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RiyadhGoddess:
Op all you listed can go including maggi. Only palm oil won't go. They will only ask you for egunje to carry all what you mentioned but palm oil won't go.
Read my signature

Bolded: some persons devised a means of carrying along palm oil. The freeze the palm oil to solid state and they allow it go through. Frozen palm oil.


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DeOTR:
I don't engage people in fist fight or altercations.
If Okoro likes my girlfriend, good (God forbid I fall in love with a Lady that won't be attractive to other men), he's only trying his luck.
But if a man assaults my girlfriend or any of my sisters, he's finished.

For the bolded, I will support you. That's any of your relatives. I can fight for my immediate relation but not for a girlfriend. A girlfriend can deny you at any point. But your immediate relations can't deny you no matter what.

If it is a wife, of course you can fight for your wife but a mere girlfriend, nah nah.

KNGMufasa:
Guys,

Ever heard the story of the man who finally figured out what women wanted?

He died laughing before he could tell anyone else.

What an asshole!

It is known that In our society today, many women don’t have the courage to be this honest about relationships and their sex life but lately i have seen many push those boundaries, and i commend them

FACT:
Women love drama. Bad boys come with lots of drama. Nice guys always want to please her, they’re predictable with no drama, that’s boring to them.
That’s why no matter how much money a guy showers on a woman she could still go out and Bleep someone else.

Unless you’re a guy who lives life on his own terms. But that’s a story for another day

Girls are confused being no doubt. I experienced a scenario where I was chatting with one like that. She finally visited within 2 days of we knowing each other and she spilled the secret to me that she came because I sounded quite rude with my chat with her. Really? That I was too blunt with her but still she wanted to meet me. And that's exactly what got her attracted.

I simply told her that's not being rude. I just don't give a damn about doing all those nice guy type of chat with a lady I want something with. So because I want something with you I must now start ass licking you? So because I refused to ass lick you , that indirectly translated to a guy being rude?

She was like she is used to guys petting her and complimenting her. But she got non of that from me and that alone got her interested to meet me.

However, she came though and the rest they said was history.

DeOTR:
Who's talking about me fighting physically here?
It's like expecting Buhari to engage you in a fist fight because you slapped Aisha.

But it's not worth it whether physical fight or not. The other person can use other means to follow you as well.

If you know much about women, you supposed understand that they will only tell you what you want to know. Your girlfriend might tell you that DeOTR, Okoro has been disturbing me o. He said he likes me and boom you rushed to warn Okoro and arguement ensued along the line.

Both of you start to exchange words with you screaming; do you know who I am? Do you know who I am? And Okoro screamed back; do you know who I am too? And if asked why both of you are exchanging words and people get to find out it's because of one pussy girl. Haba! It is not worth it my brother. Not for a girlfriend that will still end up fucking behind you. Not even a wife at that just a bleep partner known as girlfriend.

One can fight for one's mother but fighting for a pussy is not worth it.

DeOTR:
All men are bad, as in, "goodly bad".
I'm a very shy and good man, but the fastest way for you to die is to mess with the women in my life.

Why will you want to fight cuz of a woman ? Not even wife. If you get kpuff along the line God forbid, do u know she will start dating another man the next day? She can even date your own friend do u know that?

Jodha:
Some are online but not on Nairaland...

Not just some. 90% of humans are online with the exception of some humans that are yet to discover the internet. The ones you will find on Facebook or Twitter are not different from the ones here.

Of course, I will agree on the fact there are alot of teenagers here of course but even at that, the mature ones here are the same with the ones you will find on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter.

I don't see any difference. It's all about how you relate with them as an individual.

Fvckhypocrite:
i Think the guy na hacker drop his moniker name here

Lol so you believe those scammers littering the whole places up with how an imaginary guy helped them hacked their partners WhatsApp?

That's a guy using a female username. Don't fall for it. The username is even deleted now. They will collect your money and send you one rubbish script.

Chii59:
Hmm. I have my reservations about nairaland guys. Wonderful people I've met here but not so good ones I've met too.

Lol I don't understand when you girls always use the phrase nairaland guys. Is it not the same types of guys you see offline that are still here? The ones offline, do they have 3 heads? There is no difference.

Almost everyone in this era is online except the person is living in a thick forest where there is no internet. Everyone is online. So there is no difference between the ones you meet online and offline.

The ones you will meet offline is still on one social media platform or the other. The only difference is you met him offline. But that doesn't override the fact that he still belong to one social media or the other.

