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advanceDNA:
...don't u women tempt men with ur seductive, almost núdé dressing?? Do u see men blaming their fvckabout life style on u women.....

Everyone wants to fvck .....that's the fact....but u women want the men u willingly chose to spread ur legs for to be responsible for u own chastity....and the men u meet many years after ur many abortions and high body not to care weda u have tossed ur womb in one clinic or if ur dick-hoping life will be a problem in marriage...

At the end of the day ..everyone will make their decision, weda to fvck around or remain a virgin, let's all enjoy/embrace the personal consequences instead of expecting people who didn't contribute to our body count to be nice to us.... Nobody cares what we decided to do with our bodies.... Nobody gives a flying fvck

Read my comment again, but this time, read it slowly and steadily so that you can grasp my point.

Merry100:
With the amount of persuasion and temptation that ladies receive from guys, if not for religion, virgins would barely exist. It is not wrong for guys to have their preferences, but it is hypocritical for guys to judge ladies for an act they usually initiate or persuade ladies to do and in which they also partake in.

Stop deceiving yourself; it is not a gender issue; it is a personality issue. There are many promiscuous men also.

With the amount of persuasion and temptation that ladies receive from guys, if not for religion, virgins would barely exist. It is not wrong for guys to have their preferences, but it is hypocritical for guys to judge ladies for an act they usually initiate or persuade ladies to do and in which they also partake in.

Kingcalls:
Why do women that render men broke wanna marry rich men

Why do broke men marry women that are not their preferences, but within their reach, make them mothers, and then leave them to go and marry their preferences after they become rich?

Persephone1:
It's always about what women do or don't.

Future Leaders of tomorrow

Yes o.

Unserious guys are usually the ones demanding for too much from their girlfriends, even after their current girlfriends put in all her best and accept to play the role of a wife instead of a girlfriend, las las they will try more than ten ladies before settling for one.

Dating is simply a fun and exciting way to meet new people, learn about yourself and find a potential long-term partner. However, dating doesn't always lead to a lifelong commitment. It might just last for a while. So, it is important to enjoy the time spent together without putting too much pressure on each other.

Friends care about one another, are a great source of support to one another, and share a bond of mutual affection and empathy, so why try to overwork your girlfriend? Your girlfriend is simply a friend, she is a female friend who you are romantically involved with, so only expect her to play the role of a friend and perform the duties of a friend. She can provide you with emotional support, companionship, and advice. She can also be a great listener and someone to share your thoughts and feelings with.

Must dating create emotional trauma or lead to future regrets for ladies? Dating should have a positive impact on a person's mental health. It should create memorable moments and excitement.

You should help each other to learn and grow. Spend time socializing, engaging in shared activities, and enjoying each other's company. Stop creating unnecessary duties.

Kobojunkie:
So being a girlfriend is a job to you? So is the boyfriend the employer in that case? If so, then the gal would need to ask her employer exactly what the duties/responsibilities for her position would be in that case. Companies tend to have different job requirements/duties so you would need to ask the particular boyfriend then since the gal would be an employee of his.

😂

BigBashiru:
But it's a significantly depreciated asset. Im better off just having a series of girlfriends....

Why refer to women as assets? You fit the role of a current asset.

If you decide to become a community dick and hire a series of women as your girlfriends, until they retire to become other men's wives, they will consider you an appreciated asset because you are simply a current asset to them. Current assets are cash and other assets that are expected to be converted to cash within a year.

Pinkybush:
To a pay lady's salary in the form of urgent 2k, feeding money, house rent, etc

But I am not in need of urgent 2k, feeding money and house rent. Should I also consider guys useless because the duties you listed is not required?

BigBashiru:
Never made sense to me....Why do husbands pay full price, bride price, expensive introductions, travelling hundreds of kilometers to see parents....for someone that was never truly theirs?? That boyfriends had for free without any of those processes?

I think marriages should just be mostly a celebration of God....

Because they get to have it for a lifetime.

MrsTwrite:
There's absolutely nothing to worry about, she doesn't want a situation in the future whereby, her husband will see her as a liability.

Exactly.

I've been thinking since last year about the duty of a boyfriend in a relationship, but could not have an answer. Since you are a guy you should be able to give me an answer to this question.

IconicR:
She should have simply moved on with her life
I can't even imagine crying over anybody in this life not to talk of doing harm to myself because of somebody's son
If one door closes several other doors will open.

If it had just been the cancellation of the wedding, she might have easily moved on. She might have been majorly traumatized by the rape.

tivta:
The truth is, girls will always be the major causality cause of gullibility, greed, thirst for material things or just natural body weakness.

There are stories out there of broke men trying to use their girlfriends for rituals. Stop victim blaming. Most of those rich guys involved in rituals were once broke, they might have used decent and responsible ladies that were not greedy or thirsty for material things for their first rituals, they might just be using other ladies for renewal after the ritual money start flowing in.

Wickedness is not written on the head of the wicked. Both guys and ladies needs to be more careful and prayerful.

