₦airaland Forum

harnnarh:
i don't know how to vent my anger at glo,they really made me cry this evening.Their customer service is whack....i tried to subscribe with the last spare change i have for the month,the 1k subscription ish.You guys might think "she is is the social media freak that cant do without data plans",but am just a student trying to get data plans for her school work.I download videos related to my school work and materials,the wifi i use before is currently not working and its few weeks to exams.
that aside, i made mistake and dialed *223# instead of *123#,then they offerred me the most annoying plan ever! who am i going to call with 1k for 15 days?.They made things worse by refusing to pick my calls for more than 30 minutes.after picking self nko ?all they could do is nothing! they just added salt to my injury.
I dont know how to just vent my anger so i came to nairaland,you guys might take sides with them,but 1k no be joke oo.infact! they brought tears to my eyes.But why have a customer care that can do close to nothing? they should return my 1k ooo before what happened 3years ago repeats itself
Am just fed up.... i hate everything about this crazy country!

Follow, @9ja_MNpolice on Twitter, DM your account details. We will send you 1k. You made a mistake. But you need the data. It can happen to anyone.

PMIcon:
We are aware of how Aisha Buhari spoke against her husband and publicly said she will not support her husband again if he doesn't change his style of leadership- by that she meant that the president's appointees should be people they both know, not a majority neither of them knows personally. (I recall that ex-president GEJ did something similar in the appointment of former INEC chairman.)

The question is: if you are Aisha Buhari's husband and your wife spoke out against you on a global media station, what will you do and how will you respond when asked about it with international news agencies recording your response?

Note
- Your authority as the husband is at stake
- Your judgment as the president is questioned publicly by your wife
- Your wife is mounting pressure on you (or should we say manipulate you) publicly

Yes, she has right to her opinion but so do you.
How will you react if you are President Muhammadu Buhari?

I will call her into the other room and ask her her reason for disregarding me in front of the whole world.

PMIcon:
We are aware of how Aisha Buhari spoke against her husband and publicly said she will not support her husband again if he doesn't change his style of leadership- by that she meant that the president's appointees should be people they both know, not a majority neither of them knows personally. (I recall that ex-president GEJ did something similar in the appointment of former INEC chairman.)

The question is: if you are Aisha Buhari's husband and your wife spoke out against you on a global media station, what will you do and how will you respond when asked about it with international news agencies recording your response?

Note
- Your authority as the husband is at stake
- Your judgment as the president is questioned publicly by your wife
- Your wife is mounting pressure on you (or should we say manipulate you) publicly

Yes, she has right to her opinion but so do you.
How will you react if you are President Muhammadu Buhari?

I will call her into the other room and ask her her reason of disregarding me in front of the whole world.

sarrki:
By Henry Umoru ABUJA-



http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/buharis-statement-aisha-wake-call-women-senator-olujimi/

All me I know be say,,,, this Aisha woman is so so so fine.

If these two phones are exploding like grenades, what's the correlation?

My own opinion: The number 7.

The number 7 signifies:
1. Perfection
2. Complete.

Is this explosions to teach us that nothing can be made completely perfect?

Qudbell:
keep bothering yurself wih unnecessary qstns..

Shallow minds hardly identifys intelligent questions.

ObiOmaMu:
Pastor David Ibiyeomie of Salvation Ministries church today gave out brand new Hyundai cars to some of his church members.

See more photos of the cars and the overly excited members.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/10/pastor-david-ibiyeomie-gifts-brand-new.html

If it's not for publicity, this should not be make public. The man teaches more of economic rather than the word of God.

Who English don eep?

The essence of language is communication, the essence of communication is understanding.

If I say the girl has been disvirgined, do you understand? Yes! So, no more story. Besides, my swift keyboard didn't underline the word as incorrect.

Only Nigerians will know the meaning of these words:
1. Jented
2. Bajestically
3. Fanimorous
4. Jejely
I can't remember the rest.

