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Amumaigwe:
You came from a broken or at best a loveless and dysfunctional home. Your first statement gave you away. Just make sure the baggages your mother's attitude has successfully hung around your neck do not pull your own marriage down.

Reading comments from some folks here, I now appreciate the extent of healing the family system needs. Where is love, submission, sacrifice, tolerance etc that used to be the hallmark of marriages. Why wouldn't the type of families we have these days be the breeding place of criminals that are now everywhere defrauding people and doing all kinds of money rituals.

Please, don’t deceive yourself. Healing and forgiveness does not work in a vacuum. It starts with TRUTH and GENUINE conversation. Real repentance and transparency is void in this man. What is marriage by the way? It’s a covenant built in love, truth and transparency. These are decent attributes this man lacks. If I were this woman, I will think smart and wise, if I still need to be in this marriage. A lot of people are in jail they call marriage just because society expects them tied to it.
I am happily married and I won’t treat my wife like that. I live in the states, women are wiser and can’t be used as doormats. As a Christian, my heart bleeds when I see someone, using outdated tradition and customs to devalue another. Jesus never told us to do that. Jesus never took from others for self gain. He always gave.

Ladies, please use you number 6. God gave you the topmost part of your bodily system for a reason!

ashjay001:
Shebi he has walked away, unlike ur person of a dad! Who sat there n continued d fraud!

Free d nigga joor n stop comparing him to ur dad!

Did ur dad, pay for his parent's treatment, I'm sure ur mom did.

Did ur dad even attempt to build anything for his parents?

Even his wife agreed, he was a good man, unlike d trash u're trying to compare him with!

Don't point out ur dad's house and with ur left hand, if u can't bear d consequences

As bad, in this regard, I portrayed my dad, he is a million times better than this seeming and obvious woman usurper of a man. Despite been caught, he never abandoned his family.

Tell your “man” to go get a home and take care of his family. In the word of Doctor Damages, “Nonesense”!

mark2sunny:
Your bad experience can't be used to evaluate all men. He doesn't need to prove anything to you. She even affirmed her husband is a good man. And who told you he wouldn't have built a house all by himself if he wanted by now. The cost of running some homes in 3 years alone can build a house. Your parents experience is not same with this.

Hahahaha, my “bad experience” is the norm in that country you live. The fact that he had the audacity to ask her to leave is proof of his goofiness. If he doesn’t have anything to prove, why is he in rebuttal here?

Please, let him prove his love by being a man. The Bible said a man should take care of his own household. He is a trickster. I know his type. I am married, I have not asked my wife for a dime but a house. Did she tell you she isn’t helping in taking care of the house too?

Why on earth will he even think of asking her to LEAVE the House? Check that out.

My response to the husband post.

Woman be WISE!


Mr. Man, you are very deceptive. I won’t buy your lies. I know the game you were playing on your woman. My dad did play that same game on my mother, until she wised-up.

You used your part to take care of your dad and used the rest to build a home for your parent and still expect to be treated as co equal in the real estate? Others can lie to you to inflate your ego, I won’t. You did tell her to leave the house, mistake number one. We wouldn’t be talking about this this way today, if she was dumb and stupid not to have used her name. The lady would be on the street today with no where to go. You’re here telling us it was a joke. Stop lying. I believe you have an affair. You want to push her out, bring in another lady and treat her like a fool.

She was wise and thank God for that. My dad did the same thing to my mother. He will use her cars, trash them and still push her out. She built a house, he drove her out, sold the house and messed her up. Finally, she got some common sense, built another house and gave me the documents as her first son. That he couldn’t take. My dad was like take my mums money, squandered them on the other woman and still come to trash her.

Ladies, please be wise! Imagine he saying she should change the documents to his name ONLY. Thief. Ole. Be a man, go build a house, bring them all in there. Let her rent her house for investment purposes. The true test of your love for her is to do this and prove to her, your kids and US that you truly love your FAMILY!

Don’t deceive this man to deceive the wife. God is watching you all!
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Mr. Man, you are very deceptive. I won’t buy your lies. I know the game you were playing on your woman. My dad did play that same game on my mother, until she wised-up.

