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Marrying a girl of 20, 22 or 23 years old is the best. Cos marrying a girl that is within that age range will make you feel younger, energetic and lively. She will also be felxible and fun to be with. Thoughts of her will always make you (her husband) blush each time you are coming back from work. Though marrying a young girl do come with some disadvantages, but its advantages make it worth the while.

Someone I know is presently confused, due to the number of suitors asking for her hand in marriage. All the suitors (five) have the qualities she wants in a man, and all of them are also doing very well and financially okay. Choosing one and rejecting the rest might make her look bad in their eyes. And none of the guys is ready to step down for the other. Right now, she's so confused. I know a lot of girls have found themselves in similar situations. Its never easy to make up one's mind when its time to get married or say yes to a particular guy.

If they keep this beautiful sexy girl and #10 million naira and ask you to choose btw her and the 10 million naira, which one will you choose?

As a guy what will you do should your girlfriend starve you of sex, which normally is your right as her boyfriend to enjoy anytime you want. Since you also take care of her needs

Some girls of today now bring up a lot of conditions whenever a man ask for their hand in marriage. Some might ask you to join their church first, while others might want you to stop drinking, smoking, watching soccer, stop doing things she doesn't like or cut down on any bad habit you may have. Most girls these days tend to feel they have the upper hand when it comes to accepting a man's marriage proposal. Since they have enough suitors to choose from.

They both dont feel love for any guy. All they are interested in is to satisfy their personal urge and desire. Girls who like sex a lot tend to fall in and out of love a lot. And most of them cant help but say yes to every fine guy that ask her out cos of her high libido. Such girls usually end up heartbroken. While girls that get involved with guys cos of money, dont have time for love. They just do it for the money...Such girls are usually heartbreakers. Once any guy she is with, runs out of money, she immediately pitch her tent with the next available guy with enough cash. So between the two types of girls, which one do you prefer?

In life there are some risks one shouldn't take at all no matter what you stand to gain from it, should your life be at stake. Imagine travelling or coming from a far place and crossing the sea on a boat just to come and meet someone for sex and money. The risk some girls take...ehhh. Should anything happen to you, who are you going to blame?

If you truly love a girl, you will always forgive and take her back no matter the number of times she hurt you. There are guys who have found themselves in such situations, and have no problem getting back with such a girl. For love they say, conquers all.

Abeg, when did it turn to an achievement to live outside the shores of Naija. Why has it turned to the biggest and most important line some guys throw around when trying to woo a girl? What about getting to know the You in You first without droping the word at every given second? Thats how some men will come to my box and start...
My name is....
I live in Canada
Here is my digit...

Who bloody cares if you live in Mars.

I dont blame them sha, I blame ladies who jump at the word like they have won a lottery. Mtcheeeew

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I guess its getting married. Cos of the importance almost every girl attach to it. Just like someone I know, who was seriously looking for a job after her graduation and youth service. But immediately one of her suitors proposed and she accepted, she instantly stopped looking for a job, and started planning for her wedding at once. That got me thinking. Which is more important to a girl, getting married or getting a job? Guess some of them usually feel once they get married to a rich dude, they wont need to work anymore. Since every of her needs will surely be met by her rich husband...so, why look for a job then?

A lot of has been said about winning the heart of a woman and keeping her for good. Winning a girl's heart is not as difficult as keeping her, I tell you. But there are lines you can use to help make things easier for you, since most girls are moved by what they hear. When you meet a beautiful woman you fancy, you can get her attention and also decode her password by saying ''Among my personal ambitions in life, making you my sweetheart and wife is the most important. Since I've already bought/built a house in Lekki, Bought a fine car, gotten my master degree, and also working with an oil company. The only thing missing is you.'' After saying this, you can now go ahead and ask her to be the only woman in your life forever. Telling her all these would surely make her head to spin and also make her to start taking you serious, before eventually becoming your woman. Even it means leaving her 'not too good' boyfriend to be with you, a lot of girls would do it once they see you are successful and comfortable. Meeting or seeing a successful guy usually makes most girls to blush, become weak and also vulnerable. That's why all those rich Yoruba demons are having a field day in Lagos with girls. Cos their money speaks for them.

Its like its only the heart of poor or struggling guys that are broken by girls. I've noticed that if you are a rich dude, no girl will ever break your heart, rather you will be the one playing with their hearts. Its only the heart of poor guys that are broken by girls, cos they usually dont have any choice and tend to show so much love to a girl. But when you are rich, heartbreak wont be in your dictionary...girls love rich dudes. They like it when you have money and you are very comfortable. Bn rich is like the smell of a lovely perfume to most girls.

A lot of people usually end up marrying the wrong person after rejecting or ignoring the right person for them. Some especially ladies tend to think the amount of care and money showered on them by a guy is a sign of genuine love, while a guy apart from bn carried away by a woman's beauty, might also mistake the great sex and other privileges given to him by a girl as a sign of love, only to realize later he has made a terrible mistake by marrying her...and as a result, you tend to find such people hissing, complaining and shaking his or her head often whenever they think about the mistake they've made in their choice of a partner. Dont be decieved by his or her looks, by his generosity, her good food or great sex. Most of the things or people you see out there are packaging. So look well before you leap.

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A woman that is of marriageable age is just like Time, that waits for no one. As a guy, if you slack...you end up losing her to some one else.

