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Maths do me shege sha.

Say I end up as lawyer today na partly because I no sabi maths.

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Smoked them away!

Good one. But we ain't selling, or should we?

If its sold, i hope I will get a share for all my ftcs?

And he's right.

Carry on Sir!

If the same people who advised against polygamy are the ones preaching gay rights and transgender, I'll keep on preaching polygamy.

Height: 5 feet 11 inches.
Weight: 93kg looking to push it to 98kg.
Build: Large boned mesomorph.
You can check out my profile photo.

For those complaining of not putting on enough, go start lifting weights, squats, deadlifts, and maybe bench press.

Eat enough carbs and proteins, Drink enough water. In fact, when you start lifting, in a while you'll notice a difference in your consumption.

See ehn, if the oppressed keep waiting for when his freedom will be handed to him by his oppressor, e go wait tire.

Why do you think there's a phrase as "Freedom ain't Free"?

If we keep waiting for Fulani to relinquish their hold, we go grow white bear bear. Matter of fact, they still regard the whole of Nigeria as their estate due to the actions of the British devils.

Reason why I'll keep supporting any group that preaches division and breakup of Nigeria.

adecz:


The problem is that the elite
Fulani who control the Hausas and
Northern Nigeria don't want the
country to split because they have
parasitically become used to the wealth
from Christian southern Nigeria.

Today, they add no value to the country
but want to control the resources coming
from other people's backyards, which
they use to marry many wives, build
mosques in every nook and crannies
of their land and buy houses in Abuja and Dubai.

Unfortunately, southern politicians have
been bought over to betray their
regions.☹️☹️☹️☹️

I've always made this argument. Check most European nations, they're fashioned and formed along tribal lines, France for Frenchmen, England for English, Poland for Polish, Finland for Finnish, etc.

But Africa?

No thanks to the Berlin conference of 1884, tribes that can barely stand themselves were bundled together, no respect for geographical monuments.

Until this is solved and African states are redesigned along tribal lines, Rwanda war, Congo war, Nigerian civil war and all the skirmishes we have all over the continent will never cease.

Reason why government is so lucrative and a highly sought after profession because when a man is in position of authority, his tribe flourishes to the near detriment of the others.

I be wan talk say make we wait till weekend to count scores when BH boys with the support of Buhari go do their counter, but then, I come remember say Bandits just released photos of their victims yet to be ransomed.

When una go rescue those one?

LeoDeKing:
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Nwanne, take this pain somewhere else.

The problem is that feats as this is not sustainable. Wait till tomorrow and then we hear that insurgents have counter attacked.

And when they do, the carnage makes the casualties in this operation look like a child's play.

When Nigeria, and the North want to solve this problem of theirs, they will. For now, they can keep being sympathetic to the Boko cause, after all, Jihad in its purest form is what BH is all about.

Advice you on what again?

Use ya tongue to count ya teeth.

Read the writing on the wall, if you can't read get someone to read it for you.

If you like dey mumu for there.

Go and get another kukunase so you can get over this one.

Nothing to see here!

Just two criminal gangs battling over turf and supremacy.

Did you say second term?

Somewhere in the good book says that nothing happens without God first revealing it to his servants.

How come Kumuyi didn't know about this before it occurred?

Either the Bible is fraud or Kumuyi is fraud!

Life never really gets easy, its just us becoming more numb to The stimuli as days go by.

Just finish your Nysc first, don't think too much about not having a savings yet, try and have another source of income.

I didn't save a dime during my Nysc 10 years ago, I'm still alive and doing fine, so nor let too much worry dey disturb you, you go dey alright.

Learn to live it one day at a time.My

A lot of times, women in marriages get overwhelmed with marital challenges because they don't discuss their marital affairs with third parties which is a good thing because a lot of time, those third party may only have a perspective and not well suited to give best advice.

In 2018, a lady rushed into my office, the way she sounded, if I could hand her a divorce order at that moment, I'll be her Messiah, but I got her to talk, apparently, she'd been facing some challenges in her marriage for years, hadn't talked with anyone about because third parties should not come in between a couple, so she had a lot pent up, that was her first time of having to talk about these things.

Eventually, she unburdened herself, I advised her on the most objective line of action and I believe she's happier now.

If you're both religious and devout, you can try seeing a marriage counselor if your church has one, or you can see a good therapist, I don't readily advice seeing pastors or imams for some reasons.

For your kids, I think what they need is to see you two together, good together, no more open altercations. They don't need therapy, the therapy they need is to see the love between you both.

So for starters, try and make your husband appreciate the effect his actions are having on the kids. If you can get him to do that, half of your job is done.

Bad comes to worse, if you guys have disagreement like adults should, ensure it's not done in front of your kids.

I hope this helps.

janejjjjj5000:
Thank you so much, sir.

Do you think the kids might be needing therapy too?

They cry when this happens. Especially the two oldest ones. The last two are twins and less than 2 so they don't know anything.

I am just so confused. I don't discuss my home with third parties so I just felt like coming here to vent because I feel I cannot cope alone any longer.

Become schizophrenic or hallucinate.

Have you guys seen a counselor or good family lawyer ?

You guys need therapy, especially him.

From your post, he rarely gets angry, but when he does, all hell flows, it can be managed.

Possibly its a result of built up anger locked inside which eventually seeks expression in the most nasty form. You both need to work on your communication, so he can express disappointments and anger timeously and in the the most civilised manner .

In conclusion, jettison that divorce idea. As long as he hasn't gone physical on you, your marriage is very redeemable.

Good luck as you try your best.

They didn't give him, he took it, brigand style.

frowland:
…….or Abia gave their all to you?

Good.

But its too early to celebrate.

Give us update in a months time.

CandyOps:
I'm 12 days clean today. Sunday will make it 2 weeks of no smoking.
No THC in my blood. No carbon monoxide in my lungs. No carrying of lighter upandan.

No more unnecessary extremely high libido.
No more munchies. No more red eyes like say Apollo de catch me.

12 days clean after steady daily blazing for about 4 straight years. Make una help me thank God �

What was that Abacha tried to do?

dustydee:
This reminds me of what Abacha tried to do when Nigeria was sanctioned during his regime. Necessity is the mother of invention.

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mukina2, HumbledbYGrace, osystein, lalasticlala

E be like say this boy never learn im lesson.

Waiting too...

Sango, is that not the God of fire again?

I love Anambra, my second state.

Normally, dem nor too send us like that.

One way to find out.

Make this woman rest before we change am for am.

There's no way she can pretend she doesn't know her daughter has been sexually active for a while.

Businesses need the best brains to thrive.

Nigerian governments run a warped form of federalism. So when it comes to employment into any government organization, federal character takes priority over merit.

Then also, with the proliferation of corruption and nepotism, available jobs are either given to friends and cronies or tribesmen of those in charge, or its given to the one with the money.

All of these procedure do not prioritize merit.

So government business suffers.

Parachoko:
I wander why is so hard for the federal and state government to run a business in Nigeria though.

Is this guy aware that he is a public office holder?

A position he holds in trust for the people?

Its a super story... A life of strife and sorrows.

Your daughters complained that their father, your husband was sleeping with them and you did not carry out medical examination as a doctor that you are or take them to be examined by another doctor if you couldn't do it yourself?

You're supposed to be a doctor, this is common procedure in reported rape cases. What if they got pregnant?

Your story nor gel.