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DEROX:
My biggest fear is for that defeated and depressed gender to rule usa

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It is as if the countries listed above don't like growth at all, how can they elect a female as their leaders? How? They need to learn from Nigeria, Nigeria has been electing male leaders since she gained independence in 1960 that is why we are at the top?

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DEROX:
She is worse but not the worst she too act like demi god, I hate women taking big positions

You are right, the minister of women affairs should be a man, not a women. Women should never take leading roles. Men has two heads but women only have one head.

Kriss216:
Remove procreation, a woman is useless to a man.

Remove sperm donation, a man is useless to a woman.

Cloudflare:
Honestly, why is it so extremely difficult to find these qualities in a woman.

1. Doesn't double date
2. Not into hookup, runz and twerking on tiktok and whatsApp status
3. Independent
4. rich
5. Educated
6. Not a single mother
7. Beautiful
8. Figure 8
9. Romantic
10. Doesn't follow men for money
11. Spend her money on her man and Pampers him
12. Isn't stingy
13. Doesn't have entitlement mentality
14. Tall
15. Doing well for herself
16. Have a good business or a job that fetches her good salary
17. Smart with good sense of humour
18. Virgin
19. Has a car
20. doesn't have only sex to offer

Those are the qualities every sane man wants in a woman, is that too much to ask?

Below are the qualities most women wants in man, is this too much to ask?

1. Faithful
2. Not reckless, not a drunkard or a drug addict
3. Independent
4. Wealthy
5. Educated and intelligent
6. Not someone's baby daddy
7. Handsome
8. Six packs
9. Romantic
10. Doesn't follow women for big boobs & butt.
11. Spend his money on his woman and pampers her.
12. Isn't stingy
13. Doesn't have entitlement mentality
14. Tall
15. Lives in a mansion
16. Have a decent and legit business that fetches him good salary
17. Smart with good sense of humour
18. Virgin
19. With exotic cars
20. Doesn't have only money to offer.

Stephen2324:
Be honest : Do you see a future with your current partner?

Yes, and no in a way.

HBD

Both

1. Hausa
2. Edos & Igbos, especially their men.

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None. Good parents with good parenting skills will definitely raise good children.

If the guy you are currently dating proposed to you in public, would you say yes?

essentialone:
You are yet to get the point. I am not saying who is better between Male child and female child.

I am referring to the shame and trauma brought to their parents.

The guys in question you just mentioned are criminals who may never get caught. And so it brings no shame and disgrace to their parents, not taking anything away from the wickedness of their actions.

But you see female children. 90% are source of endless public shame to their fathers. Most times their mothers care less. Often because they too passed through same system. Until you are a Father, you may not fully understand.

If you are a lady here and your father is still alive, ask him to be honest about this issue and tell you his fears and worries. You go shock.

Shameless gender who do nothing but bring unseen tears to their parents.

Emotional damage! Guys come and hold your brother o, hold am well o 😂🤣🤣

It's not only 90%; it's 100%. There are more than 100 million females in Nigeria, and you have probably not met even 0.1 percent of them in person, and not even up to 10% are online creating content.

Community chief, it is possible that in your community most females are shameless, but the whole Nigeria is not your community.

essentialone:
For each remarkable female you mention, I can mention 20 brilliant and remarkable male all doing great and better stuffs.

Even common sense will tell you that your theory is wrong. If it were correct, then in every school in Nigeria - primary, secondary, and tertiary institutions - there would be a ratio of 3 brilliant female students to 60 brilliant male students. Why don't male students alone top all classes? Why do female students top classes as well?

essentialone:
Exactly my point. A wayward male child can still turn around to be a successful man in the society.

But if you ever have a female wayward child, you may die of shame, regret, depression, and hypertension.

Females are totally shameless. Go on social media and see. Check even among the celebrities. Female child is a punishment.

What are you even saying? So we should overlook the remarkable girls and women who are making Nigeria proud. Haven't you heard of several brilliant and remarkable female individuals in Nigeria like Amina Yusuf, Faith Odunsi, Victory-Yinka Banjo and so on.

What are you even looking for? Why is it only females who are displaying their pants and private parts all over social media that you are noticing?

You are just running from responsibilities. It would be better if you decided to abstain completely from having children because even male children need proper training and deserve good fathers.

Freshtruth:
Giving birth to female children without proper upbringing is a punishment to the society at large

Don't give your male children a proper upbringing o; proper upbringing is only meant for female children.

