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Offpoint1:
The bible is full of nonsense, it's has nothing to do with "God" words. That book is men literature, nothing in it was inspired by God.

In fact the book continuously paint God black.


If heaven is a perfect place, then why the hell did war broke out in a supposely perfect place?

How did evil gets to heaven and possessed Satan to rebel? Where did that evil came from since we claim devil is the father of all evil?

How the hell would you sent supreme being to mortals and expect mortals to defeat them? Why not chain them in heaven?
How do you have the power to prevent everything but you let them happened and you ended up burning your own creation for your own mistakes?

I believe in the existence of creator, but the biblical stories ain't God's word.

Everything was so peaceful in the beginning. God created everything with love and showed love to all His creatures. He loved His angels and human beings so much that He gave them freewill, power, and authority. He did not create them like robots; He gave them the freedom to make decisions. However, upon all the love and kindness He showed to us some angels and humans rebelled against Him and tried to use the freedom and power He gave against Him.

God made man a little lower than the angels and crowned Him with glory and honour. He gave man freewill to make decisions and authority over plants and animals. Plants and animals are far below us, they don't have freewill, authority or power. Humans had everything they needed. Adam and Eve were in the Garden of Eden, enjoying it all. It is hard to understand why they wanted to be equal with God. Why is man so wicked, greedy and covetous?

Liking this to yourself, if you have a company and you happen to be a nice boss and you find out your employees are trying to kill you and take away your company, won't you punish them severely? Would you smile with them, hug them or ask them to go in peace? In fact, God is so loving and kind that He pardoned us for such a rebellious act and still sent His son to rescue us.

God is not to be blamed, our actions led us to this point. Human beings are inherently wicked; they are just so wicked on their own. Don't you think we are the problem? Is it God that is inventing all the wickedness in the world today? Now that God has left us to ourselves, what are we doing to ourselves?

IkeIgboNiile:
One of the culture shock i got during my service year was people handing me things with their left hand even the kids. I really found it offensive.

I'm not supporting her slapping you but i understand it maybe reflex action.

If it was reflex action that led to the slap, it means she has a wrong mentality and that mentality has to be changed.

Do you know how much effort we left-handed people put in just to respect you people's view? I have to be at alert anytime I want to give something to someone because I have to move the thing from my left-hand to my right-hand. We go through that much just to respect your views, what will stop you from respecting our rights? We are full human beings, not half-humans.

I will not intentionally give something to someone with my left-hand, not because I accept their views but because I have learnt to also respect other people's views. People need to stop violating our rights as equal humans.

Please sign this petition

https://www.change.org/p/stop-the-maltreatment-of-left-handed-people-in-nigeria

It is a petition to stop the maltreatment of left-handed people in Nigeria

Left-handed people are facing maltreatment in the society due to societal beliefs and misconceptions. I recently shared my experience on nairaland. My bf's mum slapped me because I used my left-hand to give her something.

https://www.change.org/p/stop-the-maltreatment-of-left-handed-people-in-nigeria

It is a petition to stop the maltreatment of left-handed people in Nigeria

Left-handed people are facing maltreatment in the society due to societal beliefs and misconceptions. I recently shared my experience on nairaland. My bf's mum slapped me because I used my left-hand to give her something.

Rayban25:
That you've lost your own virginity dosent mean you should be bitter towards ladies that are still pure

Bitter olosho.

Public penis. So you don't see anything wrong with the Op emphasizing on purity and virginity alone and preaching it to only ladies? List the importance of virginity to the society and in marriage. There are several laws in the Bible. Virginity is not righteousness.

By the way, I'm still a virgin but I'm yet to see any physical benefit of virginity.

jeromestarks:
To those who have missed me, I appreciate you.
Seun and his boys banned me because I preach about virginity and purity.

They want me to advice you to marry a girl who has been fvcked and mounted by many men.
They want me to advice you to marry a woman above 23 (a second hand girl whose value has greatly depreciated).

