₦airaland Forum

AnanseK:
You forgot alcohol

yea most abused with cigarette...i do minimum of 6 bottles everyday. Thank God i dont do any other drug.

ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.

I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.

Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.

I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.

Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".

I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.

Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.

With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.

I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.

Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice

First install key logger in her phone...google and get a good one. You need evidence to advice her properly. The software will send you all her chat with the boss. From her convo...she is cheating, cheating is not only when the man penetrates. Sexting is cheating and you need to advise her in this case and protect yourself. U still have the option to opt out, a cheating wife is as dangerous as an armed robber.

Most Nigerians...both embloyed and self employed are suffering 247 and 365....no rest at all. I see people colapsing in there shops. It is a decision to take vacation like Buhari and rest for a while. It is important as the work u are doing. Take care and make sure you put off ur phone during ur vacation.

HonOlagrace:
Its my first time working officially after Nysc, so I don't no if it's a crime to fall sick?

I fell sick(Malaria) on Wednesday around 9am@work,was able to manage myself till 1:30pm when my colleagues told me to go home when I couldn't cope. Got permission from the school's HM and left;was admitted at the hospital so I couldn't go to work yesterday but went today aganist the doctor 's advice that I still need to rest. Got to work today and was told that I was fired because I fell sick and was absent for a day & half.

My Question is, Is it a crime to fall sick when employed?

You were sacked a month earlier, but your letter was preferred to be delivered in your absense.

SmartMugu:
Stop reading whatever you've been reading bro. Life is much simpler than ure taking it.

Physics is simple....ask good science students. Though its not your fault if you don't understand it.

SmartMugu:
OK oga Nostrademus, 3rd world war is not here yet, why are u discussing 5th world war already?

We still have more than 2000 yrs to exist on planet earth. The 3rd war will come probably to change settings...the 4th will come for overthrow...when antichrist will rule the world and the 5th will still come as the challenge that will eventually end the whole thing.

bedspread:
WICH KAIN FALSE TALK BE THESE.....

lol...its simple program. The world was programmed to crash like a Ponzi scheme but the earth stays forever. Reason, is if you allow the current human beings to continue to grow with this speed, they will one day challenge the heavens.

bedspread:
YEAH , boko AND THEIR OTHER anti-CHRIST AGENTS WILL SURE TAKE OVER BUT NOT NOW.... THAT WILL BE AFTER THE RAPTURE...AFTER THE SAINTS HAVE GONE

THE CHOSEN ONES ARE STILL HERE..... YOU STILL HAVE TO WAIT...

Yea those guys are anti christ, any day U.S and the likes loses world power, they will multiply and attempt to take over the world. Then another christian super power will emerge to fight back may be the 5th world war and there comes the end of the world. Almost everybody will be wiped out from the face of the earth with Nuclear bombs and the earth will be restructured again and start affresh by the almighty.

balancediet:
IF parents train their children on Financial wealth early enough they Will grow so Rich before 30

That course should be introduced in Nigeria from primary school. Thats the only solution to Nigeria problem and the test book they will use must be rich dad poor dad.

Donprayer:
Na waoo fear nor dey let me drive for my area again, VIO, fcsc, new okowa boys, police, SARS etc

lol...which area be that...? The thing don too much sha. Even if everything complete for your vehicle, they go still find fault. i dey reason helicopter or drone to dey use dey waka

lilyheaven:
have you ever been in love?

Yes and still, it makes you feel different, sometimes you won't even know whats making you happy. It makes your skin shine and your eyes glow. It is impossible to harm anybody when you are in that state.

lilyheaven:
Not really mY dear, it is a hormonal imbalance.
You can read about, Postpartum psychosis.

Sure, do you know normally why you get angry...its because of homones...no doubt. I tell you, depression can make homones rage involuntarily and thats why God created love. Ask yourself why pple commit suicide just because of heart break from an ordinary boyfriend.

lilyheaven:
Some women becomes mentally unstable, after delivery.

That is if no one is showing them love...to raise a baby from day 1 to 1yr na war.

ninocia18:
No matter how much i see these things, i just cant hold back tears. These days are truly evil..



Modified.... That woman is not mad. She has gone through a major experience that has eaten deep into her soul. She needs God and a psychologist.

The venum she poured on this baby has sth to do with the father. Its possible, the father is a runaway husband, leaving only the woman to suffer for the child. Seeing the child reminds her of the useless husband may be and with depression anything can happen

Young03:
This man is making sense oo

Is jesus God?

Or The son of God

No...the man has to tell us who is God and then prove that Jesus is not God. This way, he has to show us God and show us Jesus, then prove that the Jesus is not the God.

PalmchatApp:
It all started from just friends, to admirers and now we are dating. I have been with Joy for like a year now, we work around the same area, so it makes it easier for us to see daily. She comes to my office after work and i drop her at home on many occasions. Joy is the kind of girl that makes a man drool. her look, her physique, her smartness is just appealing. I always look forward to seeing her, she has a way of making me feel good.

