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dkidd:
And any woman who marries solely for money is a what?

And any man who marries solely for beauty is a what?

idahme:
This your mindset is the reason I no longer consider struggling ladies that are far below my earning potential, women don't love men they only care about the money they can get from men and I get surprised when same women advocate for "You should love me for me love me unconditionally" . What women advocate for they themselves can never give it. I discovered women want my money and I have made it very scarce for any woman who isn't part of my family to have access to it because women will and can never let out their money to any one.

See how you refer to men as lazy man but 90% of you ladies depend on men for anything to be done in your life then I ask who is the lazy one? The one who depend on the other or the one who is independent of the other for survival?

If you are not up to 30% of total earnings then there should be nothing you should do with me as a woman. Its pathetic that lazy ones whose life depends on a man's money to be liberated out of poverty is referring to same benefactor as lazy

Na mumu man dey bring women dream "I wasn't to marry a rich man that will take me out of poverty" to reality. I have better stuff to do my money than giving to someone who has the mindset of give me money and I will open my leg(pros*tit*utes)

Why are you just showing up? I have been shouting lazy ones, lazy ones since morning. You guys be fast I am marking attendance o.

Sharpsharp00123:
last last na here we go read news of how them butcher u into parts

I laugh, look at this kid.

idahme:
Do u know what predator means? Some of una no go school. Going to school and just learning how to read and write is waste of your parent's precious money.

Let me educate you a bit. Predator, a person who looks for other people in order to use, control, or harm them in some way. Sexual predator, a person who commits sexual crimes against other people.

jorion:
So, the brain and morality don't matter. 😂😂😂😂😂

Now I understand the baby mama syndrome.

YOU DO HAVE TERRIBLE TASTE IN MEN

See, who is even talking about brain? 😂🤣🤣

You just picked the conversation from the middle.

Beside when guys approach me, is it my IQ or morality that matters to them first?

jorion:
So you even know what like means or are you looking at just their PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES?

Yes, just their physical appearance.

jorion:
Some of those men are gay or divorced. While others prefer only beautiful girls between the ages of 18 to 23 or don't date black women.

Women are really terrible at choosing men.

Read again, men like.

Dtruthspeaker:
See reversal!

A man has earned so he is entitled to choose the best. You lazy ugly bitches should go and work and then you can do like the man and marry your own beautiful man and treat him how you like.

If every woman go for handsome men how will guys like you marry? Women have high taste o. We will just be selecting men like Leonardo DiCaprio, Michael B Jordan, Lee Min-ho, Will Smith, Idris Elba. If we want to pick from Nigerian, at least we will pick guys like Maurice Sam. You should be thanking God we are considerate. 😂🤣🤣

Dtruthspeaker:
Now you have changed your statement. The rich man got what he wanted same as the gir. everyone knows that, but it was wrong of you to complain about the rich guy's act.

And it is known that it is not every beautiful girl who agreed to marry a rich man. Some married poor men for love. though both men and women have spoilt it sha.

Mr right or wrong, na you understand wetin you talk for here.

Dtruthspeaker:
See reversal!

A man has earned so he is entitled to choose the best. You lazy ugly bitches should go and work and then you can do like the man and marry your own beautiful man and treat him how you like.

I won't even try to explain my writeup to you because you are not even capable of comprehending it.

Let me try to act as lame as you.

Hardwork meets gift
A wealthy man meets a beautiful lady. He has what she wants, she has what he wants. Simple.

Dtruthspeaker:
Says a poor hungry lazy prostitute.

You wish

vdestro:
so to tell you the truth don turn to tears, you make me laugh, lol

Oh my God! This guy has noticed me but why is he crying?

vdestro:
Stop turning tables and reversing the issue!

It is your statement that you raised that I addressed. So your trying to reverse it eh, has been noticed.

Make Una no dey glorify bad thing, bad thing na bad thing, stop making excuses for it.

Why the tears?

Dtruthspeaker:
😆😆😆😆 Your Lies have been exposed.Dirty evil bitch

😂🤣🤣 Who broke this one heart?

vdestro:
See them don come again.

Any woman who marries for money is a wh.o.re and deserves to be treated like the piece of shit that she is.

And any woman who marries a man who has NOTHING to offer deserves Nothing for that is what she chose.

Like of all the men on this earth, she chooses the man that has NOTHING to offer, not even Love, Companionship, e.t.c, then Nothing is her portion.