They want me to advice to overlook a girl who has opened her pvssy for many men before you.

They want me to advice you to forgive a woman who cheated on you.


Remember, girls are a copy of their mothers. Do not marry a woman who has given her best (virginity) to another man. Just fvck her and let her go when you find a virgin woman.

Virginity preacher, what is the importance of virginity in the society and in marriage?

gfon:
I for like make you try am with me ooo. Unto say you be God?? What if it was a mistake...You never jam pesin wey go beat you mercilessly

Like do you get

Rrchrd:
That is what happen when you girls like going for flesh soft dude that can spend on you not knowing her mother is a pumpous disciplinarian & her so is a mummy boy.

That is how people jump into conclusion. When I have a business that is bringing me money, why do I need my bf's money? Educate yourself, not all relationship is about money.

djon78:
You know the funny thing about life
These type of women may not be highly resourceful
But they give good vibes in marriage

There are two women I know on a personal level like this type of Lady

They ended up marrying grade one hustling type of men that ended up becoming extremely wealthy

But they give there husband's stability
They are submissive and have raised there children very well

From my own understanding

Hustling, very goal oriented kind of men most times marry these kind of women
It works well for both
They are submissive and gives a man peace

Hustling types of women most times end up with lay back kind of Men
They push the men to become successful
Although some of these kind of women sometimes if not well handled may break the marriage if they feel the Man can't be changed

A close relative of mine is an example of this kind of hustling woman.
She pushed her husband till the man became very successful and they are living well


God and nature has created each kind of man for another kind of woman.
The problems we have in marriages is most times people don't marry the type of person destined for them or some will marry and will not be satisfied believing that the one outside is better

A lot of times we Christians deceive ourselves. Isaac saw Rebecca and liked her, God did not force her on him. The best thing to do is look for someone that is compatible with you and take the person to God in prayer. Virgins have to learn to put their virginity aside and bring something meaningful to the table. I am also a virgin but I don't wear it on my forehead.

I don't have a problem with ladies deciding to be full housewives but they should look for someone that appreciate them as a motivator and not a contributor. Someone that wants to eat bean will not appreciate rice even if you convince him to eat rice. Op wants someone that is resourceful, why advice him to marry someone that is not?

CaptainRogers:
Her behaviour towards you is too bad. If you foresee more trouble in the future, I advise you too quit. What she should have done is to reject it and give you the look that will tell you to change it to your right hand

By the way, You are beautiful

Thank you.

Typing:
I will take Panadol on ya head, since you brought ya private life to a public forum like this.

Oya take it and go and sleep.

Typing:
See ya life. A 27 year old lady who want to marry a 23 years old Boy. Is already disrespecting her mother in-law to be. No wonder the Woman tear you hot slap. Only God knows weting that little Boy dey pass through for ya hand.

Mr therapist did my bf cry to you. Please, focus on your own relationship and stop taking panadol for another person headache.

Shedrack777:
i don't know you from adam, but if you try giving something with left hand, i'll sure woze you even if you're my mate. that's an insult

See this one o. If I use my left-hand beat, you go just pass out.

Runnerzz:
It's obvious the woman has no respect for her son. My mom will not dare do that. Instead she will verbally correct u and if u refuse to learn she might have to let me know. How can u just slap a grown woman? If the op's father slaps her son for wtv reasons she definitely would not be happy with it. Probably she never liked u for her son and even at that it's disrespectful and a slap to the son too

You might be right. My bf and I want to get married soon. Maybe his mother doesn't want me to be her daughter-in-law anymore and is just trying to pull a fast one on me. She might be concerned about the age difference between me and my bf and be pretending not to care. I am twenty-seven years old and my bf is twenty-three. The day she discovered my age, she just acted surprised and told me I don't look my age. She did not show any signs that indicated she was concerned about our age difference.

Abolodje:
If it were me I would’ve stabbed your neck on God.

Lol. Brother Bernard, you even call God on top. Na your type dey full prison.