She loves cuddling, we could cuddle for hours, make love and get intimate as we desire but she is never satisfied. i told her i'm actually not ready to have sex with her but she sees it like i'm cheating. she initiates sex with me most times and i just pull back. we fought on different occasions over this issue and it makes me wonder why she loves sex so much. As much as i love her, i don't want her to think i'm taking advantage of her ad all, so i decided to take it slow.

I wouldn't ever forget the night she slept over at my place. It was a Saturday evening, she made dinner and we were together in the lobby, i noticed all her gestures but i just ignored her. The next thing she was all over me, kissing me and touching me with great intensity, i tried pulling back but she was ready for me. it's funny if i tell you she raped me. she had sex with me that night, i don't know how she did it, o don't know maybe she drugged me, but i know i woke up different.

Since that night, i started craving for more of her, she made me miss her so much. We have sex at intervals. there was no limitation to where we use. Most times, we make love in the kitchen, bedroom, sitting room, even in the car and she was still never satisfied, even if we go on for hours. She begs me for the most unrealistic styles during sex and most times i just run and tell her to have a grip on herself.

Well, i'm sitting alone now, thinking of how i've let this girl have a grip on me, i always want more of her but i can't just satisfy her. She is never tired. on many occasion, we go on for 3 hours and she still tells me its not enough, she's making me weaker. I really don't know how to handle this situation. I love having sex with her so much, most times she sends her nude pictures to me even at work but i can't tolerate her craving for long hours sex. I feel she would kill me one day with sex, help what should i do?

run for ur life, thats how destinies and potentials are been stolen. Well, if u are still with ur brain, nothing wrong, she is just a nympho....but if u marry her, u go get high bp quick

keke na king where these cars dey for Nigerian roads.

Bad disease that does not have symptoms....the only symptom you will see is blindness, if you are lucky, one eye first or peripherial vision. On your own, go for ocular checkup ones a year.

Mrmoz:
This is just too bad...this aint jealousy but complete stupidity...and she was soo cute...life cut shot RIP that guy should not see the light again so no girl will be a victim of his foolishness...u were given the gun to protect not otherwise mumu I dey vex

The guy just imagined how another guy carry long jabulani scatter him babe....the thing dey pain sha but that was originally why beer and weed were created...to calm niggas down.

sleemoon:
Jesus sweating.... M seeing tinz.... Guy no lie... No one ll beat u naa... No b u i saw spraying dat statue pure water nd doing selfie with it... U now brought it to nairaland to b famous baa.... Liar

Y u no harvest the sweat and drink... U might become the next Jesu or u ll enter heaven straight... Arindin
. See mumus too commenting on Facebook... Choi ppl can be xo gullible....

You going to far...the head has a hole and the jaw a pinhole...it rained and the head stored water...so naturally, it should drop from the pinhole jaw like drip.

ipreach:
Many people have argued much on this subject on and off social media especially on Nairaland.com, that's why i decided to bring to here


1. Because God commands it:

"A tithe of all you produce is the Lord's and it is Holy." (Leviticus 27:30)


2. Because Jesus commands it:

"Yes, you should tithe, and you shouldn't leave the more important things undone either." (Matthew 23:23) Tithing was the only thing Jesus commended the Pharisees for doing right!



3. Because tithing shows that God has first place in your life:

"The purpose of tithing is to teach you to put God first place in your life". (Deuteronomy 14:23 (LB) If God does not have first priority in your finances, He isn't really first in your life and your witness for Christ is false!


4. Because it reminds you that everything you have was given to you by God:
"Always remember that it is the Lord your God who gives you the ability to produce wealth." (Deuteronomy 8:18) Rather than feeling "I'm giving God 10% of my money," realize God is letting you keep 90% of HIS money. Without God's help, you would have nothing.


5. Because tithing expresses your gratitude to God for helping you earn income:
"How can I repay the Lord for all His goodness to me?" (Ps. 116:12) Here's the answer: "Each of you should bring a gift in proportion to the way the Lord your God has blessed you." (Deuteronomy 16:17)


6. Because refusing to tithe is stealing from God:

If you don't tithe, God says you are using money that rightfully belongs to Him. "God says: "Will a man rob God? Yet you are robbing me!' But you ask, 'How do we rob you?' God says: 'In tithes and offerings. Bring your whole tithe to My house.'" (Malachi 3:8-19) (God has a right to whatever He asks for from you.)


7. Because tithing gives God a chance to prove to you that He exists and wants to bless you:

"Bring me your tithe. Test me in this," says the Lord, "and see if I won't throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it, I will prevent pests from devouring your crops and the vines in your fields will be protected from plagues."

This is one of the most amazing promises in the Bible. God actually offers you a challenge. He says "I dare you!" Start tithing and watch what happens!" He not only promises to bless you with more, but He also promises to protect what you already have! In the Bible, tithing is the only way given that you can prove God exists. Start tithing and get ready for God's amazing blessings!


8. Because it is essential to spiritual growth:
"Just as you grow in everything in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in earnestness and love...see that you also grow in the grace of giving." Many Christians remain spiritual babies because they disobey God by not tithing.


