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OKOATA:
me and that BF met in sec school, went to the same UNI, lived in the same house and knows my family. We shared things together. I have moved on. I never let an heart break hurt me no more.

Hmmmm.. This is deep.
Was actually telling my aunt this evening that it's someone who knows you that can actually kill you without flinching(this saying depicts what your bf just did to you)
I'm glad you've moved on.. There's no need holding unto those that ain't worth it.

OKOATA:
This your story is very deep O. Who knows maybe the remaining children isn't even for your brother. I am sure that if you tell your brother he will be skeptical about the remaining children. I fear marriage like hell. Last year my best friend had sex with my GF. When I found out I took a lot of MJ and moved on. Bro telling your brother might cause him a nervous breakdown. Someone who's a drunkard and a womanizer, he might try to commit suicide or even harm you. See a priest or an elderly person in the family. Commit your ways to God and for those guys we too de trust woman una see Naija Women So. God help us.

He was never your best friend.. Best friends would never intentionally hurt those they love or care about. Your ex and the so-called best friend has been hitting the jackpot without your knowledge. Sorry about that though, you will do just fine!
@Op, go with an elderly person to seek forgiveness from your brother, if not for anything but for your peace of mind. Explain things to him, he would definitely understand why you couldn't open up to him all those years.

Op it af do nau.. What do you gain in attacking ladies laidis

this is really disheartening
A lady and a Corper for that matter

Please let's help her if we are blessed with the means to do so..
She has proven that she is real.

Saffi:
who wants to chop the same prick for the rest of their lives? I cannot comman die

You don't mean it

harrisonford001:
Ah! That's Precious my girlfriend o! Women are wicked chai! But how I fit fight soldier man oo? Naira lander volunteers please ?

Sorry bro, the serious and ready one has colonized her already.
No need fighting a lost battle

Congratulations to them .
But I can't think of settling down with any force man, fear no go let me see road
Kudos to the lady though

DateMynd44:
what makes u think apelike1 is miserable or do u think everyone u see on nairaland is as poor and useless as u?
Broke and frustrated hoe u better not quote me back or mention me cos I won't dignify ur stupidity with a further reply

Lolzzzz.. Look at them!

apelike1:
by there words you shall know them!

This one has already changed her middle name to "miserable" and her last name to "frustration"

Well! You are already ripping what you sow! Since the seed you plants is your dirty nyash! I will advise you to stay strong but don't expect any good things to come your way!

Two bunch of idiots displaying their stupidity for the world to see.
Please you both should continue entertaining me, it sure looks good on you two.
Umu eberibe

apelike1:
look at them
Daughter of Jezebel! Always trying to justify there wrong doing!

You are fornicating and engaging in sin but yet want the best things in Life!

Your types achieve nothing meaningful in life! Keep living in your mental paradise

I'm not the cause of your frustration.. The likes of you are the reason weak minded people commits suicide.
So in your dictionary.. Everyone is perfect right? I can you that's living the best life already, even AIT, CNN etc are announcing your achievements so far. You are without sin yet your life is as miserable as that of a church rat. I weep for your dead soul.
Keep condemning others Mr sanctimonious being!

apelike1:
just look at this one
"Your kinda man will definitely waltz into your life"
When she is busy fvvcking some other dude!

Let me tell you the truth! She and her kinds deserve nothing better in life because she has already give her destiny away!

You think you can runaway from karma?

Laughing in Spanish

Be laughing at your stupidity.
Oh because she made a mistake of sleeping with an irresponsible being makes her undesirable or what? Why blame her for a sin committed mutually by two people? Or did she sleep with herself? How was she to know that the idiot was nothing but a fvckboy?
You that is sooo righteous, why not be the first to cast the stone.
Mind you if your blood can't wash away her sin then you have no bleeping right to judge her.
Despite whatever decisions or mistakes she has made, she deserves every bit of happiness and a man who will really see her worth.
Now, if you ain't cool with my comment.. Kindly locate the nearest transformer and hug it.
Thank you!

[quote author=Cathyblinks post=75846878][/quote]You are welcome Check your mail.

Relax babe.. Your kinda man will definitely waltz into your life sooner than you expect but before then try to go out and enjoy bliss and peace of mind by yourself. Getting a job should top your list now, your destined man will come along.
NOTE: there's no manual in keeping a man. Just love yourself and keep a neutral mind when it comes to relationships

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Congratulations son.. You did your villagers proud

Derea:
You have great wisdom.

I'll give an example of my sister who got married at age 26. After giving birth to her first child, she travelled alone to the U.S. She came back to Nigeria before the expiration of her visa. Then she travelled again, but this time, and unknown to her husband, she had other plans- to live in the U.S as an illegal immigrant.

When she left, she was pregnant.

In my opinion, she had it all planned out. My question always has been: what kind of wife and mother gives up husband and child for a better life in a developed country. Her son was traumatized for the first few years she left, he was barely 2 at the time, but thankfully, 6 years later, he's grown out of it, plus she keeps in touch and ensures he doesn't lack a thing.

However, she and her husband have since broken up and she couldn't possibly care less.

Though I staunchly condemn my sister's methods, I should not blame her entirely unless I want to be sentimental. The same society that condemns her for what she did is the same that would shame her if she wasn't married as I'm typing this.

