Bi Polar disease!
Get help ASAP!!!!

Hmmmmmmm!!!!
Na wah!!!!
This Stella Oduah don suffer!
Kia!!!!!

The ugly imp get shame?

lorretta u: OP that's the Nigerian mentality for you.
Some women would rather die in the marriage than try to save their necks if need be.
Everybody knows marriage is a wonderful thing.
But when it's so bad that there is no respite in sight and maybe it's even bad to the point of one's life being in danger,won't the sensible thing be a divorce?
Kai I said something like that in one of my threads and it wasn't funny
See attacks on moi. Dem wan kill me with insult.
Most were of the mindset that even if your husband is punching you to death,stay there and keep [b]PRAYING[/b]for him to change(while waiting for your death) hehehe.
Naija I hail.

PS abum nwafor naijiria (I'm a nigerian born n bred n living in nigeria)
Gotta say The truth tho.

Are you sure you REALLY got married less than a month ago?
Or are you married to NL like MOST OF US?
Just saying. . . . .HOPE YOU AIN'T ONE OF DEM FLAKY-FOLAKES ON THIS THREAD and all over NL?
You are one strrrrrrrange 'newly-wed'! Even by "EBAY marriage standards"!
Abi you wanna spend ya honey moon on NL too?
Beware! You sef go soon smell DIVORCE!

* hope those pics are really yours. i smmmmell 419. just a huanch *

Nigerian women don suffer for politics.
Chai!!!!!!

Nigerian MEN are Sooooooooo JEALOUS of successful NIGERIAN WOMEN!
FFK IS SOOOOOOOO JEALOUS OF STELLA, because he is a BORN LIVING-DEAD FAILURE!!!!

This is pathetic!

Depends on the country of residence!
Consult an attorney.
Simple!

Odenigbo Aroli:

You be wild girl oooo.

AU CONTRAIRE!

He needs to act like a man nor!
CONFRONT HER WITH THE EXHIBIT. . . . . Then go from there!
Simple!!!!

As much as the realities may hurt, I would seize the opportunity to have some fun at her expense too!
Not revenge.
Just continue to KILL HER WITH KINDNESS.
The DEVIL I KNOW. . . . . .

Stale news!
Abeg bring new wan Na!

Congrats MAMA EJIME!!!!
I see the PISSSSHURES are from abroad!
No more BABY FARMS!
Chukwu a LU KA!!!!!

I hope this is not a new 419 trend on NL o?
Posting other people's wedding pics lifted magazines?

Oh yes o!
And we WORK TOO!!!!
UP UP WOMEN!!!!

Sounds like an ETHNIC problem.
No solution.
Sorry.u

Hmmmmmmmm!
It take ALL SORTS!

Hmmmmmmm!

ikamefa: hahahahaahaha " "
militia aka Lansinoh is now kanwulia?
i wonder what she has metamorphosed into these days " ,

^{awon ashewo Lancaster to Edinburgh to Manchester to Texas to Atlanta to Salone .
Phocking from Dubai to rondon to Brookyn. Teeeee heeeeee! " "}

Are you mad?
If you don't have anything to write about the topic. . .
You need to keep your nasty fingers in your azzze.
Abi you don taya to use ya own TOTO phock all over NL with different ID's?
Rabid E-COWARD aka "ske leeeeeEWUUUUU di ka gi!

What is my businese with this ijjjiot?

lady gogo:


you are right Kanwulia. They keep living in denial and their ego wont let them go back and beg their wives. Is it when you are in your 40's and 50's that you will want to start chatting a girl up in a club and you wont be looked at like some Grand daddy?

Tell me which man you know that has NEVER REGRETTED LEAVING HIS FIRST WIFE?
They will be doing 'GUY YO YO' and be dying silently inside.
WOMEN DIE ON THE OUTSIDE, on the other hand.
We all know the truth abi?

Not my portion o! I do NOT WISH TO REPEAT THE MISTAKE OF ANY PERSON . . . PARENTS INCLUDED!!!!. . . .I WILL LIVE THIS LIFE WELL WELL!

See awon 'DINO' THE BINGO!