A friend of mine was recently complaining about his girlfriend' attitude to me. He told me the girl cant do anything. That each time she visit him at home, she doesnt like to sweep his house, cook or wash his clothes. She just come and go without putting his apartment in order. She always leave the place the way it is or even worse, without trying to make it cleaner or better. He told me probably she's like that cos she is the first daughter in her family and hardly lift a finger to do anything at home, since she has younger siblings who do all the house chores and other things for her. I guess that's why she finds it difficult to do anything whenever she visits her boyfriend. All she does, is eat, watch TV, have fun, pass the night/ return to her place...And as a result, my friend is having a double mind about marrying such a girl...who cant cook, wash or clean his apartment for him .

Just like where u see pigs u find dirt, same way where u see cheats, u find guilt...

When someone is so into you or loves you so much, the person usually have 'bubbles' in her tummy each time he or she hears your voice, sees you or thinks about you. But when he or she no longer feels anything for you nor by your sight, your voice or thoughts of you (that is if the person still thinks about you), you dont need to be told that the relationship is already dead on arrival (D.O:A). The best thing is to simply move on when things get to that level. In order to avoid stories that touches...

Who has more swag between Irvin Randle and our own Richard Mofe-Damijo (RMD)?

At times, you cant but want the best for an ex you are no longer with. Especially if you were the one that broke his or her heart. Out of guilt, you will always wish her to be happy, to find love again or have a fulfilled life afterwards. Its only someone who is heartless that wont care or show concern about an ex, he or she brought so much pain upon. I've seen guys rejoicing whenever they hear an ex is getting married or dating again. It gives one a kind of closure or relief. And do help to reduce the guilt one feels for hurting an ex so bad. Hurting someone is painful enough, not to talk of seeing the person as an enemy or someone you've never met before in your life. Which is common with girls. Who probably do so, either not to expose their bad side/past or so as to be able to move on smoothly

Most people seem to be in a love triangle but they don't know. Cos you might be so crazy or inlove with a particular girl who doesn't give a shit about you but drools over another guy. Who probably doesn't fancy her or reciprocate her love. And while you are busy chasing her or having sleepless nights cos of her, she could also be busy begging, playing wifey or been over loving to another guy who takes her for granted. Such is life. At times we waste so much time loving the wrong person. Love is better and sweeter when it is reciprocated or mutual. Anything else, Na waste of time. Trying to force it, its like inviting heartbreak for yourself...

In the past, most girls usually like claiming to be 22 years old (including those that are older than that). But these days, its like 24 is now the new age among girls. Any girl you ask for her age, is always quick to tell you she's 24 years old. Especially those out of school and ripe for marriage. Guess 24 is a much better and suitable age for them to claim. Since any age above 24 could be seen as been old....

Most girls don't like giving a guy any of her female friend's phone number. Some of them do so out of jealousy. Especially if she also has interest in the guy. She might give you a different reason for not giving you the number or promise to ask her friend first before giving you her number(which she might end up not doing). But if you check very well, you will realize she wants you to herself

A girl got the shock of her life when a small boy of 12 years sent her a tx telling her he loves her sexy ass and would love to be her friend. The girl said she felt like slapping him when next she saw the boy. Whom she thought was still innocent like her own younger brother who is also of the same age with the boy. Guess she is still living in the old world where little boys dont know anything about sex until they get to senior secondary school. Cos kids of today can even impregnate a matured lady if given the opportunity. Most of them are now very exposed due to the internet etc. Imagine buying a boy or girl of 10, 12 years a mobile phone. To do what? To browse and watch porn? Any parent thinking of buying his/her under age child (still under 12) a mobile phone should think it well before doing such. Cos you might end up exposing him or her to a lot of bad influence.

It seems that's what its in vogue among some unmarried couples these days. Since most of them do have sex without condoms. Guess in order to be on a safer aide and also to know their status, some now go for HIV test before having sex. But I thought doing an HIV test is only meant for couples that are about to get married, and not for those still doing boyfriend and girlfriend stuff...

Those days you can't woo any girl without writing her a love poem. You can buy a girl all the gifts in the world, but still lose her to a guy that writes/sends her love poems all the time. Naija girls were very romantic then. They cherished romantic dates, poems and visits. They appreciate been given flowers then. Money was never part of romance. Love was the main thing. A lot of guys became poets overnight cos of it. Writing love poems everyday just to win a girl's heart. Those who couldn't write poems begged or paid others to write one for them to send to a girl. Nobody wanted to be left out of the game. Then, we had so many Romeo and Juliet. People who cherished love and could do anything for it. But I don't know if the same can be said of couples (or girls) of today. Don't know if a guy can still win/catch a Naija girl by writing/ sending her love poems, especially in this period of recession?

Naija girls and survival instincts are like 5 & 6.

Any relationship that is destined to lead to marriage wont be torturous. It might have some hitches/challenges here and there, but it wont be torturous nor unbearable. If you are in such a relationship, please quit!

Some girls are known to have such a mind set. They just want to get married before her ex does. Cos most girls usually feel bad and more heartbroken whenever their ex end up getting married before her. And as a result, many of them dont mind settling for any guy to marry so as to get married before her ex. And also use it to spite him somehow. But some girls in the course of doing such end up marrying the wrong guy. And many of them are in a loveless marriage cos of this same reason. One thing girls need to realize is that life is not a competition. Don't cos of someone rush into something you might end up regretting for the rest of your life.

Is it wrong for a girl who lives with her boyfriend, to be going to church together with him, despite knowing what she's doing (living with a boyfriend she's not yet married to) is a sin. Some girls are guilty of such. Especially those girls who are staying with their boyfriends on campus. Guess they feel there is nothing bad about it. Imagine, committing fornication before going to church, and doing it again after coming back from church every now and then. Even if they don't feel any guilt, their conscience suppose dey judge them...