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JustNumb:
I don't have her number. I would have called her to be sure she knows what her husband is doing.

if you want to get the wife number DM me or send me mail on maxist2020@gmail.com I am a master in that aspect.

Handsomejok:
Thank you God know my heart I have been a loving father since day 1 she was my everything until I find out she is a witch . It is true I don't deserve her because I deserve better. She deserve to be with her witch mother and witch half sister .

You are not ok at all and you will one day regret your action and then their will be no pastor to run to.
If you don't know what to do with the child take her to her mother's people am sure they will surely know where their daughter is to link the child to her mother.
But believe you will surely regret ever doing this you better look for your wife and ask for forgiveness before it too late, what will happen will happen if you are meant to be poor you will be poor if you like kill everyone in your wife's linage you will not still make as far as you still focus ur thaught on the fake pastors that are everywhere.

OlawaleBammie:
Op, this is exactly wat happenend to me just that mine didn't keep multiple bfs.

But i sorted it out myself sha, and we re still together. But u need to be rigid with her onward if u stil need her.

Oil dey your head even me same thing, now na she won die because of me

Sometime one would really wonder what women really wants, if you truly love the girl then try to severe her communication with the other guy.
I was once in your situation and I Know how painful it is, I know many people here will call you names and tell you how you are a woman rapper and how you should dump her buu it is not easy to dump someone you love.
My advice to you is that you should bring her close tell her that if she wants you then she have to stop seeing others and if she refuse by that time you can go your way.

DaddyRochie1642:
You want to show John's wife what her husband does behind her back right?,... This is exactly how people get Killed for not minding their Business and trying to destroy someone's marital home.

Why not Face only John, why do you want to bring John's Wife into the mess, do you know what John is capable of,

You see this Life eh, I have seen things with this my two eyes, This Life is cold and people are capable of going to the Extreme to prove a point,... Do you know if that John has a squad that he can call upon to cause you great harm, or maim you?,... Do You know that alot of people you see walking on the streets have one or two underground connection that the can call upon to cause you great harm simply because you stepped on their Feet without saying sorry, talk less of destroying a married home.

Oga let me make it very clear for you, if you go ahead and contact that John's wife and show her your evidence and John's Marital home is destroyed because of what you showed his wife, you think that John will just fold his arms and sit back without having Plans to deal with you mercilessly and ruthlessly for destroying his home??.


That your girl has showed you severally that you can't fully Trust her.

Do your mathematics and calculations very well, if you're not ready to get married in the near future, MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE while you focus on your Life and plan your Financial Future.


I Discovered that Nigerians as a whole don't value the beautiful gift of "Absolute Peace Of Mind".

impressive that is one of the reasons I why I brought it here, now I get it but for the guy calling me a coward and knowing fully well that as married man he should do things secretly is what put me on thi mission.

Good day nairalanders, I am posting this here just get your view on my relationship, I have been managing things my self but it is not easy
My post is going to be lengthy for you to get the whole gist.

ABOUT MYSELF
I am currently 29 year not boyant fincially but not poor either as I can actually take care of my responsibilities without bothering anyone infact I am a hustle and I trains myself in University hustling while in school.

ABOUT MY GIRLFRIEND.
She is currently 27, from broken home a graduate beautiful and hard working with a good heart she care a lot that I can't deny her of that.
HOW WE MET
I was in 300l when she gained admission in 2016 the first day I saw her was that I gave her a lift to school because I stayed off camp and on seen a student around my area I decided to help and from there we exchanged contact and started talking that was how I discovered that she was staying in her Aunt's house and that she was really suffering because her Aunt with her children would cook while she is away to school eat and even wash pot before she comes back and sometimes she will have to go for a whole day without food .
So when I learnt about her situation mean while I have already started toasting her, I decided to be buying food in take away sometimes I also her to come to my place and eat and thing was a little bit better for her.

MOVING IN WITH ME
After she could no longer bear with the situation in her Aunt's place she pleaded to stay with me pending when she get a place and I agree and we stayed together for about 6 month without Sex even though she has agreed to date me but it is he opinion so I respected it and we only made do with cuddling.

