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There is no such thing as repenting for a man like this. Hiding behind religion to trap women.

No matter what he will not change, at least not in the near future. Just leave him for now. Separate. I'm not saying you should divorce him. But just stay away for some time.

See the problem here is you guys weren't even quarrelling. You were living in peace. Imagine what this man can do if you were fighting. I would advise for you to share everything with your sister for now because nobody knows what lies he may or may not spew against you in the future.

I'm so sorry.

I don't know you. Forget it. Seems you're not serious

Grandest:
There are many things one can discuss with a friend.

Ahahahaha

jnrbayano:
If I hadn't seen Oko Polytechnic while I was reading the Op, I wouldn't have believed this list.

What exactly do you want to discuss?

Grandest:
Jeez! I can't make a head nor tail of this. I hope you're not doing it on purpose? Just kidding. This is enough torment to make my spirit crestfallen. Erm, hope I won't be presuming on your friendly gesture by asking for your email address? I'd appreciate that if you don't mind. Or better still, on a personal note, I think you can send mails to me on alexkenneth2000@gmail.com

Nope. No email from you

Grandest:
Blimey! sorry my lady. You can check again.

I didn't get any mail from you.

Grandest:
Memejem, I sent you a mail. Please, would you deign to reply to it?

Thank you. I've finished with him. I don't have the time to indulge his madness anymore .

kittykat1:
I have been reading your tirades. You sound young but polished and with some good exposure. One lesson you must learn on NLD is that after making your sensible comment, expect trolls to want to seek attention. You must ignore them. Don't respond . That shows class

Was it not you who made such a big deal of my location? I want you to see it to the end. Rubbish.

You insecurity is showing ooooo

Again. NEXT TIME MIND YOUR BUSINESS.

Mekzy02:
U know ur a big fool ryt?.. Dint want to abuse u buh it seems u worth been called a 'FOOl'....hu cares where u stay? If u like hang on the moon! Trace the IP ur head! U trace mine!... Mumu

I thought you were done with me. Can't get enough ehn

You said I'm an mgbeke village girl. Oya come and find me.

Just trace the ip address. Fool

Mekzy02:
Loool! R u fixing a date?...

Still waiting for you to locate me. Why are you wasting time....

Mekzy02:
my friend relax ursef...m already done with you! Next time u control d way u rant online..coz ur temper wouldnt boil yam!! Lol

Please ask them ooo.

All I did was say that rape is wrong. Then one foolish man with inferiority complex came and started saying rape is good and the op deserved it.

Then some random guy who can't mind his business came and entered insulting me and accusing me of lying about my whearabouts. I'm still waiting for him to provide proof he knows where I stay since he appears to be some kind of stalker. He's been dodging since.

timmyblast:
What's the cause of these quarrels. Make una take am easy.

Next time you should mind your business and move along.

Still waiting on you to locate me.

Mekzy02:
prove you wrong? Are you mathematics? Lol dis one is mad...nonsense girl go and sleep!!

What happened? You can't prove me wrong again?

Next time mind your business and move along. Nonsense man.

Mekzy02:
wah is dis one even saying! Foool go and rest!

Your ignorance is showing. Who had your time to begin with. Did I beg you to quote me.

Mekzy02:
if u like leave the forum, if u like build house in the forum, thats your business!... Well I dont have your time! You dont deserve the attention the other guy even gave U!... My friend go hug a pole if u less busy! Or beta still keep shedding blood coz of comments pple make...lol

You want to know where I am isn't it. You accused me of lying about my whereabouts. Oya come and find me or shut your mouth.

Iddiot

Mekzy02:
idiot gerara here!.... i've na traced better tinz, its now ur IP...

Run from who? Who is sending you email? I don't even know you. If you need a woman better go and find someone who will take your bullshit. It's not me

I know you are enjoying this dialogue. If I don't respond it means I agree with chucks. If I respond you think it's because I am fond of your backward mentality.

Just like without any given cause you think I'm promiscuous. I now know your penis must be the size of a paracetamol tablet. That's why you' re here looking for love.

Ahahahahahahahaha

I know you are jobless

I am better than chuks. Yes I am Better.

Never have I or will I cause the kind of mental trauma to someone that pushes some to commit suicide.

