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Nothing ok about it, it is just greed and lust.

Better to loose a random girl than lost your life

Situation001:
The painful part of this whole thing is that he's acting as if he's doing the right thing. Spoke with him, he was laughing and the next thing he said was that I can provide my brother to take his place since everything is in place. He carefully planned to humiliate this girl and her family and to be honest, this is wrong.

Based on his conscience, he is doing the right thing because you won't be in the marriage with him. If you think his action is wrong you can provide your brother to take his place after all the bills have been paid. He didn't humiliate anybody, it is the girl that humiliated herself and the family.
Women, they will never learn, they will always blame the poor drink as if they were forced to drink.
MUST YOU DRINK LIKE A FISH?

So the online businesses has no name. How will people give a good advice when you haven't provide complete information.

sarrki:
FLASHBACK:

THE SPEECH DELIVERED BY BRIGADIER JOSHUA NIMYEL DOGONYARO AFTER BUHARI'S DETHRONEMENT ON AUGUST 27, 1985


I, Brigadier Joshua Nimyel Dogonyaro, of the Nigerian Army, hereby make the following declaration on behalf of my colleagues and members of the Nigerian Armed Forces.

The Nigerian public has been made to believe that the slow pace of action of the Federal Government headed by Major-General Muhammadu Buhari was due to the enormity of the problems left by the last civilian administration.

Although it is true that a lot of problems were left behind by the last civilian government, the real reason, however, for the very slow pace of action is due to lack of unanimity of purpose among the ruling body; subsequently, the business of governance has gradually been subjected to ill-motivated power play considerations. The ruling body, the Supreme Military Council, has, therefore, progressively been made redundant by the actions of a select few members charged with the day-to-day implementation of the SMC’s policies and decision.

The concept of collective leadership has been substituted by stubborn and ill advised unilateral actions, thereby destroying the principles upon which the government came to power. Any effort made to advise the leadership, met with stubborn resistance and was viewed as a challenge to authority or disloyalty.

Thus, the scene was being set for systematic elimination of what, was termed oppositions. All the energies of the rulership were directed at this imaginary opposition rather than to effective leadership.

The result of this misdirected effort is now very evident in the country as a whole. The government has started to drift. The economy does not seem to be getting any better as we witness daily increased inflation.

The nation’s meager resources are once again being wasted on unproductive ventures. Government has distanced itself from the people and the yearnings and aspirations of the people as constantly reflected in the media have been ignored.

This is because a few people have arrogated to themselves the right to make the decisions for the larger part of the ruling body. All these events have shown that the present composition of our country’s leadership cannot, therefore, justify its continued occupation of that position.


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thecable.ng/flashback-coup-speech-overthrew-buhari-august-27-1985/amp

Is there any difference when compared with what is going on today

Things people do when they heard wizkid has bought 2020 Rolls Royce and remember he started in front of mirror. Wait there make pant wear you, talent ko audition ni.

Brock202:
Thanks for this

Any time

You are his MMM - Money Making Machine. Run for your life.

The worst thing in life is living with a boring person. Problems in marriages and relationship arises from poor or lack of communication. When there is no communication, the relationship will be boring. To make up this deficit aspect of the relationship always results in either or both of the partners cheating. Sit her down, discuss this with her, observe her for some time then weigh out your options. But don't waste her time.

Hahahaha, another ground breaking project by the governor. But let me ask, do Kano state has female commercial bikers that will carry their women fold.

MichealKin50:
She told me the guy. She is not lying. I know my girl.

But you mentioned your colleague, so you think your girl doesn't know you well?

Don't worry, she was also lying to test you.

There will never be a time someone will have a enough money, we only work on scale of preference. If you plan to do away with that baby, that is a sin and you will at the same time loose your girlfriend because she will never take you serious again.
But rather sit her down, discuss your fears with her. I believe she will support you if she truly love and want to marry you. Some babies come with blessings, so keep that baby and watch God turn things around for you by blessing your hardwork. I wish you all the best.

I won't argue because it is a natural trait in humans to always blame others for their own mistakes and inadequacies.

This is nigeria, it is not an islamic nation. If you are so much concern about sharia law then let the marriage of strange bed fellows be anulled so you can go ahead and include sharia in your constitution and it won't bother us.

Nat404:
Always listen to other side before you conclude. Family matters are convoluted.

The moment a man marries, his children and wife becomes his primary assignment to protect while his siblings becomes secondary, until a man come in terms with this, he can't run a good home

sloo1:
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You judge without hearing from the other party. That shows how matured you are, Mr. judge

Mr ITK ( I Too Know) can you comprehen the last statement in my comment.

Your husband is still immature to be the man of the family. The problem isn't you but your husband, he is not incharge of his family. For a better advice, can you highlight some of these problems between you and your sisters-in-laws.

DissTroy:
Dimwits like you are scared of commitments or making an honest woman of that particular woman in your life would come online to insult people who have experience in courting and marriage.

Go get married, experience family life even for a month then come back to type this hogwash.

You know nothing about the intricacies of married life.

DissTroy, Stop tickling your fancies, I am legally married if you may wish to know. My siblings and in-laws has limit to which they can influence my marriage. I don't decide for them in their marriages so they have no right to decide what goes on in my marriage. They can only advice. Take that to the bank.

The lower congress impeached Trump because all the needed was a simple majority from a democrat dominated house but can't remove him. It is the senate that has the right to remove him and proceed to stop him from recontesting.
To remove him they need 2/3 majority vote from a republican dominated senate ( 53 republicans and 47 democrats).
To stop him from contesting they a need a simple majority. But the later can't happen without the former.
Trump is still the president untill the senate says otherwise.

Is God not wonderful

Jesse25:
Saddist that what you are

You know nothing, it quite unfortunate that a black man hate REALITY but be it as it as may, you can never run from it.
What does advising him not to jump into a stream with both legs has to do with sadist. We need an update on this matter, let the op post the marriage list when he finally get it for people like you to see.

If you are of age and financially ok, please, go and marry before you rape someone's daughter. Pointless prayer won't solve this your body quake problem.

Where is the warning? Bloggers with audio warning.

Celebrating poverty, let their children join the trade so they can be celebrated too. Let them keep on making of mockery of the masses

Godislove1234:
My brother just wish me well. Everyone can't have the same experience.

I wish you all the best. Get the list from them, that's what will guide you.

You should have wait to finished the entire marriage process before becoming a motivational speaker. When you are actually in the middle of it and you discover there are some inevitable bills you must settle, don't come here to open another thread about how you were used by your to be in-laws. You should have been excited if the marriage list the family gives you is in the region of what you have not the family telling you to come with what you have. Be guided, get the list first.

Modified

Jesse25:
Saddist that what you are

Jesse25, You know nothing, it quite unfortunate that a black man hate REALITY but be it as it may, you can never run from it.
What does advising him not to jump into a stream with both legs has to do with sadist. We need an update on this matter, let the op post the marriage list when he finally get it for people like you to see.

It is better experienced than being told. Wait untill when you are 65 or better ask your parents because they are in a better position to tell you their experiences.

Inferiority complex and low self esteem has killed this one. Abi them swear for you?

koyen:
... Even after realizing the fish had lots of BONE ?

The cat will still manage it onto logistics

MusaDanladi1:
This your analogy ehn..

Reason with me now