NwadykExcel:
Yo bro,i'll never neglect my education.
I will still get up to a Masters in Mech.E.
And a B.sc in Economics and maybe in Applied Mathematics as well.Though i'm still in 100lvl doing Mech.E.
My main plan and back-up plan all involves me getting an education so if you like be there and be doing "vocational skill" .we'll see how far that really gets you.
Anyone can learn a vocational skill and still be very educated.
People looking towards skill auquisition as a substitute for True Education are shortsighted.

It's nice to reason this way but as someone who has passed through the system, I will advice you while studying to acquire a certificate, make sure you learn a digital skill. It's not about the paper called certificate but it's all about what you can do.

The question you need to ask yourself after graduating is; aside the certificate, what problem can I beat my chest that I can confidently provide a solution to?

Nigeria schools don't teach us many things. After the so many Engineering Laboratory practicals that run from 200 level to 400 level, we later find out that we've learnt nothing to help us succeed in the outside world. Every other skills you need to succeed in life, you will acquire them all by yourself.

Qualification is good but not without experience. Hence, do well to acquire some soft/digital skills using some world class platforms such as udemy.

You can learn project management and acquire the skill and other well sort after digital skills and you will be amazed how those will end up putting food on your table and paying the bill by the time you come of age and start living alone.

cicikhemy:
I'm not married yet so forgive my advice to a married man.

Forbearance is one of the most important virtue in marriage because it shows your level of love and understanding. Check 1Cor 13: 4-8
As Christians, we ought to possess this virtue before thinking about marriage because the Bible doesn't support divorce.

I will advise that you forgive your wife, express how you feel to her and pray to The Holy Spirit to help and comfort you to forgive your wife totally.

The Bible support divorce on the basis of adultery. Why are you saying the Bible does not support divorce?

Ladies talk about all the things they want. They will tell you they want a gentle man, a caring man, a God fearing man and all of those stuffs but what they don't tell you, they don't tell you they also want a man that can make them hornny. Now here is the bitter truth; even if you as a guy possesses all those good qualities they always mention, you will still find out that those stuffs never help keep a lady.

Now here is the secret, while ladies will tell you they want a caring man, a God fearing man, a gentle man, but there is one thing they won't tell you they still want, they won't tell you those things that make them hornyy.

And believe me, if you like possess all those good qualities as a man, if you lack the skills on how to make a woman feel sexually hornyy, those good qualities won't make her remain loyal to you. She will seek that secret guy that will handle her like a real man and always make her feel that sexual horninesss.

As a man, if you think possessing those good qualities will make a woman remain loyal to you, you are simply dreaming. You must be that ultimate man that possesses both the good qualities they always seek for and the skills on how to handle them sexually and keep them hornyy whenever they are with you.

BoldassBadasser:
thanks Sir! I appreciate your reply. I can't live in Canada, from what I heard it's too cold and I have a health challenge which makes me allergic to cold, cough asthma to be exact.

Please Sir what can I do to make the mark for Aussie?

If you can't make the recommended mark then use school route and aim at the sun city Brisbane due to your condition.

DukeJoe17:
In a long run the idiot might not be seeing her pussy sef and I know he will still stick to the swimming pool.

Lol

DukeJoe17:
I don't know if guys that keep a cheating pussy are lunatics or Bewitched.

I just can't imagine that. The guy is a pussy homie. If my girl is still keeping in touch with her ex, I will dump her straight up. Ex for that matter. Someone that has bleeped her for that matter. Okafor law will apply. They will definitely still be bleeping. So it's good to dump such a lady who can't let go of her ex.

But some guys can take nonsense from ladies though.

Tajbol4splend:
Guys are more easily paranoid than girls, but the guy is petty, I don't think there's a big reason to get as angry as not picking your calls

He is angry because he has already spent money putting things in place.

But of a truth anyone will feel disappointed especially when you've taken your time to arrange things in place just for the comfort of the person that is visiting.

Another thought in the guy's mind is: he feels the babe was playing games with him. Like he feels she is not serious for the fact that she repeatedly asserted she was coming. And as there was change of plans, she could have informed him on time that she couldn't be able to make it. She informed him too late. That's where the whole annoyance is coming from.

LucyB24:
My face wasn't visible.

But you could have informed him on time immediately there was change of plans.

That thing dey pain person wella especially when you are expecting a girl and the guy go all the way putting things in order just to make your stay worthwhile only to end up not showing up. That definitely will make anyone fumes no doubt.

That's why I have stopped making prior arrangement if I am expecting any lady cuz there could be a sudden change of plans on her side. If she comes only then I will start arranging things not when she has not arrive to prevent unnecesssry expenses.