Only in God's eyes is one sin no greater than another. We live in the world of men and women. That's why there are laws and sentences of different severity. Unless you believe laws shouldn't exist then continue with your foolish argument. Even in the Bible you keep bringing up Jesus said that the laws of man and Bible should be separate.

Are you God? It's only ok for chuks to rape in story. Let him go and find one of your sisters. Then you will be here saying another thing.

If you believe in any system of order, having a president, having a chief of a village, a leader in a group, that is a sense of order. Voted because the majority beleive that that person is best suited for the job amongst all other candidates. One is better than the rest.

If you want to demote yourself to be the same level as chuks. Carry go. You admit you are the same as a rapist.

The problem with this whole thing is I'm certain if this conversation was happening in person you would not have the courage to speak in the same manner. But I would.

No matter how many times you defend a rapist. I will continue to voice against it. But continue with your poorly worded English. I'm sure you will respond with another long essay defaming my character. Which is baseless. As you don't know me which you've already acknowledged.

marlockj:
Haha!!]lol you are insulted? cn you show me any of your reply to me without insult?

you came here and were condemning Nigerian men,that they are not good for marriage.

You maynt hv school in Nigeria how does that relate to the story and Op!!

Nigerian men are not good for marriage how does that relate to the storyline,why not marry from Syria etc.

Wetin concern us concern your marriage.

To me you find me interesting cuz no man has ever given you the attention am giving you now.what more can I say,cuz you hv the liberty to ignore my post yet you Dnt.wat more cn a green light look lik, of not this.

You came here and was shouting of pity up and down,Yes we all knw the story is touching,if Op culd forgive chuks who are you.

You carry the matter for head,yet you date and sleep with your intended or your aspirant husband, possibly for Syria cuz Nigerian men are not good.

You condemn chuks as if you are Anyway better

If you hv nt lied you hv stole

If you hv nt stole you hv jilted men

If you hv nt jilted men you hv fornicated

If you hv not fornicated you hv disobeyed your parents.

You feel you hv not hurt anyone,Bt forgt you fought with someone,physically or with mouth.

You say I Dnt hv shame,Yes who ever speak the truth has no shame.

Search your conscience are you in Anyway better than chuks or Op.

People like you fail exams to think that Op cuz of her suffering, has the right to anything Jst to survive. While chuks is a sinner n deserve to die.

For your information sin is sin no matter Hw big or small.

People like you Dnt knw that a girl that has dated 1,2,or 3 boyfrnd sleep with the whole 3cuz of love is the same thing as a prostituttttte who is paid for sex.

Dnt deceive yourself


If you Dnt quote n reply me,It means you have realised that chuks is far better than you do,also that you hv been deceiving us of not schooling in Nigeria.

Also I wnt to tell you to stop sending msgs to me,speak your mind here let everyone read.if you love me spill it here,rather than sending me email @ d bck.

Am ready for you!!ask anyone abt the owner of this handler they will gist you.

When next you see this handler you will run

Your ignorance is showing.

One day somebody in your family may get raped. I want you to go and treat them in the same manner.

I want you to enjoy the beating your family will show you.

Heartless man like you.

I'm sure you probably have so many venerial diseases.

marlockj:
Unfollowing a thread does not mean I cnt quote u,this clearly shows how ignorant you are.

You actually thought by leaving the thread and not quoting me will stop me from replying you.you Jst faild.

If every women in ma village is running away from me,yet you are not.

U hv been quoting me and disturbing me,it also show the hunt for man in ur life Still continues.


You hv been screaming of not being in Nigeria and Nigerian men being bad.who cares where you live or school.

Marriage is a choose,if u had, had enough suitors your mother will not tell you who to marriage. This only happen when you lack suitors.

People like you think rape is the only sin in the world,but u keep sleeping with men in the name of boyfrnd.

You cry and scream as if fornication and rape are not sin.

What difference does it make rape and fornication.

You were not even raped Bt you do as if you were rape,make we hear word abeg.

Go and marry let us be in peace,don't pass you anger of not seeing a husband to me,afterall I Dnt knw you.

As for curse,your still a kid,u knw nothing about curse,cuz if you do u will knw There are principles for any curse to be effective. Or you think this is nollywood

I'll mention nigeria anytime I please. That is my place of birth. Why involve yourself in an issue that doesn't involve you. You like to cause trouble.

