₦airaland Forum

petitejolie:
call wat dad? He should stay away from that family. He can settle with his wife but set conditions and have nothing to do with her family . No third party

I think the man will forever be his inlaw and we never know what the future holds. He "might" be a saviour somehow in the future.

To err is human, to forgive is divine.. Let it go to have peace

Every human will definitely be furious on this issue. However, every problem can never be the same hence, they cannot have the same solution.

This is an issue that has to be handled maturely. Yes, she f-up but, can you just look inwards and see if you can pick something positive in it to make you forgive her.? I believe you should.

It's just a lesson learnt. Don't use it against her if you decide to forgive. Your maturity will make you see steps to take to ensure you don't fall victim of such again.

What I see is, she was ill/badly advised by her greedy father. The man knew the lady was doing very good and in order to keep his architect/builder/contractor job, he had no option that to twist the feeble mind of the young lady.

The man couldn't scold her daughter. He was the cause of the problem.

Brotherly, sit her down, tell her how you feel. Let her correct every step without coercion. Give her a free mind/hand to handle everything. Let her know, whatever she decides should be of her own interest because her happiness is what you desire.

Accept her apology. Call her Dad and also accept the apologies. This is will also give you rest of mind to focus on bigger things ahead.

It is well..

When will the next undergraduate admission commence, please.

tsquare299:
The Executive Governor,
Oyo State Secretariat,
Agodi,
Ibadan.

Your Excellency,

APPEAL FOR MERCY ON THE 557 TESCOM SUCCESSFUL APPLICANTS YET TO COLLECT LETTERS


We begin our letter by first sincerely thanking your excellency for your true and sincere love for the citizens especially the youths of Oyo state. Your true and undiluted love for us has made you decide to save and rescue us from the evils of unemployment, hence your order for the recruitment of five thousand (5000)teaching staff and two thousand (2000) non teaching staff in this period of global pandemic with economic recession when it is extremely difficult for most states Governors to employ even as low as five hundred. Our purpose of writing this letter is to appeal to you on behalf of the 577 successful applicants who are yet to receive their letters of appointment.

These vibrant, energetic, qualified and capable youths passed through all the requirement procedures for the employment: the manual and online applications, CBT screening, oral interview after scraping through by scoring fifty percent and above (50% and above) as demanded by your able Governor. But sadly enough, for the reason not known to us, we were told to have been stepped on the happy sad day our colleagues / mates collected their letters.

However, through your interview at because TV on February, we got to know that the stepped down list was born from your zero tolerance for corruption, vibrant agitation for justice and the quest for equal treatment without consideration for sex, status, religion, creed or political affiliation. It was born out of your insistence on the point that it is only the round peg that must be put in the round hole. Then, our minds were a little settled as what most of us were thinking before was far from that.

To ascertain the fact and to save the children of the masses, your excellency reportedly ordered that we come for physical verification/ interview on 5th March, 2020. We heard this and all of us quickly rushed down from different corners of oyo state to the Tescom headquarters, Ibadan for the verification/ interview. Thanks to the MIC (Management Information Centre) who anchored the verification /interview together with the Tescom for doing the job as swiftly as they could and finished on time.

Your excellency sir, it is two weeks after the verification/interview . But we have not heard from the Tescom about the collection of our letters. Our constant visit to the Tescom has not yielded any positive outcome as they tell us that it is only your word that could move the letters out of their office, and that that has not come.

For this reason, we, with deepest form of humility and respect, appeal to you that your excellency to have mercy on us and help us give your word to the Tescom so that we could receive our letters and join our colleagues in class. This is the only thing that could claim us back from the depression, demoralization, doubts and sadness which have all claimed our hearts since February 1st, 2021.

Yours faithfully,

Tescom557.

In as much this is right, 2weeks is still a short time to start writing open letters. Remember, you're about to become civil servants and all these must be done with wisdom especially when dealing with Nigerian politicians.

I was once in your shoe, though, not Oyo state. It took 1yr 2 months before we heard anything. Even before letters were issued, another panel for verification like yours was set up where they had opportunity to delist and enlist their wards.

It's really sad the way our leaders treat our generation. We have been turned to politicians score points.

The Governor will direct isssuance that I believe because of his 2nd term ambition but your patience is the price because they (politicians) use it as score points during campaigns.

