KendrickAyomide:
na Dam u wan build??

I guess you don't know what it cost to build a swimming pool,it actually cost more that ,its almost 2m for a mini size pool bro

dangotesmummy:
the means is not Important it's the end.so abeg let me hear word.men have been impregnating the other woman and bringing the child to their house without the wife's consent to take care of but when a woman brings in another child from another man we won't hear word again

Your argument will only be accepted when women starts paying groom's price(dowry) ,but since men still pay the bride price ,your argument is baseless.

Evaberry:
....

infertility has always been a big problem.


so the man knew he was impotent yet went ahead to marry and conceal the truth, I'm sure the man's family must-have put her through hell because of her childlessness.


This is why I always advise men to test their sperm before marriage. if you are a guy and you are more than 25 and no girl has ever gotten pregnant for you 'mistakenly' you need to check yourself, there's something wrong with you.

Are you okay?

[quote author=Saliman22 post=59993696]Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please [/quote

Do you love her so much that you can bear the shame of marrying a girl that slept with your brother?

Do you love her so much that you can get married to her knowing that she might continue the illicit affair with your brother?

Can you bear the pains of finding out that one of your children or all belongs to ur brother ?

After answering these questions you can make up your mind

Sex is not something you have with someone and just move on especially when the person is within your reach.

There comes a time in a man's life where he have to take a tough decision, this is the time for you bro.

And the only swag I see there is the limo nothing else ,upcoming artiste I no even see..

And the only swag I see there is the limo nothing else ,upcoming artiste I no even see

I'll only comment when she writes a book about herself and put the part synonymous with our Toyo baby .

Congrats to her shaa

From your post and response to quotes here ,I can say that you're indecisive and afraid to loose a potential husband like you said.My humble advice is to agree to his initial proposal of going into relationship,it will be better since he's leaving ur neighborhood so u won't say ur dating someone in the same street ,you'll get to know if he's truly a husband material or a seeing material.

Here's my reason for suggesting that you date him.As it is now you're already feeling like ur letting something slip off ur hand,but by dating him first,you'll get to know if you're trowing away something possibly good or if you're saving yourself from future harm.

chiraqDemon:

U won't just go down there without confirming nau. U can trick the girl into taking a bath with u b4 the match starts. U will wash her by urself. Then u will finger her n perceive ur finger(stylishly o) b4 deciding to do it. If e smell bros please no let ur mouth near there.

perceive ur finger stylishly .Lol Bad nigga

HannahHitler:
trust me. it can get addictive once you get the hang of it. it's the best. Making a girl come that way is like smoking crack to me.

I sight you

Lalas247:

Already seen latest episode of Got
Watching Midnight Texas..... night night

I came across midnight Texas while downloading movies last time but wasn't sure if it will be interesting cuz I only watch action movies.How is the movie pls? is it anything like strike back, blind spot American Odyssey.......?

I don't mind clinching once you have
Good character
Nice curves
Nice frontiers
pretty face
Nice and intimidating backyard. Virgin is never on my wish list

imagine a president rubbing shoulders with people that threatened the peace of this country by issuing quick notice to Igbos in North but he was quick enough to arrest Nnamdi Kanu .

Oga our mumu don do abeg

sukkot:
this goofy nigga needs to be flogged. can he tell his grampa that he goofed ? people these days. no respect.

He needs to be flogged because he said what a coward like u and ur type are afraid to say .
keep on deceiving yourself

I laugh u, see u wey don already plan styles and positions wey u go give her,u just wan hear go ahead

u better take your eyes off another man's wife !

Bross,on behalf of the assistant boyfriends association of Nigeria( ABAN), we welcome you as our newest member and chairman.

On a serious note,no body is expecting the lady to give her body to the guy or for the guy to just go onto the girl.
one clear thing is that you can't put two opposite sex in the same house for long and don't expect any form of attraction.
As time goes on the girl will start doing things like cooking for the guy,washing ,sweeping or any other thing ,likewise the guy and things like this can spark out strong emotions. let's say ur girl is strong enough to withstand the emotions but how long can she?
put yourself in her position and comfort yourself with the truth .

A bird that loves its owner will definitely fly back home to the master .

Another side of this is your girl may not have anything with this guy but you just can't help but to imagine the worst .Just be a man and put your emotions in check not to mess things up yourself.

Souljeezy:
considering the specs mentioned above,the price is OK..

meanwhile.. i ordered a LEAGOO M8 frm China
2gb ram, 16gb rom, Android 7.0, 13mp back cam 8mp front cam, 5.7 HD screen, 3500 mah battery, fingerprint scanner dat unlocks in 0.2 secs.
all for #25700.
but de weight of de fone na die..

