₦airaland Forum

almondjoy:
Hmmmmmmmmm! Well, to each his own. I think people should marry to avoid loneliness not just "date" to avoid loneliness. What a "cheap" bargain!

iice:
You know she is lying. You know the kind of person she is hence she is your ex. You don't even want to go through the same wahala again. So please tell me why are you wasting time and getting yourself worked up? Enjoy your life jare!

sisimose:
its good to know she is your ex. best thing to do is not give one more second thought to this obviously demented girl. if she wants to spend her time spreading lies, let her. She would soon tire and see she is making a complete Pratt of herself. You need to stop giving any more thought to her and the situation(unless you still love her) either way you have moved on so do just that.

Mustay:
WETIN UN WA MAKE SHE DIG?

SAND

nuzo:
In this society we live, this new couple does not siut each other. The Akande guy is way above Dakore as regards to looks and social strata. Even though Dakore can still take care of herself.

@spoilt
I personally know Olumide and i don't need to tell you how much he controls. He does not need his father to be dead before he can do what multimillonaires do.

Finally, if its all about true love, what more can i say than to wish them the best of luck.

acidrop:
nothing much, jst planning my wedding to one daddy sugar he has paid me to stop schooling, abi is that 2 much 2 ask

drrionelli:
I must also agree with iice and $$Rhino. OK, so you didn't contribute chromosomes to the little guy--so what? As you've come to find out, there is really a huge difference between making a baby (which most any 12-years-old boy can do) and being a father (which entails quite a bit more).

I don't know the legality issues where you are, but is your name on the birth certificate? Clearly, you have "bonded" with the child. Do you want the child to be a part of your life and, perhaps more importantly, do you want to be a part of his? Remember, of course, that you will always have to deal with the child's mother. Speaking of the mother, I must respectfully disagree with $ammy who suggests that you hate her. Hatred will only compromise everybody's relationships with one another, as they will always be tied to one another.

Weigh it out, Tee Baba. Of primary importance, here, is the best interest of the child.

Now, allow me to also ask: Does the guy whose sperm actually created the boy (I hesitate to use the term "man" with regard to a guy who risks getting women pregnant and is careless about his responsibilities) know about this situation? What does he have to say? What is the mother's view?


Please keep us posted. We care.

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