It's not only in Oyo State. Ondo State have the same story likewise Ekiti and Ogun State. Even the FG is playing the card via Npower and 20K jobs stuff.

aroundtheearth:
Abeg, shift. Depressed ko. He got himself into the mess he's in. It's nobody's fault he moved in with her with no job and no money saved either.

The same way you should've read my comment and passed. It's not your place to police anyone's comment here, so keep it moving.

Yes, he did but you didn't proffer the way forward. That's unfair to a fellow human who shared his problem

Just heard this for the first time at work on Friday. I know NL will have dealers. Will buzz you ma'am

Putinofrussia:
Stop the nonsense.Nobody forced anybody to exile not Yewa villagers anyway.
NEMA has gone to Benin Republic but there were no Nigerians to be found.
It was all about the clueless governor's political opponents trying to create a mountain out of nothing.
It is the normal foolish politicking of our selfish politicians.

The only people that fled Yewa were the Fulanis,the Eguns...who went back to their Benin Republic and maybe some Igbos.
The Yoruba kings and their people are intact in Yewa.
There was no war and Yorubas seldom flee a battle.Ask Obasanjo,Tunde Idiagbon etc.
Okay,it is better for you to ask Sunday Igboho or read Yoruba history.



https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/we-cant-find-ogun-refugees-in-benin-republic-says-fg/%3famp

Don't always believe what you read or hearsays. Always do thorough investigation on issues like this before you conclude. Do you know where Yewa is? Have you been there before? Do you work with NEMA.?

The fact still remains, some Yewa Indigents have fled to Benin Republic. Not only because or Fulani herdsmen but custom activities in that area. Everyday, someone dies from gun shot. They are poor and Indigents, there names can never ne heard.

DeNoble001:
126 names on Sh, yet no sales
We keep pushing

Yes boss

beckplanet:
My Recent Sales Report


Neurovo //dot//com

Sold Price : $1699 (12 months installment)
Reg Fee : $6.99(Epik) + renewals = $22.97
Received : $108 per month after commissions deduction
Sale Venue : SquadHelp
Sale Type : Inbound
Hold Time : 2 years

Jobvivo //dot//com

Sold Price : $1499
Reg Fee : $7.99 (Dynadot)
Received : $1049 after commissions deduction
Sale Venue : Squadhelp
Hold Time : 1 year 8 months


BloomOak //dot//com

Sold Price : $1799
Reg Fee : $7.99 (Dynadot)
Received : $1439 after commissions deduction
Sale Venue : Afternic
Hold Time : 6 months

On the sale of Jobvivo, name was first listed as basic listing on Squadhelp in 2019, cos it was rejected for premium listing back then. Listed with a BIN of $1499 (Basic listing), received an offer of $1000 from a potential buyer via SH support, they asked for my minimum price, I quoted $1299 then... And after a few days of back and forth they didn't hear back from the buyer again so deal called off. I applied for name to be listed as premium, reason being it's attracting buyer interest and it was accepted. I listed it for $1799... Fast forward 8 months later, recieved a sales enquiry offer of $1299 from potential buyer, I suspected it might be same interest from the previous one, I set final price at $1499. Few days later buyer agreed and it sold.
Currently renewed a couple of (@120 names in February, managing a thousand name portfolio is headache on its own, u've got to treat it as a business to break even).
All thanks to God.

Peace

Bosso, congratulations on your recent sales. 120 domains. All brandables I suppose. That's a large one brotherly. I have 118 on SH still waiting for my first sales their to join the brandable league. It's soothing to be patient and eat fat.

Congratulations bro..Thanks for updating.

pascalbenz:
Sorry to ask o, how much does a domain cost presently in naira it been long I bought ....

Depends on the bank exchange rate.

Gtbank as at this evening charged. ₦417/$1

Sapiosexuality:
I don't see the sense in City Holler. Holler is to shout and I don't see the connection. Compound worded Brandables ought to make sense together. For example ComfortPillar, WarmRelief, etc., They have to connect and the connection must make sense. TenderPearl isn't bad. In this case I think it is a marketplace choice. Another marketplace will accept it because it can be branded.

