₦airaland Forum

SweetCunt97:
Thank you. They don't understand quality children upbringing... The quality of life u give to kids u plan for won't b d quality u give to one you not even prepared for unless things get rosy along the way.

funny thing is that I don't remember the last time things got better.

wirinet:
To them children are gifts from God, it's when they are uncared for they become demons as adults.
Nigerian still have 19th century mentality.

it's even that always.

Truth is that we hate to take responsibility for our actions. We always want to blame someone. Either we blame God or Satan or our neighbor or anything. Just find a scapegoat and blame. That's our way

Samfloxin:
I don't fornicate Mr. Man

hehehehee. You don't fornicate. Who asked you about that. Konji kill you there please

MrBrownJay1:
actually whats "very demonic" is people bringing kids into this world without proper emotional/physical/financial backing for this child's next 18yrs. having a child certainly aint some type of lottery where you have as many kids as possible and "hope for the best" while being INADEQUATE AS A PARENT.

SHAME ON YOU DEMONS!!!!

sir please don't waste your time on these lots. Just allow them churn kids without proper care and maybe someday,the kids will stand up for ask them the essence of living

PrincewithGod:
Murder is not sin? This must be gospel according to satan.

if abortion is a sin then masturbation is genocide and mensuration is what?

Samfloxin:
Abortion is a sin,if you were aborted you wouldn't be typing this on nairaland

tell those almajiri kids this. Those abandoned kids, tell them this. You fornicate and it's not sin but taking care of your mess becomes a sin and you hand the sin over to another innocent kid

immaq8:
is this the level of your IQ?
is it advisable for a lady that haven't put to bed, go for Family planning?

I don't know what you have been told but every sexual active woman who don't want a child should be on contraceptive. If you're of child bearing age and having sex without contraceptive, I don't know what you expect to happen.


And you questioning my intelligence, I don't know what has happened that will put it in question

immaq8:
is this the level of your IQ?
is it advisable for a lady that haven't put to bed, go for Family planning?

I don't know what you have been told but every sexual active woman who don't want a child should be on contraceptive. If you're of child bearing age and having sex without contraceptive, I don't know what you expect to happen

immaq8:
the same reason, we have more TTC & ladies running from church to church looking for fruit of the womb.

the reason we have the above is because women resort to bad family planning methods and end up damaging their womb. If they have access to professionals who know what they're doing and stop drinking hot water and salt

Lexusgs430:
Why do you want the expenses of the cow, when the kpomo and milk are offered free?......

without seeing the moniker, I knew someone like you will make the above statement.


So true though

As much as the supreme Court knows their mistake with former judgement, they will be making a bigger one should they walk back from their earlier judgement. It will set a bad precedent and an endless cycle of judgement where the loser will keep coming back after a judgement

So get ready to pay up

immaq8:
abortion is a sin & it may take both lives. keep the baby, after 8 days let your wife do family planning. the unborn baby may bring you unmerited blessings.. .

abortion isn't a sin. Abortion is safer than childbirth if you must know

At op, instead of you to bring a child into this world when you aren't ready, abort and prepare

I will know you religious people will come for me but before you do, ensure you're a virgin

Social media bill with out an end to the spread of fake news like this. And people like op will enjoy their jail time

If you have the land,

Yes to virtually every part of Nigeria. Without the land, #30ml can't get you a decent land in some locations

Something like this costs between 140_160 depending on the material

xynerise:
To be honest we are definitely not alone. There are billions of universe and galaxies out there, so why would such be there and only Earth has life?

unlimited number of universe. Same billions just limits the infinite possibilities

ogbs2020love:
Nearly a month now that I won 362000 from betking, they are yet to pay me. I am also very sure they are plenty other people that they frustrated like this.


Please help rebroadcast.

@BetKingN
imagine, BETKING cannot pay out winnings. A billion dollar company frustrating 362,000. Money that I won yesterday

At 7am you won the money yesterday. 7.23am it's a month ago. Libel suit is waiting for you

spyder880:
Carpentry on lintel level.........

why not allow us take care of your iron works. From standing tanks to doors, window protectors. We got you covered

Fact is that the mom didn't solicit for donations. It was after the film had gone viral that another dwarf started the campaign to take them to Disneyland.

And yes the family seem loaded but it didn't stop him from being bullied at school.