You used your part to take care of your dad and used the rest to build a home for your parent and still expect to be treated as co equal in the real estate? Others can lie to you to inflate your ego, I won’t. You did tell her to leave the house, mistake number one. We wouldn’t be talking about this this way today, if she was dumb and stupid not to have used her name. The lady would be on the street today with no where to go. You’re here telling us it was a joke. Stop lying. I believe you have an affair. You want to push her out, bring in another lady and treat her like a fool.

She was wise and thank God for that. My dad did the same thing to my mother. He will use her cars, trash them and still push her out. She built a house, he drove her out, sold the house and messed her up. Finally, she got some common sense, built another house and gave me the documents as her first son. That he couldn’t take. My dad was like take my mums money, squandered them on the other woman and still come to trash her.

Ladies, please be wise! Imagine he saying she should change the documents to his name ONLY. Thief. Ole. Be a man, go build a house, bring them all in there. Let her rent her house for investment purposes. The true test of your love for her is to do this and prove to her, your kids and US that you truly love your FAMILY!

Don’t deceive this man to deceive the wife. God is watching you all!

Am I expected to pay tithe and offering in a church with my pastor this dressed? He should return that shirt an use the money to help the poor...none sense!

A pastor wearing a $650 sweatshirt to preach in a country labeled as the poorest with minimum wage of N18,000. These gullible “Christians” MUST open their eyes. My Jesus is not represented like this.

Sahara Reporter did not do the video. They only copied and edited from Worship Media of Chidi, the Canadian Nigerian pastor who was helpful to Stephanie Orono when the issue started. Get your facts straight.

If Nigeria is fair and just, Suleiman and the rest who hide behind the pulpit, would have had similar experience.

Let him who name the name of the Lord depart from iniquity.

It's sickening how Nigerian pastors & priests has lost it. Mala is seeking attention...focus on your ministry if you can't speak unbiased.
What's the Catholic Church doing to curb his excesses?

Post election poll result...

curechris:
He just stated the obvious...they were outsmarted
(still dont know why CNN is always all negative about trump smh)

As much as I subscribe to independent national sovereignty, Assad has no business remaining in power...he shouldn't be supported by Putin. He has lost presidential moral over Syria.

I don't support ISSIS, but Putin should let the Syrians decide who rules them....if the don't want Assad, so let it be.

CNN was pro TRUMP when he was winning the primaries but not now?

SirJeffry:
I may have a US passport but I'm still proud to be an African. Please don't insult my heritage. I wish you know how it hurts some sensible blacks here for not knowing their roots.

Be frank and not be unrealistic...we have coups in Africa, political opponents going to war...because we disregard electoral dictates. we all vividly remember the threat from the current president of Nigeria during the last election of what will happen if he doesn't win the election...

I am a proud Nigerian but will call a spade a spade...Africa still have a long way to go in democratic process.

Today, GEJ is classified the face of democratic transition because he accepted the result of the last election.

A prospective US president praising Putin is absurd... A man who doesn't pay taxes is not fit for presidency.

SirJeffry:
if you are Trup, will you have accepted upfront what you haven't seen considering how things are unfolding on daily basis?

This is the US, not some "undemocratic" African country that goes against democratic verdicts.

If you loose election, accept the result and not throw tantrums.

SirJeffry:
Saying Hillary won this debate is being dishonest. Hillary lies so good because she has been in the system for so long and Trump still doesn't understand the job he is trying to take up. I want the best for the country since I'm a beneficiary but these two guys don't give me what I want.

I will vote Trump simply because of his VP, Pence.

Just last week, Pence was backing out on your "pussy-grabbing" TRUMP.

SirJeffry:
Saying Hillary won this debate is being dishonest. Hillary lies so good because she has been in the system for so long and Trump still doesn't understand the job he is trying to take up. I want the best for the country since I'm a beneficiary but these two guys don't give me what I want.

I will vote Trump simply because of his VP, Pence.

TRUMP is inexperience in politics. He will bankrupt the nation like he has done to his failed businesses.

A man who gropes women is not fit to lead me....period.

Why will TRUMP not commit to accepting election result? That doesn't represent the tenets of democracy.

Secretary Clinton...well composed, detailed and focus. She won my vote!

Donald Trump's tax policy is unpractical in economics terms.

