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Invasion of privacy... Why would she take a pics of someone without their consent just to trend?
Wetin consign her if the guy undies tear, is it her undies?

Oldiesgoodies:
Hello, did you attend this interview?

Good morning.. No, I didn't. Got an invite?

Larryfest:
Haha....what happened to her teachers if my kid comes back home with this kind of injuries then the teachers must also be in coma for me not to descend on them.

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Larryfest:
Haha....what happened to her teachers if my kid comes back home with this kind of injuries then the teachers must also be in coma for me not to descend on them.

You are being kind sef.. After leaving the teacher, proprietor and the staffs in stitches.. The school will be permanently shut down.. Mess with me, I won't raise the dust nor make any sound but touch my child and watch your life been sipped outta you gradually and painfully.
All this careless parents sef Since Wed and no action has been taken concerning the school..

Op are you okay atall? Someone almost gulped your savings and you are still begging her? Wonderful!! TBH you lied which isn't appropriate but begging continuously like your life depends on it and still spends heavily on her is not love but stupidity.
You better give yourself brain sha

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Here to read comments and learn too..

truthsayer009:
Ma'am thank you for your kind words, thats the reason all my male friends don't pass their boundary. Once I tell you, Peter this is my Bae, my real bae, not those girls that come for quick knacks, No. Once said, they respect it immediately, infact they even CANNOT even bring up gossips like "Oh I saw your GF yesterday bla bla bla", there is a boundary.

A girl I was once dying for had told me 4 years ago, She liked my best friend better cause he was taller & cuter. Honestly I felt it . My friend noticed I liked her, He just shunned her honestly. Even though she was already willing to go & sleep over at his place for the weekend with no remorse of what It might do to our friendship. He blocked her number, infact it was later I knew she wanted to come to his house. till today none of us talk to that girl ever.

So which kain friends that Guy dey keep, Omo my friends no fir try that rubbish, I go kill them. Live & Direct. They know!

Lol.. Abeg go kill anybody oh. Na beg I dey beg you. No one is worth killing someone for

truthsayer009:
Omo mehn, if I catch that Best friend.I go kill am straight up! No excuse, na death by Suicide I go do sef.

Hang him, then put a note with his hand writing. God punish Devil. Mtchew!!!

No need killing someone who's already dead.. For a best friend to betray you in that manner simply means that he or she is already dead to you and their conscience isn't exempted too(dead too) so the best you could do is to let go, move on and thank God for dodging a ticking time bomb straight from hell.

I really don't know how to cook but I'm willing to learn

DanDeeBoss:
Haba!!! Queen of England... Naso you wicked reach??

Na you teach me na

DanDeeBoss:
No please... Allow me to leave in peace and get another lady

Mbanu.. That's Impossicant!
We die here... I no dey remain food for person I dey like chop and wash all my plates and pots clean
Iffa leave you now, you fit come back come claim the throne so e better say you allow mee strangle you in peace bikonu

hoodedjaystrim:
You think she gives a Fvck

if op like he should continue mumuing until his account balance starts showing negative sign

Lol... Aswear you are not nice at all.

DanDeeBoss:
You wanna strangle your Husband??

Lol.. No be new thing nau.. Abi na today women start to dey strangle their husbands ni? I want to rule England in peace so if strangling you will pave way for me, Wetin con remain if not to strangle you in peace?

Nickijoy:
They are playing each other.. abi no be inside the five years he get two children or at least one.. sis abeg leave them jare..

This kain play don comot for joromi sha.. They should continue with the deceit. All the best to them, nothing consign us

hoodedjaystrim:
because she is smart

Smart at the detriment of someone who genuinely loves her?
Anyways Wetin consign me, Op should try and move on.. Better days ahead

DanDeeBoss:
You wanna strangle me?? What are you feeling like now?? .....

Queen of England

DanDeeBoss:
No let me slap You

Say Wetin I do? Abi I steal ya meat ni?

hoodedjaystrim:
Ok he fell in love
But in his attempt to make her love him back he went the money spending way forgetting money is not ever present

It's all his fault and the lady is not to blame at all

You are not helping matters nau.. Be kind with words Mbok.
Truly money ain't everything but why would she lead him on like that?

hoodedjaystrim:
He is a victim of day light robbery

This isn't love cause I know love

Robbery keh... Impossicant!
Even at that, I still feel sorry for the situation he found himself in.. It's not funny to be played by someone you love

hoodedjaystrim:
You know what's funny

Claiming to be grown up and still letting someone play on your emotions like ping pong

Not everyone is as strong hearted as you
I understand how the Op feels, he loved with everything yet he got nothing but pain and misery in the end.
It's really painful.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The man is actually my relative so I can't rat on him

I understand babe

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Kick against her staying if u can't control yourself... . That was how one stupid woman I know will leave her home to go for early morning fellowship, leaving her husband and fine fair sister. I caught the fools redhanded but pretended as if I never saw anything.