ABOUT HER PAST RELATIONSHIP
During the time we were staying together there is this guy that do call her once in a while and I demanded to know who he is she told me that he is ( MIke not real name) and is her boyfriend but she have decided to part away with the guy but the guy guy would not let her be.
She decided to part ways with the guy because the guy is not showing any concern about her at all and instead of the guy to even send her something the guy would rather complain and be looking for a way to extort from her. She also told me that this Mike is her first and only boyfriend.
Secondly she told me about another guy (John not real name) who has been disturbing her right from when she was JSS3 and that the guy had in the past attempted raping her twice but he didn't succeed. She told me that when she got admission she agreed for the guy while she is already in school and the guy came to see her in school and it happened that he succeeded with her this time around but ever since the guy left the following morning she have not heard from the guy again and neither is the guy picking her calls and she only agreed for him because she needed someone she can look up to but the guy just dumped her like that.

ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP
When she finally settled down and got a place of her own with my little assistance she moved in in 2017 that was when she told me that she has fully acceptable me and no other man can access her unless I decides to end the relationship before she can accept any man and truly our relationship was the best of it kind that many people even became envious of us, on my own side I also kept to her alon even other girls that came my we got rejected by me the same with her to men.
Our relationship was beautiful we were there for each other and I took the step of introducing to people and she also introduced me to her mom an siblings, we were lovers that other lovers make reference to.

MY DISCOVERY

I graduated in early 2018 but because of delay from school I didn't go to service till August 2019 during my time of waiting I was doing business in the same place just to be with her but when service came I finally Left and in February 2020 when she also graduated she came to see me where I was serving and that was when I discovered that she was chatting with one guy ( we don't hide our phones from each other because of trust) telling that the the guy should not disturb her that he made her fall for him and abandon her so I confronted her and she confessed that there was a time we had issues and that was what made he to do start developing feeling for the guy. based in their chat nothing happened between the am sure of that but she apologized and we moved on but I became skeptical, I also checked her phone and I saw that John has been calling her so pined her call with John number.

ANOTHER DISCOVRY.
Last year after my service I got one job that I was managing and she came to see me because all this while after she graduated she has gone back to the city that she came from while me am in another city.
During that visitation I discovered that through her chat that she and Mike are talking seriously infact they call each other as often as possible and based on the evidence she has gone to see the guy twice in a beer palor and the guy was asking her to sleep over which she agreed but the problem is that the guy said he want a hotel while my girl said she want his house meanwhile the guy is staying with someone an uncle I think.

Secondly she is into serious relationship and romantic chat with another who she was practically throwing herself at but the guy was some how reluctant because I think he stays with his parents. I confronted her her again and she carried throughout the night begging me that nothing happened between them that she only using them catch fun while chatting and nothing else and for mike she opted for his house because she knew he doesn't have a house.

THE BOMBSHELL
This year when she came visiting which she stayed with me for about two months I remember that I pinned her call with John and I decided to and check what has happened only for to receive the shock of my life after the time that John came to school to have her and go, John got married that the same year and probably that is the reason he avoided her, but last year the started making out again even when she knew he was married, the guy was taking her to his friends place or hotel for rumps when I could not take it any longer I confronted her and as usual she started crying for 2 day I called off our relationship but she wouldn't let me she said that she ready to die in my house that she can't let me go she went ahead to swear to all the gods that they were not having Sex but that they did romance on some occasions, her mom got to know about and called to beg that if I can forgive her this time and she ever try such a thing even she herself will not forgive her, her friend too was begging my own friend to was begging me on her behalf because truly she has been good us all. So I finally a agree and forgave her but I couldn't forget as I keep seeing image of two of them on my head all the time and there is no day that will pass without me thinking about it.

MY ENCOUNTER WITH JOHN
During the fracas she gave John my number to help beg me but instead the guy was unapologetic telling that I am a coward and that is why I think that a woman I am yet to marry should stay for me that even if he has another opportunity he will still do the same thing to her and there is nothing I can do about it he concluded by saying that if I like I can go and kill my self..

GETTING BACK AT HIM
Many months have passed and just as the saying goes that the sluggishness of a camel is not laziness but gentlity, I have moved on with the relationship just like that after looking back at my past with especially that there was a time that I was terribly sick at school and everyone including my relatives abandoned me because of the nature of sickness (contagious) but these girls stayed with me all through.
But the truth is that I am determined to make the guy feel a little of what he made me go through especially the way he spoke to me, though I have never been to the City where he is or seen him face to face but today I have all his wife's details and I am going to show her what her husband does behind her.