Who be this one? Even with the economic hardship and the rate of crimes like kidnapping and theft in this country, to him the lady that removed her pants to twerk on stage is the current issue the society is facing.

In your mind that lady is a reflection of every female child. I am not saying you are daft o, but I am just so excited that not all guys think alike.

Kingzjayzee:
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jmoore:
Prostitution and fornication are intertwined.

Stay away from premarital sex

Exploitation and predation are intertwined.

Just because it is free, that doesn't mean it isn't premarital sex; stay away from premarital sex.

travelzcruix:
If all men decide to go to the paths our grand parents treaded these girl's will learn. You ain't adding value to my life, u ain't raising a home, I should just count money and give u. Dey wait.

Shey na the same entitlement guys of nowadays dey claim, our grandfathers claimed? If we follow the way of my grandparents, e go too good because the knack-and-run go reduce. You go don pay bride price finish and take the lady in before she go spread her legs for you. In those days, virgins no get issue; dem go happily talk say dem no want sex. Nowadays, when a lady boldly stands and tells a guy say she no want sex, the guy go dey shock; e go shine im eyes like hawk.

You dey talk about value, which value you fit add to a lady? Na your type dey add burdens to the lives of ladies, dey give ladies belle up and down and run.

Pque:
Why should a lady demand money for sex (knowing fully well that it's even the lady that enjoy and love the sex more)? If you can't cope with the sex demand, simply reject the offer, instead of demanding for money. Any Nigerian girl that is demanding money for sex is already categorized as a sex worker, because she is ready to sleep with other 1million men for money. There are many other ways to obtain the sincerity of a man, other than demanding money from him. Are Nigerian girl (especially Lagos girls) even the only girls in the world, don't you see your counterparts in other countries. Working class Nigerian girls don't seems to exhibit this bad habit, but the lazy ones with passive minds, lacking creativity in their heads only see the offer as oppourtuniy for them to make money, because they lack any other ideas to generate money for themselves. And they intentionally seduce the man to rob him of his hard earned money. Better change or else that your yansh go burn for inside fire.

Bro, just go warm eba chop. According to you, na ladies dey enjoy sex pass and na ladies love sex most, but why e be say na guys go dey look for every means to make the sex happen? Dem go even dey lie say e good for their body or dem dey use am to avoid back pain.

If a lady who demands money from her partner is categorized as a sex worker, then men who demand sex are categorized as predators. I won't and can't go around demanding money from predators because I have no interest in giving in to their advances, so I make my own money.

Broke guys too like to dey vex. If a lady demand money from you and you no get, you fit waka from the relationship. I never for once spread my legs for any guy; if a guy no fit wait and e dey pester me for sex, I no go vex, I go just comot the relationship.

Guys, thanks so much for the advice and encouragement, they have been really helpful. I just wasn't myself after I heard about the incidents; I was, in fact, a mummy's girl. I just needed to run into someone's arms and cry, but I couldn't. I had been taking it in, and I had had enough.

For real, forums like Nairaland should be appreciated. Sometimes, all people need is to share their pain and experiences, and they would feel better.

motif8:
The phone event is totally different from the other issue of breaking into the shop, and the phone can be recovered if u want. If u want the phone back, just take the pack of the phone to any police station and make a report they will request for the pack where they will get the ime number and that will be it, ur phone will come back just that police will milk the buyer like something else. Also be careful next time, that is the format those boys use, they will distract u with multiple task and u will forget urself.

Regarding the poo and other issues, they want to force u to leave that place, meaning it is a good location. So put ur feet on ground and fight back, get local vigilante to work with u in the evening till morning at least for some time. No territory that is free, so fight back, they will leave you

It is a good thing the phone can be recovered; I hope they also find it unwiped. Thank you so much for this information. This time, I didn't even bother informing the police about the incident because I had previously reported the burglary at my shop, but there wasn't much they could do; they just took statements and interrogated my staff.

sirchim:
So sorry for all of that. Allah will surely see you through. Just keep the spirit alive, engage the service of local security, who will have eyes on your shop. Finally, please construct internal protector.

Amen. Thanks.

buttlover:
Have you tried informing the local security. If possible employ an armed security from dss

I have already assigned someone to monitor the shop for me; that is possibly why the burglar couldn't gain access. He might have heard footsteps and fled.

