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BLEMOSEDU:
What are you bitching about?
Are you angry that he made peace with his father? So you want him to keep hating his father despite now seeing things clearer? Nawaaa o
@op never listen to any negative opinion, one thing I always tell all boys/men is no matter the relationship you had with your father while growing up, never ever fail to find out why your father acted the way he did, hear him out before passing judgment, no matter what your mother may have told you about him, when you have come of age. Because what goes around definitely comes around.

BRATISLAVA:
So now that you heard his side it has justified the cruel treatment to your mother that you said made her to suffer? What do your unborn children have to do with his unkindness to your mother?. Problem is that many men do evil to their wives not knowing that the people who will never forgive them are the children. The way your unborn children will have nothing to do with this is if you treat your future wife well. I have no pity for men who do evil and get abandoned by their kids. This is why abuse in any form is foolishness, because it is the children who will suffer it not even the spouse you want to hurt. His side means nothing. The oppressors do not need sympathy except from fellow oppressors. And yes, it will be taken as a pat on the back. Loyal or disloyal, nobody deserves to be abused . Just divorce. Don't torture yourself and kids.

blank:
I'm just wondering. How will the expensive gifts you want to buy for him make up for the parental neglect you suffered from him? He had a disagreement with your mom and decided to take it out on the kids by not providing for them. Sounds like a douchebag. But what do I know?

Graxie:
This is why I hate single motherhood, I can never raise up kids by myself alone except due to widowhood. God will not even allow me to be one. Every single mother should read this thread and wake up, you will raise this kids alone and they will go in search of their father. Some will even claim you manipulated them. Wake up and seek for child support from sperm donor, even if it means going public. Don't waste your life for nothing. Better still, go and drop those kids for your sperm donor family. Be wise.

CAPSLOCKED:
MARTINEZ39 THERE'S A NEW MEMBER IN THE USED-AND-DUMPED CLUB. I THINK THE RED PILLS WILL DO SOME GOOD TO HEAL HIS HEART, AND WE MUST ACT NOW, LEST HE DRINKS OTA-PIAPIA AND DIES.

emmaodet:
I think the problem is that we men really love more than women.
Women hardly invest anything tangible in a relationship so that they can move on as fast as possible when the situation arise.
Let us look it this way - i work in the offshore industry and noticed one thing about big companies in nigeria. Big companies like Total hardly have any tangible asset in nigeria so that they can easily move on incase of war, crisis, unfavorable govt. policies, labour uniin wahala for salary increment, community wahala etc.
Most of there facilities were outsourced to other companies to bear the risks incase kasala burst.
It is the companies with Men mentality of investing that are always really bleeped - the have large and tangible investments in nigeria, lands, buildings, cars, rigs, ships etc they get bleeped by policies and can't really manoeuvre unlike Total without any rig, ships etc to there name.
Bottom line - don't invest much in a relationship as a guy and before entering any relationship, pls have your Exit Strategy just like in business when the shit hits the fan.

NevetsIbot:
Well. My experience was before I got woke...After I got woke, I realized this - 90% of women will walk over you to the bigger spender, Finer guy and better fvvker. And they will not care how you feel about it... Even if they do care, it'll be of little importance to them... They won't lose sleep over it.

I have three girl coming for me... They have boyfriends (two of them already are fiancé's" ... Yet they still come for me like there's no tomorrow...two can't leave their boyfriends for me cos they are affianced already. And I wonder if one day, I'd have a fiancé who'd low-key be begging a guy for dick.


You can't fully understand women but the little I know... I've become immune to their games... All the crocodile tears,the blackmails, distress calls and manipulative advances don't work on me.


There's no special girl.... If you eff up.. I'll drop you like a hot coal.

Kseafresh:
Just be aware..the gods are pleased

Kseafresh:
Your reward is in Heaven

NevetsIbot:
She was the last person I'd expect to do such a thing.. That she left was not the most painful part, the derision I got from her almost ran me mad.

NevetsIbot:
Lol... If any guy is up to 20yrs and doesn't know this, then he's a phooooo...