*abeg, make i nor hijack this sweeeeeeeet topic jare. . . off to work. . .I AM IN CHARGE today and must be there early to WARD OFF ALL EVIL SPIRITS FROM MY OFFICE*

*logs off*

Song of the day!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vx2u5uUu3DE

Chillisauce: Divorce is painful, so it's life. But we must move on. God bless his soul @ kanwulia, even though you don't believe in God.

I learn to live life as it comes, be strong and keep moving.
I will be the last person you will see talking about ppl behind their back. I feel it's time wasted, same also listening to their biles.

OP, pls remain focus. Keep smiling . And you live long

Oh wella!
Amen. . .
If them cuss you. . .you cuss dem back na.
SHIOOOR
Which wan be toking behind the back. . . .?
For cowards of course!

DIVORCE IS A REALITY IN NIGERIA. . . . AND IN LIFE. . . .It is either you deal POSITIVELY with it LIKE MY DARLING MOM DID. . . SHE CAME OUT THE WINNER ON ALL GROUNDS. . . .A REAL SURVIVOR!!!!!. . . .
Or you die miserable. . . FOR CARRYING MARRIAGE ON YOUR NECK LIKE A CROSS AND LIVING LIKE A HYPOCRITE OF A CHRISTIAN. . . . .like my darling father did! He never got over my MOM! NEVER!!!! NEVER RE-MARRIED. . . MY MOM MOVED ON AND REMARRIED OF COURSE! SHE DON WAKA TEY TEY NOR EVEN LOOK BACK!!!!. . . . . .

I have learned one thing from it all. . .LIVE YOUR LIFE. . . and LET THEM SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSAY!!!!!




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UV66yzpNfCI

*time for the gym jare. . .then off to work. . . .then 4 days off and time to play with the husband. . .ATLANTA HERE I COME AGAIN!!!!! *

Reason I stated nothing personal in your case. . . .BUT PERSONAL in other cases.

I HAVE BEEN DIVORCED AND REMARRIED TOO. . . . .

I had divorced parents. . . it changed my parents. . . and the children too! WE LEARNED A LOT FROM WATCHING BOTH OF THEM. . . . QUITE ENTERTAINING!!!!
My father the single parent. . . HE HAD IT ROUGH! HE DIED FIRST OF COURSE!!! Over 30 year after his divorce. . .HE NEVER REMARRIED. . . AND HE NEVER RECOVERED!!!! HIS CHOICE OF COURSE!!!!
My mother the free parent. . . HAD IT GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD!!!! LIVING REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAL GOOOD!!!!

Men suffer more. . . .TRUST ME. . .NIGERIAN MEN ARE ALWAYS IN DENIAL OF COURSE!!!! Jumping from poohsie to poohsie IS THE ONLY REMEDY FOR THEM!!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nm12hCrKVps



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MK9lzmH7rCw

I LOVE MY MOMMY!
I LOVE MY DADDY!

Dem wahala nor consine moi o!!!!!

WE WERE DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN HAPPY KIDS!

pslm23:

alright dear... i understand! by the way i love your afro in your profile pic! Time for me to hit the sack. Feels good to be back on NL!!!! g'nite all

Thank you. . . AND I ABSOLUTELY LOOOOOOOOOOOVE YOUR SMILE. You look peaceful! Nitey.
Great topic.
Thanks.

pslm23:

....pray tell, what has that got to do with my current post?

Like I stated earlier. . .NOTHING PERSONAL.
I only quoted you to show what goes on in the minds of divorced people in general. . .NOT JUST WOMEN.
Nigerian men are always in denial of course.
Most of the time, DIVORCED people do not know they wear HALOS OF MISERY.
The reason I stated you may not be in the best position to evaluate yourself!
It can only take people around you to REALLY tell you how you act and make them feel because you are still CARRYING the burden of hurt inside you. . . . .the hurt of failure and defeat. . . symbolized by DIVORCE in the Nigerian context!