Pls add if you do.

metallisc:
with this your comment, it is obvious that you are an example of the people he was referring to!

You're welcome sir.

mrk74:
Thanks

Bro, how far?

Wow, who is this guy?

Saying that many Nigerians don't have the cognitive depth to understand that trash toke said. Girls should draw tattoo, have one night stand? Is she mad?
If I know my opinion will be misinterpreted and thus be misleading, it's better I keep my rubbish to myself.

I appreciate all that have made contact with me. But I still have a long way to go. Thanks.

When the help you have rendered is made public, it becomes sooooo useless. You have taken the glory by letting the world know what you have done. So, don't expect any other blessing from God.

dhorlapo:
Fashion designer, Yomi Casual, is basking in euphoria after he received a cheque from his older superstar brother, comedian AY, in support for his unisex shirt collection launch.

https://amonpointtv.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/ABCD-967.jpg

Multi-award winning Nigerian comedian and actor, Ayo Makun popularly known as AY Comedian, has suprised his fashion designer younger brother, Yomi Casual with a lump sum of N1million as he launches a unisex shirt collection for his fashion range in Lagos.

The popular Lagos-based fashion designer, Yomi took to his Instagram page few hours ago and disclosed the cheque his superstar brother sent to him in support of his latest unisex shirt collection launch which took place on Sunday, October 10, 2016.

See Yomi’s full post including the cheque below;

https://amonpointtv.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/ABCD-968.jpg

https://amonpointtv.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/ABCD-969.jpg

SOURCE: http://gidibest.com.ng/2016/10/ay-comedian-surprises-his-younger-brother-with-a-chequethe-amount-will-shock-you-photos/

And why on earth should this be public. Na so one fool dey flaunt N30m wristwatch on IG

mezynaija:
After Wizkid finished performing yesterday in Mombasa, the starboy went in one of the rooms to kush some flames. After covered with much smoke, he took a photo and posted on his Instagram page with the caption #God Forgive us.

Fans so far has been reacting how the starboy has become so addicted to hard drugs and other concoctions. In one of the comments, a fan told him that he might just pass on soon if he continues this way. See comments below.

Source: http://www.jtownconnect.com/2016/10/this-guy-go-soon-pass-on-fan-blasts.html


https://www.instagram.com/p/BLW4ya2g4i9/?hl=en

What of his parents? Abi na how old be this boy? Because he's filling his parents accounts with loads of money doesn't mean they keep quiet and watch this small boy selfdistruct.

Smh

chimere66:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/3302998_12479191155754019790463070533057n_jpeg6b844f0d5bad00f408998ece3b92577f

Nollywood actress Sugar Chika Asoegwu and her husband Ejay have welcomed a baby girl in UK.The baby has since been named Princess Adaeze.

It should be recalled that the couple got married in January this year in a celebrity studded event that was attended by Jnr Pope, Benson Okonkwo, Aneke twins, and others.

Congrats to them.


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2016/10/nollywood-actress-sugar-chika-asoegwu.html

I cry for this country. So everyone must deliver abroad ones they have the money. I comment my reserve.

emis8:
bro, its all in the scripture.
if you read the whole chapter, you'll get to hear when Peter acknowledged that the tree he cursed actually died.

Why did he curse the fig tree
1. Jesus is the creator of the world
In the beginning, all trees he created rought forth fruits in and out of season, there was always fruits for Adam and Eve to eat. As the creator, he expected that the fig should have fruits wether its his season or not. The fig should have responded to His demand at least.
Remember Jesus said, everyone of us who does not bear fruit, my father will uproot, and those of us who do bear fruits, He will trim so that we bear even much fruit.

2. He cursed the tree to teach them about Faith
when Peter acknowledged that the fig tree he cursed actually died, Jesus told them to "have faith in God"
He told them that if they have the slightest level of Faith, they can speak to a mountain to move from where it is to another place and it will happen as it happened to the fig tree.