I already said I'm leaving the forum. So why did you come here to start your own problem?

I never said I'm better than anyone. Just because I said I live outside Nigeria you assume that means I think im better than you. That is your insecurity not mine. Never did I say anything bad about you.

How is my personal matter any of your business? Did I ask you to give a Bleep. Look at how tense you get because someone online mentions that based on the disturbing comments they read on this comment it portrays a bad image of nigerian male youth.

Did I say all Nigerian men are bad? I was basing it off on the comments I read that had little to no sympathy of the action of rape. As if the OP deserved it. If you are not ready to discuss maturely then please do not reply me.

Did I say Nigerian men are looking to marry? Did I even say I'm looking to marry. Go and sit down. If you like go and marry 25 wives. I don't care. As long as you don't come and carry your nonsense my way.

Mekzy02:
Queen of England..we know you dint grow up in Nigeria, we also know that your mum is forcing you to marry nigerian men... Lol like who says nigerian men are looking for wives? Wait till ur 30...lol, ur mum is forcing U?.. But Like seriously who gives a Bleep!... Yeah rape is a bad thing and anyone dat does that is wicked and deserves waheva....just stop mentioning nigeria like u better than evryone here!.

Trace my ip address. Fool

Mekzy02:
loool....seriously the way all dis mgbeke chicks form online is so annoying!... That girl might be staying at ohafia!

Why can't you leave me alone. I've un followed this thread. Go and find other victims. We all know your a sexual predator.

In this comment you decided to reply to me where did I mention marriage? Something that was one sentence in another comment you decided to bring up here.

Just because all the women in your village are running from you and your rapist ways. Don't take it out on me. Go and find Jesus and repent.

I've left the thread for you and you still want to continue your trolling. Don't worry I've already began to curse you.

Ewu

marlockj:
Wntd you to quote me,Bt u ran.

Knwing I will reply you.

We knw your from the sun,we Dnt care whether your Mum said you should marry a Nigerian or not.

No one cares if you don't live in Nigeria or moon. This thread is not abt the planet ur live or man to marry.

If u had enuf suitors your Mum Wuldnt hv suggested a Nigerian man for you.why not marry men from Syria, Israel or Iran.

Go and marry n let Nigerian men be.

This was an interesting read. Although it had some irritating and foolish comments I enjoyed the story nevertheless.

Going to unfollow now as the story has ended. I don't want to continue seeing the rubbish comments of some foolish people and thier backwards mentality.

This is why nigeria is not moving forward. Because of men like chuks and his foolish supporters

You are a joker. Everything about you irritates me. Rape is not a joking matter. If only you knew how it effects somebodys life you wouldn't be here spewing your rubbish and talking about Jim iyke.

I am able to differentiate between a film and reality. I am also abundantly clear that the rape we are discussing is based on the story the OP wrote. Whether it was fiction or not. the problem I have is with you and your opinion of the rape.

It's pretty clear to me that you are just a troll. So no matter what your response to me is I will no longer respond to you. It is a waste of my intellect to converse with someone who is either egging me on knowing full well they are an irritant (which is what I hope you are) or just completely ignorant.

I used to be upset that I didn't spend my childhood in nigeria but after conversing with you I'm going to go and thank my parents. Because I wasn't surrounded with people of your mentality. Who knows what kind of mental torment i would have been subjected to.

I sincerely hope you change.

marlockj:
Haha!! Wat shock me is why you should get so piss!!

Woow wonderful so if Jim Iyke should rape a girl in a movie,so Jim iyke is a rapist naturally.

If I said 8 should hv asked me how many Ppl actually liked it,which is opposite of that.you will get a screenshot of that soon.

Bt meanwhile I think you hv to chill a bit before you slap anyone near you thinking is me.

Lol hope you Dnt take me to be chuks who rape Op ohh.

About speaking truth,that's y room was created for comments.

Your being a woman is nt a prblm afterall we all came from you guys,aside that world without women is a waste.Infact I cnt stay a month without a woman .

Calm down today is Sunday ohh,mke person wey u no knw for narialand no spoil your day.Jst breath in n breath out.