Typing:
As for me, I rather marry a prostitute than to marry a left handed Girl. Who uses her left hand with pride like you do. I know some left handed people who are making effort to use their right hand when dealing with other people. I can manage those type, but not your type.

That why I only deal with mature men.

Anny69:
Maybe she has never liked you and has been looking for an opportunity for you to fvck up. She should have cautioned you instead of slapping you.

You might be right. My bf and I want to get married soon. Maybe his mother doesn't want me to be her daughter-in-law anymore and is just trying to pull a fast one on me. She might be concerned about the age difference between me and my bf and be pretending not to care. I am twenty-seven years old and my bf is twenty-three. The day she discovered my age, she just acted surprised and told me I don't look my age. She did not show any signs that indicated she was concerned about our age difference.

tayo60:
Even if you are left handed, it's disrespectful to use d hand to give an elderly person something. Courtesy demands you swap the content to right hand before giving the person.

You are right handed so you cannot understand. Your brain is use to using your right hand so even if you are distracted you will still give things to people with your right hand, it doesn't work that way for left-handed people.

Coder2Client:
You knew it's not good but you did it anyway. The circumstances surrounding the situation could trigger such action. She sensed disrespect in the way you gave her the clothes. It is not a matter of she knows you use left hand but circumstances surrounding the situation.

I don't see anything wrong in using my left-hand to give something to someone but I have learnt to respect other people's view also.

Olasyke:
Why seun never ban una IP address sef?

For what?

I am left-handed. My bf's mother slapped me because I tried to use my left hand to give her something.

I called my bf's mother to tell her that I would be visiting her, and she asked me to help her collect her clothes from her fashion designer on my way to the house. When I got to the house, my bf's mother was upstairs taking a bath. I used the waiting time to place a call to a client to discuss an important project. While I was on the call, she came downstairs and asked me for the clothes. I did not realize that I was trying to give her the clothes with my left hand, and the next thing I noticed was a slap on my face. My bf told me to let it go, but I can't marry him if I am not on good terms with his mother. I expect my mother-in-law to treat me like her own daughter. She knew I was left-handed, and she still acted irrationally.

LegendHero:
Well I played the spoiler just like you played spoiler to the student loan.

If your own proposed policy can work, why can’t the student loan work?

Finally, what is the essence of this thread?

This is my timeline, you can also say what you want on yours.

LegendHero:
If your argument is that people won’t pay back student loans, then what gave you the assurance that people won’t abuse what you opined. Let me tell you how Nigerians can game the system for what you proposed. I’m speaking like a spoiler here.


If government support business, people will just use the money for other things and you won’t see the benefit of what they gave them in almost 50% of the businesses. Example is SureP and etc., Lot of people collected the money and used it for other things and the effect is not felt on the business like the government planned.



This dosent need any investment by government. It’s just a policy.


Same thing you said will happen to student loan will happen to this too. People collect the loan and not pay back and still spend it on something else not related to businesses. Some can even use it to run abroad.


Ghost worker will suck most of the increase.


It will reduce foreign investors because they don’t have freedom of choice.


The drivers will continue to lie that the bus got spoilt and they will be siphoning money from the government. Some might even elope with the bus and sell it and runaway. Some will use it for road side hustle and game the go ember.


This can be done. It’s a matter of policy and we have some of it in state like Lagos.



Where will the government see money to create underground rail and what is he benefit? Why does a state like Ibadan or Abuja need underground rail for example?

I don't understand most of the things you wrote. The drivers will continue to lie, this cannot work, that cannot work. Are you saying Nigeria is hopeless? All these things can be implemented and monitored.

Some of the policies put in place are making it difficult for citizens to create businesses and compete with foreign companies.

LegendHero:
If your argument is that people won’t pay back student loans, then what gave you the assurance that people won’t abuse what you opined. Let me tell you how Nigerians can game the system for what you proposed. I’m speaking like a spoiler here.