Abfinest007:
why will you avoid sex

Her body is not a shared property; she owns her body. If she is avoiding sex, it simply means she does not want to have sex.

Reminderz:
i would approve of all this pepperezi is she is a virgin... if not, it's just another day of beta males and simps getting married to a hoe..

Na too much breakfast dey cause dis kind bitterness.

Instead of them to be praying for more success and blessings, desperation is not good o. Very soon, people will start asking them to manage any male as husband.

All this demonstration is not even necessary; husbands will not fall from the sky. Even irreligious ladies are getting married. In fact, this is extreme, unless they are actually praying that God should not allow them to fall victim to the wrong guy. Many of them do not have a spiritual problem; their problem is that they do not socialize. Some of these ladies might even be very decent; they may just be too religious and rigid. Some ladies will just stay indoors expecting God to send them a husband miraculously, while some other ladies, including indecent ones, are attending different occasions and mingling with various people.

flokii:
Men are the prize for that gender.

As a guy, a king, you don't need to slmp for noone, they should be the ones rushing you like imdomie.

No be only indomie na spaghetti.

Nice one.

TenQ:
Love should be the primary motivator in preaching christ but a person cannot be saved if he doesn't know what he's being saved from.

It is impossible to preach salvation without speaking about the fierce judgement of sin in hell.

You are right. It is impossible to preach salvation without speaking about the fierce judgement of sin in hell. Someone without pimples will likely not be interested in buying a pimple cream. We have to make sinners realize that they are sinners before they can see the need for salvation, but we have to do this with love and humility.

You cannot walk up to a lady with pimples on her face and say, "Look at your face! Eww! It is so disgusting! You better buy this pimple cream for your face; it's for your own good o!" without expecting a similar reaction. Even if the lady curses you or insults you, she cannot be considered a witch; she is simply reacting to your actions. But if you approach the lady and say, "Sister, this pimple cream is very good. It works very fast. Just buy it and test it; it will clear all these pimples on your face." You would likely not receive a negative reaction and the lady will gladly buy it if she is interested.

One day, I saw a man preaching, and I couldn't hold back my laughter. He was just looking around at people's clothing and commenting on it. A lady even passed by and hissed because she knew his words were directed at her. A backslider might listen to his preaching and repent, but I doubt an unbeliever will do the same. Evangelism is primarily intended to attract new believers but his preaching lacked the substance to do that.

Guys, are you a virgin?

MaxInDHouse:
You're deceiving yourself simply because you feel Jehovah's Witnesses aren't Christians shey?
Well i've delivered the message:

Satan is the ruler and God of this present world so mankind in general belongs to him that's why Jesus came made disciples and sent them to go and make more disciples, that means to save the souls of millions under Satan's system.

So if you're contemplating light and darkness try to have a rethink about this and stop following misinformed religionists maligning the true disciples of Christ: Jehovah's Witnesses!

🙄

Dtruthspeaker:
I disagre.
No one can save a person who does not want to be saved, Even The Lord respected this Law and you see He did not waste His time drawing the Nazarenes or the scribes. He just put them or left them in their proper places.

I agree that there are some hardened sinners, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't try to win their souls. If you truly love that your unbelieving friend (and the many other unbelievers around you), you will put in the effort and try different tactics to win their souls. What will it benefit us if a sinner perishes?

Let's stoop to their level, like Paul did, in order to win their souls. Some of the most genuine men of God today, who are very passionate about the work of God, might have been led to Him by a stubborn believer who did not give up on them.

Dtruthspeaker:
A jw confessing what they are sent to do!



And here is inviting people to his brainwashing jw machine.

His first comment already gave him away; he sounded like he was from one of those small groups that have headache with Christianity. When I saw his second comment, I thought I had misquoted him. Anyway, God does not want people to perish in their ignorance. I pray that he eventually sees the light.

I doubt it is enough in this economy, but even if you and your partner decide to manage it for now, it won't be enough when you start bearing children. I would advise you to set up a business for your partner so that she can also support the family.

MaxInDHouse:
This is true but whoever is doing such should know that his or her godly devotion can't bribe Jesus Christ, he knows all the things we does in secret. That's why we must be honest hearted and sincere in whatever we do so even though we mistakenly commit blunder our sincerity coupled with humility to lay low before his Majesty will save us! Luke 23:39-43

I guess you just changed the conversation into an agrument and went off point because of my reply. This comment actually makes sense. I just read it now. I didn't know you had posted another comment. I was trying to reply your previous comment again when I quoted this one by mistake. Your previous comment sounded like it was from a non-Christian trying to criticize Christians. Anyway, sorry about that.

MaxInDHouse:
Ọmọ stop deceiving yourself you know nothing about the LIGHT!

Okay, I have heard you. It's nice conversing with you. If you have more opinions, you can share them. It's just that I am not a talkative. I get bored when the conversation is not relevant.