Actually women are to emotional

You must be an experienced rapist. See what you've typed. Look at the detail. I fear women around you.

marlockj:
Sure I hv help someone.Bt as a person you need a little trust especially as a woman,before you think of sleeping a guys house.

But in ha case, she had motive of going there cuz of herself desire to get food and shelter,if you read the story clearly you will notice Op was 100% aware of the threat,hence she wore jeans.that shows she didn't even trust the guy.

Chuks also was aware of the threat the JeanS culd pose to him.

my question is why will a girl take such risk,sleeping nakkke covered only with wrapper. What was in ha mind to pull everything off,to the xtent of pulling ha pant.was pant also causing heat too?,so will you now say Op does not wear pant cuz of condition,she wore only jeans.do u knw Wat it means for a girl to wear jeans without pant?

Also she said the room was dark,I put it to you that it will take some more from a guy to penetrate a virgin,in a dark from plus ha struggle, she had eaten from chuks,what then took ha strength. I also put it to u that is not easy to penetrate a virgin without lubrication while using one hand to cover ha mouth not to scream aloud. Let's say chuks was able to cover ha mouth Okk Wat happens to ops two hands.

Wen you go Jst tell ur wife or girlfrnd.that u wnt to act drama.take the part of a rapist then see Hw u cn cover ha mouth and use the other hand to direct ur tin inside,cuz surely u will need the other hand to direct.

Am nt saying rape is Good, Bt to me I feel it was invitation to treat,because I know mst girls no is Yes.that if you hv experience in girls mata .

You guys should 4gt this mata

I never said I thought you wouldn't respond. I said there is no need. Because I'm talking to someone in capable of sympathy. You don't hear word.

Is my being a woman a problem? What does that matter? You are very annoying. I read this whole thread from beginning to end.

I have judged you solely based on your opinions of the characters on this story and thier experiences. Everything I've said against you are based on YOUR OPINIONS of this story.

You said not less than 8 people have commented about you negatively. Maybe that should show you that you are the problem, you are the common denominator amongst us.

Again I say you have a very disgusting character. Rubbish. I already know you're enjoying this. But that won't stop me from speaking the truth.

marlockj:
You are wrong to think that I will not respond,if you had wanted me not to respond.you should hv nt responded.

I cnt believe that you actually sat down and type all this Jst to make a respond.

Funny!! Anyway I xpectd nothing less moreover you are a woman.

As for marrying a Nigerian man,no one can force you to do that xcept you lack suitors.

Marriage is a choice .

Also how does my respond generalize the whole Nigerian men.

You talk of sympathy and pity,unfortunately you started reading the story late,meaning you never followed from the beginning, There no single person on this thread who never pity the girl.

And for you abuses I still feel is a waste of time,reason being that you are abt the 8 person pushing abuses @ me which mean little or nothing to me.

Haha!!lol come to think of it,how can you get so piss over a written.

I still think you should hv responded to me with you bck up from the storyline, rather than getting piss n abusing which earn nothing,as people culd learn from your sweet respond than abuses.


My dear Dnt get piss again Hmmmm,u understnd dat you are a woman.

I meant exactly what I said. You reason exactly like an inhumane animal. You are somebody who doesn't have a shred of empathy and I pity anyone who relates with you.

If you have a wife I weep for her. If you have daughter I weep for them. I also weep for any sons you may have. Unfortunately for them they gave a father that does not know to teach them what it means to be sympathetic to the trails of others. Who will most likely grow up to be hard men who probably abuse women.

I'm not even joking at my statement. You probably think we were jesting before. But I take the issue of violence towards women seriously. The fact that you don't seem to see reason or acknowledge the WRONG action of rape against the female on this story disgusts me. Nobody deserves rape regardless of thier past sins. Nobody deserves to be taken advantage in that way.

It shows your character. This is one of the same reasons I find it difficult to agree when my mother pushes me to marry a Nigerian man.

Mentality of an uncivilized person. No need to respond to me. You have a truly disgusting personality.

marlockj:
I guess a beast should not be typing,a beast should be in the bush.

Neva seen a beast who rply humans.

You are a beast.

I hope one day you truly understand the power in what is you're saying. I hope that this is not how you really think.

I hope you don't have sisters. They will suffer at your hand.

marlockj:
To me it was high time she got beaten,by her risk,lies,gold digging,deceiving n self center attitude.