I had this dream twice tonight. Seemed very real and couldn't sleep thereafter. I had to explain to my "white" wife what genocide looks look with the movie, The Yellow Sun. After which we prayed for Nigeria. I felt compelled to share.

I saw myself hovering like a drone over Lagos in these dream. At certain parts in Lagos, I saw people gathered and hatching plans with one intent: KILL THE IGBOS. I felt the emotion and evil in their secret conversation. They started calling friends and families in different parts of Lagos to do likewise.

All of a sudden, it started...in Satellite Town, spreading into Festac and different parts of Lagos. The Yorubas and Hausas took to arms and started killing the Igbos. It was a free for all killing spree. People were running into their houses, a bad choices of refuge because they were breaking into houses, pulling Igbos out and killing them.

I noticed that it wasn't just Igbos that we're been killed, any one from the South South were also attacked. I started screaming at those running into their homes for safety not to, but for unknown reasons couldn't hear me.

I am from Niger Delta...not Igbo. I live in the diaspora but have family members in Lagos and across Nigeria. My heart aches from the sight of what I saw this morning(16th of September, 2016).

As a Christian, I believe God speaks to His people through dream. I beseech all well meaning & loving Nigerians to pray against another civil war and genocide. Don't let the politicians peg us against each other. All lives matter!

makahlj2:
Blasphemy!!! God is all-powerful.

It's hilarious...fun to read.

Hillary Clinton’s lawyers used a special tool to delete emails from her personal server so that “even God can’t read them,” House Select Committee on Benghazi Chairman Trey Gowdy said on Thursday.

Gowdy (R-S.C.) said the use of BleachBit, computer software whose website advertises that it can “prevent recovery” of files, is further proof that Clinton had something to hide in deleting personal emails from the private email system she used during her tenure as secretary of state.

Clinton has long said that the deleted emails were all of a personal nature, relating largely to yoga and her daughter’s wedding, but Gowdy said he did not know whether the Democratic nominee considered emails pertaining to the Clinton Foundation to be personal. It’s a question he said he hopes reporters ask Clinton the next chance they get.

“She and her lawyers had those emails deleted. And they didn’t just push the delete button; they had them deleted where even God can’t read them,” Gowdy said Thursday morning during an interview on Fox News’ “America’s Newsroom.” “They were using something called BleachBit. You don’t use BleachBit for yoga emails or bridemaids emails. When you’re using BleachBit, it is something you really do not want the world to see.”
The South Carolina congressman said Clinton’s previous statements, chiefly her disproved statement that she did not send or receive classified information on her private server, should inform whether or not the public believes her when she says Clinton Foundation donors were never granted special treatment by her State Department.

Presented with audio from a Wednesday-night Clinton interview on CNN in which she said “there is a lot of smoke and there’s no fire,” Gowdy scoffed.
“It's arson. It's pyromania. It's not smoke. Even listening to her talk about the Clinton Foundation, I couldn't help but go back and remember the press conference she gave on her emails where every single thing she said proved to be false,” he said. “That’s the interesting thing about credibility and believability: You can't just keep it in one compartment. When you are a habitual, serial liar in this facet of life, it tends to make people not believe you in other facets of life. So when she’s talking about the Clinton Foundation, I go back and remember her saying there’s no classified information, I only used one device, I did it for convenience. All of which were proven to be false.”

On its website, BleachBit touted the mention from Gowdy in an orange box on its homepage, misquoting the congressman slightly as it sought to take advantage of the free media attention: "South Carolina Rep. Trey Gowdy says Hillary Clinton deleted emails 'so even God couldn't read them' using Bleach bit

http://www.politico.com/story/2016/08/hillary-clinton-emails-bleachbit-227425

Bold and grand statements from a fearless leader. APC's scam will turn around to hurt them. There was never a kidnapping...

He must be tried and incarcerated for this crime and many more against Rivers state and the people of SS!

NIGERIA

2 Cows... First Cow= North, Second Cow= South

First cow is thin, not productive.
Second cow is fat, over-productive.

At the central govt, you kill the fat cow, to feed the whole country, the thin cow gets the fattest part of the fat cow and the south is left hungry!

Describe the Nigerian economy in your words using the two cow hypothesis.

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Hilarious description of global economics! Please help with Nigerian!