Any man who marries solely for beauty is a predator and deserves to be treated like the piece of shit he is.

iLegendd:
Amen! But have you ever asked a man before in your life for financial help? Yes or no is all I want.

Never

iLegendd:
But you just asked for age, a private info.

Are you telling me, you've never in your life asked a man privately on WhatsApp or FB or any social media for financial assistance?

May God not let that be my portion.

Dtruthspeaker:
See lazy bitch. You go and work and marry your own man. Your mates are doing it now.

Ole married men!

😂🤣🤣 Peppered rat

iLegendd:
Why is it that when you women want to ask a man for money, you send him a DM to speak with him privately? You don't want anyone to know you're begging. But when you want him to reveal something private about himself, you want the whole world to know? Why is it like that?

Why the shame and privacy when it concerns you and your pride, but so much joy when it doesn't concern you and your pride?

I'm asking respectfully, so reply in detail and do it respectfully. Thank you, Ma.

Honestly, I don't know. I am a private person, and I respect those who choose not to share their entire lives in public. Besides, not all women ask for money or try to persuade men to reveal private information about themselves.

ewedunamala:
Both

Sure

Don't just marry because it is the societal norm. There are irresponsible men out there; if you marry one of them, you will regret getting married. Whether it's 50% or 100%, choose a man who is ready to shoulder responsibilities.

If you would like to start from scratch with a man and work together to elevate your lives, make sure he is a true team player. There is no teamwork when you are married to a lazy and pompous man.

Your partner doesn't have to be wealthy, but he should be someone with visible potential or a clear vision, not a lazy man.

It is okay to marry a guy if you see signs that he is likely to be a family man. Family men are responsible and disciplined, making them unlikely to be lazy. Even if they don't have much, they work hard to provide for their families.

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

Get another addiction like playing games, watching movies, reading books, etc.

iLegendd:
Lemme answer you in detail with extra info.

If you appear rich, saying you're taken makes a woman want you more. She sees you as sincere. It's hard to find sincere men.

Having pretty women all around you makes more women want you because they feel there must be something magical that makes these other women like you, so she wants to find out herself and explore it.

When you appear poor, being single makes a woman you're interested in distance herself from you because she feels other women don't find you worthy, so why should she? Women like what other women like.

Once in a while, for the well-brought up girls, if she sees a poor guy has a bright future and he's smart, then she might consider dating him, else, na rich man wey dey unavailable dem like because dem like to drag women with their fellow women and they're still the ones that'll write on their status: I can never fight for a man.

On fine and endowed bestie of mine told me that and always posts it on her status, but weeks later, she threatened two girls to stay away from me that she owns me.

One of those girls replied violently by telling her I'll just use and dump her and they started exchanging words. This is the same girl that said she can never fight her fellow woman because of a man.

Don't EVER listen to what women say, pay attention to their actions only. Also, most women have short-term memory when they make these kinds of speeches, but when it comes to revenge, they always have long-term memories.

The reason I like women is because I can handle them and I'm always ahead of whatever games they play. The more academically educated a woman is, the dumber she is in relationship while full of ego and pride.

All my fights and misunderstanding with women, I'm always the one that start them because to keep a woman, you MUST feed her with dramas, trouble, conflict, chaos, great sex, money and fear of losing you.

For the money part, you don't really need to give her money, but she must just know that money is never one of your problems in life, but commitment.

Secondary school love tale. May I ask, how old are you?

Boxnaijatv:
Don’t ever leave your marriage because your husband married second wife- Nigerian lady tells women

Desperate women and nonsense writeups are like 5&6.

berepiki:
If opening this thread can motivate ONE single to say NO to premarital sex then it's fulfilling...

Premarital sex is a faulty foundation for any marriage... Most Marriages survive by the mercies of God...

Ideally, every Christian marriage should have a PURE foundation...

No single should build a marriage on an immoral foundation

Congratulations! Happy married life!

But what you wrote here are just fairytales. Logically speaking, they are not true.

Yes, premarital sex is bad, but what should motivate a person to say NO to premarital sex should be willingness to avoid sin or another valid reason.

Are couples who marry as virgins having healthier marriages? Being a virgin before marriage or avoiding premarital sex will not strengthen a relationship. Many Christians are suffering today because of the ignorance that has been spread. Let's stop spreading ignorance. Next time, try to be logical, at least conduct your own personal research.