If government support business, people will just use the money for other things and you won’t see the benefit of what they gave them in almost 50% of the businesses. Example is SureP and etc., Lot of people collected the money and used it for other things and the effect is not felt on the business like the government planned.



This dosent need any investment by government. It’s just a policy.


Same thing you said will happen to student loan will happen to this too. People collect the loan and not pay back and still spend it on something else not related to businesses. Some can even use it to run abroad.


Ghost worker will suck most of the increase.


It will reduce foreign investors because they don’t have freedom of choice.


The drivers will continue to lie that the bus got spoilt and they will be siphoning money from the government. Some might even elope with the bus and sell it and runaway. Some will use it for road side hustle and game the go ember.


This can be done. It’s a matter of policy and we have some of it in state like Lagos.



Where will the government see money to create underground rail and what is he benefit? Why does a state like Ibadan or Abuja need underground rail for example?

Already existing businesses will not decide to close down because of a loan and it is easy for government to collect back the money of the loan from them.

princemillla:
They know this. Some Wil many will not but the fact that not paying the loan will hinder u from accessing any other loan in future makes it a good one for me.


Ur opinion are good but if u haven't passed thru schools u won't know the struggle some parent go thru to see their wards thru the process.

Student loan is a good move.

I am not against the student loan. The things I listed are very easy for government to do. If they add it to their projects it will life easier for everyone. If there is enough jobs, students can work part-time to pay back their loans. Sometimes, it is good for us to let our opinions out. Somebody close to the president might see this and take one or two things from it and advice the president to implement it.

chatinent:
Actually, a lot of student can and will repay the loans.

In less than two years you will understand what I wrote. If nothing is done to reduce the rate of unemployment, the student loan project will not survive.

A lot of students may not be able to repay their student loans. For the student loan project to survive, the government has to create more jobs. To achieve this, the government needs to take certain steps, such as:

1. Supporting businesses owned by Nigerian citizens
2. Reducing business policies for start-ups and existing companies.
3. Lowering business levies
4. Providing loans for citizen-owned businesses
5. Increasing the minimum wage.
6. Ensuring that 90% of the staff in foreign companies are Nigerians.
7. Controlling the transport system by:
i. Purchasing more BRT buses
ii. Acquiring all commercial buses in Nigeria at a low rate and hiring their drivers as government drivers.
iii. Making it easier to top up BRT cards by allowing top-ups in grocery stores.
iv. Creating bus stations equipped with waiting areas and display boards.
v. Ensuring that the arrival time of buses and trains is available on google map.
vi. Reducing bus fares temporarily to entice car owners to try BRT buses and other buses acquired by government. Car owners will get addicted to going on buses after they discover how comfortable it is. This will reduce the cars on the road.
vii. Creating underground railways and purchasing more trains.

Two weeks ago. In morning 150/102 after taking grapes it reduced to 125/87 in the evening.

TrainPark:
My Fiancee Is Good In Terms Of Character
But just out of curiosity, why the thing pain you so!

Which thing?

agrowell:
Leave their church for them and go to where earrings is allowed, as simple as that, but be aware that you can't choose your judgement.
Thanks

Everybody will definitely stand before God and be judged. I will not be judged by your pastor's standards. There is no Bible verse that states that wearing earring is a sin.

Cloudflare:
Referring to your post on Hilda Baci and the pastor who spoke about her olosho dressing.

It's obvious you know and quote so many scriptures but lack understanding. E be like say na deeper life or chosen dey born you. Madam, we all know deep down inside you, you want to explore and chop life and probably bang around. Of course you're very free to do so! Stop hiding behind Christianity quoting Bible up and down to justify the fact you want to hoe around. Do it proudly and receive the consequences hereafter.

You have a serious problem. How is wearing earring related to wanting to bang around?

TrainPark:
Better appreciate that good character ooo... e no reach 3 girls wey still gett am for this naija !!

He did not mention any good character or attitude, he only said she is nice and she is a virgin.