Forgive me if you find errors but I can't go all over again editing,
This is my story and I wonder what women really want, you have a man who do not cheat on you and he tries as much as possible to make you happy still yet you are not ok with it

Mr poster what were you thinking before those not Africans are just in Africa because of geographical misplacement, even their skin color should tell you that.

This same rector was a lecturer in the department of political science and also doubled as the director of GST kogi state University just few years ago and he did worst things.
He grew so powerful in school that even the authority could not question him, I remembered one time like that during our second semester 100 level when we went to sign our GST exam card and the secretaries said that we are to pay five thousand naira for coming to sign late even when we did not pay school fees late, the stuff sounded odd to our ears and because it has never happened before we threatened them that we will report them to the director (the rector now) and they said we should go ahead, when we got to the directors office and laid our complains of how his secretaries are trying to extort us, he told us that he was the one that gave them the instructions and if we are not ready to pay we should forget our GST exams, I and my guy very determined that we will not pay the money headed straight to the Senate building to the office of the dean student affairs and by the time we are done with our stories the man just shook his head and said "you people have to just go and pay the money because we here don't have the strength for that man's troubles".
At this point we became helpless with no other options we had to go and pay the 5k for no reason.
And this is the same man that I see on news every now and then trying to imput sanity into the system by rusticating students involved in malpractice or other social misconduct and now to lecturer for the same thing he was doing without fear or favour.

I know of a similar case, this particular lady on the morning of her weeding while her friends were with her dressing her up for her big day she excused her self and rushed to a nearby uncompleted building where her ex was waiting and bet over for a hot doggy and they were caught red-handed and even when her husband to be learnt about it he still went ahead with wedding but unfortunately the marriage didn't last beyond 4years and ran back to the same ex.
If u see all these cases of DNA proving the other way they are all result of last minute sex to say goodbye to an ex.

Please @op any hope for those who have not been deployed yet but did biometrics.
Am just confused i did everything I was supposed to do under N teach still yet am still seen not deployed check back when deployment date has been fixed.
I have sent mail no reply I also called but all the numbers are not going through, I need clarification please.

Zzoh:
You are wicked. So after fucking and impregnating me, you will come and post it on Nairaland abi? Or you think I'm not using Nairaland? I saw this your moniker on your phone the other day. God will judge you. And for your information, I'm not doing any Abortion.

It has happened

What is the name of Jesus Christ ministry in Jerusalem, I would like to attend it.

Juliusmalema:
Sunday Service Suspended because TB Joshua died?

This simply means that the ministry of christ was suspended because a mere mortal passed on.

Even when Jesus was about to die, he told his disciples to always fast and pray, that they shouldn't cry for him but for themselves.

In Jerusalem, he made sure that his church is up and running.


Meanwhile May the soul of the departed rests in perfect peace as he returns to nothingness to give account of his deeds while on earth.

Juliusmalema:
FFK....Reactance.....Reno.... Capacitance.

This issue of south and north is a case of Stupidity taken too far.

Benue transporting their foodstuffs to different states, are they not northern state? Same as Taraba and good people of plateau state.

What I read is that north blocked transportation of food to South west after their union had a meeting.

Is South west now the new name for South If we may ask?

They blocked their foodstuff, if you have oil block it from reaching them than shouting south up and down and dragging others enjoying relative peace to a communique that has nothing to do with them...

Stop wasting time Reacting , turn off the valve of the oil than shouting South to other regions who are sleeping against tomorrow's Sunday service because the gate of hell will never prevail against the church.

Oga Benue is not north but middle birth.

SimplyFacts:
Na to dey pray mak person no get issues at those customer care offices/outlets o.

I saw hell when I went there to upgrade my MTN sim to 4G. They told me the sim is 4G already as shown on their system but the coverage is always 3G & I kept receiving messages to upgrade to 4G. I inserted other sim cards (my other MTN, Glo & Airtel sims) & they confirmed it that only that single sim (which is my hot line) doesn't cover 4G. They got confused & still stood on their claim.