What you need to do? Give him some time to cool off. I meant some days not minutes. Give him 5 to 7 days before you contact him again. He might end up contacting you during this 5 to 7 days period. Anything that makes you texting him right now he won't reply you. So follow what I said. I am a guy and I know why I am telling you to make it 5 to 7 days.

You will be shocked he might contact you by himself.

Gayatri:
What is your take please??..

If I were the guy, I will dump the other girl that is still keeping in touch with her ex.

That babe is not good for him but the problem is he is still caged by the other girl. A typical guy that can't take control of his feelings for a so called cheating girlfriend. The girl is definitely cheating on him with her ex. She will definitely cheat on him if he make the mistake of settling down with that lady for life.

A lady that keeps in touch with her ex when still dating a guy is not going to be loyal to such a guy. That he has failed to realize. He seems to be that type of a guy that finds it hard leaving a girl and taking all the bullshits of a girl.

What you need to do: meet him one on one and tell him you have a question you will like to ask him. Stare into his eyes and ask the question: can you tolerate a cheating wife? If he says no, then ask him why then he is working things out with a girl that left him for her ex and then out of the blues she started crawling back to work things out with her? Isn't that foolishness?

He might go mute at first. Tell him that girl is not good for him. Be bold and talk to him exactly what I write here.

Tell him a girl that is still keeping in touch with her ex is definitely a big disaster to any guy.

However, what I see in this your male friend is that he is still very naive to see that the said girl is not good for him. He needs to realise this. That girl will cheat on him with her ex again and again even if she succeed manipulating him into getting back with him.

The guy is not wise at all. But it is left for you to be bold enough and make him understand this. He seems to be so naive with his emotions for that lady he claims as a girlfriend. That he is still trying to get back with a girl that can't let go of her ex is a complete act of foolishness.

Be bold and take the bull by the horn and make him understand just that.

chatinent:
You took two soldier to a peaceful signing of an undertaking?


You didn't give him a taste of his own soup?

No need to beat him. Sighting the two soldiers alone is enough to make him wise up.

Nicoswit:
The crucial aspect is does he have enough funds to sustain his family and at the same time run a tech biz in canada

But he said he's been saving a big chunk of his salary over the years. Meaning he has the fund to make the move without stress.

By the way, his occupation is needed around the world. It won't be hard for him to land a job once he get there. Programming is well sort after all over the world.

So he has no issue landing a job at most within 3 to 4 months of arrival. Besides, he will be paid times 3 of what he is earning here right now and will possibly be able to acquire properties back home if he so wish.

It will be a nice choice for him to move. He will never regret it as a programmer.

hector

Don't marry here in Nigeria and leave your wife behind. There is high possibility of her cheating on you. Majority of ladies cheat these days especially for those operating long distance relationship.

If you must marry here in Nigeria, make sure you marry her and apply together as couple and travel out together. Your visa will be granted for two of you as husband and wife.

Don't make the mistake of leaving her behind for 1 to 2 yrs before coming to take her over. She will definitely cheat within that period.

Imagine you sending your wife money and sharing it with her Bleep Tom boy here in Nigeria. I believe you can't bear the thought of another man servicing your wife here in Nigeria while you are there abroad.

Marry and move with your wife. But if you feel like leaving her behind, it will just be better not to marry before traveling. Just go as a single guy and marry over there to your choice of woman.

The other option of you coming back to Nigeria to marry after you leave for abroad is another big mistake you should avoid because she can't go with you instantly after the marriage. You will marry her and still leave her behind due to the duration of time her spousal visa application will take to be granted. This means, even if you return back to Nigeria to marry after moving abroad, your wife can't go with you instantly. She must first stay behind for her own visa to be granted. During that period, she might still cheat on you due to the distance between two of you.


But if you don't mind your wife cheating on you when abroad, you can first marry and leave her behind then come back to take her over after her visa application has been granted.

I am in the same dilemma just like you. But I have told myself, if I can't see a good girl to marry between now and when I will move so as to apply together with her as couples, then it will just be better for me to go alone as a single guy.

Nicoswit:
He can get the canadian passport later...it will even be more easier when he becomes successful in his tech company...he shouldn't trade his comfortable life for an anticipated life in canada

Canada passport doesn't wait for anyone. Make hail while the sun shine. A time will come when Canada will close her immigration route. And by the way, OP is getting older. The more he waits, the more the process get harder and competitive.

He can run his tech biz over there if he wants to. The Nigeria environment right now doesn't favour businesses.

Bola146:
Gbam!!!! A chilled bottle of Baron and hot pizza for you

So you too support ladies bleeping multiple guys in a bid of keeping their options opened?