And one thing about life is that some people will want to sound different and controversial in order make their voice heard

GemUnique:
And you think that kind of tradition is also meant for Davido
Crazy traditions are for the Poor and someone who doesn't know that court exist

you are yet to meet people from Nnewi. If he's yet to pay the bride price, whoever that pays is most likely going to have the child if he wants but even if the person doesn't,he will remain at the maternal home

Dicktion:
Pour enough water inside when bathing, shake am well well, Then Thank me later

my dear not every thread is a space to display your stupidity. Take it somewhere else maybe jokes or romance section

charlsecy:
It's the culture that defines the degree of closeness within which a valid marriage cannot occur. My parents are from the same village, yet the OP cannot marry this girl because she is from the same village as him. It's culture, not necessarily GOD.

You don't read your Bible, or you're being mischievous. The only incest form not permitted is first-line: father-daughter, mother-son, son-daughter, and the like. Any other stuff is permissible.

According to the passage, they are of the same village. Is that what makes it incest?

some villages are large and diverse. Like the town I live in, there are neighbors who can marry but they can't marry someone from next village. In this situation,some migrated into this town and even though they claim to be indigenes,when it comes to marriage and chieftaincy, they will remind you your place.

DandeNumeruno:
fauda

the honourable woman

the bureau

bodyguard

I couldn't watch fauda. Seen bodyguard but not the other two

voltron14:
For you to ask that question means you've abandoned the debt is bad argument as you can see all economies indulge in it.

What should matter to you, is how you can create wealth - real wealth.

By creating products and providing services, the economy would grow and further enhance governments outlays.

Secondly, minimum wage is not the income of every Nigerian. In fact, it is meant to be the minimum wage one pays a worker on a monthly basis.

Use the correct terms, and then we could x-ray our liabilities as well as our potential for overcoming them.

I told you that just because my neighbor drinks champagne every day doesn't mean I should drink beer everyday. What works in US probably won't work here. Our debt is rising and our savings depleting yet our infrastructure is decaying. Japan has the biggest debt to GDP ratio but they have the infrastructure to compliment it. We don't have even ordinary water supply system. So tell me again what are we using all the debt to do. We don't have a strong middle class to tax in order to raise money too

Farki:
The Holy book also called bats birds and rabbits ruminants. Maybe we should seek truth through observation and testing rather than what one book full of contradiction says.

no it's easier to believe a fake story than to read and grab knowledge

spafu:
You asked, Where on Earth is incest okay? And my question is, how is she is sister? If she was his sister, how cones the boy's father did know her? What of other lands where people marry from the same village? In the north, cousins marry? Who did the first offsprings of Adam and Eve marry?

in North cousins marry and in East village don't intermarry. Do in Rome what Romans do. It's possible there's a sibling of yours you and your dad might not know about even.

Ikjosh04:
Lol, do you expect a old woman to quote yrs for me. I just used that figure to emphasize on my point that blood ish happened a very very long time ago.

that being said, everyone in your village is at most five generations related which isn't such a big difference. In a population of 7bn people, I want to believe that the OP can find a wife in another woman

voltron14:
More important is what is the GDP per Capita of Nigeria?

To answer your question, the income per capita in the USA is 32k dollars.

This means it would take 15 years for an american to pay off his debt assuming all his income went for debt payment.

at the current minimum wage of $90, how long will it take us to clear our debt assuming we stop borrowing of course

voltron14:
The average american home owes 502 thousand dollars based on the debt of the nation.

I still don't understand why suspoosedly educated people get swayed by emotions and propaganda.

what's the income per capital of an average American home. Just because my rich neighbor drinks champagne every day doesn't mean I should drink beer everyday

Ikjosh04:
Hey, you don't entirely understand what the op implies with his write up. That same tradition exist in my village and its not as if all of us in the village/quarter's are related. When I asked my grandmum she said our fore forefathers that's more than 1000yrs ago settled in that village as siblings and they keep procreating, so we're all related in one way or the other.
@op, if you ask me. I feel the tradition is thrash. If you know you're successful, a Christian and you are sure you won't need the help(in terms of politics, investment and other needs that may arise in the future) of your village people or community for anything in life or better still you are planning to leave Nigeria for good. Then you can go ahead and marry the girl.

What's the parents of the girl saying?

Oga I will support him to marry the girl if it's because of the Igbo caste system and shii. But this is totally different issue. It has to do with genetics and blood relationship. Moreover we don't know if the OP village are settlers just like yours or they are really siblings.

PS no town in Nigeria is a thousand years old. Whatever your granny told you is a lie

Farki:
Don't mind him, thinking too small. Just research about drug resistant bacteria and peppered moths, we are seeing evolution in action it's just that some people misrepresent what evolution means out of ignorance.

his holy books said God created man and woman

Achilles100:
Jack Ryan - 2 seasons, close to homeland in a way.

done with it. Fine series btw but can't hold a candle for Homeland