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Sports / Re: Ahmed Musa Donates Two Million Naira To Kingsley Obiekwu by mayberry1(f): 7:19am On Feb 17, 2022 |
nonxo007: Most men get carried away by fame/wealth. The moment a man acquires wealth, he spends a large chunk of his money in pimping different kinds of women thereby forgetting the need to invest heavily. He keeps reminding himself that he’d always make more money for investment until it all vanishes. Trust women at that point in time, they use different strategies to milk off everything you’ve got then leave you at your lowest to the next available man. PS: I’d always advise men to invest and take care of their family the moment they start making good money because that’ll be all you’ve got when the chips are down. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by mayberry1(f): 12:54pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
emmaodet: I think you should look beyond finance. As a man you should be looking for a woman who is not just intelligent but loyal and have set goals in life. If you are looking for a woman who's at per with you financially it wouldn't be that difficult to find but I think there'd be competition amongst you two plus it would be kinda difficult for the woman to be loyal to you (especially when the chips are down). The reason why there's high rate of divorce is because lots of people marry for the wrong reason. Technically, all mundane things fade away after 3-5 years of marriage. There are lots of anecdotal stories I would have mentioned but hey! this is an open forum. My day was amazing, thanks. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by mayberry1(f): 8:03pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
emmaodet: How did you come up with the 80% figure..lol, when an individual(male/female) is not family oriented they'd always see divorce as the only option to challenges in marriage. Well, I've always been a sucker for genuine love and uprightness every other thing will fall in place. I mean what's the essence of marriage if not peace and happiness? By "above me or my mate " do you mean financially or age wise ? because I never attributed anything to finance in my write up. Before you reply because it's seeming like we have loads of opinion on this, i hope you had a great day? |
Romance / Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by mayberry1(f): 5:17pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
NeeKlaus: Thanks for the compliment. I am single but I really do not know if that's got to do with anything |
Romance / Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by mayberry1(f): 9:38am On Jun 08, 2021 |
emmaodet: You made some valid points but I beg to differ on some; What's your yardstick for going into a relationship with the opposite sex, that would define if it's going to be meaningful or not. I'd use myself as an example, the least thing that'll make me date a man is his looks or how buoyant he is. If a man is intellectually and morally bankrupt, bereft of principles in life then it's a 'no' for me because I can't date a man who's not on same page with me. I will admonish men to look beyond beauty and focus on important things when searching for a partner. You mentioned men dating governors daughters and be of best behaviour cause of what they stand to lose if they act otherwise...lol, you haven't seen men who do and jeopardise everything still. Anything built on material benefits will never stand the test of time when life happens to one person(life will always happen to us in different ways). So try not to lower the bar when getting into a relationship, there are intelligent women who would help you grow in all facets of your existence, they are out there you just haven't looked within. Bye too....lol |
Romance / Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by mayberry1(f): 8:35pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
emmaodet: You came on so hard on my gender... Mistake most parents make is focusing on the male child to be independent and self reliant while lowering the bar for the female child. I believe as an individual(s/he), your goal should be how to be independent in life. I for one cringe whenever I hear ladies wishing hard to marry a rich man like money is gender based(there's nothing as sweet as working hard for your money). People forget the law of reciprocity when it comes to good deeds, lots of women want to enjoy being showered with gifts and all the good things of life thereby forgetting to reciprocate quarter of what they get, I believe that stems from the environment they were raised, lots of folks are self-centred and only care about themselves. It all boils down to orientation and upbringing . Nobody deserves a tight-fisted, self-centred egocentric partner. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Daddy Freeze Disagrees With The Saying, "What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist" by mayberry1(f): 5:45pm On Jun 03, 2021 |
Has he settled the man that took him to court in PH for sleeping with the wife? |
Health / Re: Doctors. Please Do You Have Abandoned Volvo In Your Hospital? by mayberry1(f): 5:09pm On Jun 03, 2021 |
KelvinCoaster: @mgbuka.. I doubt if people keep those kind of cars in hospitals or public places. Vintage cars are treasures for some people. |
Celebrities / Re: Kanayo O. Kanayo: Only My Sisters And I Are Alive From My Family (Pix) by mayberry1(f): 6:04pm On May 16, 2021 |
richmond500: Nope! The correct phrase is 'my sister and I '. 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by mayberry1(f): 6:32pm On Apr 13, 2021 |
GorillaApp: If you had taken your time to read the write up well enough, y'ld have noticed were he mentioned his family weren't in support of him going back when he got called the second time. Maybe you excluded the wife away from "family". |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by mayberry1(f): 3:28pm On Apr 13, 2021 |
CamusMidas: This answer is subjective so I'd list a few in no particular order: Communicate & correct with love and kindness, financial stability, Respect, loyalty, be each other's support system, daily connection(like going on dates), transparency....et al |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by mayberry1(f): 2:53pm On Apr 13, 2021 |
CamusMidas: lol I get your point, I was being overly biblical with the 'one' quote jare. You can describe couple goals with whichever narrative that suits you. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by mayberry1(f): 2:41pm On Apr 13, 2021 |