I knew it was coming,cuz of numerous invitation n visiting 2go boys.I never knew it will come from chuks though.

To me I wish she willingly gv it to Andy,Bt u knw girls Na, they rather let a rapist take it than a gentleman.

My here bleed for Andy,cuz I feel before Andy say Wat he said,he has hold it for too long.

Imagine a girl in ur house,u ask ha out yet she say no,since you say no Wat are you den doing in his house,stopping other girls who culd Lov the guy.

Fish enter net u no enter allow other fishes to enter net u no gree,wich one be ur own.

Op got Wat she wntd from chuks,cuz it was invitation to treat according to me.Dnt knw abt other guys view.

Bt to me it was invitation to treat.

I'm not being sentimental. Anything you say is a reflection of what you think. That's why it's called "your opinion". You should be more careful of the things you post because surely somebody will read them and judge you accordingly. If that's not how you view women and this type of situation don't respond with answers that will get you the response you received.

It's ridiculous to know that a woman was raped and there are people out here who are victim blaming. At the end of the day it was the man that defiled her. Who could not control himself. Have we gotten to the stage in nigeria that a female can no longer put trust in a male?

And if you feel that way, then I hope no woman ever puts thier trust in you.

marlockj:
Stop being sentimental

And stop abusing anyone.

I drop my comments from the story.

All Wat I said is from the story.

If Wat I said is wrong you stnd to correct mi from the story

What exactly is your problem? Are you trying to tell me that every slang or word that comes out of your mouth is specific to your tribe? How do you think pidgin English came about? It is a mixture of different languages and slangs throughout Nigeria, and West African countriee even.

The questions you are asking means that you didn't not read her story well at all and therefore need to read again or you are someone who is an irritator. She did not beg you to come and read her story for you to come here and critique it like it's your full time job.

Did she tell you her story is based in the present. It could have been something that happened a few years back or even more. You seem like somebody that likes to leave comments for no reason other than to join others in thier mission of agitation.

Go and write your own story, learn how to read properly or just read and enjoy.

micronut:
First time of making a comment on your thread! OP nawa ooo... I know u may not likely respond but like seriously, am forced to ask these questions;

1. How are u paying your school fees?
2. Are u an Only child?
3. Thought you said your fervent with church works, what is the fellowship role, cos i know they help in little ways.
4. Have never heard students now look for girls to cook for them in exchange for money like a service. Cos many students sef never bellefull.

Anyway sha the i know this is an "aroso" descriptive essay converted to Nairaland series for our darling pleasure. You try well well. In addition, i also noticed your story portrayed an "Eastern University" with names like chuks, Andy, ikechukwu and rose. but the last episode with exclamation of "Jesu"is more of a Yoruba girl.. I dey gbadun you nonetheless sha! continue the tori.

With your mentality I fear for the women in nigeria. You must be a rapist as well.

marlockj:
I get ur point

To me a thief cnt judge a thief, to me Op n chuks committed the same crime,hence no one is to be blame.

Like u said Op did all this to survive by lying n deceiving, chuks also did dat to get sexx, by tricking ha to it.

You mst agree wit me that Op was after help mre than ha safety, she has been visiting 2go guys n 2gos visiting ha.u also will agree with me that sooner or later she culd b beaten.
She took risk vry high risk,which later bckfired.

How do u visit a guy or let them visit you Jst cuz of 2go.all my happiness she live to tell than use for rituals.

We guys knw Hw guys behav, if I guy gv a girl 10naria he will xpect u as a girl to wrk for it if nt now later.though I knw sum guys will pretend here,Bt is the truth

Ayomel:
Is that the best you can do?
Is lagos,Enugu,kaduna or Kano a city or state
Where are u from again?

Somebody needs a geography lesson ooooo. Ask yourself what are the capital cities of each of those states and let's see if you can answer your own question.

spyder880:
Thank you, as soon as we commence fencing and gates plus other works, I will move to open two more estates, one in Enugu and another in Anambra State. We intend to continue slow but firmly like this onwards.

When you start your other estates please let me know as soon as possible. Actually I gave my mother your number to call you about this as she is back home.

spyder880:
I will be in Anambra State tomorrow, I intend to look at some other lands at more locations. More aboit this later.

Any update?