I'm thinking of doing retrieval, maybe that would solve the problem but I do not have such a luxurious time to waste at the moment.

what you will is that once the ban by NCC is lifted go and do welcome back on the SIM card and it will automatically upgrade to 4G

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

One thing I believe in relationship and given is that it is not about the size of an individuals pocket but the willingness to share no matter how little he/she has.
He may also be broke according to you, but out of the little he has he should also remember you, like if he has 4k there is nothing wrong in him given you 1k.
My advice is that you confront him by telling him what he is not doing right and watch if he will change and he doesn't then let him go

The major problem is that he will live that boy more broke than he met him because Bello doesn't pay his appointees

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envoymedia:
IgbereTV reports that Former Nigeria Aviation Minister, Femi Fani Kayode took to his Instagram page to deny the rumour of his plans to get married to Miss Halima Yusuf, a lady who was pictured with him in a recent photo he posted on his Instagram page. He went on to say that Miss Halima Yusuf is simply his friend, and not his fiancee as many people think. He wrote:



https://www.instagram.com/p/CFry8NxniOC/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

IgbereTV reports that Femi Fani Kayode has separated from his wife, Precious Chikwendu, with whom he had four sons.

We understand the kind of support sir

Rema this shit you talk you need to forget it, was PDP that asked him to carry Olosho into the hotel?
If that is the case then PDP will have to come and be explaining the death of all the people that have died in a hotel with a woman.

that woman Chief Ginika tor looks more like a director in coven

this is bad, why not Aso rock

if you must keep your girl from going back to her ex then you must give her close marking. I had similar experience during my university days but with close marking I was able to win her over and we will be getting married soon.
when I met my girl, it took us one full year before we started dating reason been that she was still in love with an ex who disvirgined her and was waiting for him to come around but because I was given her close marking she couldn't do some certain thing with the guy. eg chart, calls and message and so as a player the guy got frustrated and left.

Tetehjewels:
Trump and Pompeo are slowly running mad. Is it the same Iraqi Militia who was instrumental to the destruction of ISIS in Iraq that USA now want to call terrorists?

The same Suleimani along with the kurd forces helped protect about 1million Christians in Syria as he destroyed ISIS in Syria as well is now who USA calls a terrorist?

God is watching. I am a Christian but something about all USA is doing and saying this time is not right

your matter Don tire person, you talk through the anus

oyin44:
PDP finally had to admit defeat. APC ,yoruba/hausana owned party. Moreso,the party is a big success.what else can l say.

bro the result you are seeing here is majorly from kogi central which is Bello senatorial district, am sure by the time kogi east result starts coming you will hide your face because Dekina local government alone will cancel the results from okene, okehi and Adavi local government.
don't forget that Dekina local government is the largest local government in Africa and that is home town of PDP candidate WADA

illiteratepmb:
All thanks to Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.

you are right meanwhile the girl in that picture is a sight to behold especially in the morning

religion of peace at it again

which way Nigeria, bad news every minute

niggi4life:
It still baffles me how people will still vote a man who has been in the corridor of power for 8years without doing anything

buhari was there in 1982 and 2015-2018 now what is he going back to do even when age has failed him, talk like a matured person

Misterdhee1:
And many more have left pdp to compain for Buhari. Perspective bro!

a beautiful girl without sense is the private PART THAT SUFFERS THE CONSEQUENCES

So buhari shamelessly stepped his lifeless feet in kogi state after all the mess he has made us go through, let me bring this to the public notice that the last time buhari visited kogi state was during his campaign in 2015 and on that day he promised us heaven on earth and how he will revive the same Ajukuta steel company that he destroyed in less than five months and until date no single federal project has been executed in kogi state and those ones that were not completed by goodluck has all been abandoned
let me remind you guys that the mandate yahaya bello enjoy today was fought and won by Audu abubakar and on the day that Audu died this the same buhari did not come to show his condolence to the state again a minister form kogi died again buhari did not think he should come to kogi, now four years after he has come again to tell us rubbish. Kogi I implore you to reject any fake person that thinks that you are only good as voters and not good to enjoy the fruits of your vote. let reject buhari and vote for Atiku and if Atiku fails we will vote him out come 2023

buhari is very lifeless and am not expecting anything lively from him

jumper524:
sw, nw, and ne guaranteed for buhari.
middlebelt analysis : Niger for buhari, kwara for buhari, abuja for buhari, kogi for buhari.. nasarawa and plateau is 50:50, Benue: don't know much

I bet you buhari will not win any state in middle belt