iamdapsyj: Exactly, perhaps the wife is exhausted. It's kinda painful when you have a partner that doesn't trust your judgement nor listens to you but keeps running into mistakes/troubles with personal decisions. We are all human, no matter how overbearing one can be at some point y'ld get overwhelmed by it all. 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by mayberry1(f): 2:38pm On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lostchild: You asking a question or you wondering aloud? Anyways, fertility centres takes care of that. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by mayberry1(f): 2:36pm On Apr 13, 2021 |
CamusMidas: Listening to his wife when the issue of going back to the job arose. Of course it has nothing to do with being court-martialed but it has ended in tears. Couples get married to become one, and that includes one in decision making. You don't always take lone decisions and expect your partner to always bear the consequences with you even when s/he advised otherwise. Wisdom is profitable to direct. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by mayberry1(f): 8:33pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
HighStar01: Quite unfortunate. Men, please learn to always listen to your wives especially those who got married to intelligent women(bulk of grace to grass stories that has happened to men were as a result of them making decisions alone without discussing with their partner for counsel). Do yourself a favour by moving on, dwelling in the past won't help. In as much as I don't wanna hold brief for your wife, it could be she saw the writing on the wall but you never listened. There are lots of petty menial jobs you could do, you can as well become a sperm donor�(the point is for you to do any legal thing to stay alive pending when things get better). 20 Likes |
Politics / Re: Owerri Jail Break: FG To Pardon Escaped Inmates, If They Voluntarily Return by mayberry1(f): 8:17pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
There are about 39 inmates that refused to escape, you can as well start with them perhaps others will follow suit. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Food / Re: A Shitty Experience by mayberry1(f): 3:32pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
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Business / Re: A Private Ferry Start-up In Nigeria. Will It Work? by mayberry1(f): 8:13pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
It's achievable but one of the cons is : you may be easily attacked by sea pirates(those guys are usually deadly when they want to strike). 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Loving Any Woman Is Not Worth It! by mayberry1(f): 2:11pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
bigpicture001: You win some, you lose some. Don't take it to heart in order not hurt the next lady that may mean well, time heals everything. |
Romance / Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by mayberry1(f): 8:06pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
CamusMidas: Hey boy! Marriage isn't meant for everyone, so why the fuss? Stay away from my mention retard... |
Romance / Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by mayberry1(f): 3:47pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
You are giving yourself excuses not to get married, if your Dad had thought this way I bet you wouldn't be here writing trash. |
Fashion / Re: The Nasty Shoes A Lady Won From Online Giveaway That Got People Talking (Photos) by mayberry1(f): 8:14am On Mar 26, 2021 |
Lol.... scary scary Looks like the owner transferred the cursed shoes to her. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Swiped My Savings Of 85k(non fictional romance story) by mayberry1(f): 11:49am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Sometimes I feel people draft out stories online because this is absurd. Like the person you want to get married to in few months time drugged you and also addressed you as a fool? Does it mean you didn't know she's a fraudster or you decided to ignore the red flags? Maybe the next girl will drug you and harvest your organs, since you are easily swayed by smiling goddes. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Pencom: Assets, Account Details Concealed For 8 Years – New Telegraph by mayberry1(f): 11:40am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Northerners love free money same way Igbos' love to do trade. They've have since been looting dry Nigeria since time immemorial, wonder why they always wanna cling to power. If as a political exposed person(pep), you loot without the backing of a Northerner(elite) if you are caught OYO is your case. |
Politics / Re: Olayomi Koiki Storms Lagos Streets, Canvasses For Creation Of Yoruba Nation by mayberry1(f): 11:18am On Mar 23, 2021 |
This is laughable to write the least. In as much as Fulani herdsmen/bandits are out to destabilise the Government with the FG looking the other way then other ethnic groups can as well join in their various forms to cash out too, I'm sure more are on the way aside Sunday Adeyemo alias Sunday Igboho and Asari Dokubo. Na who get mind dey declare. |
Crime / Re: Photo Of Ugochukwu Igwilo Tata, Cultist Who Was Killed, Beheaded By Cult Group by mayberry1(f): 4:57pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
osuofia2: There are lots of cultists in the North(in same age bracket and way lesser age), the difference is that they use knives and dagger to rip their opponents apart. 5 Likes |
Politics / Re: 'Fulani Must Go': Edo Women Protest, Block Major Roads (Photos, Video) by mayberry1(f): 4:36pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Angelfrost: We have no leadership neither do we have leaders, the people in power either bullied there way up there or rigged their way to enrich themselves and lineage. PS: I wasn't disputing what he wrote. |
Fashion / Re: Kano Hisbah Arrests Barber For Giving Customers Haircuts That 'Offend' Islam by mayberry1(f): 3:31pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Poor barber. Like they were coerced into such haircuts or what? It's obvious their court of law is one-sided for them to always frustrate lawyers defending their clients. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 'Fulani Must Go': Edo Women Protest, Block Major Roads (Photos, Video) by mayberry1(f): 3:23pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
FalseProphet1: For someone that told Nigerians he has hearing impairment you see him turning a deaf ear still? Truly you are a false prophet. |
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales, Abuja Only. by mayberry1(f): 7:46pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
Properties / Re: THREAD CLOSED. Self Con Apartment For Rent @deidei Abuja by mayberry1(f): 12:12pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
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