9. Because tithing shows you really love God!
"Where your treasure is, your heart will be also." (Matthew 6:21) Wherever you put your money is where your affection is going to be. Every time you give back to God you are drawn closer to Him. You may say you love God, but 2 Corinthians 8:8 says that you’re giving tests the sincerity of your love. You can give without loving but you cannot love without giving.
Jesus said, "If you really love me, do what I command." (John 14:15)


10. Because tithing is an investment for eternity:
Jesus told us to "Store up treasures in heaven." (Matthew 6:19-20) How do you do that? By investing your money in helping people get to heaven! Most of the things you spend your money on will not even last for ten years, much less last for eternity.

http://godsinspired..com.ng/2016/03/10-bible-verses-on-tithing.html

Tithe is one of the secret of millinairs.

HARDDON:
If u have seen a plane tossed by storm b4 u'd fathom.
Itz like dah sea tide, crests n troughs

@ op, Dont know if our forecasting equipments r out of joints.!

naturally, nothing works here...so dont even expect anything

ogochukwu247:
Norway Base Nigerian singer AppyDay is reping our country in Norway Got Talent competition, according to our source the winner of the competition will walk home with mouth watering price and a deal with sony music.

here are photos from his live performance yesterday below..

source
http://www.reportnaija.com/2017/03/singer-appyday-represents-nigeria-in.html

I wish i am there...Oslo will be very cold by now.

money121:
I visit him today... And he brought out this list....
Hope Nigeria will be great again...
Reason of posting this am into Roofing business now and I know how much to roof even a gateman House now

For those that can't See the hand Writing

BUILDING EXPENSES ON ROOFING AND COMPLETION

1. 170 Pieces of Asbestos @#84=#14,280
2. 33 pieces of Ridges @ #50=#1,651
3. 8packets of Roofing nails =#400
4.1 bag of 3" Nails =#315
5. 1 bag of 4" Nails =#320
6. 1 bag of 5" Nail =#340
7. Planks/Transport=#9,971
8. Soligum =#230
9. Oja Agba =#100

Total=#27,407

300blocks 9*9*18 @#57=#1,710
1 Load Sharp Sand =#600
1 Load of gravel =#720
10bags of cement =#700
Carpenter=#500
Bricklayer=#700
Labour= #200
Welder =#105
Water Tank=#120

Grand Total=#32,752
Labour/Roofing=#1500

Grand Total=#34,252

Date: 31-1-1992

This is a Standard House oooo infact one in Town ooo

Nonesense...and we are still answering one nigeria...fukkkkking nonesense.

Nnemuka:
Miserable?? haba naa
How can a man whose wife is a banker and can rotate 360degrees in bed be miserable?
Na jollyment all along

..lol...Just pray u get the Brutashi type...that can ram you all night as well against the 360. Then in the morning, bank job can go to hell because, there will be no strenght. Otherwise, somebody's life will be miserable in the process.

Nnemuka:
no hassle bro, if another snatches him with food another man will snatch me for my bedroom skills.
Life is easy, we just keep complicating it.

Dont tell me na only bedroom u wan offer a whole man all the days of his miserable life.

I dont understand again, nobody is celebrating anything here in the south east and west...are we still in the same Nigeria...?

librangyps:
This is a topic we should all take seriously. Please if you are a newbie in the gym or your local field, start out slowly, don't feel overwhelmed by what others are doing. Listen to your body and take it slow... to avoid stories that touch.

Yes no matter your age, you might just fall down and Die!

Take it slow
Make it regular
You will do more overtime not in one day
You don't have to do all yourvtrainer says... Listen to your body

Good advise...some pple always want to keep up with the joneses....before u know it heart will seize. Human body adjustable gradually, if u take it slow, gradually the body will start sensing it and keep up the good work.

Nnemuka:
Cant wait to marry a man that can cook very well...chai
I will handle the oza room while he manages the kitchen.

odd...unless he is yahoo boy or self employed big boy. Imagine...after homeboy suffer from morning to night comeback around 9pm after heavy traffic...u want him to enter kitchen...babe another chikala go snatch the guy sharperly with blacksoup.

Ekakamba:
OMG! That black soup dudu oooooo...
If you chop that soup cum go shiit for your crush house and water no dey the discern to flush that devil ennn...
You no go ever remain the same.

funny ....waitin u reason reach toilet...?

mackmanuel:
Abuja-Nasarawa road shut down as Northeners celebrates Buhari arrival

They keep chanting "sai baba" as vehicles and bikes Were stopped: causing holdup on the way.

Some were even pouring ladies on the bike pour-water , as they chant say baba

Police and soldiers couldn't even control them even when they scare them with Gun's Sound

Pure evidence that Nigeria is a divided country. How come some regions are happy while some are not? We will do ourselves a lot of good if we accept the fact that we are not one.

Burger01:
No one can cheat old age... Buharii should take it easy and resign as a president for Osinbajo to take over and continue the good work...

Nigeria will get there.

No one can cheat old age but i still wonder how Mugabe is managing at 93....how did Africa get here...?