As a Christian, if you put the little faith you received (as you got born again ) to use, nothing shall be impossible to you. You can speak to anything including money and it will answer you.

Have a glorious Sunday Service.

Pastor. Jesus is the creator of the world?

I guess the most common scripture skipped your memory.
Genesis 1:1

mrk74:
Thanks

You're welcome my brother. Keep me posted.

ExAngel007:
Recent reports reaching Naij.com this moment confirms that owner of popular multipurpose studios and entertainment outfit, Chris Jeyibo otherwise known as Chris Koga is dead.


[img]http://i.onthe.io/vllkyt2me067am4lo.914c0837.jpg[/img]

The CEO of the multimillion naira outfit died in a ghastly automobile crash at about 1:00am this morning.

Chris who was on his way from an event in his white Range Rover Evogue crashed into a parked truck around Magodo, Lagos.
May his soul rest in peace.

https://www.naij.com/999641-sad-top-entertainer-dies-ghastly-motor-accident.html?source=index_main

Sad.

But 1am?
Drunk?
Receiving or making a call while driving?
The truck was jejely parked.

Same way Dagrin left.

mrk74:
I intended for her to see this thread and I had drawn her attention to it.
What I meant is that others viewing this won't know. Most especially those who know us won't know it's about us.
She just told me now that the thread should be on front page by now and I told her it is and observed that it has reached 10 pages and she is laughing about it.

Keep an open mind. Visit this link. It has helped millions, you're next to be enlightened.

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/couples-parents/

God is the originator of marriage and if you want to enjoy marriage, he's the best person to show you how.

mrk74:
I don't mind getting your proposed solution.
As for the bolded. This is a faceless forum & no one knows us.

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If she sees this story, she will know.

mrk74:
I have no regrets marrying her. I know she will adjust. It's just a matter of difference in reasoning and purpose of this was to get other peoples view on this. I've gotten her to change a view in the past by just making her read online articles that explained why the view is not best.
Thanks.

And do you think she'll appreciate it that you took her case to the public? If you don't mind I have a proposal for you both. You will find a lasting solution to your marital issues. If you are interested, please let me know.

mrk74:
I do feel that I’m a very lucky man to have a very compatible lady as my wife. We love each other so well and I strongly believe we were meant for each other. However, I have one issue. When she has issue with a suggestion, request or complain she may agree without stating or discussing her objections but will simply not take the suggestion. Sometimes she will out rightly disobey me. The result will be me complaining severally and eventually getting upset. We hardly have issues, but when we do it’s usually because of something like this. We had dated for about 3 years before marriage. We had no issue in our 1st two years. Not that there was no complain at all but we easily made adjustments to accommodate each other. But there were several instances of this kind of issues in our 3rd year and I was seriously bothered. We had a very serious misunderstanding still from this kind of issue few months before we got married. At a point I asked her if I’m difficult and she told me that I nag. It was very embarrassing but when I the dictionary definition of nagging again which states that “(of a person) constantly harassing someone to do something”, then I agreed that I did nag. Then I realized how easy a partner’s action/inaction could make the other to nag.

Just before we began the process towards marriage I had to extract commitments from her for us to avoid this kind of issues in the future. I had explained how we could have handled situations like this better and the fact that she shouldn’t make it a big deal to apologise and she agreed with me. We got married on 30th December 2015 and we have not had issues since then till few days ago. I told her to stop using an item for cooking due to the health challenge I have with the item when it much in the food. I had previously asked for her to avoid putting too much of it which she agreed but she will fail on about 2 out of 9 meals. It was when I realized she can’t moderate it appropriately I asked her to stop and add it when she eats. She agreed but still won’t stop. I then told her not to have the item in the house at all. She agreed but will still buy it and hide. Even though I had noticed the presence of the item on meals for a while but I got to find some that she had recently bought and hidden in a locker. When I confronted her on it she only argued and asked if I had noticed it being overused recently. Even when I pointed out how bad I felt about her disobeying me she will not see it as a big deal.