Someone is targeting me, and I don't know who it is, but it seems to be related to a shop. I recently reopened this particular shop. It is in a good location, situated beside the main road, but I had previously closed it out of frustration. The shop was burgled and all my valuable gadgets were stolen. It has not even been three months since I renovated the shop, brought in new gadgets, and reopened it, but someone has been trying to burgle it again.

Yesterday, we discovered that someone tried to break into the shop, the person also tampered with the signboard on top of the shop roof, causing it to face downwards.

Also, a man came to the shop yesterday and placed a large order for different foods and various drinks, which exceeded what was available, he said he needed it for a party. While my other staff were in the kitchen area preparing more food for him, he sent the staff who was supposed to serve the food on an errand, and she left without informing anyone, I don't know if she was under a spell or if she was just licking his feet.

When the man realized that he had successfully distracted all of them, he started pretending to be in a hurry. My sister decided to assist by putting the available food into disposable plates, and in the process, the man stole her phone and fled.

A lot has been happening lately. My staff had previously informed me that on the first day the shop was reopened, they saw a nylon bag full of poo in front of the shop and disposed of it.

My sister has been very cold and down since yesterday. Apart from the fact that the stolen phone is expensive, there are important documents on it. I tried hard to suppress my emotions, but seeing my sister in distress because of me made it impossible to hold back my tears.

She didn't even need to be in my shop yesterday. It was Monday and I needed to take foodstuffs to the shop, but I begged her to help me because I had an early morning appointment with a client at the office.

Even my car was tampered with. She parked it outside the shop in its usual location, but there were signs that someone had tried to break into it. It seems like someone is deliberately trying to frustrate me to the leave the shop.

bukkiexchange01:
Hence, we say those ladies lack morality. They open and close at the name of milky doughnuts.

Hence, we say both those guys and those ladies lack morality. Those ladies open and close at the name of milky doughnuts and those men dig into anything in skirt.

Mastermindfixu:
My girlfriend and I have been together a little over a year, and it's always been rocky. We've broken up many times (almost always me with her) but then we end up back together in a few days.
She has never hit me until today, and then suddenly slapped me after she held my shirt and pinned me against the wall. FYI - I did nothing to her in retaliation . However, I feel pained and disappointed by her action.

Reason - she saw me with a lady who was supposed to apply for the post of a chef at our residence and thought I was having an affair .

I explained myself and next best thing she said to me was that she is done with the relationship.

What do I do?

In this case, she is wrong. If she had caught you cheating red-handed, I would have said you deserved the slap.

Bradford111:
Hello fellas good day I will make this brief I need your sincere advice on something

I’m dating this girl, we started dating in the latter part of January, she is 16 years old while I’m 22.
I know some people will say why I’m I dating a minor I swear I didn’t know she was 16 cuz she looks older not until when she told me just recently..

So last week her phone got spoiled and she said I should get her a new one I’m contemplating on getting it I asked her if her mom won’t get mad at her for using a phone that she doesn’t know where she got it from, she told me she has talked to her mom already that is not an issue


Please guys should I go ahead and get the phone or quit the relationship since she is a minor cuz I’m also scared of the fact if she might mistakenly get pregnant one day it might put me in a deep shit…
Please your advice is needed here 🙏

No, don't break up with her, go and introduce yourself to her mum as her boyfriend.

Dyfynezz12:
In what way 're u confused?
The resemblance is just much nd Nathaniel Bassey is a family friend,when there is more than one coincidence it becomes an evidence

You are spitting rubbish.

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

You did not mention any tangible thing that qualify him as a good guy. Even if the guy in question is actually a devout Christian and a virgin, as you have portrayed him to be, that alone does not make him a good guy. Virginity is not even a character trait.

Anyway, there is no harm in trying. Shoot your shot, but if he eventually gives in, don't be too quick to make a decision. First, examine him properly; focus more on his personality rather than his spiritual life. In fact, trigger his reaction to understand his true personality.

Nairaland guys and hypocrisy, I have seen several posts on nairaland where guys advise women to stay with their cheating husbands even after they have impregnated another lady.

Anyway, whether it is a man or a woman who cheated, cheating is a logical ground for divorce. If you can't stand her anymore, it's best to just get a divorce.

In a normal relationship where there is trust it should be the norm.

The only time I experienced issues with that was when I befriended a religious extremist. He blocked and deleted several numbers from my phone. Even mere compliments was a big problem.

Ballzproblem2:
who is bankrolling you?

Calm down, read the post properly or put on your glasses.

coachprecious:
To me, it is traveling round the world and making money even as a lady😅🥰

And you?