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How old were you when you had your first bf/gf?

labake1:
If you didn't rape her, she won't accused you. Go and ask for forgive and sin no more.

#saynotorape
#saynotofornication

My aunt was raped so I know some guys can be very callous and heartless but some guys that were accused of rape were wrongfully accused, I even heard that a guy committed suicide because of that.

timiade446:
Sincerely, a friend once got into this kind of mess which led him to prison.. it wasn’t funny at all but the truth later prevailed

I can't imagine such a thing happening to any of my brothers. Your friend and his family must have gone through a lot. I am glad that God vindicated him. Women like that are extremely dangerous and wicked.

suckmedownthere:
There are many ways to it, you can send him to a public school for now, you can also ask her to join you and finance the schooling by helping with her with some capital or let him do some evening lessons around your neighbourhood and or a private teacher to come home and tutor him or she do it herself ...if she set standards that seems impossible she can make it possible after all there are single mothers out there...

Nice one. He has not even verified the price before concluding that he cannot pay it. Do you have any idea how much some of these neighbourhood schools cost?

Rtk4:
Our last son just clocked 2years just a week ago and my wife is insisting that he starts school by September, so i told her i don't have money to enroll him in a school by September. I also let her know that the basic age for a child to start school is 3years. I sighted example of alot of people within our vicinity who also waited for their children to reach 3years before enrolling them in school. She still maintains her stands and i also maintain mine. Though he is so wise above his age but i don't have money for that now. He can count 1-10 already.... Please guys what is your take on this?

I understand that you are presently broke but two is not too early o, some of his age mates would have started school since they were one year old, do you want him to start feeling inferior later?

Aladeintl:
Shaming a virgin for being vocal about her sexual status is bottom barrel. Everyday you are on the TL telling us about how wet you are or how your next sexcapade will be.
If you can wear your badge of promiscuity with pride, what stops the virgin from wearing hers?

Or is it a case of your conscience judging you? If a person decides to preach purity let them be.

I believe that no reasonable person would shame you for being vocal about your virginity and expressing your views on virginity. However, there are two possibilities: either you are spreading misinformation by claiming that virgins are superior to non-virgins, or you are anticipating that others should applaud you solely for maintaining your virginity.

Anybody can be a virgin. Don't you know there are some eighty-year-old oracle priestesses who are still virgins. Your preserved virginity cannot contribute any value to the society or stimulate economic growth in a country. If you aspire to be recognized and celebrated, focus on accomplishing remarkable achievements or showcasing your talents to the world.

guobe:
A lady was telling me how a guy got her pregnant some time ago.
The guy rejected the pregnancy initially but the lady insisted on having the baby.
After back and forth the guy accepted the pregnancy and got married to the lady.
Few months after putting to bed the first child, she got pregnant again and the guy was not happy as he has never been according to her the guy felt she used the pregnancy to trap him.
They have both divorced now and gone their separate ways.
Who is to be blamed when an unexpected pregnancy occurs?

Both are to be blamed, but I don't think two people should marry because of pregnancy. A baby can't sustain a marriage, only love can.

Marriage compatibility
Rich man + Rich woman = Extremely Good
Rich man + Broke woman = Good
Rich woman + Broke man = Good
Broke man + Broke woman = Extremely Bad

Couples salary
100,000 naira monthly - 500,000 naira monthly= Extremely Good
100,000 naira monthly - 10,000,000 naira monthly = Extremely Risky (If the guy or lady is too proud you will suffer because he or she might call your salary peanut and refuse to value you.

DrAbdulSuleman:
I've been married for 20 years, we've 4 kids . My marriage has been stronger than I've ever seen
Let me tell you how I got such strong marriage to a submissive, respectful wife

1. I didn't settle. I literally didn't waste time with stupid women . I dumped them even it was hard. This was important because it took me 20 years to find one worthy of marriage. If I had taken more than a month or two on potential women, I never would have had enough time to find a woman worth marrying.

Above all , find a woman that's good not one you think you can make into a good woman

I assume you are in your sixties or seventies.

Anyway, I agree with the last point you made. If only others could learn from you and quietly assess their preferences, instead of resorting to online complaints and blaming all women for their inability to shape a woman according to their desires.

wisdomkid:
No tell your hubby this story oh, because if my wife ever said these things about her ex, na to find new girlfriend be that. SoulMate....