From where and how did u place ur order please?

this is shit ..lemme save my mb for a better post

Daeylar:


Wasn't a blast, didn't mean for it to sound like one, i was just trying to be fair to both parties

Lol,but at the end u gave him a piece of it.

Eberex:
I have a similar story to this one.

A guy met a girl during his Nysc post experience in a high school. When he got a job and she got admission they started to date. The girls family were average and werent doing much for her in terms of sending money for handouts and levies. He took care of most of these bills.

They see only when she comes home for break and sometimes when he travels to see her in school. She has graduated now and just 23. The dude is in his late 30's. He discovers something when he thought deeply about getting married to her. She might feel she is ready all because she wants to please him or feel she owes him because of his help for her through out her school days. Secondly her family are yet to get on their feet and most times he still send her money even now she is home. The folks are not really buoyant.

He told her he cannot Marry her because the burden from her and her family including her siblings would be too much for him. He also have responsibilities for his own folks. Getting married in their cultures means you are getting married to her family as well. He doesn't want to feel obligated to help her family if he marries her which is impossible.

Money has a role to play in marriage. But if she isn't working and her family needs help. Where does she run to? Of course it's the man.

And how does this two stories relate?
just judge yourself.

chronique:


Ate which money? Does the person on the dp of the op, look like someone that has money to be eaten? Besides, the girl never said she wasn't interested so there's no need bringing in that angle cos it's dead on arrival.

Never you judge a guy's financial status based on his looks or appearance,
he probably look rough whilst making sure the girl looks good .

Daeylar:


Op you didn't give any details in your story, you haven't said the reason you can't marry her so we can judge. What happened? And I am assuming this must have happened recently because she was good enough to date for over 9 years so what's the problem now?

We can't give you any help until you say why you can't marry her.

If she hasn't done anything wrong and you just want to leave for selfish reasons then tell her that you are a selfish bastard and in all honesty She is far better off without you, I hope the person you want to leave her for shows you hell on earth and makes you completely miserable.

Lol,what a calculated and subtle blast

yemzzy22:
after digging sokaway and borhole you now tired of it cause you have been nacking apako for the past 10 years bro your banna go change position as I take dey type this to you but me I disvirgined a girl today and I love her dating her for two month sha she is my life I love her if she could allow me to do so I will still marry her am 20 yrs for now she is 16 yrs

Your own case worst

proudly saying u deflowered a minor.
I bet 10years from now you'll come up with ur own story of how u deflowered this girl ,made her abort 5times for u and can't marry her cuz she's desperate to get married.

After u don dry all the Ingredients wey dey her veejay u com know say age no dey her side.

oga just settle with that babe and take her to the alter ASAP

Lol,bad day for the guy

My elderly observation be say their two bin dey enjoy am b4 but as the girl com find out say the bobo self dey touch another babe for the same compound, na wetin com make her vex as the bobo wan touch her again so as the bobo com beat her and the matter don open for public the babe turn am to sexual abuse. Don't quote me o,u can make ur own observation.

CarolineOlawale:
biafuro people una see una life?

All I see is hatred all over you
Another product of hate.

Does she really have to say that shit out?

I bet the rich guy she's dating now must be having a deep thought. nigga will be like " so if I go broke tomorrow you're gone the next day"

agbonkamen:
whether calaba or mararaba na 5minutes pleasure because after the do and done person eyes go open

And the thought of the 5minutes pleasure will give u extra minutes of pleasure which makes it everlasting memory .After the do and done,na that time my eyes dey close. Lolz

agbonkamen:
This why I said how I wish God didn't create pussy and dick the world for sweet. How you go dump your family for just 5minutes pleasure.....ogao

madam, calabar puna pass 5mins pleasure o,I'm a living witness

calabar woman can format and reset a man's brain in zaoza room .

plus their food na die. Lol

Can any good news cone out of this country?
Na this kind people our Bubu suppose dey rule.

Daeylar:


The 1st, 2nd & 3rd paragraph was a response to the comment I quoted where the man tried to excuse the ridiculous and outright insulting behaviour of the op's husband(which you also agree was wrong in all aspects) as normal so I told him that since he sees his behaviour as normal, I hoped he will also see his wife's behaviour as normal if she decides to follow in his footsteps.
That part of the comment was directed to the poster I quoted, and you can see how he tried to backtrack when he responded to my mention,

I responded to the op in my last paragraph and I made it clear that she was the one I was referring to

why didn't you just ask if you didn't understand my post instead if going straight to attack me

We're good now my dear,it wasn't an attack but a straight forward response to what I perceived as a yardstick for the woman to retaliate. since you've cleared it out,I get ur point now. peace !