Don't you think if a lady can't stay put with one guy when in relationship, is it in marriage she will remain faithful?

One thing most of you girls don't know is that, once a guy know you have other guys beside he will just be chopping you. He may not tell you. The rest guys you keeping as options will still get to know.

In all, they will all be chopping you and non will be committed to you while you in your mind, you will be thinking you are having them as options. In the end, your body counts will be uncountable.

Having options only help increased a lady's body counts. Nothing else. And more so do know non of those options will stay committed to you if any find out you are meeting other guys behind.

Everyone will be collecting their own share of the puna while you will be thinking you are keeping them as options. They will only help increase your body counts.

In essence, it's a public pussy. No man will waste his reseoruces to marry a lady that donate pussy freely in a bid of keeping multiples male partners.

BaddieFreak:
Just #125k and guys are ranting. #125k that I can spend in just a day lol

Your source of income. What do you do for a living?

Mutemenot:
My nigga, I handle.them.like my Benz steering . Always ready for bed

Lol no be lie.

Usorohtheman:
Thanks man

You know what you supposed do. They fear security agent a lot. Go and involve the law. Report at the nearest police station.

They will pick the girl up to write an undertaking regarding your life. If any thing happens to you, security should hold the lady and her nephew responsible.

You will keep running if you do not go about it that way.

QVicky10:
The lady is not serious. How can you leave your child alone to go and hang out with a man?

That's how they behave in America. Ladies live recklessly over there jumping from one club to another and sleeping randomly with multiple men without even thinking of using condoms. Some don't even know their babies daddy. This one on the video is even lucky. At least she knows who the father of the child is but she still can't stop hunting for men up and down.

Search for "Bounty hunter D" on YouTube and see how fully grown women with brain sleep recklessly with men for one night stand and get pregnant without knowing who the father of the child is.

They will give a long list of guys they think may probably be the baby daddy to a private investigator to go hunt for the men and force them to take DNA test just to know who the father of their child is.

Very any how human beings. How can someone be sleeping around without even thinking of using condom only for them to bear a child out of their reckless lifestyles in addition to not even knowing who could be the father of their child.

Quite terrible you will agree with me.

SeunWedsLinda how often do you pray? I am a sinner but I still carve out time to pray. It's not by might but by the grace of God.

On your quiet time, intensify in prayers. Try and stay away from sex for the now.

Everyone's grace is not the same but with prayers, you can command the universe to open it's abundance blessings upon your life through the unmerited favour of God.

Stop having sex with her, stay off masturbation as well for the time being
and top it with incessant prayers. Ensure you pray every day. Do this for the next two months. Trust me you will see massive improvement in your life and finance entirely. While doing this, don't sit idle. Do your normal money work.

Note: stay away from sex and masturbation during this period. Don't just engage in sex with her any more. Just keep communication casual with each other for now and do the above. You will see changes.

sunshineV:
this nyansh and my wallet...i don't know which one flat pass

Slim girls are bae. No stress.

DenreleDave:
Mjbolt akinbahm ufotty2001 luminouz badradio edofirstborn mcslize

From your narration, all I see here is a lady you cannot really be able to help or change her orientation regarding the type of life she is living right now. She is completely damaged sorry to use that expression.

That's as a result of the type of orientation she had chosen for life. This type of girl cannot raise a good family with a man trust me.

The most you can do right now is keep her as just a friend. Don't let your emotions crawl in cuz you can't handle the mood swing of that type of a lady. She wants to live a carefree type of life with no single direction.

The more you try to help her, the more she will hate you. You might want to advice her but do it as if you are rendering an advice. You can't really force your type of orientation on the type of person she has chosen to be.

Just make her your friend if there is still other aspect of her qualities you like. Keep her as just a friend.

ufotty2001:
Hello Friends!
Have come to realized that girls above 30yrs are so Matured in relationship, well behaved and organized infact they make relationship workout for better of both of you.. they always look good and ready to follow up with you despite your flaws etc ..
What's do you really think.. ? Do you guys have similar experience

You are right. I have noticed that girls between the age of 18 to 26yrs are unstable and really don't know what relationship is all about.

I also noticed that they are not always committed. They are always confused of what they want.

Sixfeetbelle:
Wait, what?

Are you a girlfriend collector or something?

I don't want to be part of any fleet ooh. In fact I don't like ships sef.

Girlfriend collector kuo. No. Any girl I meet I do ask first if they are single. They always say they are single o before I proceed. So someone won't accuse me of collecting his girlfriend.