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fairygeh:
Must they tell us everything

i wonder oh

texybaby:
Kk ooo...but at least laying a bed u slept on shdnt b a wife duty..u slept on that bed plsss...even if u dont do any other thing

is that what you do

Caseless:
As for oyedepo, he's on his own. Since he has the key to gate of hell, he should also have control over death.

Very funny

Princecalm:
Are we the one to pray for them?

Yes...you particularly

Am sure if you had not caught her it would ve been a hidden secret...
Am sure there are others you are not aware of...
It's ur choice if you still want to go ahead but don't complain later

bebe2:
Both the thief and the torturers are all the same.

If u can do this to a fellow specie only god knows wat u will do if u get a gone.

There is a reason for the judicial system, or shud we scrap it and just beat each other up wen things go wrong.

What judicial system are you talking about...
It's like you are not a Nigerian
Better ask arund

It's ur choice...
You can as well tell ur neighbors

So you activated this account to scam people

Please can you repeat ur statement

if you don't have a car will you steal one?
some people borrow cloths to attend parties

You are now a celebrity...congrts

OP...there`s freedom of speech so go ahead and rant...
who cares if he gets married to someone in the moon
one man`s meat is another man`s poison.
Nigerian girls are this or that...how does it affect
APC and PDP members

i dont straff anything in skirt...
if she wants to crash then let her crash
straffing is not a problem

don't be in a hurry to get married...don't be deceived by what they say
who ever is ready should go and see your people and formalize things

but still pray harder and stop been confused

German Machine...you`ll soon meet you match...then you`ll loose you cap

There's a place you'll find yourself and you'll
do it even with your tie on as a banker

whether lawyer or no lawyer the the truth is there is no money to
repay the loan meaning you guys should start looking for where
to put your head

i`ll get back to you

you have to go into details...

CityNG:
Quick story.

I had a coworker that was on call one weekend from work and carried a pager. Typically the pager doesn't go off unless it's an emergency. Sure enough the weekend that he was on call the pager started going off like crazy. Wife who was having an argument with the coworker thought it was another Woman. The last call on the pager was from our CTO, a Woman, to inquire why he hasn't responding to the pages from the help desk. Wife picked up Husbands work cellphone and called the CTO back and asked why she was trying to steal her Husband.

It was all messy at work.

Guys, please Man up and grow a pair, lead your households firmly and fairly. You're the head of your household. Set the pace and understandings. If you are dating a girl that is not playing ball, let her go. Move on and find another one.

Live life with no regrets. Do you think one of the Wives of Oba of Ife will go through his phone? Don't let some Woman trample over you with some women movement BS.

Nice one bro

skyra:
Women see whatever they want to see. A new female name in your contact list is enuf to throw them into a rage, if not for the fact that you love her, I will suggest u let her go and steam off and explain to her folks why she left. When she is ready to return, welcome her back. Had same issues with my wife, at first could not understand why she did not respect my privacy, then I realised it was a woman thingy, so I began to do the needful and applied jik and bleach to all my logs before going home and its been happily ever after since then

Am sure one day you'll 4get to apply jik and bleach...

Anyway women with their wahala

100Cents:
If you go through that guys previous threads, e is a sensational liar.

He claimed he was married by 3 years ago and now by December 2014...

You can't be serious!!!

Badgers14:
Assuming Op's story is true.
The ladies reaction was too harsh, what happened to benefit of the doubt, she should have heared him out maybe he is lying, infact by smashing the phone, she damaged the evidence.

Op could even accuse her of litany of stuffs to make the case swing his way.


Don't misunderstand me, am not saying cheating is fine but we don't really know what happened, op said " certain girl " with no further elaboration .

In summary, me thinks the wife overreacted she should have asked questions first

You know at times some people act before the think...
It could be an impulse thing or maybe it's some thing she has been seeing before or perhaps this one happens to be worse...

Am sure she felt so disappointed for her to react that way

100Cents:
What a judgement ? Why not ask him to explain what the text contains ?

Read between the lines...

So many people has asked him but he has failed to respond...

What do you think you'll see that will make you react like that

hayordelevic:
Give the sister an honest advice and if u don't have any you can STFU! 1luv

Am sure you are as ignorant as the op.
Or maybe you think am here for jokes

thorpido:
So you will forgive him when he apologises and then he does it again and the cycle continues.......
I don't know what you want or better still I know you want to be in a husband's house but like you said,keep protecting yourself.

You are harsh oo...so you mean you won't 4give him over and over

princesslucy83:
She was not ready for Marriage. what if she catch you slaming a gal, would she die?
only Sms she wants DIVORCE,

SHE NEVER CHI CHUM CHIN.\\\\\\\\\\\\\\

It's easy to say...
Imagine if you husband is a chronic womanizer and you guys fight over it all the time
Am sure one day you'll get fed up and leave the house

mistypiper:
I wish he won't misbehave again. To be honest i think the wife might have over reacted, It's a marriage for crying out loud not that courtship thing that happens before actually getting married. I'll advise the OP to call her like you've said and ask for forgiveness and he should make her understand that another woman might be getting ready to move in.

I hope it's not too late sef.

Who knows maybe it has been a recurrent issue which they argue or fight over...
I gues the reason for the password

tonte:
I usually never comment on topics like this but you are very stupid that's all it really is

Anyway it's not really your fault because from your comment it has shown your kind of person.

bbjummy:
wow! Sweet point. I love you for that jare. Doff my fila oh! Fula oh! I mean cap for you

Thanks...it's good to say the truth

ocelot2006:
Bros, no offence intended with this question, but are you married?

Anyway, I've seen cases similar to this, and they all tend to occur at the early stages of marriages. In a particular case of a newly wedded couple I personally witnessed, the new wife angrily left home back to her parents' home cos of some mild issh between her and a hubby. The hubby, a young gentleman, never ran after her but simply told his father - in - law that if his wife refused to come home, then she was free to stay back with her parents. It was even her own that chased her back home and chastised the young lady for not taking time to sit down and iron out the misunderstanding with her hubby. Anyway, 2 years down the line, they're now both very happy as they now fully understand each other.

@ OP, my advise is that you relax. She'll come home when she's done venting. Then you guys need to sit down and talk. With respect to her going thru your phone, well I equally allow my wife go thru mine. It is not password protected and I do so to put her mind at ease just in case she's having funny thoughts about me. But her smashing the phone out of anger is a big NO NO.

Yes i am married...

From all indications your story is quite different from that of the op
From xperince it's something she saw or read from his phone that made her to smash his phone and left the house

Am sure it's not the first time they Wld argue or fight over such issue...
I guess that's why he pass worded his phone
So he Wld continue to play smart