I’ve been cold with her for about 2 days now (We talk, but not with the typical high spirit when we are both happy). Yesterday she told me that I have been behaving abnormally and I have not told her what is wrong. Then I used the opportunity to remind her of how she has been disobeying me including that of another incident that I had just refused to be upset about. All she said was that she had agreed to stop which I’m not sure I remembered her saying so. But even if she did, how is it different from the previous instance she accepted but began to hide the item. I believe she should apologize for disobeying me but this is something that she won’t do. As far as she is concerned, she had told me she will stop and expects us to move on and there is nothing to be addressed any further.

Fellow nairalanders, what do you think about this? Is an apology for disobeying me out of place?

We had agreed before marriage not to take our issues to friends or family which I strongly uphold. But at this point, I think we should get opinion of a 3rd party hopefully we can get an objective view on this and either of us can have make necessary adjustment for us to avoid this in the future. She reads selected items that lalasticlala pushes to the front page and I hope she gets to read this too. She will definitely know it’s about us. If I don’t hear her mention seeing it on nairaland, I will deliberately lead her to the thread.

----Modified----
I notice some comments are being directed on the food incidence as if that really is the issue. Please the issue has not always been about food. It's just these last issues that have been about food. There had been an issue with her using bleaching creams, one about her refusing to apply for a sponsorship of her project by an International organization which I pushed for mainly because of the exposure she could get. There had been one about applying for her MSc in a nearby University. Except for the bleaching that she just didn't seem to believe the level of risk involved with the bleaching creams the others she simply won't express her reservation or make objections but just won't act till it becomes annoying then you will know she was not comfortable with it. Meanwhile she had given the impression that she is act or was acting on it. Till date she still regrets where she is having her about to be concluded MSc which could have been avoided if she had opened up on time about her reservation on where I had initially suggested.

The issue is actually more about her not expressing her reservation on a matter and not apologizing when she realizes that she didn't do well. Instead of showing remorse she will simply say we should move on sometimes without even wanting to address the issue.

For those who think I'm controlling. I do let her make her decisions. But I do wish she can share her objections where I make suggestions that she is not comfortable with. When I asked her to get registered for her MSc I had asked her to do so in the Federal University that is about 3mins drive from our house. But that is where she had a BSc and she was not comfortable going there for her MSc. But instead of opening up on her reservation she was just lazy about getting the form and was making enquiry about it from wrong sources till I lost my patience and insisted she go by herself. The school is very close but she didn't even need to trek down. When she got there it was already late entry but I didn't mind. It was when she should have gone to pay that she now raised her reservation but initially hanged it on someone else opinion. I didn't insist. I even tried to assisted her in finding an alternative. But by this time it was only one school that still sold forms for MSc and that is where she is schooling now.

You said you had issues like this months before marriage and you went headlong. It's your cup of tea. So deal with it. Remember, if you're a true Christian, you can't divorce her except you catch another man ontop of her.

Love is not compatability. Love is not enough to getting married.

One advise I can give you is..... Explain your mind to her. Don't act it. Enhance your verbal communication. If she won't respect you and apologize, you go ahead and respect her and apologize when you err. The Bible said when it comes to showing honor, you should take the lead.

Zikavirus:
okay oo but in this kind economy whic oda business now, do you think can kick off on just 20k, except u wan dey hawk pure-water And gala for traffic.

If I know, I won't be asking you bro.

businessman7:
Try network marketing with just #4,000 out of that #20,000 and save d remaining 16,000 and watch your money grow you also get a car too

I'm a retired network marketer.

But I'm open to new approaches that works. Which one are you talking about sir?

princedanalyst:
buying a fast moving consumable product and make money when u resell, atleast u holding ur money whatsapp me on 08169361485

Which of the FMCGs are you talking about sir?