Personally, I have made many discoveries from the Bible. My findings may hurt the egos of many Pastors and devout Christians. When I am fully prepared to stoned, I will share my discoveries. For now, peace be unto all.

Itooweak4una:
What does this mean?

Is there a price tag on women that we're not aware of?

He is not even shading guys, he is just giving an advice. He means date a woman whose demands you can meet. She doesn't necessarily have to be of a lower status than you, as long as her demands are not higher than what you can afford.

Nitoriolohun1:
I can boldly tell you this is a wrong teaching.

What if she was your pocket size before the realities of life sets in?

What if she is your pocket size then suddenly she grows and become more financially viable?

It seems most people even some preachers dont know the basis of marriage according to God's standard.

A man needs marriage to seek help mate
A man needs marriage for companionship
God requires marriage so human race can continue through procreation

The Bible clearly states, A woman is created for the man . A woman is created as a result of a man's need and not vice versa

If all what it takes to chase a woman is your level of financial strength then everything is wrong

Charm is deceitful, beauty is vain but the woman that fears the lord is to be praised.

All that is required is the fear of the lord

Let's stop raising the generation of vipers (Jezebel)

Pastor bolajis teachings are apt but on this subject he needs to take time and let the holy spirit speak through him and not based on what is trending and logic.

May God bless all God's generals . Shalom !!!

You are just deceiving yourself with this write-up. There is a difference between the selection process and marriage itself; there is no Biblical basis for the selection process (mandatory). The Pastor only stated a standard; there are different standards people set when it comes to partner selection. Since Biblical times, marriage has been consensual. Both men and women have been setting standards and choosing whom they like.

God saw that man needed a companion and created woman. God did not create woman as robot or give her less body parts. Men and women are companions to one another. According to the Bible men and women are expected to be useful to one another. A wife is a help- mate, not a slave.

turmacs:
Have you ever had someone close to you commit suicide? Or did you know someone who did? Did they display any signs before they did it? This topic is not talked about alot on here so i decided to make a thread. Hope it'll make Front page so that people can learn from the stories of others.

My own story is not that of any relatives but of someone who lived in our neighborhood. The odd thing about it was that this guy was from the richest family in our neighborhood, very popular guy. Days before he killed himself, he gave out alot of his very expensive stuffs to less privileged guys in the neighborhood including like his laptop, tv, clothes and other things. His parents thought baba just wanted to bless people out of generosity ohh, not knowing he was preparing for his journey to the great beyond. The guy locked his door and drank snipper. When the pains began to set in, dude was screaming so loud his parents called neighbours to break the door. When they opened his room, some parts of his body had turned red in colour, saliva and blood everywhere, dude hugged his father so tight with tears in his eyes, the man too was crying likes a child. He later died on the way to hospital. That sh*t had me sad for days. I usually thought it was only people who struggle financially that opted for suicide. Never thought rich people too do that sh*t.

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dominique

Sorry for your loss. Don't exclude the fact that he could have been financially troubled, even Dangote self dey take loan and pay back. It is possible that he borrowed a loan, and couldn't repay it and he was too scared to tell his parents. There are people in Nigeria that are owing more than 100 million naira but you won't know unless they tell you. You will just be assuming that all is well with them.

Sex is not a sin. It is sex between unmarried couples that is a sin.

CodeTemplarr:
Nonsense.

It might seem like nonsense to you but it actually makes sense.

BABANGBALI:
Four zero. Real Madrid can still comeback

Maybe, if it were another club not Barca.

jorion:
You have very low self esteem.

I never said that I'm based in the UK, I only said that I've lived there. I currently reside in Nigeria and I'm doing great.

STOP PROJECTING MAN. IT'S NOT A GOOD LOOK.

HAVE SOME SELF ESTEEM. IT'S HARD THESE DAYS BUT TRY. JESUS CHRIST.

AND STOP TRYING TO DENIGRATE PEOPLE LIVING IN THE UK. EVEN AT THEIR LOWEST, IF THEY WORK HARD ENOUGH, THEY GET TO ENJOY THE SPOILS OF SOCIETY.

YOU HAVE ISSUES MAN.

What again? When did I say he is based in the UK? Anyways, case closed. I don accept he is right, I am wrong. Give him a round of applause.