Of course, no one gives a damn in civilized countries.
But, we are talking NIGERIA and NIGERIANS here. . .
A different ballgame!

https://www.nairaland.com/1043889/life-woman-after-divorce/8

Did you not write this too?

pslm23: Hello everybody! Wow! it sure has been ages since my last post here.

By God's grace I am doing well, getting stronger emotionally as each day goes by. I have my good days and bad days but thank God the good days are more than the bad ones!

My divorce was final on Oct. 31st, my ex got engaged to someone else, Nov. 21st


I have decided to leave the United States for good and return back to Nigeria in 3 months! There is nothing left in the US for me! I've come, seen, lived loved and suffered and now it's time to go back home!

To everybody that reached out to me in my time of turmoil, thank you! To everybody that advised me, thank you. To those who criticized me, thank you; your criticisms actually helped me take a deeper look at myself.
I got a lot of love and prayers on this forum and I thank you all from the bottom of my heart!
As for my journey to have a child, all i can say is this, as the sun rises and sets, my heart desire to be a mother will surely be a reality!
Much love!

I appreciate your honesty. . . nothing wrong with hurting and moving on. It is a reality in life.
This is not a personal thing for me. DIVORCED MEN ARE NO BETTER.
Divorce damages the MATERIAL AND SPIRITUAL PSYCHES OF PEOPLE IN GENERAL. . .Nigerians take it EVEN HARDER BECAUSE OF THEIR HYPOCRITICAL WAYS OF LIVES . . .and lack of the sense of individuality.

I personally know a lot of divorced NIGERIAN men and women. . . I AVOID THEM FOR GOOD REASONS! I do not want to deal with what they have become after the ALMIGHTY MARRIAGE has ended. . . .It can be VERY uncomfortable to have to deal with people who DO NOT EVEN REALIZE they are having EMOTIONAL HANGOVERS. . . . .!

Nothing personal. . . JUST THE FACTS!

pslm23:

I'm not "beetchy" neither am i miserable and meeeeeeeeaaaaaaaan-spirited. I don't get reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal jealous of other women. I don't avoid them either...and that's because i know better and common sense prevails

That is why I generalized. . .with a few exceptions of course!
Let other people be the judge of that!
Abi do you want to 'evaluate' yourself online when we do not know you personally. . . PERSONA PERSONALLY!

*wetin you for tok before*?

Because. . . the divorced women keep looking to SNATCH other MARRIED women's husbands, since they have been DEMOTED in rank. . . .to the 'SINGLE 'OL CARGO'-group-of-horrrrny-beeetchez-who-can't-find-and-keep-men-NIGERIAN/AFRICAN-PLC!

Have you seen ANY divorced NIGERIAN WOMAN that ain't 'beetchy'?
Boy! They become miserable and MEEEEEEEEAAAAAAN-spirited after the divorce.

THEY GET REAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL JEALOUS OF OTHER WOMEN WHO HAVE MANAGED TO STAY MARRIED. . . happily or UNHAPPILY EVER AFTER!

I AVOID THEM!

I also AVOID DIVORCED MEN TOO! THEY ARE EVEN WORSE PSYCHOS! Nigeria is a society where people CARRY MARRIAGE ON THEIR NECKS LIKE CROSSES TO DIE IN CALVARY. . . .So, divorce becomes the equivalent of THE MARK OF CAIN. . . .FOR BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. . . . who become EMOTIONAL ZOMBIES!!!!!

Yes! I am GENERALIZING. . . . ! Divorced people are SAD people!!!!

Kpor!
Kpor!
Kpor!

Ooooooo dey 'ouse?
I don wake o!

U WA YA BOTA!!!!

Shebi dem day GEJ create 10billion jobs in 2013?
She miss the 'job fair'?
O ti o!

*time for work HALLE HALLE HALLE. . . .HALLELUJAH*

****unfollowing all topics. . . .logs off and sanitizes computer with anti bacteria/virus software****

Hmmmmm!
The dangers of 'face-me-I-face' you one bedroom, multi-family homes.
Poor boy. . .poor girl!

Parenting skills gone NEGATIVELY AGOG!

Hmmm!
I am sure the PAPA is a NAIRALANDER. . .
For sure!