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As you have said, let's appreciate our gender. I would like to point out what really GENDER EQUALITY is, Gender equality is achieved when women and men enjoy the same rights and opportunities across all sectors of society, including economic participation and decision-making, and when the different behaviours, aspirations and needs of women and men are equally valued and favoured (genderequality.ie)
So, it doesn't mean men and women become the same, we should have access to same opportunities.

funmisticqueen:
There is this friend of mine, she's still a student, she has a steady boyfriend whom she loves but is broke, but there has been this persistent toaster on her case who is financially buoyant. My friend has not had a laptop and phone for quite a while cos hers was stolen a while ago, and these things are necessary to read with in her school. Her parents said they weren't getting any gadgets for her again cos the last laptop they bought was also stolen when raiders came to the reading rooms in her school. Her parents are also against her doing business in school as they think it would disrupt her studies?p.
She told this her steady boyfriend that she needs a phone and not an expensive one, i think she asked for a techno about five months ago, but her boyfriend kept telling her he would get with no show, he didn't give her a gift on valentine even though she got him one cos he forgot and didn't have money.
A month ago, her boyfriend moved to a new apartment. She feels he should be settled first before she reminds him about the phone.

Yesterday, she called me and told me that the persistent toaster just got her a phone. She doesn't know what type but he said he noticed she didnt have a phone and she wasnt on whatsapp. He said it was a gift for her with no strings attached.
Our question is this, should she collect the phone, even though she doesnt really like the guy? If she does and her boyfriend sees it should she say she got it from another guy? Wont it lead to issues in their relationship?
Would really appreciate your wise and helpful comments? No insults please?

This one weak me o.. the question that should be asked is:
-Prior to this, does the boyfriend give her gifts or things; Would she consider him a stingy guy?
Although, I wouldn't blame him for his failure to get his girlfriend a phone for 5 months because he was committed to getting a new apartment.
My opinion, she should accept the phone and feel on top of the world with it!

Mr Op, it's the responsibility of your wife to choose which religion she sees fit.. she will be accountable for her choices. I don't see anything wrong with your wife changing her religion. Why must she practice your religion? Have you asked her why to chose Christianity over Islam?
Oga, let her be o.. if her religion will affect her role as a wife then, you can file for a divorce. If u choose the kill her, you will be accountable for your choices. Ignorance(religion) is no excuse!

this is a good move. why don't we teach the students what substitution method means in Yoruba or law of indices in Igbo.. Although, this seem an ideal but I know it's very attainable..

Na wa o, Blessed Iwene Tansi never become a saint.

I am a highly sensitive person.

Bumbae1 the fiancé is the key to solving this prob. the guy shd wake up.. you know, I jokingly told my mom that I will get married to a fulani lady someday and she said ' I won't come to your wedding'. In fact, I don't care. the only person i want to be present is my wife... I beg the guy shd stand up, this is his life.

[quote author=Ezionye post=56028821][/quote]we said the same thing.. core competencies are what a company has that competitors do not have like people etc

PappyG, what don't you know? well, you don't know their critical success factor. To attain a level of effectiveness, there must be some core competencies they have that competitors do not have. He might not answer though. for example, Indomie won't tell you their core competencies- we all know their product( noodles) tastes better than others but he may tell you other things that are very essential like quality etc

Fulani.. I be omo Yoruba

Passive aggressive.. I may not get jealous or get angry but I don't forget things easily.

Abolarinwa- I came with wealth(ola shd mean wealth in English na).. omo eso oruta egirioke. Ekiti State.

smile for me-----simi
ori ire-----simi
chemistry ---falz ft simi

Failure is like an event, it won't last forever..

mayor21, you are unhappy because of your expectations. we set high standards- unattainable standards.. Because ur friends can play the guitar, piano or draw and you can't, doesn't make you a loser..
On academics, just read smart, understand the topics, use the study guide and study objectives. I ve studied 4hours everyday for a month for an exam and guess what? I failed. it's not how hard you study for the exams but how well you understand the topics.. Stop the loser mentality.

Alero3Arubi..Sorry babe,no mind those yeye boys. But wait o,how do you 'loose' the respect? do you use screw driver, plier, saw or you just give it smack down?

ItsQuinn:
Know it all!!!

If you have it all and don't have sense to maintain it all, you would lose it all!

Focus in on what it may mean to "have it all" . when u have it all, you got the brain, peace, money, intelligence etc to know it all...

I will have it all.. what's there to know? should I say to know it all means, you are a genius? well, since i have it all, I have the brain and everything to know it all..

My dad was never around most of the time, he joined the military.. My mum will make us pray in the morning and night before going to bed. I really hated this. Now that I am far away from home, I know my mum still prays for me in the morning and at night even when I am too lazy to pray for myself...

In the UK, your first name comes first, your other name and your surname.

No zlatan, Martial, Rashford, Rooney.. Na miracle if we win tonight..c'mon Red devils

law 1- Never outshine the master..Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire
to please or impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents
or you might accomplish the opposite – inspire fear and insecurity.
Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will
attain the heights of power.

Law 1- Never outshine the master.. Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire
to please or impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents
or you might accomplish the opposite – inspire fear and insecurity.
Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will
attain the heights of power.

RIP... Thank you for what you have done so far for the good people of Iyin-Ekiti.. I saw him last month.. Baba, sun re o.

Op just dey give being pretty and sexy another meaning. At least, there should be standards or a definition of what being pretty and sexy means or should be. I guess the list is just op's opinion. .. Chindima- that short girl is sexy in op's eyes! na wa o.. yah, Lola is pretty, sexy? I don't know.. Tiwa and Alade are sexy- my opinion sha

say mine

32 but I for don get 2 kids, 2 baby mamas

SirVintageCock:
They are living in UK. So to hell with your fathers house sh!t. A wife in Africa is obviously maid that can be sent out at will. Little wonder it is still refers to as the dark continent.

Suggesting that if I were the husband, I would send her out is just a hyperbole. I am just trying to lay emphasis on how wrong the act was. for me, I think she should have told the guy she is married.
please, tell me there's no father's house or family house in the UK?

Amyzon, you are a fool. Sorry for saying that, ma'am.. You are a married woman or Should I spell it out for you? If I were your husband, you will be saying sorry from your father's house..

I think I applied for a job too on Jiji last year and I was invited for an interview at Maryland.. I just didn't go..
Why? I don't even know..

sirfee:
Hmmm!he's very good but sometimes he behaves like Nepa...off and on

yah.. the last time he played well was against Leicester city, the community shield.