe you fell for that because to every street smart Nairalander, that statement was an obvious lie.
Wetin concern agbero with overload? Na only you waka come! I drag woman with you?
In Dark Vader's voice, "it is already past bed time, son".

Cherlene:


Aaaaaaaawwwww,
BEAUTIFUL your the first NAIRALANDER to SING/WRITE a lyric for me.

So CHARMING! Thank you.

Cherlene

Story for the gods!
Women and their memory!
Babe, as you fine reach, So you mean to tell us that you have not received poems from any guy or guys on Nairaland?
Haba! Diaris God o!!