N255,000,000 for two cars? Two cars? How will she explain it?

You will feel better about a situation when you know the cause and why it is happening. You will have a hope to look forward to.

First, I don't like politics but I care about the economic situation of the country because it directly affect me and my family.

Second, it's my opinion. So please don't judge me.

If Nepal or Phcn informs us why there has been no power for the last two days, I feel we can deal better with the situation. But they don't do that.

The reason for this recession was not properly explained to us. So we aren't prepared and so we are finding it hard to deal with it. We don't have a clear picture of the future.

Nigerians love football. So I want to try explain this recession with football. Kindly keep an open mind as I proceed.


Let's use one of the most popular football clubs in the world as a case study. Real Madrid. As I mentioned Real Madrid, the first player that comes to your mind is Cristiano Ronaldo.

Footballers get injured. Some are serious that requires immediate surgery and some are not as serious therefore the injury can be managed, though a surgery could have solved the problem fast, which the player will have to stay sidelined for some period of time.
If the surgery is not done the player can still play but not 100% delivery.


Implications of the player been sidelined: The club might draw or lose some matches, the fans might not enjoy watching the team play, therefore gate fee revenue might drop. But on the long run, it will be a blessing because when the player returns, all these implications will be forgotten.


Now, If this not-so-serious injury is continued to be managed as time goes on, the player's performance will continue to depreciate and his injured leg will continue to worsen.

Implications: The president of the club and club itself has failed to tackle the source of the injury, they prefer to manage it. The club will still lose or draw some matches. But the fans might still be enjoying seeing the team play because their favorite player is on the pitch. As time goes, the fans will start to boo that same player, though they will still be coming to watch matches, the club is still making money from the gate few but not as much as when the star player is playing well and the team is doing fine.


At last, to save the situation, the player must go for surgery and he will be sidelined.

Implications: Instead of staying sidelined for maybe 4weeks if the injury was operated initially, now that they have managed it for years without surgery and finally they have decided to operate on him, he might now be sidelined for the whole season. Why? The president of the club failed to make the decision remove the cause of the injury initially.

So the club, the player and the fans will suffer longer while the surgery is done and the player recuperates.


Club: Nigeria
Player: The Economy
Fans: Nigerians
President: Leaders.

The Nigerian economy has been injured long ago. And instead of operating, removing the source of the injury, the leaders prefer to manage the injury, robbing oil on it.

Many of us the fans weren't complaining then, we were enjoying seeing the injured but managed economy booming cos of the oil which we never knew wouldn't last. There are cars running on water in Asia.

The economy isn't performing to expectations anymore, now we are booing it. We are pointing fingers to the country and the leaders. Something we could have made them do initially.

When Ronaldo was injured, if all the fans insist he should be operated immediately, the club would have no option than to concor because the fans are the club.

If Nigerians insist that agriculture should never be killed for crude oil to dominate, we won't be here in this disheartening economy.

Someone is here, (I don't follow him, I'm not interested) but I feel he is determined to do what we have failed to do initially. He is tackling the source of the economy's injury. The surgery is done, attention is been shifted from oil as the primary source of revenue, the viral subsidy has been removed, restrictions has been made to reduce the dependence of foreign currency and foreign goods. It's painful, hard to bear. It's like the economy is on the sidelines recuperating. But at least we now know that it will get healed and start to play well again.

In the process of recuperating, any factor that will injure the economy again should be removed.
In the case of Cristiano, the doctors or physios could be saved. So those who had mismanaged the economy leading to its injury should be removed.


I don't think I'm making sense anymore. So I stop here.

rheether:
You won't get rich with this kind of messed up mentality. Weather clean or dirty, 20k will get you nowhere son.

Mum, I don't want to get rich. I just want a life where I can take care of my basic needs. Peace of mind and not to be idle.

I came here to ask for ideas. You feel 20k is too small. I agree. But where do I go from here? Advice me Pls.