₦airaland Forum

You girls need to condemn the world of men more! We are building society of gender superioty.

We need to create an environment that disuade crime. Peace is not the absence of war. There is war against your gender. U guys need to stand up

Basildvalour:
Piteous generation where a woman could wish the husband death and also make plans to make true her wish.

Actually, it goes both ways. Did u read the story. The husband made a mess of her llife. Physically and emotionally abuse her, render her homeless, denied her from seeing her children. Sold their home 85million with nothing for her. These are the remote and immediate unreasonable action of hers.

We need to review marriage law in Nigeria. Women are bing killed slowly with no action and sympathy from any of us. You don't wanna know a million more wives going through worse conditions. Nigeria women are really good in my opinion

Boleyndynasty2:
Lemme just believe this story right here is a joke, what do they know is to be stigmatized? Did they even think about their parents and what they've been going through all these while? Now FG have given them a light at the end of the tunnel and the decide to remain with Darkness? Hmmmmm .I want to believe this is a joke actually

You need to understand what has happened to them, Stockholm syndrome. They are now in love with the father of their babies. Women hv bond for their immediate family more than anyone

LagosismyHome:
Hummmm can work only on campus or can work anywhere ? ?

on campus job only. That include working in near school shops that render services to students in your school. After 9 months, you can do a paid internship job related to your studies(CPT). You can choose a co-op in some semester which means you will be working in some industries while taking the semester off. These are ways you can save to pay up for your school while gaining valuable job experience

sassyboochic:
so sad. is there any other option?

Apply to any nearby community college once you had gotten in with your husband. You will not need to come home to apply for F1 visa. It can be adjusted there. Community college is cheap and you can work and may qualify for residence later on H1b

kingphilip:
don't be offended by this simple question and I don't want to make you offended by it

Do you see your mom as someone like that??

I don't see anybody that I can't cope with

Atleast give me a week with such an individual and after that we've gotten along pretty well

This issue only arises because the so called daughter in law's brain has been set to think that mother-in-laws don't like them and they can construe an ordinary get me water please to drink to mean she's just riding them and making them look like a slave

To be harshly frank with you. My mother is an angel to many people but there are some people my mum don't just like. No matter how will talk her out of it. The look on her face when such people come near or do anything, u go believe. lol. So my wife would be dead duck if she would be one of such few persons. Anyway such coincidence won't even happen!

For sure, some people are really skilled in studying people and getting warm to them. You are lucky to be. That can't be spoken of the generality of people especially wives who think their position is threaten and facing imminent usurp. Like you, I too can live with anyone peacefully. But I understand the difference in people and can't hold them accountable to it.

Ujoan:
So because her DIL doesn't like her she should avoid her own son's house. Trust me, I know about dreadful MILs, I also know there's always a way to handle people, no matter how difficult they are.

Why can't she at least make the effort and if it don't work out, find an alternative abode for the woman.

Why cast her away like yesterday's trash because 'they don't get along'

Ujoan! Ujoan!! Ujoan!!!. How many times I call you? Nor go there oooo. There are people you can't please no matter how much you try. Most of these people come in form of mother-in-law. Trust me on this.

sisisioge:
Chai! Fear is already catching me on behalf of your friend already. I think she should tell the guy her concern, if he insists then na gobe be that o.

I think she needs to prepare a sort of armour in anticipation...

Ordinarily, the mother in-law wouldn't think of moving in knowing there is no love lost between her and the DIL if she hasn't been getting her ways with her in the past. The DIL should just be ready to change their relationship asap. No need to fight, no need to talk too much, no need to be rude...na body language! She shouldn't cower for her abeg. Just treat her like another long staying house guest. Maintain your stand and dignity...she no be god biko.

By the way, babes might need to invest in a CCTV o. Just in case things escalate beyond "wetin happen"...a picture speaks more than a thousand words!

Jeez! I don't know why MIL are like this, imagine this poor woman going bunkers just cos mma is coming...can't MILs be civil?

Why would the son allow it if the wife is already dying from the thoughts. Visit may be perfect. The woman has lived her life as she so desired in her youth. She can have it all her way. Hey...I love my mum more than anything but if i sense my mum will be opened to trouble in my house, I won't let her stay permanently. I cannot even survive gloomy environment. I will be most affected.

I can imagine her hoping for MIL to die quicker than her age.

MinorityTribe:
And he is even thanking God? As if God can recognized him.

Why won't God recognize him. For altering his skin same as most women have altered their hair?

God looks beyond man

mhiz:
16 years graduate when did she enter school, didn't she have her primary/secondary school education. It does not add up

It's diploma. She can join by 15 and still graduate by 16. I have seen many SSS 3 students who are 14

Ajibade105:
Hello,

I got this message from my preferred supervisor. What do you guys think about the message. Find below the message;

@Lagosismyhome @happyday @Walspring

Thanks.If you are interested in working with me, I would advise that you apply to the program through the Mathematics and Statistics Department and make clear that you wish to work with me on biostatistics/infectious disease methodology.