What if that was her only chance at marriage and having children? In my opinion, my sister played smart and life favors only smart people while the rest of us are shamed for being innocent and naive.

These past but recent experiences have taught me that it's better to have been married than not to be married at all. A friend recently called, we hadn't spoken in a looong while. When he realized I wasn't married, he exclaimed, "a pretty girl like you! Are you sure you're not the problem?". Imagine!

In spite of my sister's shortcomings and failed marriage, my mum still rates her far better than I because of her achievements like children and some money. While, I, on the other hand, a "failure".

Mum will often tell me how I'm no longer beautiful. She would tactically tell me how other people think so too.

For example, on this particular day, I went to her office briefly. On getting home that night, she told me about how her colleagues marvelled at my looks. But that one of them, who also happens to be my mum's close friend told the others that, "ah it's because you didn't know her before now. If you did, you wouldn't say she is beautiful".

Mum sometimes tells me how she's never happy seeing me around. She's ashamed, I guess, having an older, unmarried woman in her house.

Wouldn't blame her though, most nigerian mothers are seriously traditional. Even worse, I'm not working, though I try not to eat her food. I feed from my little savings, while my dad funds my professional exams.

This is just to make a simple but relevant point that contrary to what Op thinks, any woman who is desperate to get married will get married.

It's well dearie.. That you are not married doesn't mean that you ain't desirable.. Don't let anyone make you feel otherwise (even if it's momsy)

Hidentity:
I fear you.
I overslept, but to be honest, my "church life" lately has been one kind. Pray for a brother.

Lol.. No fear me.. I'm kind but hate when peeps overstep their boundaries.
Did you visit the club last night to warrant you oversleeping? Oya I'm inviting you to my own church

Hidentity:
Hey Lord. Dude was making waves, Miss brought tsunami.

Dude wants to use me to garner likes, had to tell him I'm no match for him
You no go church ni?

rentAcock:
Says the woman squatting in an uncompleted building as seen on her dp.

This is heart attack

Chiziwiz123:
Can we chat on what's app
08158968684

Thanks dude but I'll pass Already have more than enough friends to last me for a lifetime

BIDOO:
Smiles, But In A Case Like This, Replying In Hasty Manner Like This Ain't The Best ! You Should Have Device A More Better Way To Addressed Him And I See Him Apologize For His Wrong Doing! The Guy Actually Misinterprete Your Good Gesture.

trust me, some people needs it hot and the aturu hausa just got what he deserved.go through his comments so far and you will understand

Casan0va:
Because this is Romance/Sexuality section.

really? Didn't realize that.

sonofElElyon:
You deserve same award sis..

Thanchu but which award are you gonna give me?

Ekpono1:
Hey guys. Don't waste your time on this. Google (Admob) will ban you eventually, at most 7days, might even ban you for life . I pity the gullible ones that will end up paying anyone all in the bid to make money through admob with self clicks. Scam is real guys! Save your time and money for something else.

Listen to this guy... Admob will eventually terminate your account after 7days or few days to payment time.. I've done that and it's totally waste of time. You will end up wasting your data and time for nothing. No amount of carefulness will save you once admob target your account so save yourself the stress and look for another means of income.. And if you must do it, configure Firefox and make it your default browser.

Kylekent59:
I was with this beautiful girl with nice appearance. Just discussing normally, the next thing she did was to polute.

Immediately I sensed it, I did the um sound and as I wanted to run from that stand, she held my hand and said,"we must breath this mess finish here."


The smell was very odious and unpleasant with a very bad scent.



I couldn't believe she would do such a thing. Fine girl for that matter.

Chai.. I like that geh already.

BeautifulGuy:
Lol.. Ok, thanks for clarification.

You are welcome

kraayfeesh:
thanks for this piece man!!

body no just b firewood ni, imagine being alone inside the room, big brother don charge and the stage is set only for ur babe to say NO.

e dey pain person

Yeah I know that feeling.. That's why we're made to take charge of our mindset.. Don't let your flesh control you instead control it.. But are you sure she's not seeing someone else, if she's not then understand and be patient with her. Perhaps with time, it might take place between you guys. Slow and steady does it dude

Ayam not understanding bro. You mean you want to seek permission from your gf to cheat on her? When you think you have seen/heard it all
What happened to staying celibate with her till you tie the knot or you can't stay without sex?
BTW, why do most of the topics on nairaland these days has to do with sex, pussy and whatnot.
@Op true love is patient and if truly you love your woman, you will stick with her and not look elsewhere( that's if you trust her enough to know she's not giving it to someone else)

DanDeeBoss:
Nah, She owns the panties na... And she's my wife, Ain't no way I am gonna use her pants for Benz... BTW I cannot wash my wife's panties

Lol... I want to know why you can't wash it

crunchyg:
I think the reason why you are saying this is because you havnt been with someone you love so much, that will be nothing to you

Lol.. This has nothing to do with love nwanne.. It's something I can't do.. If my partner wants to help me, he can do that with being in the kitchen with me(gisting with me while I cook)

DanDeeBoss:
Why should I??

You should.. Or are you scared she will use it to buy Benz?