Don't ever condemn any domain name. If you follow old domainers, you will wonder why people buy certain names. The enduser decides what is good for him/her. Porn.co just sold for $144K.

Some names looks trash to you but to others it isn't.

emmythetbcWiz:
I'm waiting for the GURUS response on this because have not really experience such before unless if the names were pre-approved by Squadhelp and finally accepted by you.

A screenshot will further explain the situation. Not sure we read or seen something of such.

DomainNewboy:
Good am friends... Please SH is taking forever to approve names. Anyone experiencing same?

That's there new strategy. If you have good ones amidst names submitted, kindly register them and list them. I lost few good domains to SH slow appproval.

Brotherly, even if you don't have kids, 55K is not enough in this present Nigeria. You need to buckle up, check inwards to see where your strength lies. Be motivated with the future of the kids. Tell yourself, I want to be a good father. I want my kids to see me as one.

Sit your wife down, open up to her. Have heart to heart discussion on how to move things forward. What can she do? If it's biz, how much will she need to start small.? Borrow.. I mean borrow and let her know you borrowed. Keep tabs on the biz.
Communication is key in marriage.

You also should find side hustle. Like the yoruba adage, die omokunrin oto o.

Kriss216:
A woman you're giving almost 50% of your monthly income and she's still not satisfied is not the right one for you, bro.



Channel your energy, time, finances on your kids. That woman will never give you happiness.

Gbe nu e dake.. When they tell you, use condom, you tell them, withdrawal method is the best. The result is what OP is facing.

Instead, you should proffer solution to the man who can't zipUp.

safetim:
One more thing, if alter accepts my name. Can I register the name at "any time" so far it's still available for registration. Or do they have deadline?

That's the answer

gentlekeny:
RoboticStudies/com
BradfordUK/com
BradfordFC/com

Is is worth registering it?

UK niche.. hmm jog gradually away from the last 2

Plural in brandable should be done with caution. Study would have been much better. Studies is a NO NO for me.

emmythetbcWiz:
To God by the GLORY......

TWO of my names were approved by Squadhelp today Sunday..

I will share the names tomorrow..

Thanks once again to the GURUS in the house.

What's your portfolio size now?

RENOWNED2:
what if the domain name is a premium name on a quick search on godaddy. I'm talking 2000 euros. does this complicate things?

Don't rush to register brandables. You may bite your fingers. To avoid such, read, learn and unlearn on the link earlier sent. It's all about SH

RENOWNED2:
Please all, how does squad help work
Do i have to register the domain on sites like godaddy before putting up a name on squadhelp??

Thanks

Search for the SquadHelp thread - https://www.nairaland.com/5822942/earning-dollars-squadhelp-brandable-domains - to understand how it works.

Lots of options are available. If you're a beginner, Masters advice you submit unregistered names till you learn the ropes..

Emeraldfynest:
Good evening everyone, I just stumbled on this thread and I have read up to some extent, but I still need a clarification. Is it that after picking an expired domain name on ED, or buying a name, I will register the name on Namesilo or other registrar to claim ownership of the name, then go ahead to list on marketplaces like Dan, Namejet, Afternic, Porkbun, etc. And after registering the name with a registrar, I have to go and search on whois to confirm right?

You are on track bro.. Slow and steady. Welcome on board. You don't need to confirm since your card has been charged.

However, there is no crime in checking.

Bolded.. You pick from Expired Domains (ED) or handreg (Your idea/innovation/instinct etc)

mac04:
Good morning house and happy Sunday,I submitted a domain now for review and I noticed the date on added on is 6th of feb instead of today's date.What could be the issue?

Someone already submitted the name on 6th February and delisted.

Kirkman:
Chuxx84; whatever rubbish your wife vomited from her mouth is none of my business that's between you and her, but the fact that you stood by and allowed your wife call your own mother a witch without your wife feeling what the celestial heavens looks like, na there you Bleep up. If this witch brought you into this world, fed you, clothed you and saw you through health and sickness over the years? Pls let her keep being a witch for you. If reverse was the case here and you called your wife''s mother a witch i am sure all her brothers, uncles and extended family members would have summoned you to the village to explain yourself by now and even your whole street would have heard that you called your wife's mother a witch.
Pls take care of this witch for me, her time on this earth is limited, you never know the value of that witch till she is gone from this earth, appreciate her whlist she's still alive.