 I cannot, of course, promise you a position in my group. This is partly because it is not my decision alone – the Department makes the final decision about whether entry to a program is allowed or not — and also I would have to offer positions to the best applications that come in. However, your CV/background does look impressive and I could certainly see you fitting in with my group.In terms of potential projects, there are numerous things you could work on. For example, I have projects involving infectious disease modelling, implementing computational algorithms for fitting these models to data. I also have a project looking at using similar models to model fire spread.

 Alternatively, there will likely be chances to analyse data sets using high-level, but less computational, statistical techniques. for example, using statistical/machine learning tools such as random forests.

 It's hard to predict what the project would actually look like since research probably wouldn't start for 18 months from now given that as an MSc student you would be doing courses for the first two semesters. Most of my students I give a choice of possible projects near the time, and let them choose. Let me know if you have any questions. Thanks.

This is a very impressive reply filled with hope. You need to apply fast. Oyibos are not easily direct like this as he has did

safex101:
Well, things are getting worst, I have always been able to pay with my UBA master card, I am surprised it is not working again. I have sent a pm notification. Thanks

I just did the WES payment for you. Hope you got notification email? Goodluck mate!

Nozzle:
Bros ur questions will still make alot more meaning without the "bold" statements, they are not necessary at all. I think all you have is funds and a good travelling history, you lack the zeal and a prime objective for an advance degree. you're lucky i am not the consular officer, i will deny your student visa and cancel ur B1/B2!

WICKED you! Actually the more info you put out here, hoping there won't be incident of identity theft, the better you are posed to get candid advice. With her submission, we can infer she has good travel history and financial backup to pursue her studies going from her job area. Do you have to be jealous?

sehawale:
Please does anyone know if being denied of student visa invalidates your existing visiting (b1/b2) visa? I'm asking cos I have b1 visa that I have renewed more than 3 times and I have been in and out of the US for more than 8times on thes e b1 visas.

It is about time to get a higher degree ( schooling is my hubby but I got this job in O&G with irresistible offer five yrs ago and I'm there till today). I believe the chances are high that I will be given a student visa because I will be sponsoring myself from my savings. However, nothing is sure in life except God. So I need anyone with first hand information to answer if being denied study visa could invalidate your existing visiting b1 visa or they are not related? I want to continue to enjoy my vacations in and out US even if they don't want me to study in their country.

No. Both visa are unrelated. From your profile, it is most unlikely you would be denied visa. They would rather welcome you knowing you don't have intention of running away. But make sure you give a proper reasoning you choosing your desired school not the usual online research stuff. Goodluck

femi321:
Verify that your Bank ATM is still working abroad so that the money wont get stucked except if you need naira, most Bank ATM have been suspended for international use.
https://www.nairaland.com/3412115/dollar-scarcity-banks-suspend-atm

Thanks but I do not intend to use Nigeria card here. I am paying with my US bank visa card

safex101:
Good morning, will you help me pay for WES fee of 254$, I will send the naira equivalent to your account, at the exchange rate you desire. my UBA master card has refused to work.

Are things that bad now? Shoot me Pm. I will see what I can do. Give me 5 hrs. I am about to sleep

WavesDontDie:
Men have been chasing married women since creation, it doesn't affect his decision making as POTUS.

I hope you hv seen what as come of Trump. I told you he would be denied!

fatanu:
Guys help me out...I need to make a payment eshipglobal, about $104. Nigerian cards has been ban...even with paypal. PLease anyone who can help me out pls

I could help you pay here if you send the current naira equivalent to my Naija account. Is that ok?

Topgainer:
You made a lot of sense but traditional Christianity shouldn't be a yoke to anybody. First, teaching about divorce and remarriage Jesus said the only condition for it not to be considered breaking of the standard is that there should be a verifiable accounts of adultery on the part of the couple. That in itself is not an unforgivable thing as difficult as it may seem many men and women who aren't even Pastors have forgiven their partners caught in the very act, many are still happily married. So, if Anita had established a case of adultery in her marriage she has not broken any law re-marrying
Secondly, one thing these generation of hybrids have failed to realize is the high recommendations and level of blameless expected of any man who chose to be singled out from among the people as a pastor or bishop. Paul wrote that such a person should be blameless, a husband of one wife or a celebrate. In otherwords, it is not proper that she goes on with the title Pastor Mrs Anita Schafers. She could still serve God as Sister Anita Schafers which is a more appropriate title that will not present unbelievers cause to continue mocking Christians.
Personally, I don't like Christ Embassy. I don't see it as anything near a Standard Church

Your last statement is so flawed. You should have ended it with your dislike for Christ Embassy not the faulty generalisation.

coolcharm:
How can this people claim to be of God when they cannot practice Forgiveness and Love which are foundational to the Christian faith?

