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My ex

You have not said anything.

What is the reason your babe gave for breaking up with you?

His mum being unkind to her is enough reason for her to break up with him. Some marriages are facing issues because of in-laws. She might have properly studied his mum's character and realized she can't put up with it.

I agree with some of your list but the first three rules are not necessary. The good thing is that some individuals have become more enlightened and now acknowledge that they don't have to confine their relationships to such rigid rules. Most marriages in Nigeria adhere to the ridiculous rules you listed, yet many relationships in Nigeria still end in utter failure.

Starboytwo:
I don modify am no vex.

🤣🤣🤣Wetin this one dey say

Starboytwo:
Op I no wan spoil your mood oo.

But I don’t understand why people will paint their self like this

You no look mirror

My dear cry harder.

Earthstorms:
A lady once told my friend that she likes him, they are married now with kids.

So nothing wrong in telling a guy you like him. However, just be clear on what you want from him and work for what you want.

Also understand the risk that comes with such proclamation, the guy can turn down your offer.

Some guys might also pretend to return the likeness, only to act selfish.

If your intentions are noble, nothing wrong in a lady initiating a friendship.

Thanks for the advice.

🤣🤣🤣See as dem dey cry on top makeup, continue crying, these your tears dey sweet my body. Cry more biko. Me wey no get time for wahala, I don use your comments do sound track, I just dey dance for my living room.

skj1377:
This person may be a yahoo boy. The picture of a lady and 2023 registration date looks suspicious. Besides , billing will start once you call or contact her. The issue is according to her she is not in Nigeria so it's not like you can invite her over. Yahoo boys are scamming locally these days since Facebook has blocked IP from Nigeria. Guys be careful.

Yahoo boy una. Be like say dey dun scam you well. I ask your papa for money?

MarketDispatch:
..but then, the guy might not be into you and just offered to help you pay due to the constraint you had at the time, or he had a girlfriend.

If he was into you, he'd have asked for your number, but then nothing stopped you from asking for his...next time, ask... So you won't get home and start turning around on your Pillow.

Thanks for the advice, but I'm not missing the guy - it happened a long time ago. There are times when guys admire ladies or compliment them without asking for their number, and some even stare continuously or smile. The question that truly matters is, 'Is there anything wrong with a lady telling a guy that she likes him? It is a general question o; I am not the focus.

Omoawoke:
If you can get a bucket, I’d cry inside for you…. Wicked girl

🤣😂🤣🤣🤣See how this one dey quick vex.

Omoawoke:
Walahi e pain me, you dey hide your fine face under make up mask

ShowUsYourRealFace

Kilode, see as you dey cry on top another pesin matter, all these your tears just dey sweet me, keep on crying.

Omoawoke:
Oya bring am come. Lol…

You suppose fine naturally, that make up too much na

🤣😂😂🤣Nah my makeup pepper you reach this, it is well o.

Omoawoke:
Lol no vex, your dp has too much make up, try to show more of your natural beauty

Come and help me to adjust it.

Omoawoke:
You mentioned he was standing behind you, so when he eventually saw your face, he could not wait to find the exit

I think you meant he couldn't wait to find his wallet, Olodo read the post well before you comment.

Merry100:
I turned to him and said, "I'll refund the money to you in cash." He turned towards me with a smile and replied, "Don't worry about it."

Figger:
no be lie, too much make over, looking like that masquerade wey Flavor dey always sing about "ijele"

😂🤣🤣Masquerade wey guys dey look for, dey play.

Omoawoke:
Your make up looks like you are wearing a mask, dude must have been so terrified he had to run away from you.

😂🤣🤣He must have been "so terrified" that he had to pay for me.

There was a time when I was visiting someone in Greenwich. While I was there, I wanted to snack on something and noticed that the University of Greenwich café was conveniently nearby, so I decided to head there for a snack. Once I arrived, I placed my order, but the attendant informed me that card payment was required. I explained to him that I didn't have a card. A male voice spoke from behind me and offered to pay for my order. He stepped forward, approaching the attendant. The moment I laid eyes on him, I felt an instant liking. He was speaking directly to the attendant. I turned to him and said, "I'll refund the money to you in cash." He turned towards me with a smile and replied, "Don't worry about it." I couldn't even decline his offer.

I just liked him; it wasn't because he paid for my snacks. He wasn't the first guy to offer such a gesture. My mind persistently urged me to ask for his number, but I continually reminded myself that, as a lady, I should not make the first move. So, I just watched him walk away.

Madam, you don't have matrimonial bed yet. Anyway, discard him; he doesn't deserve you.

Hustlerconnect:
It's only you.
You're just being weird and over exaggerating.
I'm sure you're an introvert too.

It is not an introvert thing o.

illicit:
Merry100

How are u today?

I'm good.

No

pansophist:
Eating healthy.

I don't enjoy it one bit. But I do it due to the understanding that a man must choose one of two sufferings. The suffering of discipline, or the suffering of regret. You want to eat healthy for your health, to look better, to help with confidence, and make old age easy on you.

But on a good day, I love icecreams, chocolates, and drinking beers. I love KFC chickens, milkshakes, parfaits, donuts, and fast food. Who enjoys eating cucumber, raw vegetables, with water being the only liquid you drink?

I love junk food, a lot. They are so delicious

Me too I hate healthy food but I take them sometimes. I remember the first time a friend made oatmeal for me, he was like it's very delicious and healthy. I was like yeah it's delicious.

Some of the things I pretend to enjoy:
Drinking black coffee
Eating oat meals
Eating salmon
Boring jokes
Going to cocktail parties.
Outings with people I don't vibe with.
Listening to compliments or advices from some senior relatives or family friends (Old school aunties and uncles).

fineboynl:
Be careful if your plan is driving on main road. I had to sell my bike because of the careless way Nigerians drive no regards for bicycles riders. Also the roads are not well planned. When i’m driving and sees bicycle I always give them space.

Using a car despite the fuel price. 3k each day i use the car.

Thanks for the advice.

clockwisereport:
Why are you making it a public service announcement.

Go to the market and buy it ASAP

Mr instructor come and help me remove the announcement.

Let's persevere for a while. I have a dream that Nigeria shall be great. Due to the current price of fuel, I have decided to get a bicycle.

How many black men does this to their wives? He deserves some accolade.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXdEqOt0c8c

😂🤣🤣

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dealer10:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GSU43ylia0Q

It will be wise to prioritize the character, values, and compatibility of a potential partner over their religious affiliation or level of devotion. Lukewarm Christians may grow in their devotion over time but attempting to change someone's behaviour or personality might seem difficult or impossible.

This story deeply moved me and reminded me of how fortunate I am to have avoided a similar situation. Stories like this should serve as a powerful reminder to single ladies. No matter how kind and accommodating you may be you cannot always appease or change someone with a negative personality or character. Faithfulness should not be the only trait you are looking for in your potential partner because faithfulness alone cannot sustain a marriage. The very same individuals who are encouraging you to ignore the obvious red flags you are currently noticing in your partner while you are still dating will undoubtedly emphasize, after marriage, that according to Biblical teachings, marriage is intended to endure for a lifetime. They will ask you to learn how to cope and endure your marriage, regardless of the challenges you might be facing.