Because if he whistles, I don loss be dat.

🤣🤣

DANIEL5050:
Una go still knack if una meet again

No no we don't do that here.

Sirbruno3000:
Overfamiliarity and unseriousness on her part. The guy no get time for all that. Correct guy.

😂🤣Your tears dey sweet my body, keep on crying.

Cloudflare:
This is exactly how poor broke girls talks. Would you ever agree that he spent money on you before? Were.y!

You billed him like the runz girl you are, epah chopped your kpekpus and realized you might end his life with billings, he dumped your broke as$ and moved on. You started wailing and lamenting everywhere! Madam he doesn't want you. Move on and stop being daft!

Why am I even masking it sef? What is so special in the word virgin? I am a virgin, so go hit your head on the wall.

Cloudflare:
This is exactly how poor broke girls talks. Would you ever agree that he spent money on you before? Were.y!

You billed him like the runz girl you are, epah chopped your kpekpus and realized you might end his life with billings, he dumped your broke as$ and moved on. You started wailing and lamenting everywhere! Madam he doesn't want you. Move on and stop being daft!

God, I am tired of flying British Airways, people are mocking me. I need my own private jet this year. Baba God, please help this poor broke girl. Please, look at my condition and bless me. 😭😭😭

Cloudflare:
But he spent money on you? In your mind now you're smarter and outplayed him?

We are both financial buoyant we no depend on each other financially.

Cloudflare:
Madam move on and stop disturbing us here. U didn't tell us how many times you billed him and how you offered him your kpekpus in exchange for the cash he's been spending on you. Move on!!!! He has forgotten about you since

I too know not all relationships are similar to yours. Ordinary kiss e no get. No be all ladies dey loose like your sisters.

Draslo:
But na you dey tell us your story. We can't ask questions?

Read the post, no dey ask jamb questions.

MuslimIgbo:
But how many times did he deposit his genetic fluids in your holes?

Shame!

I hate hearing about ex

WHY SHOULD A REASONABLE AND MORALLY UPRIGHT PERSON HAVE EX? EXCEPT IN THE CASE OF DEATH....

TUEH

Olodo be calming down nah, relationship is not a do and die affair, Pele o broda if I don't have you, nobody can have you.

Draslo:
Be honest, how many guys have you been with since him?

AIT wetin concern you? AIT ogbonge TV!!!

Draslo:
Na secondary school love?

No be only secondary school love, na primary school love you go see.

Jagungidi:
She don try get the guy back but the guy no gree, hence the regret and meaningless thread

See me see this bitter leaf o.

chukwudiology:
He was never ur ex , you both were just good friends.

Because we no share sexual something abi.

BigDickProblems:
Fish brain. That's the only thing you all know. Relationship, breakfast, Hookup, sex, it's my birthday, ex, makeup etc una Sabi. No logical sense at all. Fish

🤣🤣Town crier keep on crying.

Agbadocassava:
Don’t pretend you’re heartbroken

😂🤣 Who be this?

Xenry:
If you don't mind me asking, why did you both break up?

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In Juice Wrd's word, "Tell me what's the secret to love, I don't get it ...
Ran into the devil today and she grinnin'…"
All girls are the same, they belong to the street.

Ask your sister.

schoolboymatt:
we all have that one ex.

Yes o.

chocboi78:
the one YOU wrote. It will easily pass as a poem
PS: it’s a compliment

Thanks

Konjiboii:
So after the sucking licking and fvcking you still dropped him for a nigga with money abi, go on say the truth.
I'm sure bro is happily married now and enjoying his life while you are a miserable mess hence the lowkey regret.

😂🤣🤣 See wetin too much nollywood movie dey cause. The lady that broke up with the poor guy not knowing that he is a rich millionaire, broda bernard life doesn't work that way.

BigDickProblems:
Fish brain.

Going by the topic, I knew it was from the gender with the fish brain. Only relationship, Sex, Hook-up, Ex this and that you all know. No sense at all.

Chaii my broda I sympathise with you, nah too much breakfast dey cause all these tears.

chocboi78:
Lol. I Believe this Is a poem

The one you wrote abi.