My eye cleared when my best friend of 9rs who happened to be my gf left me for someone who had higher dough... I was surprised she could do that. She was the last person I'd expect to do such a thing.. That she left was not the most painful part, the derision I got from her almost ran me mad.

Right from then, I understood the shit... Worked on myself, upped my income, made my looks more alluring, became a very ambitious guy who pursues the good life...

Any relationship i get into now -

If she messes up, red card
Asks me to foot her bills unnecessarily - Red card.
Expects me to lavish money - Ultimate red card.
Expects me to live above my means - Red card.
Compares me with a bloke who spends without wisdom - Red card.
Is ungrateful of even my tiniest favours - Red card.
Doesn't not have something productive to do to make money - Red card.
can't think and make decisions on her own - Red card.
Won't place me above all other options - Red card... In fact, when I notice another guy is fingering your brain successfully, red card.
Is not intelligent - we can't even have anything to do with eachother in the first place


This life is too easy, I can't complicate it for myself... I love - Yes, but my love is conditional....

Terms and conditions apply

Skmoda360:
This cruel truth

ubunja:
yep. Guys never used to separate "being special to a girl" and "turning a girl on".
Gents are getting wise to the game.

PROPHETmichael:
Ofcourse but at least if you don't doubt the integrity of my prophetic ministry, I'll put into your hand, the key to europe that I'm holding.

PROPHETmichael:
Beef you? Nahh it's actually the opposite hence the reason you called me out the other day and disappeared afterwards

Jasen1:
Oh wow I see
But you will come here and post that he is cheating on you this and that mitcheew

emmachukwu99:
His father didn't dump them. Read the part that says he visits often and take them home at holidays. You don't know the kind of work he does but was still there for them, as this guy has pointed out. Maybe it's hard for you to admit that some women are NOT mother indeed.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT IS IT WITH WOMEN (MOST) AND HYPOCRISY, AND JUSTIFYING STUPID THINGS?

THE SAME GROUP THAT WILL CALL MEN SCUM-DOGS FOR JUMPING AROUND, WILL CLAP FOR EACH OTHER AND MAKE UP STUPID REASONS WHY THEY SUPPORT THEIR OWN GROUP TO DO THE THINGS THEY CALL MEN NAMES FOR DOING.

IT'S GETTING MORE CONFUSING ON A DAILY.

Jasen1:
Lolzz

Funny thing be self her follow girls de support her saying she's only in relationship not marriage

Imagine oh

PROPHETmichael:
Stop deceiving yourself coz my eyes are on you.

truthsayer009:
Wait what? Even youuuu Martinez

safarigirl:
just because you're a cheap and easy lay, does not mean everyone is trying to share dick like you, guy.

This is a childish method of reasoning, you will get to an age in life that the thought of stressing your waist to pummel someone's daughter, will hold little to no appeal to you.

anochuko01:
In my late 20s, never had sex, and haven't been in a relationship for the past eight years....

Innobee99:
This response got all the answers I want... Thanks ma

Gaspardd:
She told me specifically that if i do not go to church with her next sunday, i shld just forget about her for the rest of my life.

Her claim is...she has never made any request like that b4, so for her to insist on it means she is very serious about it. Tho my response was "I'll rather die" but reason why she would be so clear cut about it kinda bothers me. One mind is telling me to just say fùck it and be a man but another voice is telling me to give it a rethink or something.

Shibaraba:
You don't need our advise as I can see you've advised yourself already. I won't judge the other leech for you know her well, but I'll say tread with caution. I have numerous examples of guys whose babes behave like yours.they end up not marrying. The secret is a lady who is interested in marrying you won't be looking for material things. For she believes she is saving for you. A lady who spends on you beloved you to be an investment. If she doesnt ask it means she is not looking for what she gains now. She is looking at the future. Don't let your dick think for you. Use your sound reasoning. As for me when you start billing me you Don turn sex doll be that. I go dey nack you at will. Christmas list.... Taaaaa. Even wives don't do that now