Big time..!!

passiveincome1:
Domain sold

Procrest.com
Venue: SH
HT: less than a year
Sold 2,399$
Net: 1,619$

Wishing everyone a month filled with sales report.

Congratulations brotherly
Did SH give you that price or you increased it?

jamesbridget13:
I applied last night for my sis

I just did. Did you get any confirmation email?

Two ways..

You can register is yourself but you have to submit with a coin

Or

You have patience, it will be fixed. I have the same issue this morning.

hola106:
Just woke up and i tried to reply ur message next thing u will say is that scam how much do you have that someone is scamming you do you think everyone on nairaland is hungry or what are you even saying am only try to hely and you tagging me a scammer i sorrow to say you are fool from the pit of hell Bleep you with what ever thing you believe Explain how i scammed you guy

You mean the same guy requesting for assistance said this? If yes, thanks to my instinct.

Jamesrock:
Hi guys. I wish to chart a landed property in Ogun State before I pay for it. Pls I’ll be very grateful if you can refer someone.

Kindly drop the person number below.

Drop yours, I'll link you.

Elizkid:
Anyone please

Your registrar is..?

You don't need to click all these. Just change the DNS to Ns1.dan.com and Ns2.dan.com..

IntentionTremor:
You cracked me up big time...blaming me for my troubles. Thanks. I was no virgin neither did I sponsor any abortion. I was more optimistic than her until the failed third IVF... The first IVF was my idea after allowing her process it two years after I suggested... Cause she has always confessed she will carry her babies naturally etc.
Yes I am under pressure right now and that's why I'm speaking up here before I lose my mind.

I did for you to avoid the blame game. It will give you another angle to see how it could be sometimes. She's also feeling the pressure if not from your family but her environment. I understand your plight.

As a man, you should be the one to encourage her more. If you loose guard, and anything untowards happen (divorce, death, trying it outside etc), we both know, life will go on..

The fertility centers used, did you change at anytime. What about a through review? If you didn't change, can you give a last shot in any location..? I understand the cost and stress implication. There sha must be a way forward.

If the above is what you tried, have you considered adoption or surrogacy.? Yes, it's new to our environment but people have made it their last resort if A & B has failed.

Kindly consider other options. Having a child might be demoralizing with lots of implications but you shouldn't loose your sanity to this.

Keep hope alive by considering other options. Pls

IntentionTremor:
So I married this beautiful lady after dating for one year. Two years after wedding we had a still birth of our 9 month pregnancy! 9 years later we are yet to achieve another pregnancy naturally.

Summarily, we have had 5 failed IVF cycles to our history of search for solution.

It's all making me sick. Mentally sick! In 2 years we'll both be age 40!! And I am the only male in my family!

Our last resort seems to be surrogacy! But I haven't had the sanity to give it a thought talk less of a try - even as she wants us to! It makes me more SICK!

These fertility treatment failures have made me hate, resent and despise her so much that we are now flatmates.

Because she had an abortion for her boyfriend while in school. I BLAME HER RIGHT NOW FOR THIS WHOLE SHIT.

I WANT A DIVORCE? Yes or No? Talk to me.

Are you a man at all? At this age, you are putting blame on your wife who with good intent opened up her heart to you for a peaceful home. And this is all she can get?

Swear with your future that she met you a virgin. You have also slept with few ladies before marriage and because they didn't get pregnant means you are smart.

Okay, I put it to you.. One of those ladies you once slept with is the cause of your predicament. Any man that sleeps with her and fail to marry her will never give birth until she gets married and birth her child.. The lady in question is yet to get married or dead.. If I hear Mogbe penren.

Now, you are to be blamed for your woes.

Brother, because you don't have child yet shouldn't make you despise your woman. Don't make her regret her past. Don't make her cry for just giving you true love.

If option A, & B does not work, opt for option C. Life sha must go on. Man we born, na pinkin go bury am. The man wey no born, na pinkin sef no bury am. You won't be the first neither the last on her.

Your pressure and negative thoughts is also a factor of the results you have been getting. Be positive in life..!

edlion57:
upload the pic of ur second hand fiddle ,if it is neat like mine I will pay for it asap

Not selling mine.. No need for that