With what guts and conviction will they teach their congregation to forgive one another as Christ forgave the church?


When Men and women of 'God' cannont exhibit forgiveness and love which are fruits of the spirit, and coin out terms as 'irreconcilable difference' then you know that the devil has finally worn prada!

And so, my dear friends, just as you have always obeyed, not only when I was with you but even more now that I am absent, continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12

Let's focus on living a an acceptable life before God and leave all these bling bling and hyper prosperity pastors alone.

You haven't been face with degenerating marriage. It kills your spirit. You won't be able to do anything about it. Do you think God, in His infinite mercy, will condemn anyone based on remarriage? Many pastors in the west are divorced and remarried while leading a holy life. Guess what: they wrote the bible and understand it better

freeze001:
This is how they incite gullible followers into heinous acts of violence. Most aren't even informed enough to form an opinion or be bothered but these useless radicals, so called religious leaders will just fill their heads with evil halftruths n program them for mayhem.

He should rather be arrested!

Actually, almost every northern man listen to Hausa BBC but an imam calling for her arrest is totally out of order. The blame of the opposition party for her outburst is ludicrous.
She spoke about how she felt. She was frustrated and the imam should resection her right to express an opinion especially of her husband

Houseofglam7:
What a world we live in!

It is baffling how these women want to sleep with that sick looking old man because he is white? I really pity them. May God heal them

madridguy:
Instead of the woman to arrange some other aggrieved women and burn the pig alive you allowed him to be boasting of his evil act. Iranu @ highest order.

Don't you know she would go to jail or that could cause lots of racial hate. There are many Nigerians in ireland

ted1741:
go to school

To do what? The people you study their works today never went to school ie Wright brothers that invented the aircraft. Agreed school is important but don't disuade the young lad's talent. He is combining both by the way!

bettercreature:
Sue who? You seems never travelled abroad.
Sorry bro discrimination is everywhere it's just worse in Asia.Next time send your white friend
Dont take public transport i mean train or bus
Dont use the same lift with white people
Don't greet them
Try to be confident and proud
Avoid walking alone esp in Asia
Always go straight to the police if you miss the road
Don't swim when they are in pool or nearby
Don't gym when they are there
Avoid going to tennis court when they are there
Find a black dominated church
The list is endless

Are you serious on these?

Ekejoestar:
chibok issue have lingered on more than neccesary, whether politicaly motivated or not, we are happy and praying that this should be the end of such issue.
+atlleast let OBY chop rest.

So easy for you to say. If you had one of your own in the kidnapped team, it will be a never-die matter in your heart, thoughts and actions. Imagine having your younger sister in the forest. You will be disturbed by the thought even in 50 years from now!

I hope they ain't stimulated by the other person's touch? Gays?

Does senate consult with stakeholders before passing in laws? The action is dead on arrival. This happen in the US because there numerous schools to choose from. Not so in Nigeria. If your score wasn't good enough this year for admission, what will make it better the following year.

The process will create a lot of bottlenecks in public institutions and enshrine corruptio in admission processes.

Holyfield1:
Someone should please explain this to me in simple term
As I wrote JAMB this year scored 247 and no admission, meaning I do not have to write JAMB next year abi?

I hope you know the reason you didn't get admission is because you hard lower score compared to other candidates in your desire discipline. What make you think you now be consider the following year when candidates would have even improve their scores.

Better think it well before you shoot yourself in the leg. You can however switch to discipline with known low jamb cut off or polytechnics

yedidiah:
I doubt the authenticity of this "so called" interview. Aisha should know better even though I know she is very ambitious and an opportunist but she should know better than expose her husband's linen.

how did know she is an opportunist and ambitious? She only showed up for campaign very late. She is lay back but lack self control when hurt. She feel hurt by her husband preceived incompetence

2dugged:
I am not encouraging it, but can you tell me exactly how society has discouraged it?,a man cheats on you,as a woman you move out with your children only for the same society to tell you that you are over reacting and that all men cheat.In Nigeria a man can cheat on his wife,when she speaks up she will be the one to get thrown out with her children, with nothing, maybe if divorce laws were reviewed to atleast cater for the woman as obtained in developed countries that could curb it,but for now, both our culture and religion has placed the woman at a disadvantage

You are so right on this. It is not women that encourage it. It is the society and men especially. The numerous male legislators will not review marriage law.

If the women benefit more from divorce, men would stop cheating to avoid divorce and women will have the strength to leave abusive marriage

lindiwey:
Speaking from experience, it's not all MDA's and parastatals that pay well..level 8 officer in my Office earns about 52k, I used that as a yardstick for WAEC's pay structure..if OP wants a good govt job he should talk of CBN, AMCON,NCC,SEC,NDIC,FIRS e.t.c na dis kind fit compete with BC

This is a WAEC international position. WAEC is not fully government owned. The pay is very good. BC exam officer is a very junior position with no growth in sight