Na Dem sabi Sha.

Chai.. Babe why didn't you tell the wife na? How can one man be eating Egusi and oha soup graciously without disturbance

Omoge87:
I am sorry this happened to you, but in the same vein you should be happy and thankful to God. Sometimes man's/woman's rejection is God's protection. Love should never be based on what one has or what one can do for someone, those things are just benefits of the relationship. Hence marital vows state for 'Better or for Worse' and 'in sickness and in health'. Nobody knows tomorrow, but she has shown you if a time comes and your tomorrow is sour she will leave you. Today you have a job, tomorrow one can be made redundant. Today someone has two legs and is walking about able-bodied, tomorrow that same person may be involved in a car accident and loose their two legs, paralysed and stuck to a wheel chair for life... Just know that she would have left you. It is not bad for her to want to marry a super rich man ... she is allowed to want what she wants ... but she should not put someone else down in the process. She has show you her true colours. What you do with what she has shown you is your prerogative.

Please thank God for what he has released you from. Find somebody that loves you not because of what you have, but simply because of who you are. In the mean time just work on yourself. As people have said the best consolation to yourself is working hard and becoming a man of substance. I just pray when you do and she comes back begging you don't take her back as you have done in the past.

She never loved you. No situation is permenant unless you make it that way. You had funds before... so far you continue to work hard and hustle the funds will come .... don't let this girl get to you. Words are powerful, for every negative thing she has said... just reject it and speak positive things into your life...

Unfortunatley her greed may get her into the wrong hands....She will soon find that people go for character over beauty ...hence why many beautiful girls are very much single, whilst the so called 'ugly' girls are very much married... Just let her be.

.... You too in future learn from this mistake to be paying for school fees of girlfriend up and down is just silly - I mean where are her parents/family members. You have better use of the money...like siblings, parents you could have invested the money in... business ventures... I mean you bought her 1 phone, then went to buy her another phone... till she now collected phone from another guy... and you feel you can marry someone like that?What is she collecting all the phones for ?

Aside from beauty - did she add anything to your life - aside from her vagina - what else did she add to you? The relationship seems from your account as though it was one-sided. You give she takes. You are lamenting over someone who insulted your parents - so if she was going to marry you she has insulted her potential in-laws? Abeg. Chin up and keep it moving. Soldier on...

Please let her go and be thankful to God from what he has brought you out off. She is someone else headache now. Your days of taking paracetamol are since over. Abeg...

Take care of yourself

Well said dear!!

hoodedjaystrim:
Go and make money and stop wailing on Nairaland

She gave you uppercut though

It's not funny bro.
Op you've got to prove her wrong, the best revenge in life is to be successful.

Pathetic Why would he deny her like that? Any man that openly denies the woman he has been with for years is just leading her on. Chioma should learn from her man's outburst.
Dude is just playing papangolo with her future

is that lady alright atall? Why would a man hit a lady?
Well I don't blame you, that you are stubborn doesn't mean others are stubborn as well.

EdoBozz:
Hell no... I no dey love like that ooo. My love dey see road wella.

Bros love is blind jare.. Why e be say na only Your Own dey see road? It simply means say no be true true love be that.
Meanwhile, the lady no try atall. She knew all along that that she's already engaged to be married, why lead someone else on?
The dude should move on, better things/babes ahead.
No one is worth dying for. He should forgive and move on.

Roland17:
At some point, when Andre becomes a young man and irrespective of how Tonto raises him now, he will look for Churchill because he needs answers to some personal questions that may bring closure. How Churchill handles the situation at that time would determine the relationship between him and Andre going forward.

This scenario is inevitable and there is nothing Tonto or anyone for that matter can do about it when the time comes!!!

You're definitely right (that is if the mom haven't poisoned his mind against his father before the meeting takes place)

Twitter and their staged chats/stories are like 5&6

Capensis:
Are you married?

What does being married got to do with the topic?

Capensis:
Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to day, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving your pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

You think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.

Bros ayam not understanding you oh , do you want to finally turn him into a modern slave to the wife. I don't see anything wrong if the wife supports the home afterall he has been the one shouldering the whole responsibilities when he was working. Giving the school his number to call and embarrass him is totally uncalled for and humiliating.
Op, you saw all the red flags yet you choose to ignore them, na you shoot yourself for leg na
Deed has been done, kindly leave home for a while (get an apartment and enjoy peace of mind, still do the best you can for your family) Or better still file for annulment.
PS: if you can't stand/take the heat.. Get out of the kitchen!
Marriage doesn't guarantee happiness or peace of mind..