MaxInDHouse:
What are you saying again?
Hope this is not because you feel holier than thou?
Well the truth is that Satan doesn't need to win souls because all sinners are already on his side {Romans 3:23} it's Jesus who sent out his disciples to fish out {Mark 1:17} deserving souls for salvation! Matthew 28:19-20

I am not condemning you. God can save anyone. I pray that one of these days, He will guide you to see the true Light.

MaxInDHouse:
This is true but whoever is doing such should know that his or her godly devotion can't bribe Jesus Christ, he knows all the things we does in secret. That's why we must be honest hearted and sincere in whatever we do so even though we mistakenly commit blunder our sincerity coupled with humility to lay low before his Majesty will save us! Luke 23:39-43

😂 Lol, you are very funny. I pray you eventually see the light.

Dtruthspeaker:
Sure! A judge is one who is blameless.



Only for those who want to be saved. Then it is only for past sins and not present/future sins. He is not going to die twice.

Thus, "sin no more" means sin no more. Be blamess. Be holy.

You have to put in effort and show love to make sure unbelievers see reasons to repent and follow Jesus. The phrase "sin no more" comes after Jesus has healed someone, shown mercy, or revealed Himself to someone. Unbelievers have to see a sign to repent. Have you ever seen someone advertising and saying, "If you like, buy it; if you like, don't buy it"? Your harshness won't bring people to Christ or force them to accept Him. Various methods can be employed to invite people to Christ, but make sure it is done with Love. Others need your compassion and empathy. Make others feel loved, not hated or condemned.

There is more joy in Heaven over one sinner that repents than over ninety-nine Saints. You can't win souls with pride. Jesus humbled Himself to win souls to the extent that the Pharisees were questioning His actions. He made friends with sinners and even dined with them. When Jesus told people to go and sin no more, He did not write a list of their sins and start condemning them with it.

Unbelievers and backsliders are not the same. Unbelievers are those that are yet to accept the truth, while backsliders are those that know the truth but turned away from it. You can't feed solids to babies when their teeth are not strong enough to eat solids. Some of our ways are confusing to unbelievers, but after they accept Christ into their lives, you can teach them more, they themselves might even be eager to learn more. In 1 Corinthians 14:23, Paul even set rules for speaking in tongues so that unbelievers won't get confused.

You mentioned somewhere that some people will not go to Heaven. You are right, but that should not put us off from making efforts to win souls. It is not for us to decide who is going to Heaven and who is not; leave that to God. We ourselves have to keep seeking God's mercy. In 1 Corinthians 9:19-23, Paul describes how much effort he puts in just to win much souls.

1 Corinthians 9:19-23
19 For though I be free from all men, yet have I made myself servant unto all, that I might gain the more.
20 And unto the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might gain the Jews; to them that are under the law, as under the law, that I might gain them that are under the law;
21 To them that are without law, as without law, (being not without law to God, but under the law to Christ,) that I might gain them that are without law.
22 To the weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men, that I might by all means save some.
23 And this I do for the gospel's sake, that I might be partaker thereof with you.

MaxInDHouse:
According to the Bible Satan doesn't need any workers to win souls for him because the whole world is already in his cage {Luke 4:6; John 14:30; 2Corinthians 4:4; 1John 5:19} it's Jesus who needs workers to win souls that's why he ordered his disciples to go and fish out workers! Matthew 28:18-20; Act 1:8

Satan's agents are only lying to brainwash people, they themselves are deceived and they are used to deceive others.


By spreading lies about soul winning for Satan there will be suspicion everywhere so even the real disciples of Christ will also be suspected when people don't know how to IDENTIFY Jesus'real disciples.

So let no one deceive you all the inhabitants of this planet are already under Satan's system that's why God's word said:

"The world (99% of all the inhabitants of the earth) is passing away and so is its desire, but the one who does the will of God (just a handful few practicing what Jesus taught) remains forever" 1John 2:17

Jesus said:

"Moreover, just as it occurred in the days of Noah, so it will be in the days of the Son of man: they were eating, they were drinking, men were marrying, women were being given in marriage until that day when Noah entered into the ark, and the Flood came and destroyed them all". Luke 17:26-27

In Noah's day, in Lot's day, Rahab's time in Jericho those that escaped destruction were well ORGANIZED, the same thing will repeat itself while those that will be saved are well organized having the same line of thought {John 17:22} those to be destroyed will be scattered in their reasoning! Luke 11:23

So what all sincere and honest hearted individuals who want to be saved should try to do now is figure out the group that's practicing what Jesus commanded as their assigned duty in this endtime {Matthew 7:16-18} as for the rest there appearance of godliness can't save them {Matthew 7:21-23 compare to 2Timothy 3:5} they're all reserved for destruction! Matthew 7:13-14

I am a Christian and I stongly believe that Christianity is the true religion. This is just a wake-up call to my fellow brothers and sisters in the Lord who are unknowingly pushing people away from Christ with their actions and words. Some of us, not all of us, are missing the main purpose of evangelism.